₦airaland Forum

Poor boy Thank God the Principal was dutiful in carry out his/her responsibility and calling the parents severally.

If he/she had procrastinated it would have been another matter. Being diligent and doing things timely can save anyone a ton of headache.

flokii:
She was withdrawn from one of the top three unis in Nigeria.. alas here she is graduating as overall best in one of the glorified secondary schools called private unis in Nigeria.

For UI, UNILAG & OAU to withdraw your admission means you're not mentally fit to be in higher institution.. congrats to her all the same.

You are talking nonsense.

I have schooled in one of the top 3 private universities in Nigeria and I have also schooled in one of the top 3 Federal Universities in Nigeria and I would tell you these private universities trump Federal universities in terms of quality of education.

The poor organization in Federal University is enough for a poor performance. After my studies in one i swore never again.

Ogun state government is one of the worst in Nigeria. Instead of the Governor to address real issues, he is always engaging in trivialities

The road to hell is x100 better than roads in Ogun state. Would he repair them? No. What about allowing organizations/corporates to repair them? No. Instead they make unreasonable demands from anyone that shows any interest.

Where do we get such people from sef

Rightmsn:
on a serious note, demand an explanation from her. If possible, involve both families. Then most importantly discontinue staying under one roof until everything is settled.

what kind of explanation does he need from her?

Instead he should demand an explanation from himself, of all the women on earth why he married a greedy, wicked woman that can do anything for money.

Given the right opportunity she would definitely kill him if good money is involved.

I am guessing he attends a private school, tell his mother not to allow such slide.

She should pay the school a visit the following day and ask to see the proprietor or headmaster/headmistress.

She would be met with resistance but not to worry Nigerians respond well to two things money and violence. Make she display the latter. She shouldn’t back down until disciplinary action is taken against the teacher or she should get him/her arrested. She should let the teacher know that if anybody as much look at her child wrongly she would be back

You can’t be taking out your frustrations on a child, removing his front teeth.

I can vaguely remember long time ago in Bethlehem, I was in Primary 1. This oloriburuku teacher would line us up at lunch time and be removing all the animals (meat/fish) in our food. Me wey to eat food without animal na struggle. The day i had enough and told my mum. She no even consider for once say her baby boy might be talking nonsense. Next day she drove to the school to see the headmistress. That was the end of lunch time harassment

Sidenote: Y’all should always listen to your children even if what they have to say seem ridiculous or seemly unimportant.

nextBIGthing:
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From what i read, Oga this girl has money. She needs a cure for greed not help on how to save.

If you have to ask yourself if you should continue then you know the answer already

Still available

Banks in Nigeria are lazy institutions over pampered by Emefiele.

Every decision Emefiele makes is always in favour of Banks to the deterrent of its customers, it’s a pattern that is getting very suspicious and it is very unfair really.

In a country like Nigeria, where a Government doesn’t need provide means of livelihood for its people, you make policy to be eating with fork and knife the little they are struggling to make under harsh economic conditions

This Nigeria is not safe at all, If a group of People in black suddenly attack me in the safety of my privacy; my first instinct would be to defend myself with whatever comes handy and I’d advise anybody to do same.

Life no get duplicate, you can’t suddenly burst into my privacy without a warrant threatening my life.

How do i even know for sure that they are truly EFCC, cuz here they are stealing and beating up innocent people.

JohnBorder:
My friend the money entered my account I didn't requested for it. I didn't even noticed till I started receiving lots of mgs. I can not pay money which I didn't requested for, let them do their worst thank you everyone for ur concern.

Oga return their money. It’s not yours, they have legal grounds against because they can claim it was sent to you in error.

Refusing to pay up when your account was wrongly credit is a fraudulent act punishable by prison term.

SlyfoxxjReturns:
She never had friends. She’s just finding out.

100/100

It is very hard to defend a Nigerian, they always evasive when they know they have a fault in the matter.

Y’all noticed how the OP refused to answer a simple “No or Yes” question if he received a credit on his bank account to the tune of that amount.

OP if that money was paid to your bank account, go and return their money.

Hope he knelt down for prayers, baba’s problems are too numerous not to be the work of village people.

