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Romance › Re: Help! I Asked A Girl Out By Mistake by Harddiskng(m): 10:50pm On Jan 21, 2022
AntiYahooYahoo:
So me and this girl have been friends for two months now. So I jokingly asked her out some days ago. I was expecting a No. But she surprised me with Yes.

Though beautiful, I am not ready for any relationship now. Not in the right state of mind. Ever since I asked this girl out. She has done too much to please me. She has spent money to do things I didn't ask her to. Sacrificed a lot. Doing too much to please me. But, I actually asked her out by mistake.

I don't love her like that. I just wish I could tell her but don't want her to feel bad. She also saved me from loosing my job 4 days ago. She told me today that she took the sacrifice cuz we're dating. If not she wouldn't. Guys, what do I do?

No sex yet. Not sexually attracted to her too and I know if I continue faking it. She will one day ask why I never touched her

We're both graduates and works in same company


Modified: I forgot to add that she told me she sent my pictures to their family Whatsapp group and everyone was okay with me. I just feel like I'm in a deep mess
Bruh if you find a woman that loves you with her whole heart in this day and age hold am tight.

You may not love her as much now but love grows with time.
Family › Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Harddiskng(m): 9:45am On Jan 18, 2022
Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,

My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.

Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.

It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.
Why did she abort the baby? I suspect she cheated on you.

Well you don marry am already. Cry to God.

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Young men, shine your eyes well. Spend enough time together, co-habit if you have to. Get to really know the partner you are saying spending the rest of life with. If she is citing religious reasons to avoid this and that, cut her loose.

Shine your eyes, before shuku shuku enter.

Romance › Re: How Do I Stop My Friend From Coming To Our House by Harddiskng(m): 12:14am On Jan 18, 2022
chatinent:
Women supporting women.

Education › Re: 19-Year-Old Virgin Graduates From Taraba State University As She Celebrates (Pix by Harddiskng(m): 3:27am On Jan 17, 2022
GeneralOjukwu:
Virginity should NEVER be a public affair to boast about.

It's very commendable. But for personal consumption if you get my drift.
You are right.

To be honest, I advise guys to avoid any babe that keeps ringing that bell everywhere they go, at every given opportunity. Such babe just want to use it as leverage, imagine using virginity as a tool to appraise your value in 2022. That is just plain manipulation.

Virginity doesn’t make you sensible, it doesn’t make you reasonable or intelligent, it doesn’t mean you be a good wife or add any value to your home. If at all anything it puts a question mark on whether you can satisfy your husband sexually. We all know the high rate of divorce due to sexual incompatibility.

Its commendable, again it’s not a public affair deserving of a medal.
Romance › Re: MEN!! Churches Are Currently The Worst Places To Pick A Wife Today!! (photos) by Harddiskng(m): 1:35pm On Jan 13, 2022
Lmao

The Pastor needed them to man-up and accept wahala they did not start into their lives cheesy

Family › Re: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by Harddiskng(m): 10:54am On Jan 13, 2022
advanceDNA:
Wait.. what is this one saying....??
Your wife refuse you sex for 7 months..
She Said you are irritating her....

Then she said he wants to relocate to her state and she left.... for what..?? So her business can flourish.... so, the business cannot flourish where you and her live together?



Well, I would have called you a Secretary of simp association....but since you enjoy your marriage like that... what’s cheesy our own...
Carry go..
Brother me don stop to dey choke mouth for some people matter.

Some people can open their eyes and walk right into a cess pit, you don’t doubt @OP is a example. Red flag everywhere baba is still talking nonsense

Just leave the @op he hasn’t seen anything yet, his brain would reset by force.

Celebrities › Re: Singer Simi To Upcoming Artistes: "If You Want It Badly, Always Sell Yourself" by Harddiskng(m): 2:26pm On Jan 07, 2022
Chloraseptic:
Who blow for music industry go just dey feel like say he/she did everything right that's why they blew..

They nor know say luck, chance and above all Grace played a big role..
Are you minding Simi and her mediocre music, there are thousands of brilliant artists struggling for a ray for light and their music is far better Simi’s.

