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Evina:
So who watches him till 12pm?

There's a crèche quite close to where my office is located. About 3mins drive. I will have to go check it out.

I mean, what other options do I have?

What of a relative? Like your mom or mother-in-law or like a younger sis.

Being a terrible driver isn't gender specific.

doveda:

Check your mail please.

Alright, sure will

lezz:
What's up hun? I stayed up late night to see if you'd come back.

You never did!!!

I'm gud, you? I don't sleep late

The main points ain't there.
-A crazy of entitlement to cheating, some men have that mentality.
- Lack of respect for the spouse and institution of marriage
-Lack of contentment
- Lack of self control
- Feeling of arrival

*clears throat into mic*. I'm not going to be commenting about the drama going on however amusing.
I have noticed the 'house of knight' thingy and curious about them, are they synonymous with 'house of bullies'. Just an innocent question, not interested in trying to decode filthy words.

dumo1:
You no happy say dog follow you go your house. The least you should have done was pat it's head or given it left over food.

Lolz. Tell that to someone who doesn't have a phobia for dogs. I can't touch a strand on it's head talk more pat it. I don't think I have issues with giving them food if need be though.

khadijah12:
It's about 2inches away from armpit length

Wow! I'm jealous. Mine is just shoulder length and seems to be cutting more these days. How do you treat your hair?

Ioannes:
hahaha... you funny.

Thanks

Ioannes:
hahaha... I don laff die. what's with ladies and dogs anyway. that last dog actually liked you and wanted you to be it's owner. you should just have walked over to him and patted his head and thank him for choosing you.

I should buy you a dog so you can overcome your dog phobia then maybe you can gather liver come greet me. lol.

a dog is a man's best friend. for real.

Lolz. Not all ladies o. I just have that crazy fear of dogs.

Really? Pat what? I was busy trying not to run so it won't chase me. The dog was so weird, it actually followed me home, and stood outside my house for a while. It looked good though so I'm sure it has an owner.

Thanks for the offer. I'm enjoying the phobia .
That was how I gathered liver to go and greet my friend and ended up doing marathon race. Liver has finished

ollah1:
Dogs love songs nah. Weren't you glad to have a physical fan/follower than virtual ones? You should thank the Lord. At the emboldened, no dog is my crib, oya come around.

Lolz, I don't want such fan o.


Ayaf heard, be expecting me

I hate dogs like, if I see a dog coming, I look for somewhere else to pass. I can remember two bad encounters with dogs. The first time, I was going to buy bread singing jejeli to myself not knowing one crazy dog was already following, I just picked race ehn. people were shouting wait, wait, abi moti wait ni. I knew I could run that day, one guy sha helped me control and hold the mad dog back. I avoided passing that place till the owner of the dogs left.
The 2nd one too, a friend's dog, I can't forget those crazy experiences.
The last one, a dog just kept following me, I was shaking and praying every prayer my mind cld remember. Anytime I look back, it'll stop and give me that head to the side look. I can remember how I quickly ran in when I got to my house, maybe I look like it's owner ni, I no sabi.

If you have a dog and it's not well caged, sorry o, I cannot come and greet you.

DarkTroll:
Your brains can neither carry debate or diss.

Your gender is neither male or female!!!

You're nature's accident of evolution.

You have the emotional makeup of a wild beast and the intellectual standing of a drooling baboon.

You serve no purpose but that of a living specimen who behavioural scientists observe for the thesis of how _imbeciles survive.

Your father should have married you off at 13 to one Alhaji and spare humanity and your lineage the shame of another wasted birth!!!

Were you banned? Or you use this alternate to troll?


Why do people use big big English to insult sef, anway, let me keep watching the drama.

doveda:
The lazy thing do not want to look after his mess. Most of them share finances but have trouble sharing housechores.

Lolz.

True that.

lezz:
Education isn't an economic leeway. People aren't to get an education to get a job or be rich. If you crave riches, get into a lucrative business.

Education is to grasp the totality of life, world-view, choices and awareness.

If your grandmother had gone to school and got a job in a company, you would have been raised by a nanny who won't be detailed about you.
Maybe, just maybe, you won't be unblemished like o found you,

What I'm against really is how the Society (men) seek to control what women can and cannot do. Let them make their choices.

I'm guessing you would prefer marrying someone more inclined to the business aspect or probably a house wife, go for a woman willing to and also be ready to support her to a good extent. Alot of men find ways to shed their financial responsibilities yet want women to stay put and endure such conditions while obediently tending to his ego, needs and his family's needs.

I was raised by a working woman, and I can't wish for another. I'av seen people, male and female raised by housewives, and women with small businesses with all the time in the World to stay home turn out to be something else right in under their noses, prostitution, teenage pregnancies, thuggery and all, so it's not even about staying and sleeping all day with those children but the values and morals you imbibe in them.

lezz:
Let me pick it from the emboldened: Her business, that's the idea. She's her own boss and have the prerogative to know when to look after the kids and the home.

She's not waking up to anytime set by the office bureaucracy, or mandated to attend a conference out of town lodged in a hotel.

That's what an industrious woman. The bank, civil service, NGOs,multinationals don't give women these options.

They work her and wear her youth off and she retires home a stranger at 65.

That was cos she chose to be a business woman and education to women wasn't so widespread. She would have gone further if one illiterate woman hadn't put it into my great-grandma's mind that sending a girl to school too much would make her promiscuous. Lolz.
Her being empowered helped her out in her married life.

Stop trying to chose what we can and can't do! It was once said women had no brain capacity to vote or work, is this true? Let's make our choices, house wife, entrepreneur, career woman, whatever. Not people always trying to shove their wants down our throats.

lezz:
It's a tricky one for modern women, having to define their role in motherhood, wife, a professional and a career woman.