Lovalovaphunmz:
So wots ur gain if ur so called cousin remained single?? Perhaps she realised her mistakes and seek God for forgiveness and God gave her Anoda chance bt u chased the man away..... Wot u did is pure wickedness my dear. U could av just left the man marry her since he willingly chose to come back for her

I have no business with her life, like i said before if it were any other guy i would just tell him to follow his heart but a man like a brother came to me for advice. So I am supposed to tell him lies and shove a hook down his throat because its about my cousin? He heard the truth from me and made his decision, which i think is a good one.

Nobody deserves someone that treats them with utter disregard, my cousin was most probably going to say Yes to him cause God’s current blessing upon his life. Would she have said yes to him 5/6 years ago - Hell no.

Whether God forgives or not, people should always live a life considering the present and future consequences of their actions. You have changed is not a “get out of jail” free card you can play at your convenience. Be humble and treat others with respect.

I used to have an elderly man (one of my previous landlords) as a friend, he usually advised me about life. Telling me stories of how he invested in his wife, when he found her. Helping her to get through school etc.

In my mind I just dey laugh, what a lucky man. He is lucky because she was and still faithful and loyal.

I won’t advise any young man to try such in this present time.

Trumann:
Most ladies are ingrates. Anything their fathers can't afford to do for them, don't bother doing it for them.

Thats the motto. Girl, Never ask for what your father cannot afford to do for you

SmartGadgetz:
Love you bruh. But don't hurt your sister anymore. She is still beautiful regardless.

Bruh the truth had to be said.

If its was anybody else, i for just lock-up but me and this guy don go way back. He was my blad. It was his choice, I couldn’t leave my him without my truth, I owed him that atleast.

SmartGadgetz:
Realistically, ladies flex during their prime time then expect the same best of men during their older time to marry them . Who does that?

Best is to use that their young, attractive and beautiful times to settle down when men are lurking around them.

pocohantas:
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@Pocohantas, All prejudice aside you know that the bolded is true. A case in point is my cousin, i have talked about her once or twice. When she was young and beautiful she used all the guys that came her way to catch trips. Now that is getting less beautiful by the day, she is now serious about getting a man.

One of her old suitors actually came back and confided in me about his intention. I consider him my brother (once our bond of friendship is strong you become my brother).

I reminded of when this girl was beautiful was the prize every one around her wanted, how badly she treated him, so she was so non-chalant, he couldn’t get through to her. She didn’t consider him in her prime, why is he considering her in when he is in his prime; great job, a car, sweet house, everything is going super well for him. I told him point blank that he deserves better. There are more beautiful and sensible babes and my guy-man reasoned with me

Trust me i told my cousin about this event, she cried her eyes out. I could see the anger in her eyes, but she knew the repercussion if she moved mad against me.

You can’t eat your cake and have it.

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By the way even from my set way back in university, there were girls that were not so fine (but they were really smart), they got married almost as soon as they were done with NYSC.

All these girls are still happily married, funny enough is the boss-chick, boss-bit*h that have trouble finding husband, even when they do the marriage doesn’t last up to two years.

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DSoj:
What's in the video? Just people shouting. Does this prove anything? Na u need prayers most

Shouting thats all? You just proved that you are one of those people that hear but don’t listen, if you can’t listen how would you understand anything.

Deborah98:
Strategies to pull whom God has exalted. Keep balling hard David. Nothing
do you.

If you watched that video and you still wrote this. Hmm You need to seriously engaging in prayer and fasting so that God can elevate you from your current condition, that elevation should fix your mentality.

backbencher:
Well there was nothing she could do.

She could not waive his SIWES.

Plus when asked why he missed his SIWES the guy said he was sick.okay bring medical report...he didn't.

He should have done his SIWES. Simple. It's just one year and that's that

Were you there when this conversation ensue?

Because its very glaring that she unequivocally provoke the guy.

A nation that devours its youth.

Not supporting the guy but all she needed was a little empathy towards his situation. Her adding “kill” is overing playing for public sympathy, this lecturer herself is one manipulative and wicked persona.

What has she gained now that his life has been derailed because of her. Well thank God for Judgement day.