I guess when God shines his light on someone, it’s possible for the person to start feeling like she has all the answers.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Save Me From Upcoming Embarrassment From A Loan App by Harddiskng(m): 1:53pm On Dec 29, 2021
Sent87:
Take it easy, don't be an obstacle to someone's destiny helpers.
You don't really know what the op might be passing through now.
A little kindness won't hurt you.
It’s like you didn’t read my posts on this same topic.

“A little kindness” came back to bite me in the ass.

Now i am on team “say no to debtors” angry
Christianity Etc › Re: Church Members Wash Their Pastor’s Billboard In Delta State (Pix, Video) by Harddiskng(m): 9:53pm On Dec 28, 2021
Yinkakolawole:
They are doing the work of GOD.
John 6:29 - Jesus answered and said to them, “This is the work of God, that you believe in Him (Jesus Christ) whom He sent.”
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Save Me From Upcoming Embarrassment From A Loan App by Harddiskng(m): 7:40pm On Dec 28, 2021
Emperoo:
Just pray hard bro, no one knw tomorrow....
Mr Oga! Tomorrow is 29th of December 2021 grin
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Save Me From Upcoming Embarrassment From A Loan App by Harddiskng(m): 4:41pm On Dec 28, 2021
MaverickA3:
Hi hi

With this article, it is obvious you work for one of those companies because your judgement is one sided. People borrow, fine, there is no big deal in borrowing to meet your need. But it is bad when you borrow without the intention of paying back what you borrow or refusing to pay your debt. I don't even need to keep explaining anything to you because you have accepted the fact that you are daft.
Lool I have already accepted that I am daft, say another one tongue

I don’t work for a loan company. I am a Nigerian like you seeing what is going on. I have borrowed someone less than 30k for over 2years now. This person desperately needed this loan at that moment.

I kept asking for my money, up till when things got better for ‘em. This person has celebrated birthdays, bought new clothes, sew new clothes, painted his house, wedded etc. Till now hin no gree pay less than 30k wey hin borrow for over 2 years now.

If that is not wickedness, what is it. Is it because I decided not to embarrass him like these loan companies.

If it was a loan company he took the loan from, the embarrassment he gets is well deserved. Every right thinking person knows that when there are in a bad financial situation, taking a loan without any means of repayment is an equivalent of digging your own grave.

Still you intentionally took these loans, when your creditors comes calling what do you expect? “Well-done” and a pat on your back? undecided
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Save Me From Upcoming Embarrassment From A Loan App by Harddiskng(m): 4:10pm On Dec 28, 2021
MaverickA3:
I'm so ashamed that you believe in the same Bible that I believe in.
I'm sorry to tell you this, you are daft. Do you know the reason why he took a loan? How do you know that he doesn't have intentions to pay back the loan? Why are you criticizing someone who helps when you don't have any help to render? I'm not cursing you, but one day you'll surely be in a position like him and then you will understand life from his perspective
I accept that I’m daft, You that is not daft. Did he tell you why he took the loan?

I can never be in a position like him, it is not even about confidence in myself; i have a higher reason never to be in such a position. I have passed through to real tough times I never ended in such a position. Right now it is already too late for me to be in such position.

MaverickA3:
Lcredit embarrassed me by sending messages to my contacts, people that I have not spoken with for 2 years called me because of the message, they got. Las Las, I paid them.
Is it not your responsibility to ensure you pay your debt. The debt repayment culture of Nigerians is getting so poor thats is why you can’t borrow from the fellows around you.

The fellows you have around you won’t give you money, the organizations that have positioned themselves to meet your needs, you want to run them out of business by not paying up as at when due. Then you would say it is not wickedness.

Nigerians would be contemplating to pay their debt like they are doing their creditors a favor.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Save Me From Upcoming Embarrassment From A Loan App by Harddiskng(m):
Emperoo:
Stop quoting the Bible as if you knw what is inside it, so because probably he collected loan hoping to get money and pay back and maybe along the line he get disappointed, you are now referring to him to be a wicked person.
He told you he was hoping to get money back right lol

Someone is that mostly a fraudster looking to pry on other people’s kindness.

