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Jobs/VacanciesRe: This Is True Or False by Hamachi(op): 4:21pm On Jun 17, 2023
We are looking for a video editor for a company
Must have ability to do YouTube contents, documentaries, movies, Instagram contents etc?,
Drop your application via the WhatsApp group below
https://chat.whatsapp(.)com/JU42UFVjLvwDezKKcpLdmJ
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job Loss by Hamachi(f): 4:10pm On Jun 17, 2023
Relixy2k:
Alimosho/alagbado and Ajah/ibeju lekki. Depending on job. Can move.
join the WhatsApp group link attached to the post.
TV/MoviesRe: Next Titan Nigeria Back For Season 9 With N20M Grand Prize, And N5M For Runners by Hamachi(f): 4:10pm On Jun 17, 2023
Alcoron:
I was at the audition and I interviewed most of the participants that passed to stage 2 of the audition to find out what really Next Titan want. None of the stage 2 businesses was a game-changing idea.

And I watched all the episodes of the show in 2022.
hmmm
HealthRe: Lightning Strike Kills Referee During Football Match In Niger State (Photos) by Hamachi(f): 8:58pm On Jun 15, 2023
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Jobs/VacanciesThis Is True Or False by Hamachi(op): 8:42pm On Jun 15, 2023
When a Staff resigns, dismissed or terminated . Even when there is a layoff for any reason. The impact is not only felt by the Staff or the Management, but the entire organisation

It's time to have pre, exit and post exit management of the workforce .Plan for Exits like Recruitment. Sometimes , when a Top Leader exits , the negative impact is felt by the entire team

I know of a story, once the Leader of the Team Resigned, everyone did , and the organisation was not only stranded, but negative narratives which may not have been totally true , flew about, and affected the Employer brand to attract candidates to the Team

In the Japa Era, we've heard of entire Team leaving the organisation in droves , guess what ?the rest start looking for exits ( band wagon effect ) is real among Millennials and Gen Zs

A lot of these issues can be managed, only if organisations just put strategies in place to manage exit considering the entire organisation
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Job Loss by Hamachi(f): 8:05pm On Jun 15, 2023
What's your location?
Relixy2k:
Good morning everyone. I just lost my job of over 10 years working in various units of the customer care in a telecom firm. I feel completely shattered. I have a wife and children. Please I urgently need a job. My email is adesamrre@yahoo.com. Kindly please assist.
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: On Fuel Subsidy HR Practitioners by Hamachi(op): 8:03pm On Jun 15, 2023
cheesy
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Annual Leaves Are Earned And Not A Favour Granted By Managers. by Hamachi(op): 7:57pm On Jun 15, 2023
shocked
anthonyuncle:
high rate of unemployment has resulted to:

1. management bullying their employees.
it is generally believed in Nigeria that if you quit a job, you will be replaced before you get home.
this is due to the high number of unemployed people in the society.
this gives many employers the confidence to treat their employees as slaves.
not minding the effect of the job on one's health.

2.many job seekers not looking into the welfare part of their employment contract.
after months or years of being unemployed, being called for an interview alone is a testimony.
when offered the job, the excitement blinds many from taking a deep view of the contract.
even when some persons peruse the contract and see inhuman clauses, the fear of going back to be unemployed for months will prevent them from negotiating further or not taking the job.

it is what it is.
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Cheating? by Hamachi(f): 7:56pm On Jun 15, 2023
wink
QuinModah:
The main reason men cheat is one word: OPPORTUNITY. Most men will undoubtedly cheat if they have the option to. In order to combat cheating, you won’t be able to continually fight temptation. You’ll eventually cave in. The main thing that you need to do is limit your exposure to those opportunities to cheat.

Men who don’t have any other options can never cheat! Chris Rock once said that “a man is only as faithful as his options”. The problem with men is that that they always tend to entertain other women they find attractive by flirting, texting, and spending time with them.
They enjoy the female attention because is feeds our egos and it becomes addictive. When you become too close with another woman, it’s only a matter of time before cheating occurs. This is a statement of fact.

What I suggest you do is to remain faithful is refrain from associating yourself with women that you find attractive. It’s very tough but it’s a discipline that you must learn if you can’t keep your hands out the cookie jar. If you find a woman attractive, don't go out of my way to get her number or try to befriend her. I suggest you just simply say “hi” and “bye”. Do not text/chat/message any women in your spare time. Ensures that you are never in position to be able to cheat because you haven’t established that kind of connection with anyone.

