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Nigeria is a very evil nation.

I believe when it was back she had a political sponsor.

She killed that man or the very least when an active accomplice in his death yet here she is looking all happy without a care in the world

Chai! May his soul rest in peace.

If only his eyes were open to the good things of life.

Teettyllayho:
Last week, he mistakenly brought back someone else's lunch box home because they look very much alike. I told him it's okay that it happens and I promised to write his name in bold when he brings back his box the next day to prevent such from happening again.

Could you believe that he came back with the other person's lunch box again? When I asked him, he said he didn't see his lunch box and the boy that took his own. Then I asked: Did you tell your class teacher? Are you sure you know the boy?

His reply: I didn't tell my teacher because I know the boy and I went to his class but he wasn't there.

Lmao, funny enough i would have done the same. Your son strikes me as a rational thinker. He feels he can take care of the issue thus involving the teacher would be making him look smaller/less responsible. You have a man in the making.

The lunch boxes look identical, If I don’t come home with the other boy’s lunch box where would I put my food for tomorrow naa. After lunch we can exchange it back

Regarding the issue of comparing what he has to that of others, you need to listen to him more carefully to understand what the issue is, so you can set him straight.

I pity the man that loses himself to satisfy any woman

MamiTer:
I had to go into a relationship with one of my toasters in order to get him off my mind.

I achieved my aim after a couple of months but the current guy was unwilling to let go, I didn't love him and couldn't get myself to love him despite trying to. I know I was selfish and opened up to him but he insisted that I would warm up to him with time and grow to love him.

Slay queen is now a word with correlation with lack of sense.

In a place like Nigeria, this is the kind of thing you do when you don’t value your life. She is very lucky he handled it civilly.

dre11:
The suspect and Ahmed reportedly fell in love after meeting on Facebook, unknown to the man that he was dealing with a married woman.

PUNCH Metro learnt that all through their dating, the duo never had physical contact, but the relationship blossomed as they kept in touch online.

God forbid!

Putin is looking for cause against the world powers themselves. Ukraine is just a means to an end.

Make Boris calm down oo. Like play like play, world war 3 can happen just now.

Russia and China are allies, over sure dey worry them. They are looking for an avenue to flex their muscle without the whole world seeing them as villians.

This was obviously done on a tip-off, this is the reason why the higher the smaller your circle should be be. Never trust anyone without a reason.

I don’t see the reason NDLEA keeps wasting our resources going small time drug abusers. On this raid they would must likely not find anything more than some sticks of weed for personal consumption.

Instead of them to tackle these things from the source

There is a very high probability it is somewhere in Enugu. Expo: The plate number on one of the cars

Lol can a leopard olosho change her spots

Congratulations to her new customer

odinson1:
Op That girl is nothing but A Parasite with Bad luck on her side. She has a lot of problems, moving from one house or job to the other.

You'd be a Fool to get married to such a person.

Bruh thank you for speaking my mind.

I usually ask “At what point would you say other people are not your problem and know that you are your own problem?”

She has issues with her ex, she had issues with her friend, she has issues with @OP, she just dey get issue with everyone wey just wan try for am. I get the strong vibe she is very selfish.

She just want to get everything while contributing nonsense. Please if you staying with someone, you too would comport yourself and do everything in your power to be useful not this babe in question. @OP don’t allow her stay with you if you no like to talk too much, help her anywhich way you can; make she carry her remaining wahala go front.

Doesn’t she have a family? Besides can a babe wey be complete spec have accommodation issues in this Lagos

gift0123:
.... The boy is nice but too mumu ..

Guys hope you can learn. If you like be forming nice guy. “Nice” is a weakness, you go be mumu. If the tables turn she won’t help you in any way. Always the straight with what you want from the beginning and get it up-front except you feel like helping for free.

Cc: TheGidRedpiller

POSmecrhant:
I have a self contained Flat that's giving me 165k every year. But I want to sell the place to invest in business that will give me 120k to 150k every month, because I'm married now, responsiblites will spring up. and dont want to depend fully on 180k salary.

Could this be good or bad idea?

Lool terrible idea bruh

You are asking because you are bent on doing it. So you are looking for supporter, Irrespective of the suggestions here you would still do what you want.

midasbliss:
Imagine how grown men think. Aren't you guys worried about the implications?

