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Why are Nigerian like this?!

Stephani3e:
I don't see how banging someone's mom correlate with the topic, you could have used sister or brother using mother is quite degrading.

Godson214:
Stop drugs

Very shameless.

mrsfavour:
the 3rd one is bomb. I once tried that when I was dating,hummm ,it remained I give my life yet the idiot will take my money and still cheat. Such a shameless guy

This answer is confusing

DonroxyII:
Yes, if they are really what I want for a wife !!

No, if they are not my kinda woman !!

There are 3 categories of men you MUST never date, no matter how desperate you are.

1. Do not date a broke man.
2. Do not date a stingy man.
3. Do not date an ingrate who refuses to acknowledge your contribution in his life.
*I despise the last one*

mrsfavour:
I agree with you. Once they get money they become king and forget their hungry days

There are people who enjoy being poor. There are also men who are perpetually broke because they like it that way. They move from woman to woman, living off them. They don't want to work - they'd rather borrow from or defraud others.
Those are the men am talking about. My experience dating a broke guy left me traumatized till this day. I shrink whenever I remember the psychological and emotional abuse he put me through.

Single Lady,

Do not trust the humility of a broke guy.
Do not trust the loyalty/love of a broke guy.

Poverty forces a man to be humble and to do what he hates for survival.

Wait until he has money then see if he will still remain 'humble.'
Money is a revealer of character.

I am going to hit the nail right on the head!

Let's stop lying to ourselves.
This life of lies won't take us anywhere at all!
I am all for a woman working, earning a living, being Independent and not relying on any man.
But I am also a REALIST!
Relationship is commitment on all levels!
If you can not commit totally why be in a relationship?
It is not an entitlement mentality to expect someone you are in a relationship with to be of financial assistance.
I have been in relationships where I was the one doing most (if not all) the financial giving.
I didn't see it as an entitlement mentality,
I saw it as investing in my relationship. Helping the man I love as at then.
I know a lot of ladies who were financially helping their men at one time or the other.
It's a sign of love and commitment to that person you profess to love.
What is love without giving?
Giving is a proof of love.
You might not be giving money but when you give your time, your energy, advises, a listening ear, ideas, suggestions,
It's also giving and a proof of love.
Why date someone who won't add to your growth in life?
Why be entangled in a relationship where your partner sees your asking for his assistance as an entitlement mentality?

We might not all have money to give,
But giving is necessary to strengthen the bond of love!
A man who has money to give but refuses to give is not just stingy but wicked!
Even people who aren't romantically entangled give talk more of you that is romantically entangled!
I am against a parasitic relationship,
You shouldn't want to suck the blood off your partner's body all in the name of having a relationship!
That's not what I'm saying oh!
If you can give your man, give him and if you can give your woman, give her!
Forget all these facebook ideologies!
Some people who come screaming "why must he give you? Is he your father"?
Some of these ladies won't survive if a man doesn't given them!

Money is very Important in sustaining a relationship!

Never marry or date a man who won't add to your growth in anyway!
A man should support his woman knowing that she is doing the right thing.
I won't even date a man who isn't ready to invest in my business and I in his !
You are either investing money, time or giving me ideas on how to grow it. Relationship is relating at all levels !
I add to your life, you add to mine; equation balance.
Cos I will want to see my man grow in his line of business, he should also want to see me grow.

And all these have nothing to do with two adults consenting to have sex!
Relationship goes deeper than a man and a woman coming together to have sexual Intercourse!

Good Afternoon sweethearts!

If you’ve had sex with someone and they forgot to tell you they’re HIV positive, go to the hospital immediately and ask for Post Exposure Prophylaxis. It’s an antiretroviral medicine which if taken after being potentially exposed to HIV can prevent infection. Must be done within

72 hours after though and after you do this go report that person. Now make this spread quicker than y’all spread your legs for random men.

If their viral load is undetectable then there's no need to panic, you're safe. Undetectable =untransmissible.

I know of discordant couples living together and having babies normally and delivering normally and breastfeeding normally, whilst keeping the negative partner negative. Positive couples having negative babies. This I've seen with my own eyes.

