₦airaland Forum

A country where the leaders are afraid to pay the supreme price. It's ok.

God bless you guys.

I agree with 2,8 and 10 but the rest is relative and subjective unless you back it up with scripture because in different climes/occupation it may not be applicable.

I know there supporters will be in severe pains now.

When you love someone enough to exchange vows of till death do you part, name is the least of your worries.
Unless you are married to an unfortunate /irresponsible man but if he is responsible you will be glad to be called by his name and his children.

You are a hero.

Imagine buying a faulty new electronics for the price of a good one with the plan of taking it for repair. Why going through the stress when you can easily avoid it. Unless God has revealed it to you sha that she's your wife.
Some questions dont worth asking when you are not blind. Unfaithful girlfriend will eventually be unfaithful wife.

Few years to come you will be thanking God for not getting the job. Dont be fixated.

I tell you this matter no be issues at all. In fact you are a lucky man. Thats your wife's way of telling you she was sorry. If afterwards you are still pondering on the matter you may not live long. You see in marriage you dont take issues too serious, it's not a master slave relationship, you both have equal rights despite being the head.

My life changed the day I was told not to carry woman matter for head like Galla, The bible says "Also take no heed unto all words that are spoken; lest thou hear thy servant curse thee: For oftentimes also thine own heart knoweth that thou thyself likewise hast cursed others.
Ecclesiastes 7:21‭-‬22 KJV

How can you be having devotion with grudges? Stop keeping scores my brother, she's your baby and will always behave like babies till death. Imagine rapture happened last night e for be OYO for you.

Go and meet old men and ask about their wives, you will be shocked at the revelations. Relax and enjoy your woman, marriage is fun if no boundaries because love endures all things.

It's not difficult to stop betting, all you need to do is to imagine how wretched you will be in 20years time if you dont quit and perhaps you can still gamble with your future and imagine how prosperous you may be in 20 years time.

It's normal thing, dont kill yourself for that besides things not easy, so understand your parents and look for a way to make them happy, it's easy if you understand them but believe me she doesn't know the negative effect of it. If I were you I will take it as blues that will ginger me to excell .

This is why I will support separation from any abusive relationship, you dont manage such, run for your life, if you see the signs before marriage dont manage it, walk away, if a guy or lady is quarrel some just waka. I pray she get justice.

It's a good one, gradually it will become a state/national/ international event.

Are there no other Parties? When will people wake up?

Still waiting for the bill that will stipulate death for public officials who embezzled public funds.

The money will be useful in the film industry.

I have learnt not to comment on one sided story.

I really dont see anything wrong in employing even your siblings as long as they are qualified and the constitution doesn't say otherwise.
Secondly in politics you need people you can trust around you, those that cant be bought by your "political enemies ".
Finally, employing these people doesn't guarantee they wont be caught in the web of corruption but if they are caught in any corrupt acts they shall pay the price.

I think Nigerian should flood his Twitter page with pics of bad roads and its locations.

I pray more oil wells to be discovered perhaps restructuring will have true meaning to all.

Just stop struggling to meet anyone, just defamed and you will get automatic access. How would these ladies could have gotten the audience. But always be ready to weather the storm.

He is scared. I guessed the man must have hit them if not he wont be ranting. God will catch you and your terrorists group very soon.

You have tried but you can do better by ensuring till the Church wedding is done. You are both husband and wife already but your woman fears is that if she succumbs or gets pregnant the church wont accept to join the wedding. You see every lady wants to experience that glorious day at the alter infront of families and friends so please understand.

As for the virginity, if that's too important for you, tell her you are ready to wait after a virginity test at the hospital by a female doctor.

If she refuses, you can also give her another condition that you will end the marriage on wedding night if you discovered she's not a virgin and have been unfaithful all the while.

Finally my brother marriage is not all about virginity or sex. Dont choose a woman because she's a virgin above those that are not virgins. I have seen good girls that are not virgins and some bad ones that are virgins. You must be sure this is the person you are destined to spend the rest of your lives with.

My own advice:
Since you are sure she's the one, fold your hands, zip up as usual, wait for that night because its better you based your marriage on trust rather than virginity etc. Dont worry, you will soon be tired of sex intact you will be running away very soon.

It's the most beautiful thing, it helps you to make informed decisions, no emotions and entitlement, you can walk away without feeling used by your friend. It's the best If you want to be objective in pursuing your goals in life.
Moreso, the fear of pregnancy or diseases is out and you have a free access to your God any time. Sex has derailed so many destinies, some lives can never be the same again simply because they had sex with some persons.

It's a privilege you were informed, let her be, go and hustle, take it as a challenge to turn your fortune around afterwards you can redefine the relationship.
You can also move on now before it's too late.

Forgive her, put her on probation, be sure she's cut all ties with her ex. She loves you.

And you think these people dont watch BBNAIJA?

When you dont study your bible but use it as decoration you will be exploited
" We use God’s mighty weapons, not worldly weapons, to knock down the strongholds of human reasoning and to destroy false arguments." 2 Corinthians 10:4

Why advising an adult that is not your friend or siblings. Sometimes minding your business is golden.
Advise is golden when solicited for.

Quite unfortunate, the young woman needs help, imagine what she must have been through to raise the boy as a victim from families, friends and society.

I think they both needs help and not just the boy.

Take her to diabetics patients department in one of the general hospital or download videos of it for her. Seeing is believing.
Dont forget to take her for sugar test or buy the tools because when the problem comes you and your family will bear the burden so dont be tired keep talking to her, breaking addiction of carbonated deinks is not easy but whenever I recall the sight of its implications I reduced it to once in two weeks because your sugar level mustn't be too low either.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself, it's not the end of the world, mistakes made lessons learnt. What has response to the greetings got to do with your life.
Do your job very well, stand out with good qualities without eye service, chin up and be proud of yourself, dont discuss your boss or your matter with anyone, it wasn't her fault, be prayerful, look out for opportunities to proof your worth, and keep eyes on the labour market.
Finally, always look at jobs as a seed for future opportunities even if the pay is less and dont ever look or sound desperate to your employers or give them room to look down on you. Continue the job and pray for better one.