Our grandothers didn't have it this tough.

But I think men caught up with the Feminist rant asking women to go live their dreams and be whatever they want.

Now no one seems able to draw the line between a woman's role in the house and her career.


Men can never be domesticated, his nature is adventurous and exploring.

Same way women can never be altered to be career driven and running after the rat race!
She'll always be drown to their children and husband.

Your caring nature isn't made to withstand the dogfight of power, glory and risky adventures.

My grandma had her business o cos her own mother stressed the need for her to be empowered rather than dependent on a man who can then chose to treat her as he likes.

Some men don't just care about responsibilities, they want it all. If you knew how lots of those some of those grandmas you call happy suffered in the hands of their husbands ehn. Many just had to endure marriage cos of what the people will say and of course they are dependent. Money is power, and money doesn't make one less feminine, whatever that means.

That was in the past o. Now we all make leeway in our careers, and make our life decisions. A woman can chose to be a house wife or career woman, it's her life.

lezz:
Haneefah?

That sounds so musical and sexy. You sing?

Ehm, to your point, having women walk long hours, join the rat race, office fights, promotion struggle, competing for office bonuses is not what most women are cut ought for.

They make the money and lost their womanhood, nowadays married women are transferred out of their husbands' state of residence. Isn't that evil?

It wasn't so in the distant past, a woman working in state or federal civil service is often exempted from transfers away from her husband. It's no longer so.

Why wouldn't they be sad?

Lolz. Hmmm, sing? Maybe.

I can't fault that. Also the Societal expectation of women nowadays is also crazy, like most men would say they want independent women, they don't want liabilities, bla bla bla, yet these women are expected to hold their work and home front strong. Get something doing so you contribute to the family's finances and still be on ground too, for the domestic chores, clean up after the man, take care of the home, kids, in-laws and all, be there to try and satisfy him so his eyes don't wander, listen to the Society judge them on what and what not to do etc, this would drive anyone crazy.
I believe we won't be having these issues if each gender plays his or her roles with mutual love and respect.

lezz:
No one is uncomfortable. We worry for women.

Latest US statistics just pointed out that women have grown increasingly sad in same proportion to their economic rise.

So the modern woman is actually sadder than her counterpart of the last era.

You know it affects the bedroom, don't you?

And what's your given name?

So I heard. So what influences this? Certainly not the inability to be trophy wives , I presume.

Lolz, you and bedroom sha.

My name is Haneefah.

Dcholeric:
pigeon, is that you ?
ooo long time!


men do alwalys have the edge, won't disppear , stop being hopeful over "your evil wish" .

how is your day ? .

Relative of pigeons . Yh. It's been a while, didn't miss you though.

Hehehe, evil wish.

Fine fine, yours?

dare2differ:


Are you trying to say that women have proven to be more creative at achieving economic independence than men?

Lolz, maybe. Men have always had an edge though and you can see some being uncomfortable seeing the edge gradually disappear

searay:
No, I'm about to

Lolz, oya be fast before it's too late.

Have you blamed Jonathan today

Blade21:
she's right even here I stay more male kids my father inlaw has 12 grand kids 10 boys and two girls guys are actually more just that women tend to grow and develop faster

Wow!

True though. For every girls majority family there is another family made up of boys.

lezz:
He likes you, but don't give in; I'm still interested in you, in my bed and out of it

Lolz.

habsydiamond:
eh eh. at first I developed fear thinking its only disease can make someone to grow hair on the chest but with this am cool. Thanks

U're welcome.

lezz:
Is it my own Muslim beauty you're attacking?

What's your grouse ?

Lolz.

I don't know o, really.

Mindfulness:
@red
So what? The statistics did not include their corpses.

Lolz

lezz:
Male nurses don't have it bad because they are in short supply.

We pick female IT students more because they come with pressure and notes from high-end clients and corporate bodies.

Is banking a female dominated field, I don't think so, neither is teaching or government agencies and parastatals.

True

Because females know how to play their games? Lolz
Teaching is definitely a female dominated profession although more men are coming in. Banking to an extent. Government agencies would vary. It seems women are even carving a niche for themselves in the male dominated professions now. But construction companies, factories where lifting would be needed, driving and the likes, men are dominating.

Djailer:
Sure I don't know you. But I know this much about you: You're an arrogant girl Who never owns up to her own false judgment.

That's one of the underlining shades of inferiority complex.

Lolz, you really have no idea. What are you raving about really, mister?

lezz:
You will get employment before most boys in your class!! Even in IT, we pick female students in my firm more than males.

Most modern men are placing more emphasis on looks and clothes than in skills. Check romance section, the caliphate of dummies for instance.

Both female spongers and gold-diggers aren't on the decrease either. The upper class is the exclusive preserve of male at the moment.

Hmmmm, male nurses don't have it bad actually. So you might use other cases. I think it depends on the areas and fields too, like naturally women would have a upper hand, and larger representation in female dominated fields.
And whose fault is it you pick more females?


Lolz. So true. Really cracked me up.

Hmmmm, yeah.

Djailer:
Your statement is a threat to societal decorum and sanctity. "Just get someone to make your babies with, if interested ". You're explicitely advocating for people to start procreating without any pledge to lasting bond and commitment.

You should have studied researches on single parenthood and know the implications of what you're proposing. Since making human life to you is similar to a dog who crosses 3 blocks of flat and open her legs for the next neighbour who would be the 3 dad of her 4 child.

Lolz, whatever. Don't get yourself worked up. You don't know me, so? Just stating things how it is. Values and morality is being lost every minute, lots of people, male or female behave slightly better than dogs, it's nothing new.