Look at the analysis to know whether having sex is good or bad, let us have an elaborate discussion to know what reasons every couple cites for having sex before marriage. Some of the reasons are

1. Few women have admitted that having intercourse before marriage was one of the ideas to make the guy get committed to her. Whereas, the men always have a different opinion where some may real want to share the intimacy and there are few guys who just do to satisfy their lust.

2. Once when you start to have intercourse, then it becomes a natural habit which may become unavoidable and end up in having it at least two to three times a week. This will not only spoil the intimacy between them but will also break the desire to get into the next phase of life with the same girl.

3. Some couples also say the reason by blaming the environment and circumstances arousing them to have intercourse and also to make their level of relationship in a comfort manner.

ADVANTAGES OF HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE:

Let us now see the benefits we can gain by having sexual intercourse before marriage life.

a. The chemistry between the couple at the time of sexual intercourse is usually said to have increased. It not only creates an understanding between the two but also creates a good mutual respect between the couples. Still, it might be advisable only to have intercourse occasionally as making it a regular practice before marriage will surely lower your interest.

b. Some people prefer to have intercourse within the same gender before marriage and this is a denial scenario since it may make the person to lose interest of having the intimacy with the opposite gender. They will not have an experience or a feel of having intercourse with opposite gender and it automatically sets their mind to deny them even after their marriage.

c. The ultimate advantage is you can clearly get to know each and every proceedings of bed step by step and you actually start to enjoy and co-operate with your partner which always makes you feel so excited and anticipated.

d. You can clearly note your partner inch by inch physically and may be tempted to explore more and more about your partner. In this way it is very much helpful in noting down the actions and behavior of your partner which would prove handful even after the marriage.

e. Some may have problems in fulfilling the desires of their partner while the other may get fulfilled very quickly. To best avoid this problem, having intercourse before marriage will surely help you a lot. Once if you find either you or your partner is not able to fulfill each other , you can follow practicing some remedies to get fit enough and give the libido your partner wants.

DISADVANTAGES OF HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE:

a. Similar to the benefits, there are also some major disadvantages of having sexual intercourse before marriage. They are

b. Based on the recent study, it has been revealed that man y women have lost their interest in having sexual intercourse with their partner after marriage as they have got fed up and tired of having intercourse with the same partner even before marriage. In some cases, there are also some males who have witnessed the same issues very frequently.

c. Having intercourse before marriage may give them the attraction and physical fulfillment at the moment but it won’t last long. The reason being that men always think that this just a part of relationship whereas the women think that they have given their entire life to the guy and become more close to him. In such cases when there is nothing more left in the relationship to be carried further, there are heavy chances of breaking-up, being a possibility.

d. Also many women lose interest of having sexual intercourse after marriage with her partner just because of the myth that was created in her mind that intercourse will only lead to the fulfillment of individual on their own rather than the love and intimacy which is to be shared in the bed with each other. This is mainly because of her previous experiences at the time of her relationship.

e. Whenever there is relationship between the men and the women before marriage which gets further through the sexual intercourse will get a feeling of individual’s joy and pleasure on their own at the end of intercourse. The reason being the libido and the intimacy that was shown at the initial phases of first few weeks of intercourse will totally get changed into a entirely different one which has the desire to get fulfilled by the individual’s on their and get their due disrespect and opinion towards the sexual intercourse even after the marriage.

f. There are also several health related issues which may occur during premarital sexual intercourse. There may be problems during the period of life after marriage such as loss in erection, getting fulfilled quicker than usual and several other similar issues that are related to intercourse which occurs either before or after marriage affecting your future marriage life.

Guys Be honest
Can you advice your brother or sister to marry someone like you
Don't lie

I just dey Laugh

DEBJOCH1:
GOD BLESS BUBU FOR CLOSING THE BORDER, LET THE BORDER REMAIN SHUT DOWN TILL ALL OUR COLLECTIVE SENSE RETURN. LOCAL RICE COMES IN GRADES AND MOST NIGERIAN RICE ARE BEING RE-BAGGED AND CALLED FOREIGN RICE. IF HUNGER WISH TO KILL US ALL, LET IT KILL US TILL WE GET THINGS DONE THE RIGHT WAY, NIGERIA IS NOT A DUMPING GROUND FOR ANY COUNTRY TO COME HERE AND DUMP REFUSE IN THE NAME OF IMPORTED FOOD AND ITEMS.