Was it not grown women that came up with “broke guys deserve no puzzy”. Aren’t you gals worried about the implications?

Since we want to make money the determinant, a Rich man has right and deserves as much as he wants. After all when he was broke he didn’t deserve any.

Its very sound logic to me based on the base premise.

Joshmodest:
At some point we have to ask ourselves where we are heading to in this country .. Yahoo is one of the many crimes going on in this country yet the energy dedicated to it by Amotekun , NPF , air force , Navy , Boy's scout , Ushers and FRSC is becoming rather suspicious ...

I don’t support fraud but the approach in Nigeria is just putting the cart before the horse. No jobs, zero means of livelihood for the Nigerian youth. You want to stop yahoo yahoo then what, so the same youth can start arm robbery which is more deadly in my opinion

Stop corruption, provide jobs and infrastructure. If we no sabi road, make we follow who sabi, Just look at Kenya

AoifeNightfall:
Don't mind them.

If they cannot afford to take care of a particular woman, they should go for the one they can take care of.

Bro code my foot!!!

According to you, your fellow women are just commodities with price range. Na wa.

Second chance? Issokay. Until the day she carries knife and stabs her to death.

The Aunty better return her to the village or wherever she came from.

If you give wicked people a second chance, you do so with great risk to life, health and safety.

More like where are the parents and family members of these children!

Family units are the basic building block of every society. Lets face it Nigerians are not what they used to be. Wickedness is prominent.

Deicide:
you cover fulfilment number but you no cover house address

For Festac?! Even Boko-haram no chop enough liver to make attempt

God-forbid!

To think one e-diot created trend, “if your girlfriend is a good woman and she cheated on you, forgive her” lmao.

Such level of idiocy, would a good woman cheat?

The result of such e-diotic thinking is below:

If I don’t pack boys each harmed with thick cane to beat any teacher that would dare do this my child, I am not the true son of my Father

I would reciprocate the marks on his/her body. After the much needed violence we can then settle in court.

Parents that let this happen to their ward then come online to speak english, smh. I kuku trust my mama, that teacher has not yet been born.

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

A man’s enemy shall be members of his household - The Good Book

Like i always say not everyone related to you by blood is family. Better prepare for battle, engage God in prayers.

If you are not active in a bible believe church already, the drums of war are beating. Now is a good time.

Franzinni:
Some females wont learn ... if only she can collect back all the zuzu.

She for take the guy to court a gift is a gift wetin be collect back ...

You dash person goat with rope for neck and you still hold the rope tight ... see this kain thing o.

What are you chatting naa…

Imagine you work in the bank in an executive position which comes with an official car, company laptop, company ID card etc.

When you resign or even get fired, you wan carry all these company properties go your house because your entitlement mentality is telling you “gift is a gift”.

cococandy:
Wow

No mention of his part in causing the issues? Nawa

Again I repeat nothing warrants her breaking household appliances

Wisdom is profitable to direct. Some people have anger issues, breaking stuff heightens it. If @op wasn’t patient enough, the story on front page would have been “Man beats wife to stupor”

Lasunray01:
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Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.


Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.

Thank you

The rate at which Nigerian women succeed in throwing out their husbands especially in UK is alarming.

You know your wife has a terrible character already, nothing warrants her breaking household appliances, you sound like a very patient man. She better thank God, cuz most men won’t tolerate such twice. She sef no go wan try am again

its a tough call but you know the answer to your question about taking her abroad. Even your mind is not at peace with it. You can see the hand writing on the wall, I know a wise-man that was in your situation that decided not to go relocate abroad again because of his Nigerian wife’s character.

Better still put it before God in serious.

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Na wa. May God open our eyes to marry good homely wives

I normally don’t comment on such but I am student of the human behavior, and I like to know why people do what they do.

In this situation, why men dump babes after sex:
Lets face it, nobody wants to let go of anything value even if the guy is a womanizer. If he finds a good one, he would want to retain her for as long as possible. To let it go, it all boils down to the fact the guy is no longer seeing value. To be more specific:

1) He mostly did not enjoy the sex, and she doesn’t have any other attributes (sense, homeliness etc) to be retained as a friend.

2) Keeping her around would be the proverbial “paying too much for a whistle”. Again no value just cost.

