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tutudesz:
4. Where the contested beneficiary has utilized the fund such that lien could not be placed, and he/she refuses to fund the beneficiary account to facilitate refund, the Receiving Entity’s Internal Auditors shall watch-list the customer’s BVN and the Sending Entity may report the incident to law enforcement agencies.

And how do you think law enforcement would classify your not wanting to refund money that is not yours

At least other countries would follow the law and simply jail you:

https://www.blackenterprise.com/outcry-in-sa-as-student-who-went-on-spending-spree-after-bank-error-credited-her-account-with-1m-jailed/amp/

https://www.money.co.uk/guides/can-you-keep-money-accidentally-paid-into-your-bank-account

In Nigeria?! Have you ever been tracked down one hot random afternoon by uniform men, first thing first you receive hot beating to compliment the hot weather. The beating would first reset all your 5 senses. By this time you would be sweating blood, that your stiff neck that didn’t you allow refund the money would have loosen abit for you to move it freely.

After that they allow you to rest in mosquito infested cell for 3-5 days. All these while you’d be the one begging to pay back money you initially refused to pay back.

Why cause yourself unnecessary hardship risking your life. The money is not yours. No put for mouth wetin you no fit swallow

tutudesz:
Mr Man!! You made the mistake on your own and if he decides not to send the money to you, nothing will happen even police no fit arrest am for your mistake

This comment just shows how ignorant you are.

Refusing to refund money mistakenly credited to your account is punishable under the law with prison sentence. I pity you.

Is bad enough Nigerians are suffering in Nigeria, ontop on that Gaint of African lacks international representation, na real wa.

Aydot351:
but make we reason am wella, that babe story get as e be abeg. all in all we move sha

I like to be objective in Judgment, From when I first read the story it was obvious to me she hid some parts of this story but regardless of how she got there (who she intended to spend time with etc), she does not deserve to raped or robbed.

If not for video evidence, that’s how those little boys would be accused of being rapist by silly people and the girl’s over-zealous mother, who is creating videos instead of sitting in silence for failing in her role as a mother to the girl involved.

FutureIsFemale:
Male and rape.

When Sarah says that all men are rapists people think she hates men not knowing she's speaking the facts.

Did you watch this video, I know you are just being your foolish self.

That little boy is innocent and has many years ahead of him, carry your foolishness somewhere else.

The only fault the school has is that they left children unsupervised. Outside that those children willingly did what they did.

If I would want to pick a ring leader, it would be the girl in question.

Jennyclay:
Modified: I just watched the video. That wasn't a rape case.

she wasn't rape. It's poor parenting and school negligence at work here. Although it's so sad and embarrassing.

@TheStakeHolder, I'm so sorry. Please accept my apology. The headline should also be corrected because that wasn't a gang-rape case.

It is nice to see someone taking correction in the face of evidence on Nairaland.

dominique:
In case you don't know, abortion is a criminal act in Nigeria and a federal government hospital will never carry out one except in cases where the woman's life is at risk. He clearly didn't think that through before writing it, only God knows what else he's lying about. The woman might not be a saint herself but the man is definitely lying.

Abortion is a criminal act in Nigeria? I didn’t even know that because anybody can freely walk into almost any pharmacy in the same Nigeria and get abortion pills

Michelle70:
Rubbish.
A church that u will meet for help and they will tell u to bring letter from ur district pastor.

Meaning if u are not from that church, no help for u.

God bless prophet TB Joshua, he was the only one close to what Christianity should feel like

I am not even a member of the church but I can tell you for free that it is a good and wise decision, An average Nigerian cannot be trusted. If they think free money is somewhere, they would tell any lie necessary.

Besides did you provide any letter from the church/mosque you attend and they still didn’t honor it. I am sure this church would still honor it.

David Ibiyeomie is a spiritual son of my Father in the Lord, never sat under his ministry but I am very sure he is above such petty you stated here.

LilMissFavvy:
TDoes this guy look like someone who can open a pharmacy and poultry business for his babe? Plus plenty other financial commitments? He is a liar*

Does your moniker look like that of someone that has an iota of sense?

politicoNG:
Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7077354/young-lady-called-off-wedding#111920459

After paying her bride price in 2020, she took in and terminated the pregnancy at Federal Teaching Hospital, Abakaliki. That was the third pregnancy she terminated. I was pained and we had some misunderstanding and it got to a stage where my mother-in-law got worried if she could still get pregnant because of her series of abortions.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=5096889230391505&id=100002114362063

Lalasticlala Mynd44

Some e-diots would say a lady’s past doesn’t matter yen yen yen.

I pity the man that would finally marry this one and call her wife.

poiZon:
12billion monthly...
U feed 10million kids using 100naira which amounts to 1billion naira.