Closing all land borders is so injurious for Nigeria's economy.
Is there an experiment to see how much Nigerians can endure?
What happens to SMEs who depend on bi-lateral relationship with neighboring countries for growth and continuity?
What is the contingency plan for them? Any?

My dad lives in Cotonou, the border closure will hurt Nigerian traders more than our west African brethren, over 85% of motor spare parts, electronics and electrical items sold in west Africa are sourced from Nigerian markets, let our leaders think about that too.

Mazi Frank Ifeanyi
The ASPMDA market is d spare parts hub 4 West African countries, Oshodi market is textile hub 4 Benin republic. Many plastic and household manufacturing firms in Lagos, Ogun &Ibadan serves these West African countries. These border closure will cost Nigeria alot. These West African countries are already sourcing for goods directly from Chinese, what happens to ASPMDA? The Chinese are opening textiles outlets in Benin republic, what happens to Oshodi small and medium scale biz dealing on textiles?

Oshodi textile dealers are complaining on daily basis because some of them took loans to service their businesses and they are still taxed by the state and local govt. The ASPMDA spare parts dealers are complaining bitterly. Should I talk of ladipo too?

My dad lives in Cotonou, the border closure will hurt Nigerian traders more than our west African brethren, over 85% of motor spare parts, electronics and electrical items sold in west Africa are sourced from Nigerian markets, let our leaders think about that too.

Nigeria's leaders don't understand Nigeria's (non-oil economy). By simply "shutting our land borders", they'll be giving China an advantage over Nigeria in West Africa - with respect to trade.

Some are so dense, they won't understand this - even if you explain it to them.


Even the Oil Economy, dem no sabi. The Trans-siberian Pipeline project gave Russia a huge diplomatic advantage in Europe. It never occurred to Nigeria to build Pipelines all the way to Senegal & use Cheap Oil as a soft Power in West Africa. We left our EEZ for France to exploit.

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The Best Hand Techniques

• Finger Rolls: “Place the nipple between the thumb and index finger and roll the nipple back and forth between the fingers using light pressure. With your tongue licking the other nipple.
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• Light Finger Strokes: “Using the tip of the index or middle finger, slowly stroke the nipple lightly in a circular motion. Use the tip of the finger to then apply quick, light strokes after circling. With your pussy dry humping his d!ck flesh to flesh”

• Nipple Pinch: “Place his nipple in between your thumb and index finger and apply hard pressure squeezing his nipple between your fingers.” This should be done with a smile☺ on your face & just for a few secs because it hurts

• Nipple Slaps: “Flatten your hand and slap his nipples quickly with the tips of your fingers.”

• Nipple Flick: “Flick his nipples with the nail of your index finger & with your other hand grabbing hold of his dick.”

• Nipple Twist: “Place his nipple in between your index and thumb finger and twist it in one direction, then the other While flicking the cap of his dick with your other hand”

The Best Mouth Techniques

• Tip Circles: “Use the tip of your tongue to circle around his nipple with your hand stroking his dick.”

• Tongue Flick: “Use the tip of your tongue to quickly flick at his nipple.” This time whisper to him "How do you feel babe?

• Tongue Stroke: “Use your flattened wet tongue to stroke across his nipples while using your hand to twist the other nipple.”

• Nipple Nibble: “Place his nipple between your top & lower teeth and nibble it lightly.” (please don't bite his nipple, he will cry)

• Nipple Bite: “Place his nipple between your front teeth and bite down while increasing the pressure as you sink your teeth into his flesh.” (it's called pleasure� with pains)

• Lip Strokes: “Use your wet, fleshy lips of yours to grab his nipple while you stroke it with your tongue inside repeatedly.”

