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 Romance › Re: How Did You Find Out She/he Was Cheating On You ? by Hamachi(f): 4:05pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
Eyanbahose:it called code red you dig  or connect with me via TikTok. |
| Romance › Re: Soul Mate : Is It True OR Myth? by Hamachi(f): 4:03pm On Jun 26, 2023 |
In my honest opinion, No. I believe it's a glorified term used by people deeply in love and by people who are looking for a rare-as-a-unicorn, flawless relationship with unrealistic expectations. Ideally, when you like someone beyond lust, it's a good mix of behavioral aspects, psyche and rationale of that person that constitutes the attraction. How a person reacts to certain situations, his/her belief system, set of moral principles, etc are the characteristics which makes one aware if you are or aren't a best match. Once the realization sets in, these factors added to the fantastic mix of hormones in our body makes us fall in love. The process may not be as tedious as it sounds. It might be greatly accelerated (as less as 4 hours, not kidding). Once you find the “best suited” partner, it's absurd to think that now when you've found a soulmate, life will be rosy forever. That there won't be glitches in compatibility and thought processes. That you'll blatantly ignore the fact that you're still two individuals with own set of priorities and beliefs. A relationship needs a lot more than just finding your other half. One needs to work hard for it to make both partners happy and content. Hence, sorry to burst your bubble with my opinion, my friend, but soulmates are a product of fiction writers like Paulo Coelho who paint an unrealistic, albeit beautiful picture for us. In the real world, if someone followed me crazily because he/she saw a soulmate “dot” on my head, I'd call the police and/or a mental asylum. Thank you 💕 14 Likes 2 Shares |
| Family › Re: My Sister Has Lost Interest In Things Of The World. by Hamachi(f): 1:45pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
The first primary reason that you lose interest in everything is because of edepression. People suffering from clinical depression lose interest in hobbies, friends, work, and even food and sex. It’s as if the brain’s pleasure circuits shut down or short out. The second major reason that you lose interest in everything is that from an inability to sustain good feelings over time. In other words, maybe pleasure is experienced fully, but only briefly—not long enough to maintain interest or involvement in life’s good things Asking yourself why you lose interest in everything is not going to work anymore. You have to ACT at this time, and in this post, we are sharing the best and most effective ways that you can act to fight with the situation of lose interest in everything. 1. Talk to your General Practitioner when You Lose Interest in Everything.. 2. Start Exercising to Build your Interest in Everything Again. 3. Get Enough Sleep and Eat Regularly. 4. Creative Exercise is the Key. “Me Time” is important to not to Lose Interest in Everything:. 5. Spend Time with Your Friends and Family. 6. Help Everybody When You Lose Interest in Everything. 7. Plan a Routine. These are the some of the reasons due to which sometimes we loose interest in everything. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy For The Post Of A Delivery Officer by Hamachi(f): 1:40pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
milann:How do you know it's a scam? |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Vacancy For The Post Of A Delivery Officer by Hamachi(f): 1:40pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
milann:How do you it's a scam? |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Sharing My Experience On Nairaland Gave Me 15,000 Naira by Hamachi(op): 1:38pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
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| Business › Re: Introducing Driveinhud: Save Transport Cost When You Share A Ride With Others by Hamachi(f): 1:38pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
tiswell: |
| Crime › Re: My Bitter Experience At The Police Station by Hamachi(f): 1:37pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Is it material to this discussion? remiopash: |
| Crime › Re: My Bitter Experience At The Police Station by Hamachi(f): 1:37pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Are you a police officer? smasher1: |
| Business › Re: Introducing Driveinhud: Save Transport Cost When You Share A Ride With Others by Hamachi(f): 12:16pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
tiswell:Noted. I have been using them for the past one month Oga 1 Like |
| Business › Re: Introducing Driveinhud: Save Transport Cost When You Share A Ride With Others by Hamachi(f): 9:28am On Jun 23, 2023 |
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| Business › Re: Introducing Driveinhud: Save Transport Cost When You Share A Ride With Others by Hamachi(f): 9:28am On Jun 23, 2023 |
Bigchristo:Go and check them out on Google play store and see review. Dey play just dey play |
| Business › Re: Introducing Driveinhud: Save Transport Cost When You Share A Ride With Others by Hamachi(f): 9:26am On Jun 23, 2023 |
tiswell:Una no dey like better thing. |
| Crime › Re: My Bitter Experience At The Police Station by Hamachi(f): 7:33am On Jun 23, 2023 |