I personally don’t feel bad for guys that fall into cheating. They knew what they were doing from the beginning. You knew that chick was hot, you knew she was into you, you went out of your way to keep in contact with her, and you set the stage for it to happen! Don’t come crying to friends or family members when your wife is upset after seeing the inappropriate text conversation in your phone!

LIMIT YOUR EXPOSURE!! learn that discipline. Admit that sometimes, you feel “lame” because you don’t have any “options” despite being a young attractive guy or married man. But you have to make the choice to prioritize your marriage over feeding your ego.

Happy Democracy Day!
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 7:54pm On Jun 15, 2023
cheesy abi na
Ibkrichie:
Maybe he's into shower cap business 😂
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 7:54pm On Jun 15, 2023
huh
Ddeliverer007:
It’s not a lie, hotels do give their staff shower caps. How can you end your relationship cause of shower cap. Not pant or bra. You never ready. You would be single for a very long time.
undecided
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 7:53pm On Jun 15, 2023
undecided
spencekat:
Before you didn't face your life and God grin grin?
PoliticsRe: Details Of The Student Loan Bill Signed By President Tinubu by Hamachi(f): 7:51pm On Jun 15, 2023
Standardcosting:
Your unfortunate world is really obvious as the only assets in your life are tangible. Shows you are really dumb!!!
painment angry
PoliticsRe: Details Of The Student Loan Bill Signed By President Tinubu by Hamachi(f): 7:51pm On Jun 15, 2023
Read again but this time with an open mind
bakol:
Please, where did you study your own Accounting?

I will assume you are just a secondary school student who has just been Introduced to Financial Accounting as a subject.

A student loan given to acquire a life long Asset ( Academic Certificate) which will provide for you future economic benefits you referred to as a burden?

Your understanding of the concept of " liability" is highly pedestrian and showed you lacked basic understanding of financing.

Please , go and pick up your Etuk Udoh or Omuya elementary Accounting text books again and learn.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I Made This Huge Mistake In The Sixth Year Of My Professional Career by Hamachi(op): 7:50pm On Jun 15, 2023
darealez:
I resigned as an intermediate software engineer from a Fintech company. Least to say I was offered promotion and salary increment.. I honestly just wanted to start a business and crypto was cruising then.
I resigned, but unfortunately fell ill after 2months! Everything lost balance from there.

Couldn't give everything the vibe I planned. The major project I had in mind also crashed, and crypto crashed as well!

I lost business deals, lost investments and this is me here still smiling and hoping all will be well.., as I look into starting a new biz soon!!

Glory to God we don't look like what we've been through.
Congratulations
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Cheating? by Hamachi(f): 7:48pm On Jun 15, 2023
IamaNigerianGuy:
You're posting out of character. You claim to be a woman in your bio.
You haven't heard of transgender.
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 7:47pm On Jun 15, 2023
kiss
Justkatty:
E be like you never see heels before wey e for lie say e dey use am change bulb.
Out of 24hrs use 23hrs fear men.
PoliticsRe: Details Of The Student Loan Bill Signed By President Tinubu by Hamachi(f): 7:46pm On Jun 15, 2023
wink
Lightorder:
. Student loans are a financial burden which does not quite make sense on a pure accounting basis. So, you have signed up for a loan (a liability, surrender of your future earnings) and you have nothing to show for it. On the other hand, when you take a loan on a house (a mortgage), you have a liability (a mortgage) and an asset (a house), so when things get tough, you can sell the asset to cover that liability. And in a worst case scenario, you simply file for bankruptcy and walk away from it - with a beaten up credit score, but you recover fully in about 7 years (in US, bankruptcy is removed within 7 years from the person's credit profile). Easy. Simple. Elegant.

Now, we have a student loan. You take a loan and you spend money. You gain nothing tangible - no assets. You have an expectation of future earnings, but it's not a guarantee. However, once you are out of school, loan is due - regardless of whether or not you have means to pay for it, such as a job. Now, when things get very tough - let's say you need to pay rent and you need to eat and you would like to get a family - but the student loan is still there, and it's not going away. You can't discharge it in a simple bankruptcy. You can't make it go away in an easy way - it's a forever burden.


Summary

When we reach the point where politicians are running for office on a platform of, “free college for everyone,” you know that we have gone past the tipping point. “Free” college is just going to throw kerosene on this fire.

