₦airaland Forum

flokii:
I don't think Mr Seun understands the kind of country we are living in where muslim men want to hide their wives at home, fully kitted in hijab never to be seen on the streets.

Hardly will you see female senators or reps member from the North cos of their religious fanatism. It's only Southern women that get the opportunity to contest, vote and be voted for due to a much liberal disposition in the South.

It is one thing for some of our elderly leaders to be clueless.

But when a youth like Seun that should contribute sound input regarding how we can solve Nigeria’s problems start promoting religious sentiments and making unreasonable comments online, what hope does Nigeria have?

BKayy:
The most sexist movement in life is deciding elective posts based on sexes.
What they should be campaigning for is meritocracy not sacrificing certain posts to incompetent people because you want a 50:50 nonsense.

Brother i tire oo.

In advance countries, women campaign and win elections along side their male counterparts.

They are not given the position cause they are women, which is even an insult to their ability.

Seun’s idea is just plain stupid. Anybody that wants a position should prove he/she capabilities by raising up to the occasion.

Is it not the same Seun that has allowed bigotry, tribal and religious sentiments to thrive on Nairaland. I am not even surprised he is spewing this nonsense.

HenryDion:
You no get money, yet you go born pikin. Aswear, that pikin go hate you pro max... Bet me

It is plain responsibility if you ask me, when a full grown adult knows he/she is struggling to even get a decent meal in a day. Instead of you to cry to your God and double your hustle, you then bring a child to the world to join you in the suffering. Maka why

cococandy:
What happened to his father?
The father can’t fight for him?

When you get to the afterlife please ask him - “Ogbeni wetin do your papa…..”

The mother of the deceased should get a good lawyer and fight hard to ensure she gets the death sentence.

I kuku trust my own maale, if court no go her way. Other arrangements go don dey ground

fvck:
So I met this lady and within a month I decided to tell her I'm going to see her Dad,and wants to settle with her, I said I was tired of the delays and search, she was all loving and nice, till one faithful afternoon she called to say she isn't in, cos she doesn't feel same way.

Me I jejely calm down and felt maybe she's playing a game not to look too cheap.

She even suggested we become friends...

Did I bring up the marriage matter too fast?

She has given you her answer now, she wants to keep you as an option. Don’t waste your time with nonsense. Cut communication, on to the next one.

richmond500:
We saw him as a hero cos he presented himself as a freedom fighter.

Goodluck, Fmr Gov peter Odili, Nyesom Wike were all his fans, he had no enemy

If only his people know the billions of naira that hits his account every year since than while they wallow in penury.

I’m sure you are wondering ”if she can’t take carr of herself, how does she want to take care of you or the children”.

Let no one decide you looks (outward presentability) is important, I for one don’t like dirty people (general uncleanliness or scruffiness).

Well take God you open eye see am before you jump inside (marriage), as you don see the matter it’s left for you to decide.

Some people would not just rest, information this, update that.

I usually get Marvel vibes when one particular person post here (DPR recruitment alumni would understand)

Las las y’all would hear when the new intake enter.

Everybody dey talk “They are your parents”, like all parent are good parents. Good parents leave inheritance for their children if you guys don’t know, check your bibles.

What happens when @Op needs his house? Until they start dragging the ownership of the house with him, with claims of how they spent their own money to build it too. Wetin consign me sef.

Darhmmy:
We used to be lovers back in uni , We broke up at some point and lost contact. Earlier this year we reconnected at a party and it was obvious we still had feelings for each other.

We started dating and everything seemed nice at first. He never told me he was married. After months of dating , i started to get suspicious as he wouldn't let me visit his home , instead he was always coming to mine and meeting up at hotels. We had a big fight about it and he finally told me the truth. He kept on pleading and asking that we continue dating. I couldn't even leave if I wanted to, I was in love with him.

I am 2 months pregnant and he has been avoiding me. He calls just once in two days and has told me to do whatever I want with the pregnancy , that he is fine with my decisions. I want to keep him and the baby and I'm scared he may ghost up on me. Last night I found his wife and some of his relatives on Facebook and I want to send them texts about it. I really need advise on this.

