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Sholmakem:
He might be right about the shower cap because shower cap is one of the free gift given to lodgers in a standard hotel . you should have calm down to have more more evidence against him .

Nah sister!!! Don't let them sell you the lies.

ogbenifamouz:
Kindly put we that are based in Abuja in consideration by sending Abuja job openings.

Noted.

Itznekky:
I'm still a student, can I still apply

Yes

The question might sound funny but truth is the level of cheating in Nigeria is alarming. The percentage of married men that use hotel in Lagos alone is at alarming rate of 86.3% carried out by Barr Olumide Gnosis_help foundation.

When you find yourself engaging in compulsive behavior that you don't want to do, but you do all the same, it can be very confusing. I don't think people are being helpful when they tell you that you have "lame" excuses or that you really do "mean" to cheat. If you haven't been in a place where you find yourself doing things you really don't approve of, then this can be hard to understand.

A good comparison is depression. Most people are well-meaning when they tell you to just pull yourself out of it. Never mind that the depressed person can't do that and that they feel even more guilty when they try and fail, and this makes them more depressed.

Compulsive sexual behavior is quite similar. You can go to SLAA for help. Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous. They may not help you understand the causes of the behavior, but they can help you stop.

I think that it is a problem that they don't help you understand the causes. I think that most people don't agree that sex and love are about the same thing. Most people think they can be separated. Sex is just for fun. Love is the one that means something.

I think sex and love are just two aspects of the same thing. I believe that people who seek out sex are really looking for love. They are looking for connection in a very deep sense.

However, in our society, we are trained to separate the two and to deny our basic needs as a result. You can only have love in a marriage, so any sex outside of a marriage must be the "just sex" kind. No love involved.

I've attended SLAA meetings and found that around half the people there were bipolar, like myself. I think bipolar folk need connection more than most, and we seek it out sexually because that is the literal manifestation of the connection between two people.

Love is more than sex, but then, so is sex more than love. The whole is more than the parts, but the parts can't be separated, so it's sort of stupid to go through a semantic exercise like this. Still, this is how Westerners have learned to understand things: break them up into parts.

I think that your compulsive behavior bothers you and you want to stop because you think it's wrong. I think that until you get what you really want: connection, you won't be able to stop. It is food and water to you. So you have to get it from your wife or from someone else, but you won't be able to stop until you feel truly accepted and loved by someone.

You may be able to control yourself for a while, but unless you are loved, you will always "act out" after a while of depriving yourself. But maybe that's just me.

I learned some things from SLAA, but I gave up when my wife wanted me to stop going to meetings. I don't really like the AA model for meetings. I prefer being able to have cross talk. It didn't seem very friendly to me. I go to other meetings/ support groups that are much better, although not on that topic.

I have a secret lover. I get more of what I need now. But I am still a lost soul in some ways. Perhaps as much as anyone else. But I feel more capable of staying alive, and to me, that is a good thing. Most people tell me I would be hurting my wife and children if I were to kill myself, and although I don't have that same sense of self-worth, I chose to believe them.

These are deep issues, and they can be matters of life and death. You are the only one who knows what it is like in your case. I think it is a shame when people dismiss other people's feelings as making you unworthy of compassion. I don't know what your situation is in any detail, but if it is anything like mine, then I feel compassion for you. This is not at all easy, and it is much more serious than most people think. The pain from not feeling connected to others, while existential, is still incredibly deep.

And the stigma of having sexual problems is even worst than the stigma of mental illness -- a stigma that is very bad in its own right. People think sex is just a matter of hedonism, but I think it is a matter of what is most important in life: learning how to feel connected to others.

Many reading this are actually in the same boat as the OP and really need help as it's an addiction, just as some women are addicted to drugs, alcohol or even men. Most people would say until you die or probably get infected before you realize.

Many people stopped cheating after treating life threatening disease, some other business started going down, others was a rude awakening.

Don't just judge the op, it an addiction that needs help

When the baby that they used to call me was automatically changed to Ms Hamachi. ..Na then I realize say dem don relegate me



When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place. He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place. I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps. I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.

rbjimoh:
Dindinrin

Oponu

O mu gor, let it start with his family members first, they testify you follow suit.

