₦airaland Forum

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

Franzinni:
Some females wont learn ... if only she can collect back all the zuzu.

She for take the guy to court a gift is a gift wetin be collect back ...

You dash person goat with rope for neck and you still hold the rope tight ... see this kain thing o.

cococandy:
Wow

No mention of his part in causing the issues? Nawa

Lasunray01:
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Now the advice I seek, we are planning to relocate as a family abroad this year, but I’m really scared. I can actually go alone, but would prefer we all go together since I have the means. But I’m scared if I won’t regret my actions to take her along with this her character. What if I get jailed or lose custody of our child abroad, because she’s a master in blackmail. She can turn simple issue overboard.


Sorry for the long epistle. Just had to pour out my mind. Constructive criticism is welcomed.

Thank you

Justice4Toto:
The rate at which teenagers rent house is alarming. Yes I won't call them yahoo boys.
A guy of 21 that is supposed to be in his parent house is renting two bed flat at exorbitant price. What is on his mind.at the point of paying is not the price of the rent but the freedom to have sex anytime , roll with girls , smoke ,drink
Such drive makes them pay any amount

JackDaAlienz:
We wanted to press charges but the money was too much
The girl is a citizen and i'm a foreigner in her country. This happened in belarus. As a black man the odds were really against us.
So we took this narrow escape as 2nd chance at life.
We bought gifts and flowers for that my neighbour and his family.
I postrated on the floor and thanked his son that videoed that incident. I legit cried because i know that if that video wasnt taken. My life would have been finished because they really believed the girl. And wanted to use us as scapegoats to paint the narrative that black foreigners are violent and should be dealt with. Fear women

JackDaAlienz:
The next day police came to our apartment and took us for questioning. I will never forget that day. I swore that if i survive this allegation and setup. I will never go near any white woman again.

What saved us was our neighbors. They said they heard the girl screaming that night and wanted to record the situation incase police came around. Unknown to her They recorded her when she was outside and in the video it shows her punching her self in the face and taking several selfies.
That cellphone video is what saved the life of me and my housemate.
And to make this matter even worse was that the girl later confessed and nothing was done to her. Case just end like that.
i just imagine if my neigbours didnt record that video. I for dey jail by now.
The media news outlets will say 2 Nigerian men arrested for sexual assault and rape.
And gulliable tools will quickly jump to say im guilty. Only the thought of that, sends shiver down my spine.

Lifestone:
That road we all saw during his Mother's burial ceremony must have really embarrassed him.

Jondelng:
Hhm,, she lied. You have every right yo divorce her.

Its a terrible thing when girls think they want to enjoy life and end up damaging themselves permanently,

I remember a friend of mine, about to travel was asking a 21 year old for marriage, that one said she still wants to enjoy life with her freedom.
Girl is now enjoying life as a baby mama for a useless ragamuffin.

Nobody is against you flexing, but don’t bring problems upon another person.

AntiYahooYahoo:
So me and this girl have been friends for two months now. So I jokingly asked her out some days ago. I was expecting a No. But she surprised me with Yes.

Though beautiful, I am not ready for any relationship now. Not in the right state of mind. Ever since I asked this girl out. She has done too much to please me. She has spent money to do things I didn't ask her to. Sacrificed a lot. Doing too much to please me. But, I actually asked her out by mistake.

I don't love her like that. I just wish I could tell her but don't want her to feel bad. She also saved me from loosing my job 4 days ago. She told me today that she took the sacrifice cuz we're dating. If not she wouldn't. Guys, what do I do?

No sex yet. Not sexually attracted to her too and I know if I continue faking it. She will one day ask why I never touched her

We're both graduates and works in same company


Modified: I forgot to add that she told me she sent my pictures to their family Whatsapp group and everyone was okay with me. I just feel like I'm in a deep mess

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,

My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.

Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.

It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

chatinent:
Women supporting women.

GeneralOjukwu:
Virginity should NEVER be a public affair to boast about.

It's very commendable. But for personal consumption if you get my drift.

advanceDNA:
Wait.. what is this one saying....??
Your wife refuse you sex for 7 months..
She Said you are irritating her....

Then she said he wants to relocate to her state and she left.... for what..?? So her business can flourish.... so, the business cannot flourish where you and her live together?


Well, I would have called you a Secretary of simp association....but since you enjoy your marriage like that... what’s our own...
Carry go..

Chloraseptic:
Who blow for music industry go just dey feel like say he/she did everything right that's why they blew..

They nor know say luck, chance and above all Grace played a big role..

Sent87:
Take it easy, don't be an obstacle to someone's destiny helpers.
You don't really know what the op might be passing through now.
A little kindness won't hurt you.

Yinkakolawole:
They are doing the work of GOD.

Emperoo:
Just pray hard bro, no one knw tomorrow....

MaverickA3:
Hi hi

With this article, it is obvious you work for one of those companies because your judgement is one sided. People borrow, fine, there is no big deal in borrowing to meet your need. But it is bad when you borrow without the intention of paying back what you borrow or refusing to pay your debt. I don't even need to keep explaining anything to you because you have accepted the fact that you are daft.

MaverickA3:
I'm so ashamed that you believe in the same Bible that I believe in.
I'm sorry to tell you this, you are daft. Do you know the reason why he took a loan? How do you know that he doesn't have intentions to pay back the loan? Why are you criticizing someone who helps when you don't have any help to render? I'm not cursing you, but one day you'll surely be in a position like him and then you will understand life from his perspective

MaverickA3:
Lcredit embarrassed me by sending messages to my contacts, people that I have not spoken with for 2 years called me because of the message, they got. Las Las, I paid them.

Emperoo:
Stop quoting the Bible as if you knw what is inside it, so because probably he collected loan hoping to get money and pay back and maybe along the line he get disappointed, you are now referring to him to be a wicked person.

lereinter:
Stop quoting the Bible verse uselessly, the Bible admonishes us to be kind and mercy

But

It's not a must for you help. The measure you serve so it will be served to you

DropsMic:
Na still Nigerians go suffer las las

Ayoade05:
I want the good people of nairaland to help me out in paying my loan

MikeMicheal:
I just sent 5k.
Meanwhile, stay away from such apps.

Nutase:
This story leaves the reader with unanswered questions.
What is the name of the village and group of people or organization that perpetrated this evil? Releasing it can save a lot of lives.

Jacobx007:
Who ever works for those evil loan companies will never end well, Do you know how many people they have killed in the course of their illegal loan recovery processes and the so many curses they have incurred on their heads?
Leave his friend alone, it's SOKOLOAN that has killed him and that's how all their employees will die

Witnesstony28:
Thanks to everyone who commented, I took the wrong step. But even at that, the man had not right to become violent over the matter.

If not just because of the respect I have for my father, I for show that man say, he's an old man.

Also he's so lucky that I didn't record the event else I would have dealt with him with it by the time I send the video online and to all their parent.

I was able to get a self contain room this afternoon!

So am leaving there to face my life!

Massiveglory:
Funny stunt. No video of the bullet Falling on your father's bed. Bullet can't just fall naturally like that.
It is an arranged stunt.