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felong:
Nigerian girls just love anything that would make people see them as whores. Would it kill you to dress decently. When men begin to sexualize them they'll complain, oya dress properly they won't, they just love being naked. Na wa o

RoadMozart:
How about those that bash our cars in traffic?

Nice write up OP

STRESS MANAGEMENT (A True Life Story)
The Hidden Toll of Traffic: How Congestion Causes Stress 💨🚗🚦

"Albert's sister is begining her new semester at Ekiti State University in Ado Ekiti, while he wants to ensure punctuality at his workplace on Lagos Island.

They left their home in Ikorodu early that morning. At the Ikorodu garage, Albert bid farewell to his sister as she boarded a car heading to Ado Ekiti.
Albert's journey faced challenging traffic from Ikorodu to Mile 12 and Ketu, lasting approximately two hours. Eventually, he found some relief as he joined the expressway at Ikosi, heading towards the 3rd Mainland Bridge.

However, the journey from Ikosi to the Adeniji Adele end of the 3rd Mainland Bridge took another staggering three and a half hours making a total of 5 hours plus. Surprisingly, Albert's sister reached Ado Ekiti while he was still on Ozumba Nbadiwe, far from his workplace at Muri Okunola."

Have you ever found yourself stuck in a never-ending traffic jam, watching the minutes tick away while your stress levels rise? Traffic congestion can have a significant impact on our well-being and mental health. 🌆🚙

Here are a few key insights into how traffic can cause stress:

1️⃣ Time Pressure: Being caught in traffic can make us feel like we're running out of time, triggering stress and anxiety. The pressure to arrive at work and meetings, on time can be overwhelming when traffic slows us down.

2️⃣ Frustration and Impatience: Waiting in long queues, dealing with slow-moving vehicles can push our patience to the limit. The constant stop-and-go, honking horns, and the feeling of being trapped can lead to heightened frustration and stress.

3️⃣ Uncertainty and Helplessness: Traffic congestion is unpredictable, leaving us unsure about how long we'll be stuck in the gridlock. The lack of control over our arrival times and the uncertainty of when we'll finally reach our destination can generate feelings of helplessness and anxiety.

And lastly,Impact on Well-being: Beyond the immediate stress of being stuck in traffic, the long-term effects can take a toll on our overall well-being. Chronic exposure to traffic congestion has been linked to increased blood pressure, sleep disturbances, and even mental health issues like anxiety and depression.

So, how can we cope with traffic-related stress? Here are a few strategies to consider:

✅ Plan Ahead: Anticipate traffic conditions and plan your route accordingly.
✅ Practice Mindfulness: Use your time in traffic as an opportunity to practice mindfulness techniques. Deep breathing exercises, calming music etc can help.
✅ Seek Flexibility: Explore the possibility of flexible work arrangements that allow you to avoid peak traffic hours. This can provide more control over your commuting experience and help minimize stress.

Remember, traffic-related stress is a widespread issue that affects many individuals.

Rubyjade:
Your sister will also fall prey

anochuko01:
Firstly, I'll be 31 later this year

1. I am very financially stable
2. I am not stingy at all
3. I have only been in one relationship and it ended 12 years ago. I haven't been in one since then.
4. I have never had sex
5. I tell my mother at every opportunity that I don't pray to marry someone like her.
6. Yeah, I am shy
7. I've got a charming character, one of the reasons I ran from women in my early days
8. Dont even go there
9. Yeah, I am a software developer and I work remotely. So I spend most of my time indoors.
10. God forbid


Additional Reasons
1. First of four children and the only male. So, responsibility.
2. I have never been intentional about getting into a relationship until recently.
3. I am being overly cautious too, coz I don't wanna end up with one werey.

Aklee4994:
if you laugh 😂 too much,you lose your self esteem

Success2021:
Am well experienced in desktop publishing

Aklee4994:
If you give too much you will lack also

TradingGod:
If You worship God too much, You will be blessed beyond measure

Case study King David in the Bible

QuinModah:
CyberSecurity

donem:
those legs go destroy in 2 weeks if u continue this suicide mission lolz

Acidosis:
Why would you spend 194k on solar that can't power ordinary laptop? Why spend 194k because of power-saver bulbs and electric fan??

This home solar unit stuff is the new scam they're selling to Africans and Nigerians in particular. You can achieve the same results by purchasing self-charging bulbs for as low as N1000 each and a rechargeable fan for N30,000, which would only cost a total of about N31,000+.

That 194K you spent on solar scam can get you a 300W Romoss Thunder power unit. With a 300W unit, you can connect your TV, router, decoder, your laptop, fan, and charge your phone. It's everywhere on Twitter. I could send you a link, where you can watch the video of how it works, pictures, and price list. You can also search online.

Itznekky:
What of job vacancies in Uyo, pls I will really appreciate

asobo1:
Are you surprise? A bar attendant who works with an international NGO ends 180k a month in Borno.

boldsleek:
Thanks for all you do here.

please, if you see jobs in Aba, Abia state.., do share too. I will be following

I have a single mother of 3, based in Aba and desperately in need of job.

olopan:
Sadly NO, it is epileptic but thanks to solar inverter it has been a life saver in the trenches

civilserva:
This boy girl get sense

sirjamesjnr:
Yes, She won't have time for me. She doesn't have time for herself either . But trust me she always takes out her precious nap and food time, just to talk to me .

I visit her workplace she wouldn't have time to say hi also I have to sleep three nights in different hotels to be able to see her. I got angry one day and ask her, how will she take care of my kids when we marry.

When she is with me, I never want that moment to end. Our romantic life has had to suffer a lot of time because of duty calls. I have to get myself busier so I don't get emotional. she is honest and blunt, doesn’t beat around the bush. Sometimes I have to win her with a strong argument and points.

She is independent and can make life-death decisions, so I don’t feel bad if she doesn’t consult me and make some decisions highhandedly. I trust her, she good decision-maker the majority of times. For us, It’s accountability and responsibility that counts. I won't settle for less and she won't either. No room for excuses or self-pity.

She has to be nice to her patients and fellow male colleagues. I don’t mistake this for flirting. Her male colleagues are there with her than I am, so I am more comfortable and carefree because I trusted her. we do know our boundaries. Most of the time she will be discussing how much she misses me with them. I have the self-confidence that helps me though sometimes I get a bit jealous.

She is Superwoman without the cap all the time. So I have to decide whether to expect even more from her or be Super Man myself and share her burden a bit more.. understand her a bit more..love her a bit more.

As a doctor, she is extremely sensitive but also blunt. She knows when I need a hug and when an earful. Most of the time, she sees me as a case, desperately trying to diagnose my actions, detect my mood, I have to explain every action, etc.

She is great, very polite, courteous, intelligent, and fun and I love her effortlessly. The hard part is living with the job, the workload, the schedule, she never off duty, even when she is off duty, no time for long conversations. I already know I am committed to her and I must be committed to her job too. I need to be supportive of her, emotionally mature and have a life of my own. It has been a long ride but our relationship is thrilling. Will I choose another if given an opportunity? Only if I stop been me.

Learn from me, if you can't compromise in some area never date a high valued woman. With slay mamas wannabe, You have no issue, all you need is your time and money and you are the boss.