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Bonesbreaker:
i once had this same experience with this said lady,she was leaving with and was working then for 1 year 6 months i was making secret arrangement for our wedding i never informed her on it for 4 months this lady refuse to have sex with me the funny part is she will watch me masturbate while she sleep i had no evidence on her cheating so i could not rope her up with it,this is someone am going to marry one day i become a pure mumu i so much love this lady that i lost interest in any woman around me based on i intend to settle down with her not knowing she was have marathon of sex with one lanky guy like that, the funny thing i have access to WhatsApp and Facebook but do you know this useless girl will chat with this guy and delete the message instantly and even she did not save the guys number so i could not get to know in and out, so i pay one guy to keep a day to day tap on her from work to everywhere she's going any with camera and recording video, i proposed to her she accepted i paused on the marriage preparation she had sex with me that night i proposed i vexed pour all my loads on her, her game plan has worked on me then

Most people don’t realize when person loose-guard them till its too late. It always in the attitude, interactions, most people just don’t want to admit it to themselves.

Always pay attention, beware of nuance shift in loyalty.

Kevv420:
You are wrong I don't use her for sex only because I have had spent a lot of money on her including 2 major surgery . I take care of all her needs and give her whatever she wants. If I didn't love her I wouldn't be spending a lot of money on her. Like I said earlier I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitudes.

Brother you messed-up

@theBolded she don see replacement. Count your losses and move on.

Itzi8:
She's tried, means she can't satisfy you at the moment. You're in the mood, but she's not means that she went through a lot for the day, you find a soft spot to talk her into doing it.

For her to even wear pant to sleep means a whole new concept bro, someone has more to offer, but you don't have to raise any hell. You let her be.

But for you to tear her pant and forcing yourself on her was wrong; will you even enjoy it?

Since she kept resisting, you should have left her.

Last time in love, I can be in a room with my ex for 1 week, and in that 1 week, we only had sex thrice, not that I no sabi do, or she no sabi give me, but there's more we can do outside sex.Though I don't demand for it, but I'm free to take it at will, she too can be in the mood, but I may decline, but sometimes I have to do it to make her feel better.

At the bolded is the way love works.

That babe babe had disconnected with op for a long time he was just too foolish to realize it. Him trying to force her was wrong. Just let her go.

When a babe/guy truly loves you, no matter how she/he tire reach. Them would make effort #fact.

I laugh at the people suggesting marriage like it would change a thing in such a situation. Marry a partner that denies you sex? Very foolish advise.

Better have a partner y’all are sexually compatible with.

@Op you don mess up, let the babe go. Full stop.

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@Op no shame for anything, whatever your hands finds to do, do it.

I know a small puff-puff road side that is run by males and they are very doing well.

Let this be your mantra:

Proverbs 14:23: There is profit in all labor, but mere talk leads only to poverty.

endsarrrs:
Holiness SH!T

That elk gat an attitude

It’s only in an advance nation Elk fit dey get attitude. Make e enter Naija first, nobody would tell them to run when they see humans.

Unruly7:
I did boy boy for 8 years in Abuja between 2008 to January 2017
I was given 1m to start business



My good friend I met in the market too after he served his oga for 9 years they chased him out because of 40k they found under his bed



My other guy had issues with his Oga because he bought bag to be putting sales money without telling his Oga



What boys go through in the hands of the so called Oga isn't funny at all especially when your freedom is getting close


After they gave me 1m they still set me up with phone they almost arrested me as God may have it
Phone fell out of my madam clothes

It was a disgraceful thing that day
She did apologize to me

But till today me and her no de talk

They been wan ruin me


I senior my boss kids but he's first daughter don ever slap me by order from her mother
All because I wake up to go pee in bathroom unfortunately I met the small girl in the bathroom

My offence was I didn't knock before entering meanwhile the girl didn't close the bathroom door door because of fear

Well she asked her daughter to slap me infront of my Oga and other kids

My boss felt bad but can't talk
The wife is bossy

Senior man this your story touch me. Working 24/7 for 8 long years for N1m.

Omo! God help us. The things we humans do to eachother ehn.

From my observation, it’s because we lost our human values: honesty, loyalty etc have been replaced by greed.

Most of the “masters” don’t establish their apprentice in business when the appointed time come. It became a system “masters” used to take advantage and use their apprentices without any commensurate reward.

The younger generation have also lost values of patience, stewardship: now everyone wants to be his own man. Who can blame them in a society where trust is going extinct.

All these people saying “you no wise” are part of the problem with Nigeria.

You shout bad governance yen yen yen but y’all are the main reason it’s so bad to do business in Nigeria. The reason legit people/business find it hard to get any kind of funding.

Trust doesn’t exist in Nigeria any longer, personal i trust no one not even my family members. Nigerians are fundamentally dishonest and evil.

@OP write a letter to your bank explaining that you were scam and they should put a lien on the account, go to EFCC office and submit a petition.

With a little effort and money you can catch her*, show no mercy when you do. It has been established that mercy is weakness in Nigeria.

Can the Nigerian prison system afford the cost of life imprisonment?

yorubakid:
Omoh,I need to start my own kidnapping business too... Looks like it's the fastest way to cash out now in this shithole ..300million naira just like that

This is the picture this administration is painting if they don’t nip this in the bud asap.

People are starting to see kidnappings as a lucrative business.

I remember in the late 1990s when armed robbery rate was so high, people took matters into their hands and started killing robbers mercilessly before the rate dropped. My point is until Nigerians have a strong deterrent there is nothing they won’t engage in for money.

