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You ladies have started again ko? You keep arguing that white ladies are not more attractive than you are. But you and i know the truth that is why you keep creating threads to get back at us.

I even heard that one of you committed suicide on her nairaland account yesterday because she couldn't leave with the fact that oyinbo chicks fine pass you girls

Haha i will like to be in such a situation because it will be an opportunity to reduce the population of gay guys in the world.

i will pray and patiently wait for the unfortunate one that will make the first move

I swear before he even attempt anything silly, he will find his own preek inside his mouth

@op dey call Lalasticlala out oh
So you want to know the scope wey lala use to press bress for Ajegunle Grammar School. Abi?

Personally, i can't do that. No matter how large her salary is or how little mine is! She can use it to assist me in running the home or she can use it for fashion and other petty things ladies like. That's her problem.

At most, i can borrow some amount from her and ensure i paid it back.

efesodje:
I am fully with the op (XML33). If you can't take the heat don't start the tantrums. They ridicule and broke shame nairaland guys every single day but the moment you bring out their flaws to the open they deactivate their accounts Very matured of them

and to make matters worse, some toto-starved boys will still come out with hand-fans to fan those girls while they get bleeped by we the coded guys.

Let's just hope that she only deactivated her nairaland account not along with her life

Bitterleafsoup:
Chai see finishing....

This one is murder !

It has to be that lecturer that collected my #40,000 with assurance that my carryover was gonna be erased But the mofo didn't erase it. Now I'm planning to go and have that modafvcker clipped in the hand he collected the money with unless if he pays me mai money.

That's me. I don't forgive a broken deal.

... so there was this pastor of christ embassy that collected my #10k to help with my registration but the useless man spent the money and told me he had done the registration, only for him to come back on the closing date to request for another money promising that he would refund me shortly. I forgot about him and did the registration myself.

Toh what was remaining was my refund. That was how the man started dodging me and refusing to pick my calls and replying my sms for almost a year.

OK, I've had enough it was time to do the needful. I closed from work that evening and popped some pills before i paid him a surprise visit in his church. As devil will have it, they were having some sort of a program and everyone was busy blasting in tongues.........


To be contd.... I'm at work right now.

BishopLucifer:
This one wants to use sympathy to sexchat & masturbate with someone tonight.

You need to learn good English first. Perfect descriptions & creativity turns women on during sexchat.

For now just carry that big vaseline enter bathroom bros...

wickedt guy.

So op no sabi how to ride bike oh
Na only to cook food like woman wrapper e sabi yeh

Chai!

Ever8054:
why you come dey hide dey take d pictures naa?...

he know say the girl no go like people to see her picture with him

Op, no sample picture for us to see and know how to properly advice her?

Sometimes i use to think that people who create this type of thread only do so for the attention sake.
If not, why would a lady behave in this manners and you stand here confused just because she calls you whenever you don't call for a while.

XhosaNostra:
Can I ask something 1st. If she decides to compromise, would you give the relationship a chance or perhaps there're other things you're unhappy about in the relationship?

Well, for me, my happiness is important. I can't remain in an unhappy situation for obligation or anything. If I see something has no chance of working out, I'll state my reasons & exit. I really don't negotiate or care how they feel about my decision to leave. It's selfish but I don't know how to do it any other way because all I keep thinking about is my own wellbeing.

to answer your first question, i honestly will consider giving the relationship a chance if she is willing to compromise but only if i'm sure that she is doing that willingly and it won't be an issue in the future.

runsgirl:
Go and finish your studies and get a job. Leave trouble that you cannot afford

that's what i want to do. I just need a safe method to use cos the girl is quite emotional.

Dannieln1:
5 bottle of Alomo is just a child's play cos u are a champ

yeah bruv, i ain't got time for any bulshii.