Nigeria’s police are notorious for bribery. I’m sure I’ve noted in an old answer related to Nigeria that we used to frequently get stopped on the road to get our “papers and fire extinguisher checked” only to be ultimately asked for money. This used to happen especially on holidays. It is a bad quality of the police force but when you look at it from another angle, you can’t blame the officers because they are severely underpaid in Nigeria. Most times they really don’t extort you for it and instead ask rather kindly or they kind of act nice and that implies that they want some money. But it’s still kind of all bribery in the end. I have livei in Nigeria long enough to witness it but this year, some unit of the police called the SARS has made headlines and is infamous for their unjustified halting of citizens and arrest, and often times being violent and needless to say they demand bribes, in this case extorting people for bribes (rather than “asking rather kindly” as I mentioned above). I do not know much about them but I do know that many people hate them. Many have complained of SARS officials violating their rights, and there have been campaigns for the government to put an end to this unit. Other than that, from my experience I wouldn’t say Nigeria’s police force is the best when it comes to responding to emergencies. Many years ago, our church was robbed and the police arrived 120 minutes after being called. The station was 5 minutes away on a road that never has any traffic, and this was at night. Granted they did manage to catch some of the robbers, and this was many years ago so maybe things have changed. Things were always pretty peaceful in Ibadan during my last few years there so I thankfully never had to experience any incident that would let me know how well the police respond to crimes. 12 Likes |
| Family › Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by Hamachi(op): 7:30am On Jun 23, 2023 |
davo90tico:This ain't a joke boy |
| Family › Re: Why Do Married Men Suddenly Lose Interest In Their Wives and try to avoid her? by Hamachi(f): 6:55am On Jun 21, 2023 |
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| Family › How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by Hamachi(op): 6:51am On Jun 21, 2023 |
From DM How do you handle it when your wife can’t stand your mother? 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Who Will You Choose Between Your Mother And Wife. by Hamachi(f): 6:49am On Jun 21, 2023 |
goldstar25:Long-term relationship not some short term relationship |
| Romance › Re: Who Will You Choose Between Your Mother And Wife. by Hamachi(f): 6:47am On Jun 21, 2023 |
If you like your mother over your wife, there are two possible reasons: 1. You chose the wrong wife. 2. You fail to realize that Mummy won't grow old with you. Choosing a wife means choosing a person with whom to create an intertwined life. Your mother sent you out into the world. To create a life for yourself. NOT to be her life partner! Should your father have preferred your paternal grandmother (your dad's mother) over your mother? No. That's unwell. How would you have felt growing up if Daddy had always preferred Granny above your own Mum? You'd think he was kind of a dick. Marriage is the forging of a union. You become one with your spouse. Anyone who wants to become one with their parent is sick, and anyone who can't become one with their loving spouse is stunted. If your wife turned out to be a horrible person, that's another story. It means either she's an amazing liar or you have bad taste. But your mother is not your life partner. You will not grow old with your mummy. What's most important to remember is that, to Mummy, you'll always be a baby. She remembers you shitting in diapers. She will never be able to experience you fully as the man you are -- and she shouldn't be able to, OBVIOUSLY. If you choose Mummy over your life partner, you may as well be three years old. I'm a mother. If your kid ever chooses you over a high quality partner, y'all have to try hard not to give your kid a big smack upside his head. If your kid can't fully bond with a life partner and is still childish enough to yearn for Mummy instead, y'll know you've failed miserably. Oh. Last but not least. I find that this mistake is often related to the mistake of not realizing one's spouse is one's primary family member. Your spouse is your most important family member. FYI 1 Like |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Sharing My Experience On Nairaland Gave Me 15,000 Naira by Hamachi(op): 6:43am On Jun 21, 2023 |
ObalendeCMS:Why don't you ask your Pastor, friends, colleagues, church & family members |
| Business › Re: N100m Capital: Hotel Or Petrol Station Business? by Hamachi(f): 6:42am On Jun 21, 2023 |
bigsam75:In Nigeria today, can you run both businesses? |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Need Help Getting An Apartment On The Island by Hamachi(f): 6:41am On Jun 21, 2023 |
dedons:1.2m yearly rent Location Chisco |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Need Help Getting An Apartment On The Island by Hamachi(f): 4:55pm On Jun 18, 2023 |
dedons:Mini flat |
| Politics › Re: My Prepaid Meter Is Showing "Call" by Hamachi(f): 4:15pm On Jun 18, 2023 |
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Need Help Getting An Apartment On The Island by Hamachi(f): 4:07pm On Jun 18, 2023 |
dedons:Ikate Elegushi Be ready for 500-700k annual rent |
| TV/Movies › Re: Next Titan Nigeria Back For Season 9 With N20M Grand Prize, And N5M For Runners by Hamachi(f): 2:28pm On Jun 18, 2023 |
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| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: New Trend Alert!! Companies Now Taking Advantage Of Job Applicants!! by Hamachi(f): 2:26pm On Jun 18, 2023 |
loswhite:Useless country |
| Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Hamachi(f): 2:25pm On Jun 18, 2023 |
BAZ001:if there's any I didn't know. 3 Likes |
| Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Hamachi(f): 2:24pm On Jun 18, 2023 |
Larry1960:Congratulations!!! Think of tomorrow too. 1 Like |
| Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by Hamachi(f): 2:17pm On Jun 18, 2023 |
jammyboi:You could also try DriveinHud app on Google play store 1 Like |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Sharing My Experience On Nairaland Gave Me 15,000 Naira by Hamachi(op): 2:16pm On Jun 18, 2023 |
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