We are seeing some cracks around the edges, e.g. coding bootcamps and startup apprenticeships like Praxis, but what is needed is a better educated consumer.

PS

I saw a question on career section this afternoon. “Should I go to school X or school Y? (Money is an object, but I might get some financial aid at school Y.)”

School Y’s cost of attendance is more than twice that of school X. No thought of can I afford either one of these schools? No thought of preparing a financial analysis. We have a generation of irresponsible morons whose parents are mentally absent. That’s why we have a financial aid crisis.





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💭Leadership is not about seeking personal glory, instead its about taking responsibility for the people you are in charge of.

🎯Some key takeaways:

✔️Responsible leaders take accountability for their actions. Instead of blaming others, they identify the problem and try to fix it.

✔️Therefore, to become responsible leaders professionals must remember to take accountability for actions and stop blaming others for their mistakes.

✔️One of the foremost qualities in a successful employee or leader is a willingness to accept Responsibility for one's actions and behavior, good or bad.

✔️Taking Responsibility means making decisions, taking action, setting high standards, learning from our mistakes and always doing what we say.

✔️Lastly, leadership is about setting an example. Let see his grandchildren, relatives & family members participate in these students loan

- Hamachi on NL
PoliticsRe: Details Of The Student Loan Bill Signed By President Tinubu by Hamachi(f): 7:44pm On Jun 15, 2023
Standardcosting:
You are so dumb, cos the only assets you know are tangible.
I ain't the reason you are unfortunate.
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 7:44pm On Jun 15, 2023
Sholmakem:
He might be right about the shower cap because shower cap is one of the free gift given to lodgers in a standard hotel . you should have calm down to have more more evidence against him .
Nah sister!!! Don't let them sell you the lies.
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 7:43pm On Jun 15, 2023
undecided
Caleycash:
You met him with nothing does that mean your presence gave him something!?, I no too dey understand una with dis kind mentality
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 7:42pm On Jun 15, 2023
cheesy
Darkmode64:
Following you. In case you get to see this, you look too good to be cheated on. You deserve the very best. kiss
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Diary Of A Jobless Developer Creating A Startup Company by Hamachi(f): 7:42pm On Jun 15, 2023
undecided
Failure2019:
Unpaid slavery grin
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 7:41pm On Jun 15, 2023
Eyanbahose:
unrelated, and I don't mean to sound like I'm joking or something. I actually reached out to you one time to ask if I could chat you up on WhatsApp privately.

I think I did but didn't get a response from you when I said hi.

Is there a possibility I could still say hi?
wink
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 6:59pm On Jun 15, 2023
huh
Sikechukwu81:
Y

Pls is shower cap the new condom? Because I don’t understand why you saw shower caps and start dragging issues o
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Can you do this job? If yes! Come in by Hamachi(f): 6:57pm On Jun 15, 2023
ogbenifamouz:
Kindly put we that are based in Abuja in consideration by sending Abuja job openings.
Noted.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Can you do this job? If yes! Come in by Hamachi(f): 6:57pm On Jun 15, 2023
Itznekky:
I'm still a student, can I still apply
Yes
RomanceRe: How Can I Stop Cheating? by Hamachi(f): 8:29pm On Jun 12, 2023
The question might sound funny but truth is the level of cheating in Nigeria is alarming. The percentage of married men that use hotel in Lagos alone is at alarming rate of 86.3% carried out by Barr Olumide Gnosis_help foundation.

When you find yourself engaging in compulsive behavior that you don't want to do, but you do all the same, it can be very confusing. I don't think people are being helpful when they tell you that you have "lame" excuses or that you really do "mean" to cheat. If you haven't been in a place where you find yourself doing things you really don't approve of, then this can be hard to understand.

A good comparison is depression. Most people are well-meaning when they tell you to just pull yourself out of it. Never mind that the depressed person can't do that and that they feel even more guilty when they try and fail, and this makes them more depressed.

Compulsive sexual behavior is quite similar. You can go to SLAA for help. Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous. They may not help you understand the causes of the behavior, but they can help you stop.

I think that it is a problem that they don't help you understand the causes. I think that most people don't agree that sex and love are about the same thing. Most people think they can be separated. Sex is just for fun. Love is the one that means something.

I think sex and love are just two aspects of the same thing. I believe that people who seek out sex are really looking for love. They are looking for connection in a very deep sense.

However, in our society, we are trained to separate the two and to deny our basic needs as a result. You can only have love in a marriage, so any sex outside of a marriage must be the "just sex" kind. No love involved.