He has even deleted himself, If you haven’t noticed Nigerians are helping each-other less because of fraudulent claims. Everyone works hard for their money that fact that they are sending it to you out of pity doesn’t mean they are stupid and they don’t deserve to be taken advantage of.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Save Me From Upcoming Embarrassment From A Loan App by Harddiskng(m): 1:47pm On Dec 28, 2021
lereinter:
Stop quoting the Bible verse uselessly, the Bible admonishes us to be kind and mercy

But

It's not a must for you help. The measure you serve so it will be served to you
Are those not the exact words that are written in your own bible?

Kind and mercy doesn’t mean enable a bad behavior. The bible clearly condemns the OP’s act.

Instead you condemn what is bad, you are here try to make a case to enable the OP so be can be grounded in his ways undecided
Business › Re: FG To Shut Down Money Lending Businesses Over Violations by Harddiskng(m): 7:19pm On Dec 27, 2021
DropsMic:
Na still Nigerians go suffer las las
Sure banker.

You don’t give Nigerians access to funds, problem. You give them access to funds, Problem.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please Save Me From Upcoming Embarrassment From A Loan App by Harddiskng(m): 2:55pm On Dec 27, 2021
Ayoade05:
I want the good people of nairaland to help me out in paying my loan
Many are mad few are roaming.

What kind of nonsense behavior is this.

MikeMicheal:
I just sent 5k.
Meanwhile, stay away from such apps.
You are an enabler, you haven’t done any good to the OP. Cuz i am sure he hasn’t learnt any valuable lesson. Instead you have reinforced OP in his wicked ways.

Why would you take a loan you know you have no means of paying back.

Psalm 37:21: The wicked borrow and never repay
Education › Re: How A Young Man, Jesse Gideon Abraham Was Killed By His Roommate At Uniuyo (pix) by Harddiskng(m): 6:15am On Dec 27, 2021
Nutase:
This story leaves the reader with unanswered questions.
What is the name of the village and group of people or organization that perpetrated this evil? Releasing it can save a lot of lives.
I thought it was only me.

Why was he losing weight, was he doing drugs or he had no money for food?

Jacobx007:
Who ever works for those evil loan companies will never end well, Do you know how many people they have killed in the course of their illegal loan recovery processes and the so many curses they have incurred on their heads?
Leave his friend alone, it's SOKOLOAN that has killed him and that's how all their employees will die
Why must you borrow what you can’t pay back. Even the good book calls it “wickedness”. Illegal loan recovery process abi after they have tried talking to you like a normal human being you no gree, what is left if not to treat you like an animal undecided
Career › Re: My Boss Almost Killed Me Today Because I Have Not Packed From His Apartment. by Harddiskng(m):
Witnesstony28:
Thanks to everyone who commented, I took the wrong step. But even at that, the man had not right to become violent over the matter.

If not just because of the respect I have for my father, I for show that man say, he's an old man.

Also he's so lucky that I didn't record the event else I would have dealt with him with it by the time I send the video online and to all their parent.

I was able to get a self contain room this afternoon!

So am leaving there to face my life!
The Landlord shouldn’t have caused you bodily harm but I can just imagine his level of annoyance.

This just proves that if you don’t show Nigerians shege, you won’t get result. To move out of the house he gave you out of his benevolence you dillydallied till he came to confront you.

Are you not a wicked person undecided
Family › Re: Gun Bullet On My Dad's Bed This Morning Thank Uord by Harddiskng(m): 5:55pm On Dec 25, 2021
Massiveglory:
Funny stunt. No video of the bullet Falling on your father's bed. Bullet can't just fall naturally like that.
It is an arranged stunt.
It is obvious you are not thinking well, what does this have to do with some religious stunt you have seen Somewhere.

I know someone that die from the same situation the OP described. This one police was chasing a car around the area, shooting sporadically. Bullet pierced through the roof and hit her on her bed.

Christianity Etc › Re: Six Birds Drop Dead On The Lord's Chosen Altar In Lagos (Pix, Video) by Harddiskng(m): 5:51pm On Dec 25, 2021
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Crime › Re: (video) Thief Who Sneaked Into A House Is Eaten By Dogs by Harddiskng(m): 4:03am On Dec 25, 2021
joinnow:
Can the man lift 50 kg if yes then it's an easy task Sis.
That dog max weight might be 20kg self
Just hold the two back legs and fling it
I just dey wonder too. I feel there was something wrong with the man, it’s either he was high or it wasn’t really a vicious attack as claimed (I didn’t see blood).