Do they feed these kids once a month, or donthe 100naira feed each kid for the whole month? Let's assumed they feed them 3 times a week, that will be 300naira per kid multiply by 10million kids which is 3billion naira.
Then in a month that's 12billion naira..
Yearly is 144billion and not 1.4Trillion someone mentioned up there..

Is this spending worth it?
NO!

12billion can build and equip more schools, employ atleast 1000 teachers, so in one year 12000 teachers and more functional schools would have been built and equipped with sound teachers..

#Gbam at the bolded.

When people suggest feeding people as some sort of poverty alleviation scheme I just tell them straight-up its a silly idea because its not sustainable.

The person you feed yesterday would still be hungry today. How long do you intend to feed them for?

It’s better to channel the fund into more sustainable ideas; eg completely eradicate malaria, power, primary & secondary education (children cannot be children forever) etc.

Wastage is synonymous with this present government (they are not even feeding up to 40% of children in government schools, it’s mostly in northern states; that’s if it is still on sef).

He had us in the first half

IamAsiri:
As a matter of fact, yes. Do you think I am a pauper? Do you even know me? For your information, I am neither young nor a man. Learn to talk to people with civility when you are on a faceless forum (you sound pathetic).


Modified: In fact, I am surprised that you refused to talk about the issue I raised but decided to come all out to attack my personality. This really shows the kind of person you are.

It wasn’t meant as an insult. You just took it as one.

Like they say the truth is bitter.

I thank God you are not young and by God’s grace you would live many more years in health and wealth. But till now you have never gifted anybody in the world 600k, why call it paltry.

It is the issue that is being discussed, the surrogate mother should show gratitude especially when people do things, that nobody else in the entire world would do for them.

IamAsiri:
600k is whopping? To take care of hospital bills of two babies that were incubated for a month? I'm surprised to hear this .

From when you were born till this very moment (your entire life), have you ever gifted anybody up to 300k? Of cuz not. Thats how valuable half of that money is to your life.

In this situation the lawyer just mentioned parts of the contract he thought would buy him public sympathy. I’m very sure the 600k was gifted outside the entire agreed sum. For someone to so grateful to look down on 600k. Red flag.

@IamAsiri How many people in your life right now can dash you 200k today? Young man take a seat.

Preciousgirl:
She serves u this meal with the condition that eat it and she marries u

She is that woman you are so crazy over and chased for a year

Eat or not?

Why the heck would any sane man chase a woman for a year?

Doesn’t he have better things to do with his time, even if to womanize is his destiny the world bustling women in shapes and sizes. Spending a year going after one is an e-diotic waste of time.

dre11:
2. That they will pay for her parents’ urgently needed surgeries; and 3. That they will fully cater for her personal, antenatal and postnatal needs and other essential and ancillary needs.

“Following the acceptance of the above conditions by Mr. and Mrs. Onyemaobi, our client was admitted at a fertility clinic in Lagos State in February 2021 where she successfully underwent the process of traditional surrogacy resulting in her pregnancy and eventual delivery of a set of male twins named Chukwuemeka and Chinonso.

“However, our client briefed us that soon after she donated her eggs which were extracted from her and artificially inseminated using sperm purportedly from Mr. Onyemaobi, which resulted in her pregnancy, the couple abandoned her to her fate and did not show reasonable concern or care towards her and her unborn babies. It took persistent complaints from our client before the couple reluctantly sent a paltry sum of N600,000 (Six Hundred Thousand Naira only) to her at two instalments of N400,000 and N200,000 respectively.”

https://saharareporters.com/2022/04/05/how-us-based-couple-are-using-police-others-forcibly-take-twins-nigerian-surrogate-mother

Trust Nigerians to try to milk every situation to the last drop. She is a thief that’s what she is.

Couples sent you a whooping 600k you talk say na paltry (I am sure this is even outside the agreed sum). They should feed all your family members, pay your parents medical bills, sponsor you to USA for nursing, do things you ordinarily cannot afford by yourself. Just look at all the tall demands just because you're a surrogate

Its the couple i blame, there was no written agreement with all the terms and conditions stated.

The couples should leave her to keep the babies, a single mother in Nigeria with twins. She never see anything yet. I am sure someone has advised her to hold the babies father to ransom since he is an American citizen

Rugaria:
[s]Soludo should have avoided these guys and delved into other administrative issues first. Seems he has riled things up with his ultimatum. It has also given room to "divide and rule" merchants from outside the region to practice their deadly and evil skills. [/s]

You are talking nonsense like someone without sense.

Which government can stand with people causing havoc within it.

I’m not even Ibo, but I know and support dealing with them with a bloody iron hand. You can’t come to my land, kill my people, disrupt their business. Heaven/Hell would have new candidates asap.

All I need is one video evidence that it was them, to show their godfathers when they want to politicalize it. Sending all of them to meet their 72 virgin asap is the appropriate response.

