Celebrities › Re: Yvonne Jegede Reacts To Alibaba's Post On The Challenges Women Face In Marriages by Hamachi(f): 7:58am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Get out of here Lumig: ... Whether you believe or accept it or not, there's a huge difference between the male and the female. And their upbringing, duties and responsibilities are different |
Romance › Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: How Women Gold Dig You. by Hamachi(f): 7:56am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Bahddo: I need to date all women to know they are all manipulative? Funny. I never said all women try to manipulate THEIR MEN only. They all try to manipulate men, even strangers they just met.
Are you talking about the ladies in relationships that would never say what they want but pull all sort of stunts to lead you to do it for them?
Or perhaps ladies who friend-zone the nicest guys around them, milking them for attention and perhaps monetary benefits without the slightest consideration for the guys' wants? Or the ones who keep them for later when they are done with the bad guys and need someone naive to tie the knot with?
Don't bother trying to ask about mothers. They rank up there among the worst kind of manipulators, gaslighting their children (especially sons) as often as it suits them.
Guile is a woman’s treasured weapon, and unlike men they often don't go direct for what they want. So yeah, all ladies would TRY to manipulate someone (mostly men) to get what they want even if they don't all succeed. There is also a 90% chance that YOU have tried to manipulate at least one guy in the last week. Never, y should I manipulate a man |
Politics › Re: Why Nigeria Is Such A Terrible Country- Ian Kedem by Hamachi(op): 7:53am On Sep 23, 2019 |
Are you a Nigerian? zogon: There is no such thing as "if the government will...", it will never happen. Nigeria is irredeemable. It needs to be split-up around homogeneous lines like most European countries |
Career › Re: So What Have You Achieved At Your Age by Hamachi(op): 7:53am On Sep 23, 2019 |
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Christianity Etc › This Is What Most Preachers Won’t Tell You Whenever They Preach About Prodigal by Hamachi(op): 7:52am On Sep 23, 2019 |
THIS IS WHAT MOST PREACHERS WON’T TELL YOU WHENEVER THEY PREACH ABOUT THE PRODIGAL SON
I have heard so many messages preached on the altar about the prodigal son (Luke 5:11-32)
As I took out time to read the story in my bible, I saw some things that boosted my curiosity and left me with a serious concern…
My concern is that whenever we use the story of the prodigal son to spice up our sermons on the altar, the emphasis and focus is always centered on the prodigal son himself…
I am seriously worried that we have spent so much time analyzing his errors that we have become blinded to the errors of another major character (individual) in the same story…
I am talking about his elder brother here…
As I look at the church today, I see a lot of Christians who fit into the description of the elder brother of the prodigal son…
They appear zealous, holy and committed but when you take a closer look at their lives, you’ll begin to spot similar errors…
Please I have just four (4) questions for the elder brother of the prodigal son…
Any where you see him, please help me ask him these four (4) questions:
1. Where were you, when your younger brother was making the terrible decision he made?
2. How come you never made any attempt to go look for your younger brother to know how he was coping after he left the house?
3. Why were you angry and bitter that he returned and that his return was celebrated?
4. Why were you giving your father reasons why he shouldn’t have celebrated the return of your brother?
A Christianity where the errors and fall of a fellow comrade becomes an opportunity to rise is demonic…
A Christianity where we try to gain favor and prove loyalty before authority by discrediting or running down a fellow brother is satanic…
A Christianity where we neglect and abandon our wounded brothers is demonic…
A Christianity where the strong does not uphold the weak is satanic…
A Christianity where the fall of a fellow brother/sister becomes a topic for gossips and discussions is evil…
A Christianity where we prefer rather to discus about the weakness of a fellow comrade behind him/her than to approach and correct him/her in love is evil…
A Christianity where we pray for a fellow brother/sister to err or fall so we can occupy his/her position is barbaric…
If you see Generational Impact smoking cigarette on the street after he has preached on facebook, will you reach out to him in love and intercede on his behalf…?