He has already told you, it is “your pregnancy”, do whatever you want it with it.

You decided to get pregnant now your next step is to try and break his marriage right lol. You think baby mama is easy, It will shock you, your suffer will not have part 2 lool.

Modernizer:
The hot temper, impetuousness, some bossy-ness, independent mindedness, low empathy, high ambition...all those tell tale choleric features give it away.

Brother leave her to become an evening newspaper in peace. Trouble dey sleep, yanga go wake am.

There are far better babes out there. Marriage is a life-time commitment, I don’t pray that you or even my enemy to spend a life-time with such a character as a wife. E no funny at all.

All these things plus “low empathy”, its like you don’t value your life nor peace to even consider. You see woman with bad behavior, your coconut head still wan carry am as wife. There is always a lesson to be learnt, you go see something.

Loan money to anybody on this forum and buy headache for yourself.

@Op go to loan app/ Microfinance bank to take your loan.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Funny enough they are from another state

Babes from Lagos will go to portharcourt
The ones from enugu will come to edo state

That is how it is done....

This man you are a real G no be just hype.

@Op that is how they run their package. Most these girls travel far away from home to another state to a place where they think they won’t see anyone that can recognize them.

The part about them looking like a regular toast-able babe in broad day light hmm na God hand man dey.

It’s simple when money is not your problem you can follow your passion.

philipianlobbos:
You are very correct, Engr. Auwulu came into DPR and met existing list of people who did interview, waiting to be called. He totally discarded the existing list and employed his people. Now he has come into PEF again to meet an existing list. PEF hopefull should just forget it except otherwise.

That man is highly and shamelessly nepotistic, sometimes I wonder how people like that get into positions of power. No regard for well-being of the organization (whether the people he is bringing in are the best/have what it takes to perform), no regard for due process, no regard for fairness and equity.

I feel sorry for Nigeria. With people like that in charge, Nigeria will only get worse.

Note: If you had accurate inform that APL would be shared during a particular period, if that time came and passed without you hearing anything, also consider the possibility the APL sharing exercise was actually carried out but you no hear pim because it wasn’t for the masses.

Dalsa:
This is life, see how this PEF ES was truncating this recruitment, and now he is no more, I will see how he will continue being stubborn

You mean he was truncating this recruitment because he didn’t allow the powers that be to take over the entire recruitment completely cutting sons/daughters of the common man out.

If the New PEF ES is Engr. Sarki Auwalu and he has power over this recruitment then I’d definitely tell you that people that don’t know anybody at all in this recruitment are in trouble. The DPR experience has taught me that.

You would see a pattern in the DMs to Oloni. Its niggaz putting beeches on a pedestal.

Trust and respect is earned, unconditional love is conditional. Don’t allow any babe play you cause you love ‘em.

People make people change. Women complain they can’t find a good man but your kindred have turn good men to bad men. All the JJC would read this and be in shock, this knowledge would be the beginning of their conversion.

This world hasn’t seen conflict yet.

saphiere:
Hmmm... So sad.

To be honest and not to sound overly cold, there is nothing sad about a woman intentionally getting pregnant for a man then having expectations that the child would be glue that joins them together. Not once but twice.

I have met a single Nigerian mum with three kids from three different fathers like WTF. I don’t pity her, she had expectations thinking she could get pregnant and the men would have to stick with her cuz who makes the same big mistake three times in a row.

Children are not meal tickets, you bank on to save you from your shitty life only for you to play the victim when shit doesn’t go your way.

tiredNigerian30:
Last year, I met a coursemate who graduated, was working and owned a bet shop and I decided to work for him for 18k monthly. One day I had an emergency and needed to visit my parents in the village, I was literally begging the dude for 10k. He told me he's not owing me any salary, that I should wait for the following month. This is someone that will prefer to take you to a bar and buy drinks worth more than what he pays you . Same person I used to help with assignment would make you feel it's your fault that you didn't have wealthy parents also.