No time, slaughter all the cows and throw a party for community

Keep one cow for the Landlord in anticipation of recovery and return.

Then arm yourselves for the return of the herdsmen, if they are foolish enough to show their face again; show none of them any mercy

[quote author=blackmamber post=111666282][/quote]Op electricity tariff has increased, have a meeting to let them that you are going to increase their electricity bill. Try to be as open with them as possible (show them the bill), of cuz they would still complain but you don try.

Forget about water wastage, Nigerians are generally wasteful people. Make them reach UK first, they no dey tell them. Once their pocket hear am they adjust.

If pumping water consumes too much of your time, have a meeting and discuss getting a security guard. The guard’s duty would include pumping water. Of course they would be apportioned part of the cost of the security guard’s month salary.

Knowing how to deal with Nigerians is key. Make sure there is no fight no arguement, just charge them for it (money or their time). If they can’t afford it, create roaster for them to know who would be pumping water and on what days. Caution them, if pumping machine burn everybody will donate to repair/replace.

Nigerians are generally selfish people, no carry anything ontop your head. Share the stress, make them feel am too. They think pumping water is easy

Me I can never have a tenant in Nigeria, I would prefer to leave my houses empty. I no like wahala.

Clinched fist. The poor girl is already traumatized

God abeg.

Human traffickers/Kidnappers, once caught and the matter is proven beyond reasonable doubt. They should be beheaded immediately!

Danokoje14:
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According to the police, the suspect abandoned the robbery operation which he and other fleeing members of his gang embarked on to engage the daughter of one of his victims in sexual intercourse..

Very unprofessional armed robber

You came for bag, them catch you on woman

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funshint:
You weren't matured about this. Since you've already gotten your test result, why still go into control mode by disallowing her from using the rest to buy her dodo? Don't play money games with a woman again, even the one that pretends to be conservative during courtship may change when you marry. You can't know a woman fully until you marry her. Just pray to God to give you plenty money. Besides can't she cook?

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At the bolden was when I concluded you seem to have mistakenly hit your head on the floor in times past.

TheOldGods:
it was crazy how she exhausted hers, she didn't even ask me if I wanted something else to complete the money. Such a selfish fellow

Just put yourself on cruise mode, cuz that nothing meaning can come out from a relationship with such a babe.

You just find out who she is, you can see the reason guys would have a girlfriend for 8 years and never for one think to marry her.

Everyone likes good things, nobody would have a great deal on hands and wait even one second more.

Pierocash:
A woman that is jobless and has bad character ,and ingrate will for sure endure hardship in that marriage ,not because she is jobless ,but because she has no sense ..

I don’t support domestic violence.

In this woman’s case, the reason she is jobless is very likely linked to the fact she doesn’t have sense.

Guys stay away from jobless women.

Officiallyme:
…….

If you know what is good for you, disengage from her if you want to make any progress in life.

All these things she counted as mistake are not mistakes. It takes a certain kind of heart or to be under a certain kind of spell. Either way you don’t want to associate with such trust me.

Your glory/progress in life is not worth any kind of sexual gratification you’re currently receiving from her.

Keba619:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2PE0cYBjuG0

Straight to the point, nice one!

Cardealer2021:
The truth is that with Nigeria current economy 50k(less than a $100) can't sustain a family of four, make the husband reason am
*She will buy food stuff
*Transport
*Snacks for the kids and miscellaneous on her own side.
Let the man make it like 70k at least.

Even me single guy with no responsibility spend more than that a week sometimes not to talk of family of 4

Modified:
Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep

Lool when your wife is also good earning

You are a joker! Sir

I don’t know how people go into relationships with a burden instead of a co-burden bear

I for one, I am of the opinion that if we are to have so many muslim and Christian National holidays, there should also be National holidays for Traditionalist too.

I am not a traditionalist but what is good for the goose is good for the gender. Since we are all focused on empty religiosity in this Nigeria.

Shamelessman01:
Na wa ooo


See video here
https://www.instagram.com/tv/CbIjldMgcU1/?utm_medium=copy_link


You can also download the background music here

https://audiomack.com/dbullofficial/song/never-lived

Baba you’re singing too fast, I couldn’t hardly make out a word. You been dey rush go somewhere after the studio session ni

Relax and vibe we can make-out your words naa.

We don’t need women to be handed important positions just because they are women. This is democracy the requirement is a woman leader that can contest and win elections. This requirement is not far fetched, after all there are women meeting these requirements in other countries.

I am all for gender equality, based on gender equality. The bill is rubbish.

I once had a discussion with a so-called “women’s right advocate”,

Me - “would you employ only women for your business”.

Her - “I would employ the best person for the job, regardless of gender”

Me - “shouldn’t political positions, board seats, etc be given to the best person for the job regardless of gender, if the best candidates are all men then they should have it”

Then she start saying some monbo jonbo, most people are just hypocrites to say the least.