3) Some babes are horrible beings, best to give them distance. People like this you would see in the pattern of short-lived relationship which they would deny vehemently (how long would be same thing be happening before you realize you are the cause )

Justice4Toto:
The rate at which teenagers rent house is alarming. Yes I won't call them yahoo boys.
A guy of 21 that is supposed to be in his parent house is renting two bed flat at exorbitant price. What is on his mind.at the point of paying is not the price of the rent but the freedom to have sex anytime , roll with girls , smoke ,drink
Such drive makes them pay any amount

Elders say the seriousness of the boy shows you the kind of man he would become.

I started living alone at 21, my first apartment there was nothing in it but a bed. A man of 21 Choosing to live alone is very much welcome idea.

There is nothing good that can’t be corrupted. You are just making excuses; guys do all these things even in their parent’s house.

This is how you see men of over 30 still in their comfort zone, eating their mummy’s food

JackDaAlienz:
We wanted to press charges but the money was too much
The girl is a citizen and i'm a foreigner in her country. This happened in belarus. As a black man the odds were really against us.
So we took this narrow escape as 2nd chance at life.
We bought gifts and flowers for that my neighbour and his family.
I postrated on the floor and thanked his son that videoed that incident. I legit cried because i know that if that video wasnt taken. My life would have been finished because they really believed the girl. And wanted to use us as scapegoats to paint the narrative that black foreigners are violent and should be dealt with. Fear women

Brotherly more grace to you.

I swear at all at all I’d send my story to local news, blog, anyone ready to publish it, something that would bring out her name when entered in to google. She would never get off easy.

JackDaAlienz:
The next day police came to our apartment and took us for questioning. I will never forget that day. I swore that if i survive this allegation and setup. I will never go near any white woman again.

What saved us was our neighbors. They said they heard the girl screaming that night and wanted to record the situation incase police came around. Unknown to her They recorded her when she was outside and in the video it shows her punching her self in the face and taking several selfies.
That cellphone video is what saved the life of me and my housemate.
And to make this matter even worse was that the girl later confessed and nothing was done to her. Case just end like that.
i just imagine if my neigbours didnt record that video. I for dey jail by now.
The media news outlets will say 2 Nigerian men arrested for sexual assault and rape.
And gulliable tools will quickly jump to say im guilty. Only the thought of that, sends shiver down my spine.

Hope you pressed charges?

Never let such slide, prosecute till she gets prison time and stands out on her record.

Lifestone:
That road we all saw during his Mother's burial ceremony must have really embarrassed him.

He is not a government official nor does he hold any political position. Those trying to shame him for spending hundreds of millions to celebrate his mother while the road in his own town is bad were just spewing rubbish.

Roads in a Nigeria are not his responsibility not even the one in his hometown, companies and businesses there are not exempt from government tax and levies. What is the state government doing with the money?

He has chosen to do it simply out of good-will and we should all appreciate him.

Jondelng:
Hhm,, she lied. You have every right yo divorce her.

Its a terrible thing when girls think they want to enjoy life and end up damaging themselves permanently,

I remember a friend of mine, about to travel was asking a 21 year old for marriage, that one said she still wants to enjoy life with her freedom.
Girl is now enjoying life as a baby mama for a useless ragamuffin.

Nobody is against you flexing, but don’t bring problems upon another person.

When you bring this up true, it would be as if you have an unresolved biaise but this is so real.

You see ladies at 28 being so anxious to get married and I ask myself what happened between 20 and 28. @The bolded many of them had serious guys/suitors who they left cuz they were not ready for such seriousness, they want to enjoy.

There is nothing wrong with that, it was their choice. Just as there is nothing wrong with men no wanting them at 30 cause they don’t look as beautiful as when they were in their 20s.

If you can’t give a man your best part don’t expect them to settle for your worst. They also have a choice.

That is why they are looking for apprentice and finding none nowadays.

Masters have become too greedy and nobody is ready to waste his/her her time. 500k for every year served should be the least in my opinion (5,000,000 for 10 years).

Come to think of it where do you want to find loyal boy that would run the shop and still get home and do house chores all for 41k per month (500k a year)

Sincerely it should be against consumer rights, its always just when i’m about to use the phon. Imagine getting debit for one nonsense.

MTN is literally begging to be sued this new year.