A man whose life is at stake can fight better than this. Plus in a fight, man vs man, man vs animal, weight class can make all the difference.

If I catch that dog, one smack on the ground ehn. FYI I grew up living with a dog, one good offense; the dog go run give you space.
Pets › Re: Caught A Green Snake And I Want To Keep It As Pet by Harddiskng(m): 8:54pm On Dec 24, 2021
@Op that snake looks venomous (black mouth doesn’t look like a good sign).

Agungun be cafeful na express you dey go.
Nairaland General › Re: Village Snakes by Harddiskng(m): 11:11am On Dec 24, 2021
God1000:
This reminds me of my encounter with a long and huge cobra in 2018, I was pressing phone in front of my room covered with flowers at about 7:30 pm, the generator was on, there was light everywhere, but unknown to me the monster was obviously staring at me from inside those flowers for some minutes until I stood up before it came out, about 3 metres from where I sat down, I almost fainted that night due to the size of the snake.

I tried to kill it but the snake escaped.
Es- what?! If na me that night. I go pack my load comot that area. shocked
Education › Re: Little Boy Sets The Internet On Fire With His Presentation (Hilarious Video) by Harddiskng(m): 11:22pm On Dec 23, 2021
I actually thought he was speaking Hausa lool (it’s not my fault, I don’t understand Hausa. But he’s mumblings sounded like it to me).

After listening to it the second time, I got it. He was actually introducing himself lool
Celebrities › Re: Cassper Nyovest Defeats Troll In Boxing Ring (Video) by Harddiskng(m): 3:14pm On Dec 23, 2021
Lool No go dey do pass yourself cheesy

Nobody is above beating cheesy

Politics › Re: ICPC Clears Yewande Sadiku Of All Fraud Allegations by Harddiskng(m): 4:07pm On Dec 21, 2021
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Celebrities › Re: Poco Lee: Kogbagidi Sends Portable Packing Back To His Village (Video) by Harddiskng(m): 3:58pm On Dec 21, 2021
Why do i feel this promoter and Poco Lee are in cohort to lose-guard this guy.

Cutting him off would be the best way to take all the proceed from his song.

Poco lee was wrong, why did he put his own name as the owner of the song. Then you com feature the real owner lol. That’s just daylight robbery undecided

Finally brethren, trust nobody.

Politics › Re: ICPC Clears Yewande Sadiku Of All Fraud Allegations by Harddiskng(m):
gazza07:
After tarnishing her image abi. Confused govt
That’s the Nigerian public sector for you, once you don’t play ball they would build a case against you.

Just take a look at the flimsy charges they levied against her, when their fellows are diverting billions into personal accounts.
Crime › Re: Identities Of Police Officers Who Extorted ₦22M Worth Of Bitcoin From Lagos Men by Harddiskng(m):
Don’t ever follow Police to the station.

When these rogues approach you be ready to fight and defend yourself any which because your life is at stake undecided
Celebrities › Re: DJ Cuppy Swims In Aura Skypool Dubai With A Man (Photos) by Harddiskng(m):
Mercychen:
This lady should respect herself. Just on first date, you're already opening everything for him and letting him come so close. She should have kept it more decent for a while before going on such intimate outing. It's too early.
Na wa.

Upon the way this life dey so simple and short. Some human go still wan complicate am.

Aunty do what makes you happy promptly, the next hour is not guaranteed. Over-analysis has never solved any problem. Chop life because las-las one-day at the hour wey you least expect, life must chop you.

Travel › Re: Uber Driver Attacks Woman; Uber Deletes Her Account After She Reported To Them by Harddiskng(m): 6:35pm On Dec 18, 2021
Honestly i can only imagine what women face sometimes.

Beating up the customers cuz its a woman is unacceptable.
Christianity Etc › Re: Before And Now Pictures Of Prophet Jeremiah Fufeyin Was Shared Online. by Harddiskng(m): 2:36pm On Dec 17, 2021
Idamond:
………….,… He once visited the Lions den in South Africa
Lmao. Show us the video of this encounter or he can do it again on for us to see and believe or was he referring to the restaurant called “Lion’s den” grin

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