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FamilyRe: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Hamachi(f): 8:46am On Oct 14, 2019
Am afraid your spouse is still a boy. His circle of friends also matters in this case as their ways and talks around him has great influence on how he treats you. I wouldn't advise you to leave though but under this circumstance, giving each other time apart is often the best. Go to your moms and spend time while he feels that emptiness and watch him come around but with him begging never to use such demeaning phrase again.
Christianity EtcRe: Homosexuality, Lesbianism, All Other Sexual Pervasion Is Not Just A Sin But... by Hamachi(f): 8:39am On Oct 14, 2019
shocked shocked shocked shocked
RomanceRe: Dear Average Nigerian Married Men, Hope You Learned Something From Mike O Edward by Hamachi(f): 4:20pm On Oct 07, 2019
Sierusvirus:
OPs,

Each time I read your post, it’s usually a one sided lay down point.

It also appreciable to you single and married women that thinks the only way to success is to sleep around just because you have p**sy or believeing that’s the only way to hold a man down to marry you or moving around with your vibrators for everyday masturbation pretending to be holy.

Mike respected himself while other girls where seeking for sex from him( Venita and other).

How many ladies did respect themselves in the house?
That you have a pu**y doesn’t give you the right to sleep with your husbands gateman, gardener, cucumbers meant to be eaten and t[b]he highest abormination, sleeping with your fellow woman(lesbians) . [/b]

If you are pointing a finger to someone just bear in mind that the remaining four are pointing at you.

The only way to stop casting blame to others is think deep before saying a world.

You women are even the worse in terms of sleeping around both the single and married women, the only difference is that men don’t hide and even talk about it but women pretend and hide all to present themselves as holy.


Think before you talk.
You leaving in a cage. This 2019,wake up
RomanceRe: Dear Average Nigerian Married Men, Hope You Learned Something From Mike O Edward by Hamachi(f): 4:19pm On Oct 07, 2019
undecided
NonFarmPayrol:
Dear Nigeria women .you can also close your legs

That's how some of you sleep around d when your hobbies go offshore or travel abroad

undecided

Nonsense thread
CelebritiesRe: Throwback Photo Of Chinedu Ikedieze 'Aki' by Hamachi(f): 3:30pm On Oct 04, 2019
wink wink wink wink
RomanceRe: Men Everywhere, No Husbands For The Girls by Hamachi(f): 3:27pm On Oct 04, 2019
fine
bassette:
how you doing?
RomanceRe: Please You Single Men Read. by Hamachi(op): 3:26pm On Oct 04, 2019
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Ariza:
Someone should propose to Op already!
RomanceRe: Men Everywhere, No Husbands For The Girls by Hamachi(f): 11:44am On Sep 24, 2019
You do not get. Women hate to share.
Peterosky:
.My beauty, it must not be staying in the same roof.But again, if it is socially accepted, we will all learn to stay in the same roof like it is done in the days of old. You are just pretty.
RomancePlease You Single Men Read. by Hamachi(op): 11:33am On Sep 24, 2019
PLEASE YOU SINGLE MEN READ..

Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.

Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife.
You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.

My father said this to my uncle: When his friend was 25, he was talking about making billions before he marry.
Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid no wife... His friend had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of his life very early, But his fear was, can he really take care of her?
But right now that woman is married with Four grown up children. The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage. They worked hard and succeeded together.
So please if you can feed yourself, you can feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry early, don't wait.

Stay away from abortion.
Don't make the mistakes my father's friend made, he see
His childhood friends play with their kids..
Most of them are not doing as well as him.. But they are happier with their families..

Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life, with a well planned life they are happier.

Trust me it isn't money, What is most people's problem? Build mansion? buy the latest Car in Town? marry Regina Daniels type? but still they don't have those things they dreamt of, and of course the years they wasted, they can never have them neverrrr!!!_

Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father.
Please young men, take my advice seriously.

Marry, don't be afraid, that girl you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well.

Don't think you will get every thing before you settle down.

With a good determination and focus with your wife by your side, you will succeed by God grace....Amen amen and amen!

I am talking to all single men
Even you this guy
Yes you!
RomanceRe: What Has 2019 Taught You So Far? by Hamachi(op): 10:48am On Sep 24, 2019
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ifyalways:
Nwa Neni wink
Im happy to read this. The best is yet to come,nna. Jisie ike.
Christianity EtcRe: This Is What Most Preachers Won’t Tell You Whenever They Preach About Prodigal by Hamachi(op): 10:48am On Sep 24, 2019
hmmmmmm
CodeTemplar:
Also of interest is the fact that many of us like the elder brother, serve God but don't know our rights or redemptive privileges, and so complain about that returning brother or sinner who God blessed speedily.
RomanceRe: Men Everywhere, No Husbands For The Girls by Hamachi(f): 10:47am On Sep 24, 2019
Hello!
bassette:
Hi
RomanceRe: Men Everywhere, No Husbands For The Girls by Hamachi(f): 10:47am On Sep 24, 2019
Peterosky:
The truth about the matter is that women are more in number than men. The only solution to this problem is for men to marry more than one which Christianity is against. Until every body is made to understand that those who have the financial muscles and are willing to marry more than one, there will continue to be scarcity of husbands.
No one will stay with another in the same roof in this modern age
RomanceHow To Talk To Your Man... by Hamachi(op): 9:29am On Sep 24, 2019
HOW TO TALK TO YOUR MAN...