Kidnappers should be sent to the court as soon as they are caught and given death by hanging lets start with that.

chiommy123:
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No matter how hard you try some girl would not see anything wrong with it. Na them

Godoverevery:
So collecting money from a guy you know is a fraudster....someone who use different things to rub is body in your presence is what??

Only foolish people accept big gift from someone who doesn't have a legal source of income.

Won't be surprised if ur bf is a yahoo boy.

The problem with some Nigeria girls pass lack of common sense, it has deep roots in greed.

Whether he used her or not is a matter for another day but someone that does not own a business nor is he a highly skill professional gave you N1 million you just go grab am without any second thought. Do you even value your well-being.

Kunlelee:
Nice gesture but can't they do bank transfer.

If Prophet do bank transfer how would people know about his good deed. No where to televise bank transfer and cash is safer nobody can easily steal cash from him naa

Wetin i know sef

lexy2014:
they are serious bullies. even d word transphobia is meant to bully people. they use d media, sports and movie establishment to bully anyone who has opposing views about homosexuality. they did it to holyfield and kevin hart. dont be surprised that no one will be arrested for bullying this woman. if it were d other way around, we no go hear word. thats why i love a canadian professor, jordan peterson. he doesnt give them breathing space and he doesnt allow them to bully him. he speaks his mind any time any day

Phraences:
Madness everywhere. They want validation. If only Nigeriancan be great. These oyibo countries are loosing it seriously.

It’s the paradox of tolerance at play.

When people calling for tolerance are tolerant themselves. The tolerant ones end up getting destroyed.

This nonsense has come to the breaking point.

You can’t be stressing others cause you want to feel good about yourself. Do you think I would start worrying about what you identified as when send an email to everyone in my organization

Close shave with death, na wa. He better be apprehended asap.

But Nigerian women and this chop, clean mouth mentality or it is a culture. I really don’t understand it

The other day a Nigerian woman lost her life in sweden or was it italy (I forgot). A man caters for you with his last penny and best effort and you think you should end the relationship with betrayal no be juju be that.

Y’all should better learn to be independent 100%.

flokii:
I don't think Mr Seun understands the kind of country we are living in where muslim men want to hide their wives at home, fully kitted in hijab never to be seen on the streets.

Hardly will you see female senators or reps member from the North cos of their religious fanatism. It's only Southern women that get the opportunity to contest, vote and be voted for due to a much liberal disposition in the South.

It is one thing for some of our elderly leaders to be clueless.

But when a youth like Seun that should contribute sound input regarding how we can solve Nigeria’s problems start promoting religious sentiments and making unreasonable comments online, what hope does Nigeria have?

BKayy:
The most sexist movement in life is deciding elective posts based on sexes.
What they should be campaigning for is meritocracy not sacrificing certain posts to incompetent people because you want a 50:50 nonsense.

Brother i tire oo.

In advance countries, women campaign and win elections along side their male counterparts.

They are not given the position cause they are women, which is even an insult to their ability.

Seun’s idea is just plain stupid. Anybody that wants a position should prove he/she capabilities by raising up to the occasion.

Is it not the same Seun that has allowed bigotry, tribal and religious sentiments to thrive on Nairaland. I am not even surprised he is spewing this nonsense.

HenryDion:
You no get money, yet you go born pikin. Aswear, that pikin go hate you pro max... Bet me

It is plain responsibility if you ask me, when a full grown adult knows he/she is struggling to even get a decent meal in a day. Instead of you to cry to your God and double your hustle, you then bring a child to the world to join you in the suffering. Maka why

cococandy:
What happened to his father?
The father can’t fight for him?

When you get to the afterlife please ask him - “Ogbeni wetin do your papa…..”

The mother of the deceased should get a good lawyer and fight hard to ensure she gets the death sentence.

I kuku trust my own maale, if court no go her way. Other arrangements go don dey ground

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

She has given you her answer now, she wants to keep you as an option. Don’t waste your time with nonsense. Cut communication, on to the next one.

richmond500:
We saw him as a hero cos he presented himself as a freedom fighter.

Goodluck, Fmr Gov peter Odili, Nyesom Wike were all his fans, he had no enemy

If only his people know the billions of naira that hits his account every year since than while they wallow in penury.

I’m sure you are wondering ”if she can’t take carr of herself, how does she want to take care of you or the children”.

Let no one decide you looks (outward presentability) is important, I for one don’t like dirty people (general uncleanliness or scruffiness).

Well take God you open eye see am before you jump inside (marriage), as you don see the matter it’s left for you to decide.

Some people would not just rest, information this, update that.

I usually get Marvel vibes when one particular person post here (DPR recruitment alumni would understand)

Las las y’all would hear when the new intake enter.

Everybody dey talk “They are your parents”, like all parent are good parents. Good parents leave inheritance for their children if you guys don’t know, check your bibles.

What happens when @Op needs his house? Until they start dragging the ownership of the house with him, with claims of how they spent their own money to build it too. Wetin consign me sef.

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

He has already told you, it is “your pregnancy”, do whatever you want it with it.

You decided to get pregnant now your next step is to try and break his marriage right lol. You think baby mama is easy, It will shock you, your suffer will not have part 2 lool.

Modernizer:
The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Brother leave her to become an evening newspaper in peace. Trouble dey sleep, yanga go wake am.

There are far better babes out there. Marriage is a life-time commitment, I don’t pray that you or even my enemy to spend a life-time with such a character as a wife. E no funny at all.

All these things plus “low empathy”, its like you don’t value your life nor peace to even consider. You see woman with bad behavior, your coconut head still wan carry am as wife. There is always a lesson to be learnt, you go see something.

Loan money to anybody on this forum and buy headache for yourself.

@Op go to loan app/ Microfinance bank to take your loan.