I've attended SLAA meetings and found that around half the people there were bipolar, like myself. I think bipolar folk need connection more than most, and we seek it out sexually because that is the literal manifestation of the connection between two people.

Love is more than sex, but then, so is sex more than love. The whole is more than the parts, but the parts can't be separated, so it's sort of stupid to go through a semantic exercise like this. Still, this is how Westerners have learned to understand things: break them up into parts.

I think that your compulsive behavior bothers you and you want to stop because you think it's wrong. I think that until you get what you really want: connection, you won't be able to stop. It is food and water to you. So you have to get it from your wife or from someone else, but you won't be able to stop until you feel truly accepted and loved by someone.

You may be able to control yourself for a while, but unless you are loved, you will always "act out" after a while of depriving yourself. But maybe that's just me.

I learned some things from SLAA, but I gave up when my wife wanted me to stop going to meetings. I don't really like the AA model for meetings. I prefer being able to have cross talk. It didn't seem very friendly to me. I go to other meetings/ support groups that are much better, although not on that topic.

I have a secret lover. I get more of what I need now. But I am still a lost soul in some ways. Perhaps as much as anyone else. But I feel more capable of staying alive, and to me, that is a good thing. Most people tell me I would be hurting my wife and children if I were to kill myself, and although I don't have that same sense of self-worth, I chose to believe them.

These are deep issues, and they can be matters of life and death. You are the only one who knows what it is like in your case. I think it is a shame when people dismiss other people's feelings as making you unworthy of compassion. I don't know what your situation is in any detail, but if it is anything like mine, then I feel compassion for you. This is not at all easy, and it is much more serious than most people think. The pain from not feeling connected to others, while existential, is still incredibly deep.

And the stigma of having sexual problems is even worst than the stigma of mental illness -- a stigma that is very bad in its own right. People think sex is just a matter of hedonism, but I think it is a matter of what is most important in life: learning how to feel connected to others.

Many reading this are actually in the same boat as the OP and really need help as it's an addiction, just as some women are addicted to drugs, alcohol or even men. Most people would say until you die or probably get infected before you realize.

Many people stopped cheating after treating life threatening disease, some other business started going down, others was a rude awakening.

Don't just judge the op, it an addiction that needs help
RomanceRe: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 8:14pm On Jun 12, 2023
angry
When the baby that they used to call me was automatically changed to Ms Hamachi. ..Na then I realize say dem don relegate me



When I met him he didn't have his own apartment. He was just fresh out of school. So he was searching for a job.

I used to visit him them at his friends place. He later got a job in a hotel at Chevron drive but along the line we had a misunderstanding and gave it a break for months.

He called and to me he had gotten an apartment at lekki. that I should come see if I like the place. I got there and was just playing around and checking his wardrobe when I saw ladies shower caps. I was like, who owns this? And he said they normally give them at the hotel. Chai!!! This guy can lie for Africa. Like seriously, who gives guys shower caps? So, I told him, you've been camping a lady in this house and he said, "don't start". I just kept quiet because we only just got back together after months.

I later checked his wardrobe again when he stepped out and found more shower caps.

Now, don't call me dumb. I know what I'm saying. That guy was a serial cheat. In fact, that was why I later dumped him and faced my life and God.
PoliticsRe: Details Of The Student Loan Bill Signed By President Tinubu by Hamachi(f): 8:13pm On Jun 12, 2023
rbjimoh:
Dindinrin
Oponu
PoliticsRe: Details Of The Student Loan Bill Signed By President Tinubu by Hamachi(f): 7:47pm On Jun 12, 2023
O mu gor, let it start with his family members first, they testify you follow suit.
OlawaleBammie:
U will neva ave sense

How will someone who is well to do still opt for a student loan??

Aja
Olawale, ola o ni wale fun e, eleribu omo
AutosRe: I Converted My Generator to LPG And Tested The Fuel Consumption/Cost by Hamachi(f): 7:27pm On Jun 12, 2023
crestedaguiyi:
I just ordered this kit today from alaba. It's less than 20k.

The use of lpg is far cheaper.

12.5kg of gas will run for more than 120 hrs.

25litrs of fuel will not give you 24hours on same gen.

This text has been done in Nnewi last week, the carburetor already has a dealer there who has large quantity in stock.

Ibo people, Una wan sabotage dangote
Please 🙏 give me dealers number as the subsidy removal is bitting harder.

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