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Ujujoan: You don't tell a girl to change her career for your own convenience.

Even if she decided to do something more in tune with what you want in the future, it should be her idea, not yours.

Do you want a woman who resents you and blames you for every difficulty in her workplace as a wife? I don't think so.

Believe it or not, being a 'teacher' doesn't make one a good mother. You cannot be a good mother to your children if you are unhappy with your life, or blame them for not achieving your dreams.

You made a mistake by considering her as a wife . . . it would have been better if you went to that Food Packaging Coy and married someone who works there.

MrsAwesome: Very funny how men believe that the world revolves around them.

Ain't got time for an egotistical man to dictate whether I should be working or not. Uarrrrgh,.....imagine the effrontery.

Women should try to be as independent as possible, if hubby abhors creche he should substitute.
I am not a feminist, but a 21st century practical woman.

pickabeau1: Yes ma.

pickabeau1: Means what it means...

Make the interpretation yourself
Search why you are giving and if its due to compulsion or fear of 'curses' you know the motive....
If it is due to holy conviction and it 'just' happens to ten percent.. good enough


2 Cor 9: 7

However a person who cannot take care of his home is worse than an inidel 1 Tim 5. 8

ITbomb: Teaching is in general terms, she could be a lecturer for chrissake.
But what I really mean is that she should have a job that is from 8am to latest 4pm or good shift .
For that particular girl, I even arrange for a job in a food packaging company but she wanted oil company

DBestDoc: Housewife?
What happens to the years of admission hustling, the 6yrs of sleepless nights, my contribution to the society et al?

Infact, it's like telling my father he is foo.lish.

pickabeau1: Gal 3: 13

pickabeau1: So OP whats your conclusion

bukatyne: So she should become a teacher with B.Eng Chem Eng when she doesn't want to because she wants to become a Mrs. ITbomb?

That babe's heads is screwed on her shoulders. She knows what she wants and where she's going to.

If you want to marry a teacher, go to primary & secondary schools to look for a single teacher.

bukatyne: See selfishness and show stopping of the highest order

God will not let my children see such

And you wonder why the standard of education is dropping daily; most teachers are frustrated; forced by their husbands, lack of employment etc.

Ujujoan: Lol . .

Anyways, as far as I'm concerned no short guy can be handsome. (no offence to all our vertically challenged brothers )

No matter the designer clothes and toned body, a short guy is a short guy!!!

ITbomb: Moderation is the key word
Your wife must work but not working herself out.
There should be a good job near home and closes in good time.

Remember she should be working for passion not killing herself for money.

A working mother builds the best home - ITbomb, 1998

I told one girl that I always wanted to marry a teacher, imagine the horror on her face (with her B Eng Chemical Engineering) , we broke up 2 months later

aisha2: Handsome ke? The guy self I cant describe let me not get started on the fake phonetics with thick igbo "Baby wanna gellout of here"

ammyluv2002: Exactly! Not even "can" but "should" be both!

Proverbs 31: 16-18 " She cinsiders a field and buys it oit of her earnings she plants a vineyard
17 She sets about her work vigorously, her arms are strong for her tasks
18 She sees that her trading is profitable

No wise woman will choose to be a housewife even if her hubby pay her salary for staying at home

Ujujoan: ROTFLMAO . . . .

The babe was still hoping that the bobo had a reasonable explanation ooh. so she kept trying to reach him 24/7 for, one week until, it finally went through.

See story . . . "I had an accident, I was robbed and my phone was stolen bla bla bla . . . . "

It was very funny.

Anyway no be person tell am say the guy na 419. She managed to leave with her small dignity left. Believe it or not, the guy stills sends her messages till now, professing undying love.

Lucky guy, e for jam person like me naah . . . . e for hear whain!!!

traware: Madam,I have seen straight-up whores both home and abroad, getting married to pleasant,reasonable men and the men having no knowledge of their wives shady pasts.How could he have known his wife is a LovePeddler?Aren't women masters and experts at pretence,lies and secrets?The OP himself must be a 'softie' that's why his wife dey take am do mumu.Nigerian men of 30years ago would have thrown her ar.se out of the house tay tay instead of coming to a forum to seek for advice on how to run their homes.Men clearly don't know how to be men anymore thesame goes for women

jaybeyblu: Hmn 80 missed calls was better I said he called me none stop for a whole week, heaven would bear me witness. 2am when I wake Up to go to the bathroom my phone is ringing, it was scary my phone was useles for 1 week cos it was always ringin. When I confided in my colleagues at work they were laughing and one was even telling me that I am overeacting that when her man refused to pick she called gave him over 70 missed calls but he dumped her sha! Later on when I finally picked I told him how can I leave my phone for few mins and get back and I see 80 missed calls does it seem normal to u? He told that me that because he is" very very emotional" that's why that for that one week he cldnt eat he wld be bathing with one hand and d other hand he is holding his phone trying to call me!My luck was I never disclosed my house to him, I knew he is a psycho but my friends are thinking I am overeacting hence my coming here. Thanks you all for your contributions. It really made my day. God bless u!

traware: First of all,I am not your fuccking 'bros'.Secondly,I analysed the issue but since you are too dumb to understand my analysis,you then tell me to 'treat the issue and stop generalizing'...YOU'RE TRULY MAD!!!! for that comment.Better put up another senseless post and get six hundred 'likes' from your 'sisters in arms' and male pets and report me to the moderator to be banned or have my posts deleted.Once again,YOU'RE MAD!!!!for your stu.pid post. Fuccking,arrogant dumbcu.nt

passionate88: Una own TOO much

baralatie: the guy enter this one o!

passionate88: What did I do or didn't do?

shizzle11: The ops case is that of a domineering partner of a fiancee, good enough she is exhibiting this negative trait from the onset, more than enough time for the op to decide if he wants to ignore the warning signs and flee or if he wants to jump into the fire despite having a god view of the red fleg.

Either way, I honestly wish him the best.

passionate88: Moral of the story: Never trust what a woman tells you about her virginity status, sexual history, hiv status, number of ex's, number of 1 9t stands, etc... These girls ain't loyal

shizzle11: what business do two adults have together if either of them can't express him/herself freely let alone as spouse?

Red flag!

aisha2: You sabi, these days just say "Baby, I am not here for games I am here for marriage and watch how fast the pants fly. "I want us to date will give you se-x alright, but "I want to marry you will give you all styles, hanging from chandaliers so she can "show" you how many yards of wife materials she is. Then after that you will get free food and free dry cleaning

Soyedele1: Pinshure or ...........

Soyedele1: @ Godmystrength


I don't know abt dt ooooo.. I'm a V

Soyedele1: Infact, it should be your wife saying 'thank You' for the job well done provided yu did it well lol

aisha2: Infact you are 60 yards of "Wife material"

baralatie: *: ^^^
u want madam dominator to see this thread?

what outcome do you Want?

she will either spank op or give suspension from any media platform.