If the fall of a fellow comrade does not touch and compel you to intercede on his behalf, then you are still far from God…
Enough of the hate in church…
Enough of plotting against each other…
Enough of analyzing and amplifying each other’s weakness…
We will do greater exploit as a team and as a unified body…
I am not your enemy, the devil is…. My fall should not bring joy to you…
Let us uphold each other and show love to the wounded in our midst |
Politics › Why Nigeria Is Such A Terrible Country- Ian Kedem by Hamachi(op): 2:06pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
I'm an Israeli living in Nigeria now for 5 years. I worked as an Agronomist on an agricultural project on Plateau State and now I'm working for an Israeli company in Ibadan. I never planned to come to Nigeria because I always heard that it was a lawless country where everyone wants to dupe you. It takes time to get used to living here. There is extreme poverty, yes. The infrastructure of the country is terrible, bad roads, no water supply, no electricity, corruption at every level. The security situation is deteriorating with armed robbery and kidnapping a frequent occurence. There are quite a few no go areas. The politicians are only out to fill their own pockets and have no conscience or feel no obligation to serve the people who elected them. Tribalism and nepotism are rife in public life. With all these challenges Nigeria has the potential to be a world leader because of their most important resource - the people. If the government were to invest in their own people by starting new industrial and agricultural projects the country could prosper. Put money into the roads and railways. The Nigerian people are hard working, industrious, willing to undergo hardships and intelligent. They are happy and outgoing. They love us Israelis, which is refreshing in these times of a rising tide of anti Semitism in other parts of the world. There needs to be a political revolution of the sort there was in Ghana to stop the corruption and put the money where it's needed, to empower women and the young generation of Nigerians. The security forces have to be purged and supported by their leaders. It's unacceptable when the police or army stop you on the road and demand money. Give the security forces all the support they need so they can regain their self respect. It's sad when you see the potential of the country being wasted. The Nigerian people deserve a better leadership. https://www.quora.com/profile/Ian-Kedem-1 |
Romance › Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: How Women Gold Dig You. by Hamachi(f): 12:32pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
 SweetCunt97: Topic that will make frustrated broke guys happy.
Silly dudes looking for free pvssy. You guys will choke on it. |
Romance › Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: How Women Gold Dig You. by Hamachi(f): 12:30pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
Very apt Defenderalert: Dont waste your energy on a permanently broke pvssy brained mor.on who is nothing but a frustrated loser. You women are gold.He is the one commenting on all the threads under different monikers. Ubunja is that jobless. I tell ya he spent all his youth pvssy chasing now that he is in last days, bitterness and regret is eating his soul.
Only a lunatic will sit to read his trash episodes other than Ubunja the gold dogging brokie. |
Romance › Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: How Women Gold Dig You. by Hamachi(f): 12:26pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
 ebonyggurl: So in your mind, all women are gold diggers and manipulators?  Why generalising stuff like that? Some of us are real.
From all these threads you post, some questions come to mind: what's a guy's usefulness in a relationship if all he brings to the table is his dick? Why should a woman want to move from girlfriend to wife when she sees you serve no usefulness apart from bedmantics? |
Romance › Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: How Women Gold Dig You. by Hamachi(f): 12:13pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
Bahddo: actually ALL women are manipulative. They do not all succeed, but they all try one way or the other. The attempt is what makes you a manipulator, not exactly success.
About gold-digging, we both know that women rarely ever marry/date below what they perceive to be their own class. There's a reason terms like 'hypergamy' exists, and your attempt at denying it does not change it.
Quit the crap about motivation for marriage. Just like sex, marriage benefits women more than it does men. You ladies basically have someone who thinks it's his duty to carry all your baggage for the rest of his life. Generalization is very bad, have you dated ll women |
Celebrities › Re: Yvonne Jegede Reacts To Alibaba's Post On The Challenges Women Face In Marriages by Hamachi(f): 12:08pm On Sep 20, 2019*. Modified: 2:03pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
Parents also need to change the way they train their children. There is something fundamentally wrong the way they treat the male child and the girl child. Until we start to realize that there is nothing like a MALE OR FEMALE CHILD, the problem will persist.
