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Chachamiliano:
My first work was with a British company and since then eh, I have not see that kind of treatment again. Currently in a Nigeria firm and the treatment is worst than that of Indians

Can you imagine

Originalsly:
If you are as good as you say... give private lessons.... cheap price... parents will send their kids... especially when they realize your replacement is not as good. If you get employed at another school.... lure the kids away to the new school .... the best way to get back is let him feel it financially.

BItt:
well the truth to your question is right there infront of you staring at you

Chachamiliano:
Thanks Hamachi. Apart from the good packages this US companies offer, the treatment they give to you is top notch. In those businesses, you don't know who is boss as everyone is addressed by their names. No unnecessary shouting or pressure and they fund you to achieve whatsoever you want to achieve.
HMO is top notch
In Nigeria, your HMO is rubbish (let me not even start).
Roads are rubbish
No power
No water

Funny enough that man that stays in the street of USA, has 24hours power supply. While we that claim to stay in good apartments over here depends on our generator or inverter. One stupid man will embezzle billions and we expect the nation to function.

Currently, we are being taxed on everything. An average Nigerian earning 350k cannot afford a tokunbo Corolla of 06 in two years. Talk more of getting a land. What a shame

GardenOfGod:
Needs US number to register

Evaloyal2J:
Yea, so I should fold my hands and not do anything while learning. Am sure most of you expert traders must have had your fingers burnt while learning.

Kingsteve:
This has been my message on here, but these incorrigible lots are quick to tag someone as fraudulent and a Yahoo guy.

They will keep losing as long as they refuse to learn.
It's that simple!
And when they eventually lose everything, they will become disillusioned with anything trading and quit, with a bitter taste in their tastebuds.

pansophist:
By innocent, I assume you are referring to the weak, the nice person that did nothing wrong. The innocent suffers the most because they are easy, it's the simplest answer that I can give. It's the rule of the universe that the weak (understand as easy) will suffer. The formula is this, I made it up but I will explain.

1. If I can hurt you without suffering any immediate or long-term consequences, then why shouldn't I?

2. If I can hurt you and will suffer immediate or long-term consequences, I will think twice.

Look down to the animal kingdom, and you will see clearly this dynamic at play. The deer have never done anything wrong to the lion, but the lion has been hunting and killing it since the beginning of time, just imagine yourself as a deer for example. All the predators from cheetahs, tigers, lions, and even monkeys will hunt you, simply because you are weak. You can't fight back, and there are no consequences for the predators. A tiger can practically ambush your family at night, rip apart the pregnant mother deer, kill the three-month-old fawn, and nothing will happen.

So why won't you suffer? You are basically a coward. You can also see that the predators don't attack themselves, they are not friends, but they just know that they should avoid themselves. A lion knows that if it decides to attack a Tiger, it can probably pay with its life, and self-preservation is more important than defeating a tiger. If you really want to understand power dynamics and how the world work, just study the animal kingdom, humans are basically like that.

Of course, it soothes our ego to feel like we are civilized and not like lower animals, but animals are the honest version of humans. I can give a multitude of examples to show this fact, but this post will be unbearably long. The world around you operates on a series of codes, and if you can unlock it, everything becomes so easy to understand.

Ever wonder why lions and other dangerous animals in the wild just avoid humans? They will practically hunt a buffalo that is stronger and can lift a car but avoid humans that are weak. Why is that so? Its because these animals have learned for centuries that humans are not easy. You may kill one of us today, but I guarantee that we are coming for you. We don't even have to get close to you to kill you, we can shoot you from a kilometers away, surround you with spears, poison your food, humans are basically deadly. Animals learned this (well, except mosquitoes maybe), and they avoid us.

The day deer and goats, and impala start killing lions anytime they attack them, that will be the day lions will stop hunting them. Snakes, for example, are weaker they will be crushed by an elephant's weight, but all animals just avoid it, because snakes are poisonous, and animals know this, so they avoid the snake. Of course, I am not saying you should become a wicked psychopath, no no, all I am saying is that you should not be easy. There are people that when you see them, talk to them, and how they carry themselves, you just know that you should not mess with them.

My definition of a good man is someone that is very dangerous but has it under voluntary conrrol. Like a martial artist, they can probably kill you with a blow, but these guys will never hurt anyone even if you slap some, but when you cross their red line, you are gone. So don't be like the Nigerian army that harasses civilians, instead, be like a lioness that protects her family, showing them love, but destroy the hyena coming at night to kill your cubs. I understand that this mindset doesn't come easy, but it's just the way things are.

A real-life example of how the weak (or innocent like you call it) suffer is that everyone wants a taste of you. Pastors want to lock you on tithe weekly, to get a firm grip on your salary, the same goes for politicians that want you to sell your vote for a plate of amala and ewedu soup, and if you are rich, then the fake friends and fake lovers show up. They are like predators, if they smell weakness and naivety, they will come, but it's left for you to defend yourself. It is my problem if I decide to harm you, but it is your problem if I can actually harm you. It is your responsibility to protect yourself, toughen yourself, and transform from a weak man to a strong man, so then you can live in with dignity. If you want peace, prepare for war - Sun Tzu.

cc; Hamachi

Smhaykins:
Hello peeps,

Please advice.

I stay with my sister, they av a 3 bedroom apartments. And I stay in one of d room because z closer to my office and I go to my house on weekends.

But since I moved in, I observed dat her husband always beat her.. I don't know if he just started or he has been doing dat before...because my sister has never complained to us.

Though, if not dat I leave with dem, I will advice every lady to pray for dat kind of guy...cos he z so caring, Av time for his family, comes home early, religious, doesn't smoke nor drink. Most times do d cooking if he comes home before my sister.

We r a bit close, cos z a cr7 fan, n we go to viewing center to watch champions league together, ( he prefers viewing centre Dan watching at home).