Opentokwowledge:
It's never too early or too late to start planning. IMHO anyways, your age doesn't necessarily have to mean you're qualified for marriage. Does it?
It's a subjective ish though, as there is no precision tool/gauge to measure the range of psychological or material fitness one must reach before being qualified for admission into the marriage institution.
I've never been married myself so, I might not be in the best position to tell you what to expect when you get there. However, judging by the standards your purported love is craving and your attitude towards it, It is no brainer that you're not lorry enough to carry her luggage and some other ones that might come with anybody else e.g getting an housekeeper while she's making money. This was why I came charging you to set your priorities right and close off your mind to commitment for the time being, enjoying life as they come . If you feel you're game enough for marriage though, by all means, carry on!

thanks bro. What i actually need is a method to use in ending the relationship.

Bamz:
It's a very delicate case, this one. I sense a precarious breakup but I think it can b
www.google.com.ng/amp/s/m.wikihow.com/Break-Up-With-Someone-Who-Is-Threatening-Suicide%3famp=1

Cheers mate.

thanks man. I appreciate

Iseoluwani:
Who dah f**k is u

ok then, your choice.

Opentokwowledge:
Who told you she is being serious? People just blab and fantasize ykno, just like you clearly are; living inside a small box of delusions inside your head and playing nay to reality. Wake up man, you've not even made a tangible headstart in life yet save helping others. It is not a bad thing to date now though as you got to relieve sexual tensions sometimes while fulfilling your need for association and company at the same time. Anything else others do in a relationship (like talking about the future, buying gifts you cant afford and the likes) should not be your business. Take my advice, I don't need it

may be i should have added my age and her's so that you can have a bit more vivid picture of things. I'm 28 while she is 25 which i think is good enough to start thinking and start making plans for the future.

XhosaNostra:
I don't wanna touch on that because personally I'm quite cold & unsentimental about people lol. Their emotions are not my problem as far as I'm concerned. But in your case it's a bit tricky because as you said, she's the "suicidal" type & likes you a lot. So I don't wanna say the wrong thing that could lead to tragic results.

If I was in your shoes, I'd cut her loose though. What she does afterwards is her problem

thanks. But may i ask about the strategy you will likely use to cut her lose?

I know how the op is feeling.
Truth is it is quite difficult to leave with your parents when you get to a certain age. They try to treat you like a minor who can't make decisions on his own. It is very, very frustrating.

I remember a time when me and 3 of my colleagues tried to join a contribution at work so we all applied for a salary advance in order to pay for the contribution.

When the paper works got to our admin officer to sign them, the bittch signed only my colleagues' own and refused to sign mine. Instead, she called my aunt who happens to be working in the same place as me though in a different subsidiary to tell her about what i wanted to do.

So my oversabi aunt told her not to sign the paper because i don't know what was good for me! Just imagine!


I got so pissed off that i matched to my aunt's office with anger and rage. Without caring who was with her, i barged into the office and gave her the most painful tongue lashing of her life. Told her how much of a hypocrite she was to think i'm old enough to work for my money but not old enough to do what i want to do with my money? The look on her face was priceless cos she never expected it.

I rushed to my admin's office to sign the paper. Yet she refused! I told her she shouldn't have meddled with my personal issues. So i just picked her phone and put it in her hand bag and left with it.



Why am i saying all this? Truth is parents are mostly the ones pushing their wards into making the worse mistakes.
Now the op has left her parent's house because of her mum. Only God knows what awaits her out there!

XhosaNostra:
IDK how you should handle it, I just wanted to point out YOUR contribution to this mess.

yeah i guess you are right. But i want out cos I can't be attached to a girl like that for life! I'm just worried about how she might react to this considering how she reacted the first time we tried to break up.

We've been dating for about 9 years now so i'm pretty sure she will feel i used and dump her.

AnodaIT:
Just chop the punny but concentrate on your studies especially now that you are considering starting all over
She might get hook to another, problem may be whether you will let go

That's my opinion, let's sit here and wait for the Elders to come

thanks man

Lemme join you to sit down and wait for them

Iseoluwani:
O

Since you know all these, why are u telling us

hey mr man, a word of advice please: you should just make your point without insulting me. Never you ever, i mean ever insult me again.