Politicians would readily give a teenage girl 200k to buy an iPhone, but won't support a vulcanizer with 80k startup fund. You will see MDs treat their female staff like queens and the male staff like slaves. If by mistake you're not handsome, you're doomed. People won't even want to talk to you, and at a point you'll succumb to despondency.

I just read epistle of a man that feels entitled to other people’s money.

These people made their money, working with whatever God has given them. Whether they choose to spend it on booze or babes is not your business. They don’t owe you anything, nobody does.

Go and make your own money. If you want to beg, just come out and beg with your full chest, stop complaining about how other people are spending their money; your action is close to witchcraft.

Nuttella:
Cubanachief needs to hit the gym. I dont like men being fat. C'mon.......

And No I am not body shaming him, just stating the obvious.

Did anybody tell you that rich fat men like you or even find you attractive?!

AmuEbule:
Why don't you have good minimum wage in Nigeria?

Can Nigeria afford a good minimum wage. Be like say you never check the financial health of your Nation

Lifestone:
This has alway been the crux of my argument on Dollar/Naira exchange rate.
There is no way you can get such at $2.00 in the US. Those stuffs you see there can not be less $10.00 which is like N5,200.00 in Nigeria at an exchange rate of N520/$1.00
Value of currency is supposed to measure in term of the basket of goods it can purchase.

Brother you can’t compare standard of living in US with Nigeria.

Do you know what minimum wage is in US?

Nothing mega. It can happen even to the best of us.

I remember that year, once in a blue our very brilliant secondary school maths teacher dey miscalculate once a year hin dey miss road completely sef

Matthew 10:36 - A man's enemies will be the members of his own household.

No stay let her be realigning your destiny with curses, Family is not defined by blood; it is simply anyone that always shows up to fight for you through thick and thin NOT someone that looks for any venue to put you down; that person is your enemy, plain and simple.

Princecanada:
We went together to see the doctor for post pills, but she declined taking any that since I didn't release in her, she will be fine. And that she has pills she can take too. I was furious at her, but had to respect her decision as it is her body.

Three weeks after, she called that she thinks she's pregnant, that she missed her period which is very unusual. I was so mad at her and told her, I didn't want to hear any of that as I made it clear to her from the beginning. She started crying and got emotional, that got to me and I told her not to worry, that I will pay her bride price and marry her. I earn about half a million monthly, so I believe I can take care of her and the kid.

That is not your child.

They somehow got to know your financial status and want to milk you dry.

She refused morning after pills, took abortion pills, had her friend call you to remind of same pregnancy lol. This babe is obviously more street smart than you are giving her credit for.

Continuing communicating with this Lady that is playing games with you if you want to ruin your own life. End all communication and move all, she even told you point blank, she can’t get pregnant without wanting to . It was her call, baba move on with your life.

paulolee:
world people wey no wan use eye see e progress..
we didnt see such moves like this all tru his time in Turin o
but that enemy of progress went all length to pull such a stunt bcoz she knew d world would be watching cr7 return to epl n i pray the online world ignore her..
if cr7 is guilty or not, It should be decided in court n not using dubious means to kill his joy..
if man go fit avoid woman wahala eeh, u no get wahala atall for this life n dts d price that footballers do pay for d being rich n famous bcox its not easy.
what do these hoes stand to gain if their allegations led to d downfall of made Footballers? just cash or wat??

You just wait, it would get to a time when commensurate prison sentences would be handed to false accusers.

ennyj01:
The post is warning people that did not do test or anything and is expecting manna to fall from heaven for them.
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No be so DPR post disclaimer that year.

No be like so other govt organization dey post disclaimer.

This na normal level. They don’t want to do the right thing but want to save face.

Well I have strong faith in God unto this one sha.

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If you ask me they are wasting time and upon of that attracting unwanted attention to the recruitment, actions like this always have unpleasant outcomes.

siofra:
Show us the way ma'am.

Na woman you be .

A woman no man wants lmao