OlawaleBammie:
U will neva ave sense

How will someone who is well to do still opt for a student loan??

Aja

Olawale, ola o ni wale fun e, eleribu omo

crestedaguiyi:
I just ordered this kit today from alaba. It's less than 20k.

The use of lpg is far cheaper.

12.5kg of gas will run for more than 120 hrs.

25litrs of fuel will not give you 24hours on same gen.

This text has been done in Nnewi last week, the carburetor already has a dealer there who has large quantity in stock.

Ibo people, Una wan sabotage dangote

Please 🙏 give me dealers number as the subsidy removal is bitting harder.

GAZZUZZ:
Load or idle, gen will run on similar conditions for both fuels .

I will advice you look at the electricity bill recently signed into law. Think big, think rich

magabounce:
Lets see how this goes... Patiently waiting for his Cabinet List

Same here

Abolodje:
Interesting. Na to use student loan bet on top game for sporty.

The true path to success







Sorry for the misleading hook.


There is no true path to success.


Or, better put,


There is NO one true path.


This is because success means different things to different people.


There isn't a single way to be successful that works for everyone.


There isn't a shiny, well-paved highway that leads everyone to the glittering city of success.


No, life isn't that simple, and neither is success.


The point is that your idea of success is unique to you. You have your own goals, dreams, and challenges that are different from anyone else's. And that's okay.


What's important is that you define what success means to you.


"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."


So be yourself, define your success, and create your path.


You've got this.

Student loans are a financial burden which does not quite make sense on a pure accounting basis. So, you have signed up for a loan (a liability, surrender of your future earnings) and you have nothing to show for it. On the other hand, when you take a loan on a house (a mortgage), you have a liability (a mortgage) and an asset (a house), so when things get tough, you can sell the asset to cover that liability. And in a worst case scenario, you simply file for bankruptcy and walk away from it - with a beaten up credit score, but you recover fully in about 7 years (in US, bankruptcy is removed within 7 years from the person's credit profile). Easy. Simple. Elegant.

Now, we have a student loan. You take a loan and you spend money. You gain nothing tangible - no assets. You have an expectation of future earnings, but it's not a guarantee. However, once you are out of school, loan is due - regardless of whether or not you have means to pay for it, such as a job. Now, when things get very tough - let's say you need to pay rent and you need to eat and you would like to get a family - but the student loan is still there, and it's not going away. You can't discharge it in a simple bankruptcy. You can't make it go away in an easy way - it's a forever burden.


Summary

When we reach the point where politicians are running for office on a platform of, “free college for everyone,” you know that we have gone past the tipping point. “Free” college is just going to throw kerosene on this fire.

We are seeing some cracks around the edges, e.g. coding bootcamps and startup apprenticeships like Praxis, but what is needed is a better educated consumer.

PS

I saw a question on career section this afternoon. “Should I go to school X or school Y? (Money is an object, but I might get some financial aid at school Y.)”

School Y’s cost of attendance is more than twice that of school X. No thought of can I afford either one of these schools? No thought of preparing a financial analysis. We have a generation of irresponsible morons whose parents are mentally absent. That’s why we have a financial aid crisis.






💭Leadership is not about seeking personal glory, instead its about taking responsibility for the people you are in charge of.

🎯Some key takeaways:

✔️Responsible leaders take accountability for their actions. Instead of blaming others, they identify the problem and try to fix it.

✔️Therefore, to become responsible leaders professionals must remember to take accountability for actions and stop blaming others for their mistakes.

✔️One of the foremost qualities in a successful employee or leader is a willingness to accept Responsibility for one's actions and behavior, good or bad.

✔️Taking Responsibility means making decisions, taking action, setting high standards, learning from our mistakes and always doing what we say.

✔️Lastly, leadership is about setting an example. Let see his grandchildren, relatives & family members participate in these students loan

SisterAnn:
Of course.
There were no specifics, so no lesson learned by your readers from your experience.

I was went from the banking industry to the manufacturing sector, the culture there was very different.

In the bank, there was so much pretense and hypocrisy and everyone forming good guy.
But in the other place, even your boss go collect your babe during hangout if you don't hold her well.