There is a way you talk to a man he will listen to you and there is a way you can talk to him and he gets pissed off! No man can resist a woman who knows how to talk.

I know how to get what I want from any man no matter how difficult or stingy he is. Just know how to talk to your husband. Your marital crises will be over.

The reason why you may be experiencing broken courtship or marital delay is because you don't know how to talk to a man.

You don't talk to a man like a woman, you talk to a man like a man. He is a man, not a woman. Ladies let's respect manhood please! (I don't mean penis, I mean the state of being a man.)

Talk to a man with respect! Men chill on hearing "sir" and all his "giragira" goes down a bit.

Learn to approach a man with maturity. Men admire mature women.

Learn to bite your tongue when you are angry. Don't shout at a man, they hate it!

If you want to collect something from your husband, be praising him at least 2 days before (call it bribery, who cares?) Sing his praises and let him know how you can't do without him and he is the most generous soul in the universe (even if he is not, your confession will one day become your reality. The Bible says we shall have whatsoever we say �).

Talk to him logically. Men hate senseless, over emotional, stupid, irrelevant discussion.

Admire him a lot.

Correct in love.

Be feminine.

Learn to be gentle with a man even if you have a strong choleric nature like me. I have to learn how to be gentle (it is not easy. The Lord Jesus Himself had to help me. I am naturally an action pack, shaprapra woman)!

Learn how to make a man laugh. I love to make a man laugh, I just love it.

Be very humble. A humble heart reflects on a humble tongue.

Don't be a YES woman who agrees with everything a man says especially when it is wrong and sinful; don't be a quarrelsome woman either. Learn to say NO to what is wrong with dignity and maturity. You will earn his respect.

Be a wise woman.

Thanks for reading. God bless you
RomanceRe: Men Everywhere, No Husbands For The Girls by Hamachi(f): 9:29am On Sep 24, 2019
grin grin grin
kenodrill:
This is savage I swear down....
Christianity EtcRe: This Is What Most Preachers Won’t Tell You Whenever They Preach About Prodigal by Hamachi(op): 9:28am On Sep 24, 2019
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sholay2011:
Well said OP.

And another revelation I got was that the original version of the bible that I personally recognize (KJV, and even most versions) do not refer to him as the PRODIGAL son. He is referred to as the LOST son. Calling him a 'prodigal son' focuses only on his spendthrift attitude to collect his inheritance prematurely and waste it, but the actual written name in the Bible (the Lost son) is from an empathetic perspective of a young man who seemed to not be thinking right, blinded by the desire for 'freedom' and material things, but will soon realise (hopefully not too late) that path only leads to destruction.

Till today, we choose to refer to him as the prodigal son as therein lies our judgmental attitude as Christians of today as we think we are better if all we do is just tell a little lie, change a little figure at our workplace, so far we are not demanding our inheritance from our Father prematurely. The major point of the story was being lost, and being found. Anyone that is not joyful at such result (and that includes the elder brother in the story) may have a worse fate in eternity.
CareerRe: So What Have You Achieved At Your Age by Hamachi(op): 9:28am On Sep 24, 2019
SMH
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
stop being shy
Christianity EtcRe: This Is What Most Preachers Won’t Tell You Whenever They Preach About Prodigal by Hamachi(op): 12:57pm On Sep 23, 2019
Amen.
psucc:
Your curiosity paid off. This is a great revelation. It will save a soul today in Jesus name amen.
HealthScent Leaf Magic by Hamachi(op):
SCENT LEAF MAGIC

MANY PEOPLE COOK FOOD WITH THIS LEAF WITHOUT KNOWING ITS HEALTH BENEFIT.

Well, if you cook with this leaf keep it up as I expose the truth about it.

Scent leaf is a wonderful leaf in Africa that many have less or no knowledge of the amazing health benefits, do you know you can use scent leaf to cure many diseases and infertility problems?

Here are the health benefit of scent leaf!!!

1) Scent leaf cures cough: just take some leaf, wash and squeeze out the juice, add hot water and drink and give to children above 2yrs to drink.

2) Solves indigestion problems (any form of stomach disorder) just made some juice out it and drink.

3) It Prevents heart disease and problems for those who smoke, and for any one.

4) It Lowers sugar level.