• Sucker Fish: “Make duck lips and place them around his nipple to create a suction to pull at his nipples using your mouth.”

• Grab and lick: “Grab his nipple with your index and thumb fingers, pull his nipple away from his body a bit and use the tip of your tongue to flick quickly� with your other hand inserting his dick inside your pussy”


• Ice Stroke: “Place an ice cube in your finger tips and circle his nipple. As the ice❄ melts, lick up the extra water�using your tongue making sure to stroke his nipple with your tongue in the process.”
(The Big head will be shivering for more)

Good morning beautiful people,please is it normal for a woman to see her period twice in a month? (A week interval that preceded the previous one.) I need a here to help out. Thanks.

Uganda my country! You havent finish with corrupt official it is homosexual you are planning on making a bill to kill them

Uganda my country!

Under British colonial law, gay sex in Uganda is punishable with up to life imprisonment.

Activists warned the new bill risked an increase in violence. When the law was introduced last time, it whipped up homophobic sentiment and hate crimes

Hundreds of LGBT+ people have been forced to leave the country as refugees and more will follow if this law is enacted. It will criminalise many from even advocated for LGBT+ rights, let alone supporting and protecting sexual minorities, three gay men and one transgender woman had been killed in homophobic attacks in Uganda this year – the latest last week when a gay man was bludgeoned to death.

Ok

Nat404:
No, I don't. I have nothing to lose when it comes to women because none is paying my bills.

Hey, you've really tackled me today.
Where are you from?

Uganda

Yes

Wow!

A virgin at 35 as a guy, e possible?

You just showed your level of maturity by calling someone an idiot

Nat404:
That's correct. That girl isn't smart.

Nat404:
First, from this highlighted sentence, it's crystal clear you are focusing more on money, even though you tried to pretend about that. Not all rich guys possess good character, some are really awful but you prefer to date them because of money. That's "cupboard love."

In the West, what women women look for a man is intelligence first, followed by handsomeness, then height and finally, wealth. But in Nigeria, the reverse is the case. Wealth first, height second, handsomeness third and fourth is intelligence.

This is particularly why you can never be friends with Nigerian women without spending money.

If a man possesses the second qualities you talked about, without spending money on a particular girl, believe me, he can never score with a woman.

Do you possess any of the qualities?

Allsingles:
Thanks you for mentioning the old days, we are now in another century, another generation I must say.
90% of women don't submit to their man this days because they have automatically become the liability of man, 90% of youths are lazy, they want it very fast and easy so they can be famous and that's why Marriage this days easily break like egg, so many get married just to answer Mrs.
Don't blame anyone, because we are in 21st century.

Someone has to take the blame. Italics, where did you get that figure from? 90%

Most Guys don't just get it. You all be thinking that girls only like Rich Guys but its not just about the Money. Its simply a coincidence that the Guys who are Rich are the ones that have the qualities that Ladies want in a Man.. If You are: Well Groomed, Confident, Funny, Charming, Dress Well, Communicate Well and Host Well, then you can have any Lady you want even if you don't have Money. So Its not really about the Money,

Many Men who don't have money but have all these qualities still get the best Ladies. While the Men that have Money but doesn't have all these Qualities will just be giving a Lady money while the Lady be giving some of the money to Her real BF who is broke but have the desired Qualities... Lool

Nat404:
Look, let me tell you, my cousin married a man who wasn't rich some years ago but now, are doing very well. The man is very comfortable and always thank me because then lots of family members looked down on him except me.

cooooooks:
To not take up the sole responsibility of my SO's happiness.

What's SO?

People bring out their best when the find someone they Like.
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If your partner is giving you a hard time, then the Love is not there. Love is not a feeling. A feeling is just a crush. And the crush normally goes away after a while. Love is a Decision of Long Term Unconditional Commitment.
Please take your time to study this new definition of Love. Because people don't practice true love before marriage.
Most relationships are based on crush and selfish interests..
This is why Marriage is too hard for many people these days.

carter009:
MOST MARRIAGES THIS DAYS NA SCAM......