A marriage is a partnership not an EGO TRIP UNION. If the Husband is blessed good, if its the wife good but that does not mean the husband should now become lazy-Gbenga Adeyinka |
Romance › Re: What Has 2019 Taught You So Far? by Hamachi(op): 12:06pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
Sorry about that. condemn: Don't blame me. I've dated and met too many ungrateful women |
Career › Re: So What Have You Achieved At Your Age by Hamachi(op): 12:06pm On Sep 20, 2019 |
Yes ladyGKilaBCrueD: hey girl, I know a London based Ugandan guy thats looking for a gf. he likes dark skin beauties like u. are u single?
0knm |
Career › So What Have You Achieved At Your Age by Hamachi(op): 2:23pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
So what have you achieved at your age
Lets encourage others
Moderator move it to the right section
1) A degree.
2) Certified Nurse.
3) A comfortable bank balance. |
Romance › Re: What Do U Think Of Girls That Put Their phone Number on social media by Hamachi(f): 2:15pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: What Has 2019 Taught You So Far? by Hamachi(op): 2:15pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: What Has 2019 Taught You So Far? by Hamachi(op): 2:14pm On Sep 19, 2019 |
 condemn: Never to do any favor for a woman no matter how little it is. |
Romance › What Has 2019 Taught You So Far? by Hamachi(op): 2:06pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
What has 2019 taught you so far? Me: Talk less and listen more been patient |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Wear Beads On Their Waist And Chain On Their Legs? by Hamachi(f): 2:04pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
O! can you share your experience. DrHoganObi: If you want to keep your sanity intact and still be a human being, stay away from women with beads and chains. That's voodoo don't even come close to them. Voodoo will mess you up. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Wear Beads On Their Waist And Chain On Their Legs? by Hamachi(f): 11:17am On Sep 17, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Just Be Ready. by Hamachi(op): 11:07am On Sep 17, 2019 |
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Nairaland General › Re: What Did You Have 5 Years Ago That You No Longer Have? by Hamachi(op): 9:43am On Sep 16, 2019 |
Nice words letusbepieces: I am so sorry for such a great loss.
It is not easy Oooo... I cannot tell u to be brave or not to go through weight of such loss.
I lost my immediate sister wen i was much younger.
This is the sad and depressing part of life for all of us.
Trust wen i tell u God knows about it and also dat we ourselves will not be here forever. We only have more time than them.
The Igbo say life is a market and we have all come to trade, wen u finish selling, u start to go home. (Igbo proverb)
They say, it is easier for those that left to move on than for those that were left behind.
They that left have known the secrets of the universe and are enjoying eternity with God.(rejoinder)
So we cry, becos we dont yet know our faith or wat happened or even wat is this world.
Some even stop believing their is God.
So, my sister, I want you to take heart and be strong and dream big, grow, love and live, as your twin would want for u. Accept my deepest sympathy! |
Romance › Re: Just Be Ready. by Hamachi(op): 9:42am On Sep 16, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Some Ladies Wear Beads On Their Waist And Chain On Their Legs? by Hamachi(f): 7:44pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
 Lamanii22: Oh really? Keep the irritation to yourself then... |
Romance › Re: Tell Us Exactly What Is Stopping You From Dating Someone Here by Hamachi(f): 7:44pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
 OnPointMan: Don't mind that guy. You are so beautiful to me. I love everything about your looks |
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Romance › Re: Tell Us Exactly What Is Stopping You From Dating Someone Here by Hamachi(f): 7:12pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
Yes by birth, Uganda by naturalisation harrwix: Are you Nigerian? How free are you responding to pms Ni hadithi ndefu |
Romance › Re: Tell Us Exactly What Is Stopping You From Dating Someone Here by Hamachi(f): 7:09pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
harrwix: Do people really get to meet here? I doubt so... even in dating forums in Nigeria people are scared or find it difficult in meeting new people cos of our stereotype.... talkless of a faceless forum like nairaland.
See in general it is very difficult approaching a average Nigerian lady over the net... near failed mission False,upgrade your game |