5) It Relieves menstrual pains, fever, malaria, cough, respiratory problems. Drink scent Leaf tea and it will make you feel better.

6) For new stroke, put more scent leave in a mortar and pound..add little water then squeeze and drink once every day and see flow of blood in dead parts.

7) It's also a mosquito repellent.

cool It helps with infertility problems, scent leaf will not only improve your health but will help you become a proud person.

9) It boost fertility in both male n female reproductive organs.

10) It strengthens sperm vitality and works well to prevent infertility.

Just make scent leaf often or use it in cooking (for tea, 3-4 times a week).

Please, the purpose of this message is for lives to be affected positively.

Please, Do well to share it!!!

Written By Oshea N Swabz
CelebritiesRe: Yvonne Jegede Reacts To Alibaba's Post On The Challenges Women Face In Marriages by Hamachi(f): 7:58am On Sep 23, 2019
Get out of here
Lumig:
... Whether you believe or accept it or not, there's a huge difference between the male and the female. And their upbringing, duties and responsibilities are different
RomanceRe: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: How Women Gold Dig You. by Hamachi(f): 7:56am On Sep 23, 2019
Bahddo:
I need to date all women to know they are all manipulative? Funny. I never said all women try to manipulate THEIR MEN only. They all try to manipulate men, even strangers they just met.

Are you talking about the ladies in relationships that would never say what they want but pull all sort of stunts to lead you to do it for them?

Or perhaps ladies who friend-zone the nicest guys around them, milking them for attention and perhaps monetary benefits without the slightest consideration for the guys' wants? Or the ones who keep them for later when they are done with the bad guys and need someone naive to tie the knot with?

Don't bother trying to ask about mothers. They rank up there among the worst kind of manipulators, gaslighting their children (especially sons) as often as it suits them.

Guile is a woman’s treasured weapon, and unlike men they often don't go direct for what they want. So yeah, all ladies would TRY to manipulate someone (mostly men) to get what they want even if they don't all succeed. There is also a 90% chance that YOU have tried to manipulate at least one guy in the last week.
Never, y should I manipulate a man
PoliticsRe: Why Nigeria Is Such A Terrible Country- Ian Kedem by Hamachi(op): 7:53am On Sep 23, 2019
Are you a Nigerian?
zogon:
There is no such thing as "if the government will...", it will never happen. Nigeria is irredeemable. It needs to be split-up around homogeneous lines like most European countries
CareerRe: So What Have You Achieved At Your Age by Hamachi(op): 7:53am On Sep 23, 2019
undecided
0KNM:
I have a woman
Christianity EtcThis Is What Most Preachers Won’t Tell You Whenever They Preach About Prodigal by Hamachi(op): 7:52am On Sep 23, 2019
THIS IS WHAT MOST PREACHERS WON’T TELL YOU WHENEVER THEY PREACH ABOUT THE PRODIGAL SON

I have heard so many messages preached on the altar about the prodigal son (Luke 5:11-32)

As I took out time to read the story in my bible, I saw some things that boosted my curiosity and left me with a serious concern…

My concern is that whenever we use the story of the prodigal son to spice up our sermons on the altar, the emphasis and focus is always centered on the prodigal son himself…

I am seriously worried that we have spent so much time analyzing his errors that we have become blinded to the errors of another major character (individual) in the same story…

I am talking about his elder brother here…

As I look at the church today, I see a lot of Christians who fit into the description of the elder brother of the prodigal son…

They appear zealous, holy and committed but when you take a closer look at their lives, you’ll begin to spot similar errors…

Please I have just four (4) questions for the elder brother of the prodigal son…

Any where you see him, please help me ask him these four (4) questions:

1. Where were you, when your younger brother was making the terrible decision he made?

2. How come you never made any attempt to go look for your younger brother to know how he was coping after he left the house?

3. Why were you angry and bitter that he returned and that his return was celebrated?

4. Why were you giving your father reasons why he shouldn’t have celebrated the return of your brother?

A Christianity where the errors and fall of a fellow comrade becomes an opportunity to rise is demonic…

A Christianity where we try to gain favor and prove loyalty before authority by discrediting or running down a fellow brother is satanic…

A Christianity where we neglect and abandon our wounded brothers is demonic…

A Christianity where the strong does not uphold the weak is satanic…

A Christianity where the fall of a fellow brother/sister becomes a topic for gossips and discussions is evil…

A Christianity where we prefer rather to discus about the weakness of a fellow comrade behind him/her than to approach and correct him/her in love is evil…

A Christianity where we pray for a fellow brother/sister to err or fall so we can occupy his/her position is barbaric…

If you see Generational Impact smoking cigarette on the street after he has preached on facebook, will you reach out to him in love and intercede on his behalf…?