During bank hang out, if you drink alcohol, you are viewed one kind one kind. But in the later place, if you refuse to loosen up during hangouts, you would adjudged a misfit.

I get the point.

lynx200:
Hey people

Are you Emmanuel?

Alcoron:
Don't waste your time going to Next Titan with your business idea no matter how they sweet talk you into that they are looking for business ideas. They will only use you as fillers to shoot their audition videos at your expense. What Next Titan want is already ESTABLISHED business (it should be registered) and it shouldn't be a big or game–changing idea.


And they only give you 5s to pitch your business.

How do you know this?

What is 51% Attack ?

A 51% attack is a cybersecurity threat that can occur in blockchain networks. It involves an individual or a group gaining control over more than 50% of the total mining power in the network. With majority control, the attacker can manipulate the blockchain by creating an alternative chain of blocks. This allows them to engage in activities like double spending, where they can spend the same cryptocurrency multiple times. By creating a longer private chain, the attacker can invalidate previously confirmed transactions and disrupt the network's normal functioning.

During a 51% attack, the attacker can also manipulate consensus rules by modifying or excluding transactions from blocks. They can prioritize their own transactions, censor specific transactions, or even create new transactions that were never originally made. This can lead to network disruptions, loss of trust, and financial losses for participants relying on the blockchain.

However, conducting a 51% attack is not easy. It requires significant computational power and resources, making it more feasible in smaller or less secure blockchain networks. Well-established networks with a large number of participants and a high level of decentralization, like Bitcoin, are more resistant to such attacks.

While a 51% attack remains a known vulnerability, it is important to note that they are relatively rare and are primarily associated with smaller cryptocurrencies or less secure networks. The broader cryptocurrency ecosystem continues to evolve and implement measures to enhance security and mitigate the risks of such attacks.


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Wait until it's an issue. For example, a few weeks into seeing each other, I went with my bf-to-be to her parents' place to pick something up. He wasn't expecting them to be there, but they were. He introduced me as his friend.

In the car afterwards, I told him I chuckled to myself when he said that. He replied, "Well, I wasn't going to say 'the girl I'm sleeping with,' and I didn't think you'd appreciate me saying girlfriend." I replied, "You can say girlfriend." "I didn't think that's what you wanted." "It is. Can I call you my girlfriend?" "Ha, yes." "Sweet."

By calling her your girlfriend, you're saying you would rather have a relationship with her than sleep with all of the other women who will ever be interested. When you are sure that's the case, and no sooner, that is when you either bring it up, or say yes when she does.

Healthquest:
Interesting but this is just like bolt for the middle class kind off,

I'm ready to set a driver verification office here in port Harcourt and increase awareness here in port Harcourt if we can discuss about it further.

The app isn't optimized properly, we can talk behind the scene.

Send him a DM.

ravensckar:
I said it here and I'm reiterating it, any team that parks the bus against Man City will lose. Your parking the bus can only reduce the goal margin but it will never bring you victory. Turn the tide and attack them, then, you may emerge victorious. Che Guevara once said; 'If we fight, we may win. But if we don't, we have lost...'

During a boxing match between Muhammed Ali and George Foreman, everyone expected Ali to dance round the ring (his usual tactics) and try to make Foreman come to him thereby hoping to wear him out. Ali (the master strategist) announced to everyone in the pre-match conference that he was going to slug it out with Foreman. In his words; 'he will take the fight to Foreman'. No one believed Ali, not even Foreman himself for he was the stronger one with the killer punch.

The day arrived and Ali did as announced. Foreman was shocked. He had expected Ali to dance round the ring but here he was taking the fight to Foreman. After strings of punches and counter-punches, Ali threw a powerful right jab that knocked Foreman to the ground. That was it, the fight was over.

Imagine what would have happened if Inter had pressured Man City like they did in the last 15 minutes of the match. Just imagine!

They choked the mild field but it wasn't enough

djon78:
How de game be?

Easiest final indeed!!

The Italians came very well prepared
.

Let me see the magic Pep will do in the dressing room

Inter has studied Man City, watch their games against Madrid, Man U and Bayern from they way they are playing.