When I tried to discuss the issue of him beating my sister with him, he was so angry, and he replied dat z not my fault, dats y dey don't want a third party in der ouse cos ppu will never mind der business.

I also tried talking to my sister, she said do I want her to pack out of her husband ouse or wat do I want her to do if av not gotten another husband for her. Dat every marriage has issues. N she warned me not to tell our parents.

Actually, z not always a serz beating, may be a slap or two, den my sister will lock his shirt n dey will start abusing each other...after some minutes dey will enter d room n by d time dey come out z always settled. Most times I will just hear d sound of d slap in my room, by d tym I rush out out, my sister wud av locked his shirt n dey will start abusing each other. When I try to intervene or settle it. The two of dem will tell me to leave dem alone dat dey will settle it. But I feel bad whenever it happens cos I will feel guilty for not speaking out if domestic violence leads to my sister's death someday.

Please advice if I shud report to our parents or not.

Evaloyal2J:
this uncle has gone to exile, Cos of mileading call. I followed this your last call and now in cifairpens. Learning in a heard way.

faceland:
There is a housing crisis. Some move from cheap hotels to homelessness.... However, their I visited Lagos and the only money I had was my transport fees. So I slept outside and noticed that around 4am, two youths that were well dressed came out a small zine shop. They apparently were going to work. Yeah, they are homeless in Nigeria too. They are people living in abandoned uncompleted buildings too.


The Americans homeless, few are going through temporary hardship, the majority have different stages of mental illness and drug abuse.
But I get the message, it's not all sunshine and we should plan before we japa.

GardenOfGod:
You are right bro. Those guys are lazy overload! There are hundreds of opportunities in the US both online and offline. Do you know that just to use a US phone number to sign up in coinbase wallet, you automatically got credited $200?
I am even looking for a way to get a US number... Guy opportunities de US. There are games and apps you can download and get paid $50 just to download and install.
There several freelance job that pays between $100 - $300.
How can I get a US number please?

TotalRunter:
Bros thanks for your truthful assessment which i know is born of experience. But pls i want to ask you something a bit unusual. Pls I'm a physically challenged person with obvious limp in my left leg and a fresh graduate of electronics from a uni in SS. I even got 75% scholarship for a US uni but i have not makeup mind because I'm also okay here my Dad got some cheese so I'm not desperate. So what do you think are the chances of a disabled person (i can walk almost straight most times) like me in terms of employment if i decided to hussle few years after graduation? Just tell me as it is bros to the best of your knowledge, thanks

eniteden:
Rubbish then why u dey there if it's that bad? That homeless person dey recieve stipend from government if na citizen he be. And i tell u that homeless guy dey make money pass some of us for here per annum. Bros give me visa I won come stay that kind place abeg just give me one year I go come naija scarter ground. I slept in uncompleted building in Abuja here 12yrs ago n till na I never blow, it can't happen there.

Emiron:
Imagine even Sound Sultan way sing AJo ko le dabi ile no matter where u go make u no forget area oo Na America dem burial am na white man land him sleep and up till now some people still never get sense dem no suppose tell u make u japa before u japa I swear na watin suppose Dey head b dat any time

pansophist:
If opportunity comes to japa, please, run. Homelessness abroad is more of a personal choice, hardly systematic. There are some people that are so lazy and useless that even if you put them inside river to wash the soap off their eyes, they will still complain that the water is not sweet enough.

The so called homeless people have shelters, free food, security and hope, yes hope, the most important thing. They are homeless but their passport can take them round the world without a visa. They are privileged even while homeless. The guy filming is obviously not homeless, and you too will not be.

If you're not lazy, have goals, and ready to work, na you go run. Can you deliver food? Can you serve in a restaurant? Can you teach fitness? Can you work in the service sector? I deliberately mentioned unskilled jobs, so even if you have only an high school cert and not lazy, you'll not only survive but thrive.

KingOfAmebo:
Bro, there are still legit hustlers like you and I in Nigeria still making it...So, Why would you advise others to japa? Dangote and Dantata his granddad didn't japa to make their fortune.

Japarism is not the solution...let's fix our home.

Emiron:
Na same WhatsApp group all of them Dey same story day them no Dey pick money for ground when u enter white man land !!! My friend sister way just land Canada this year container of cars don Dey land I swear I hate all those bullshit stories say u must get waiting u won go do for white man land before u enter na pure lies white man land dream Dey come true for this shit hole we no get dream na anything way come ur way imagine person way finish university for here Dey ride Okada or Keke u think say them Dey pray for work for white man land no na if u no won work if u won work u go work . Him Dey talk about homeless u think say we get home for this shit hole home way no way no steady electricity we be homeless already for here

Chachamiliano:
Light is happiness. I laugh at people saying no Japa but them dey there.

You earn about 500k for naija, you think say na money
Nepa will not give you light for a whole month
You can't park your car outside
Friends, family, churches are billing you left and right.
No environment is safe.
You sleep with your eyes open even highbrow estates are being robbed on a steady.
You have sect of people taking life's at will and nothing happens.

You have strength you want to work but no job.

If you want to compare America and Nigeria, get a job in a multinational like General Electric, Coca cola Hellenic, or any company that is being owned by an American. Then get a job that is owned by a Nigerian. Then come back and testify

Chainsmokers:
Actually i wasn't able to share my secret life with my parent when i was a teen cause my dad has this judging mentality, in which what Ever you tell him he will use it against you so as my mum but hers was better cause she knows whenever she crossed the line.
I have already said it that my kids won't be treated the way i was treated

Stanley1155:
To my village.

Dreadlock69:
Mystery pikin see book inside womb how

Slynation:
Nobody commented since 2019 and you restored the thread back live...

How much do you charge for your service??