If the fall of a fellow comrade does not touch and compel you to intercede on his behalf, then you are still far from God…

Enough of the hate in church…

Enough of plotting against each other…

Enough of analyzing and amplifying each other’s weakness…

We will do greater exploit as a team and as a unified body…

I am not your enemy, the devil is…. My fall should not bring joy to you…

Let us uphold each other and show love to the wounded in our midst
PoliticsWhy Nigeria Is Such A Terrible Country- Ian Kedem by Hamachi(op): 2:06pm On Sep 20, 2019
I'm an Israeli living in Nigeria now for 5 years. I worked as an Agronomist on an agricultural project on Plateau State and now I'm working for an Israeli company in Ibadan.

I never planned to come to Nigeria because I always heard that it was a lawless country where everyone wants to dupe you.

It takes time to get used to living here. There is extreme poverty, yes. The infrastructure of the country is terrible, bad roads, no water supply, no electricity, corruption at every level. The security situation is deteriorating with armed robbery and kidnapping a frequent occurence. There are quite a few no go areas.

The politicians are only out to fill their own pockets and have no conscience or feel no obligation to serve the people who elected them. Tribalism and nepotism are rife in public life.

With all these challenges Nigeria has the potential to be a world leader because of their most important resource - the people.

If the government were to invest in their own people by starting new industrial and agricultural projects the country could prosper. Put money into the roads and railways.

The Nigerian people are hard working, industrious, willing to undergo hardships and intelligent. They are happy and outgoing. They love us Israelis, which is refreshing in these times of a rising tide of anti Semitism in other parts of the world.

There needs to be a political revolution of the sort there was in Ghana to stop the corruption and put the money where it's needed, to empower women and the young generation of Nigerians.

The security forces have to be purged and supported by their leaders. It's unacceptable when the police or army stop you on the road and demand money. Give the security forces all the support they need so they can regain their self respect.

It's sad when you see the potential of the country being wasted. The Nigerian people deserve a better leadership.
https://www.quora.com/profile/Ian-Kedem-1
RomanceRe: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: How Women Gold Dig You. by Hamachi(f): 12:32pm On Sep 20, 2019
grin grin
SweetCunt97:
Topic that will make frustrated broke guys happy.

Silly dudes looking for free pvssy. You guys will choke on it.
RomanceRe: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: How Women Gold Dig You. by Hamachi(f): 12:30pm On Sep 20, 2019
Very apt
Defenderalert:
Dont waste your energy on a permanently broke pvssy brained mor.on who is nothing but a frustrated loser. You women are gold.He is the one commenting on all the threads under different monikers. Ubunja is that jobless. I tell ya he spent all his youth pvssy chasing now that he is in last days, bitterness and regret is eating his soul.

Only a lunatic will sit to read his trash episodes other than Ubunja the gold dogging brokie.
RomanceRe: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: How Women Gold Dig You. by Hamachi(f): 12:26pm On Sep 20, 2019
kiss kiss kiss
ebonyggurl:
So in your mind, all women are gold diggers and manipulators? undecided
Why generalising stuff like that? Some of us are real.

From all these threads you post, some questions come to mind: what's a guy's usefulness in a relationship if all he brings to the table is his dick? Why should a woman want to move from girlfriend to wife when she sees you serve no usefulness apart from bedmantics?
RomanceRe: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: How Women Gold Dig You. by Hamachi(f): 12:13pm On Sep 20, 2019
Bahddo:
actually ALL women are manipulative. They do not all succeed, but they all try one way or the other. The attempt is what makes you a manipulator, not exactly success.

About gold-digging, we both know that women rarely ever marry/date below what they perceive to be their own class. There's a reason terms like 'hypergamy' exists, and your attempt at denying it does not change it.

Quit the crap about motivation for marriage. Just like sex, marriage benefits women more than it does men. You ladies basically have someone who thinks it's his duty to carry all your baggage for the rest of his life.
Generalization is very bad, have you dated ll women
CelebritiesRe: Yvonne Jegede Reacts To Alibaba's Post On The Challenges Women Face In Marriages by Hamachi(f):
Parents also need to change the way they train their children. There is something fundamentally wrong the way they treat the male child and the girl child. Until we start to realize that there is nothing like a MALE OR FEMALE CHILD, the problem will persist.

A marriage is a partnership not an EGO TRIP UNION. If the Husband is blessed good, if its the wife good but that does not mean the husband should now become lazy-Gbenga Adeyinka
RomanceRe: What Has 2019 Taught You So Far? by Hamachi(op): 12:06pm On Sep 20, 2019
Sorry about that.
condemn:
Don't blame me. I've dated and met too many ungrateful women
CareerRe: So What Have You Achieved At Your Age by Hamachi(op): 12:06pm On Sep 20, 2019
Yes
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
hey girl, I know a London based Ugandan guy thats looking for a gf. he likes dark skin beauties like u. are u single?

0knm

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