22o62021:
I went to the bank to deposit money this morning, I was having 14,100 to deposit into my account. I mistakenly wrote 40,100 on the deposit slip. I gave him 14,100 with the deposit slip, He went ahead to credit me 40,100 written on the deposit slip.

I was already in the office when I saw an alert of 40,100 credited into my account. I stood for some seconds to think, it was then I realized that I wrote 40,100 on the deposit slip. The bank is just two houses away from my office, after like 30 minutes, I went to meet him to explain to him about the error, it was then that he cross checked and saw the error. .He just looked straight into my eyes and said Bros thank you oo, he was just repeating it. He then gave me a withdrawal slip to fill in 26,000 and I did He got his money back.

I can’t imagine the money all these cashiers go dey loose from these kind of mistakes.

Chai..at the bolded I felt that.

Some banks are making a career in banking a miserable choice. I recently had a reason to ask a friend about remuneration package in Zenith Bank . I was initially confused when i got his reply, what nonsense remuneration package for a graduate is this in 2021 I thought.

This is that same bank that is always number one in profit year in year out.

Plain wickedness. As an ethical investor i can’t have my money with such an organization.

aizakun:
10k

You didn’t quote me. Just saw it today.

15k is a good price.

I’ve Sent you DM.

Kolawole2130:
Hello, pls i need candid advice. I currently work in a church as an accountant for some years now. I have tried applying for jobs outside all to no avail especially when you dont have connections. I studied accounting and graduated year 2012. Now am thinking of writing the ICAN exams but am not sure if its still worth it with this present economy and i dont want to waste money. I need candid advice thanks

Big YES.

It is very much worth. ICAN is of my top 3 most professional body in Nigeria.

Well respected by international organizations, not only in Nigeria (US, UK) and it is affordable.

How come nobody is asking why Nigerian Police as a body is organizing quran recitation competition. Every part of this is very abnormal and worrisome

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@Seun why am I being forced to accept a god I don’t believe in to comment on this trend. If you say its because its a muslim trend. Then you do same for Christian trends.

I have said it a thousand times Seun the source and fuel of the bigotry on Nairaland

distinguish:
……………. I never said a word to reply her and its eating me up seriously, I could not sleep the whole night. This is the person that I sacrificed a lot for. I was supposed a take a professional course this November, but because of her I had to postpone it. Please I need your advice


PS: I did not eat the food she prepared last night.

I guess you didn’t talk because her comments made you really mad at that moment, that is good. Thanks to that we no dey hear man beats wife to d…..


But the thing is you have to have a thorough financial discussion with your wife, at the end I think she would be more grateful (that is if she is not naturally ungrateful).

You need to let her know how the money you loaned her for the business is affecting you and you need to make her very accountable (atleast this would help you know the limit to what you can take from the business): you need to know how much she is making from the business - I have seen this alot, men keep pumping money into their wife’s business all because she wants to keep busy, only to find out years after that their wife has zero entrepreneurial skill and the business is a money pit.

Witchcraft is real

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason.

You didn’t see “money for project” in the write-up abi.

Head of the house has to provide everything, I pity the man that would mistakenly marrying you thinking he found a “life partner”.

Why marry a person you are not willing to support and trust financially? The idiot was quoting Michelle Obama did she ask Michelle personally to mention all that she did for her husband financially, he should step-up with any assistance from her was that her message?

I don’t even know the essence of her write-up, when she contributed more in destroying her marriage. There are so many women that earn more than their husbands. The way they handle it, is what differentiate the wise from the foolish ones.

Barrister026:
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Bruz i feel you, personally I hate repeating a feedback/instructions or whatever more than once.

But do you know your wife is unknowingly doing you a big favour. Too much consumption of red meat leads to health issues and I am sure you don’t know this but you’d live longer by eating less #fact.

Sometime you would wonder why God would create eternal damnation for offenses committed within a short period of one’s life.

….its moments like this you see God’s wisdom. How else is there to punish grievous offenses some men commit against their own brothers, even the thought of eternal damnation didn’t stop him in his track.

Some Nigerian politicians would have a special place in hell.