I believe that's fair enough

Muafrika2:
# On the point of career only


Are you saying she will have to leave her job?

What if, God forbid, something happens to you and she has five kids with no job? That's just how life is nowadays. You can't compare this life with your grandparents who had a chance to spend all the time they had with their children and in the kitchen inventing new cuisines for their husbands. Now if you don't rise up early and look for money, you won't eat!

no! I don't want a full time house wife. One of my criteria for a wife is she must be a working class but not a woman that will put her work first over our family.

A normal 8am to 5pm job is OK by me if she can still have time to prepare the kids for school, pick them up from school at times and cook dinner for the family (I will gladly help out in doing all the these chores if need be)

we can get a nanny that will look after them when they close from school but she can go home when my wife is back from work. Or bring one of my wife's relatives or mine to be leaving with us. But their mum must have undivided attention for them. Can't have a lady that will stay out late at night because she is busy at the TV station broadcasting network news on nta or presenting a program on TV or radio (my girlfriend read mass communication at nta college)

Please nairalanders, help me out!

I'm in luv with this slay Queen that looks like a twin sister to Rihanna. We started dating in 2009 though there were couple of problems that kept us apart for almost a year or two cos i moved out of town. But our paths just kept crossing.

We hooked up about 2 years ago and started a long distance relationship and since then, she has been talking of we setting down. She even told me that next year won't end without her getting married.

But here are the problems i'm faced with though I've not told her about some of them.

1= I'm a student and in ND2 though I'm working but the paycheck is nothing to write home about. She is also a student though about to go for nysc


2= I had a very serious problem in school and chances are i will have to start all over again.


3= recently, she told me of how she is looking forward to becoming a career woman devoting all her time to work and nothing else. That really did hit me with a bang because that is not the type of wife i want. I need a wife that will really have time for the kids. I told her about it and her response really shocked me. In her words, " we will have to get a house girl then "

I mean WTF men!!



4= she also told me that she doesn't want to get pregnant the normal natural way because she doesn't want to start looking old quickly. If it isn't IVF, then we will have to adopt or nothing else.
Now i don't have a problem with adopting a kid, in fact i swore an oath to God that if i was able to get a stable or a bit stable life, I'm going to adopt a child and be a blessing to him or her because I'm an orphan though i grew up with my grandmother. The problem is i will need a good wife with a lot of time to help raise the kid and our kids.

... so with these problems, i clearly can't see a future with her so i want to let her go - the earlier the better. But i don't know how to go about it. To make matters worse, she keeps pressuring me about me or she coming over cos she is addicted to me!
The last time we had an issue, it really didn't go down well with her that she nearly harmed herself were it not for her sister that got to know about it and intervened on time.


So please is there anyone here that can suggest to me how i should handle this issue without anyone getting hurt?

Thanks.

velai:
When they eventually wake up in the morning and discover that number 10 was actually a dream...

lol

Damn bruh, you just nailed it! ...I swear!!

I've shared this on a similar thread, but let me share it again...

My name (cornel) and my temper.

So i was coming down from the rocks after going out to smoke blunt during class hours and my form master saw me so he went and ambushed me.

As i unknowingly approached the school compound, the modafvcker jumped out and started whipping me with a fan belt.
Students began to come out of their classes to see what was going on because the man was just screaming like a wild animal.

The more i was thinking he was going to stop, the harder he continued to whip me so as he was about to give me another stroke, i got hold of the fan belt, pulled it away from his hand and began to whip the devil that was making him to kolo out of his body!

The mofo couldn't stand the pains so he took off and i chased him out of the school compound while students were cheering and hailing me.

That incident made me over popular in the school

SunFlow:
You say?

oboyy, na who be all these funny-looking people?

That girl is truly a wife material. Unlike that hungry girl named jamariwo!f.

Don't blame men, blame your parents for selling you out at a price.

Sometimes they will even be bargaining with the groom's family as if na Broiler chicken dey wan sell