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SeunWedsLinda:
I forgot to add that I did send her a message after she refused picking my call the last time I called.... Asked why she no longer pick my calls... She never did dignify me with a reply.... So Should I still proceed with the message you endorse I send her?

Thanks boss.... I did hit myself with a pitch book albeit subconsciously

Ouch gee! U snuffed off the lil opening left.

Kindly dust urself up n forget her entire generation !

But if I was the one, I wud immediately activate the jealousy move!
Luk for any of her friend that is more endowed than her n hook her up with all uve learnt here.

When she finds out that she is so into u n sees how u guys flow,, she wud try to contact u.

While @ it, meet other gurls...don't stop meeting them.

SENSE PILL 24 : Not Until u Meet that One meant for u, Ur heart is too Big for just one to carry, don't kill her , spread it in pieces.

HARDDON:
U r not just a nice guy gee, U r an Extra special, super dupper , first class Engineer Nice Guy who's sole idiosyncrasy is a penchant for buks n bunks.

Hit ur self with a pitch book ! Arrh!

U r not gud with cocky n funny? Well now itz time to learn , read these pages line for line over and over again! Until u can apply the drills to ur daily life! Funny thing is, c&f works on everybody! It is the most attractive way to keep a convo flowing.

School stuff discussion? Like a gurl goes to sch, gets bored to bone with the stewpid lectures, finally gets home n just wano forget the lectures and everything n njoy something diff, u go bringing back the stess of the day n lectures? Common Gee. How insensitive can some1 be?


Point of correction, we gift ladies audience not d other way round . n we don't request to see ladies we just see them.

U sold out gee, she doesnt njoy ur company.
Who knows maybe a sharper guy was blowing her while u were calling @ her gate!

Here is what u shld do:
Send her this message: wow, I didn't know u luved me this much. too shy , u had to send ur gf to tell me?
I noticed last time but I was just too busy wit boring school talks. I've got something very important to tell u, Call....


Don't ever call her again until she calls

If she still doesn't respond to that msg, know u spoilt it long time ago! Yea u did. This is us trying to fix ur ish.

U can still pull the jealousy sting, look for one of her fine friends n hit it off with . make sure she gets d memo.


U wud learn ur lesson n move on Mr Boring Nice Guy. And then work on ur self to be beta.

SeunWedsLinda:
Mr Harddon, I commend the effort you put in to make sure that we "nice guys" quit being nice and draft into the level of the "Alpha male". I've read your contributions through page 0 and I must say you're tha bomb. However, I've got this problem I'd love to share in light that you proffer a solution because as it stands, it seems I've already been caught up by the act being a nice guy.

There's this girl I met in school(night class)... Didn't request her contact that very day albeit we do discuss about school stuffs often when we meet.... Decided against seeing her at some point(roughly a week). Afterwards, I requested for her contact which she gladly obliged giving me. I'm not too good with being corky and funny per se and I could tell my talks were becoming boring already. Our discourse would only center on school stuffs and nothing more. I once asked to see her over at her place but she declined. I made subsequent attempts and she finally gifted me a chance. As usual, we only talked about academics.... Called her two days after our meeting and requested to see her again . She accepted but when I reached her house, I called numerous times for her to come out but she refused picking my call. Also called her the following day to no avail. Waited a week and called again all to no avail. What do I do Sir?

U r not just a nice guy gee, U r an Extra special, super dupper , first class Engineer Nice Guy who's sole idiosyncrasy is a penchant for buks n bunks.

Hit ur self with a pitch book ! Arrh!

U r not gud with sassy n funny? Well now itz time to learn , read these pages line for line over and over again! Until u can apply the drills to ur daily life! Funny thing is, sassynwitty works on everybody! It is the most attractive way to keep a convo flowing.

School stuff discussion? Like a gurl goes to sch, gets bored to bone with the stewpid lectures, finally gets home n just wano forget the lectures and everything n njoy something diff, u go bringing back the stess of the day n lectures? Common Gee. How insensitive can some1 be?


Point of correction, we gift ladies audience not d other way round . n we don't request to see ladies we just see them.

U sold out gee, she doesnt njoy ur company.
Who knows maybe a sharper guy was blowing her while u were calling @ her gate!

Here is what u shld do:
Send her this message: wow, I didn't know u luved me this much. too shy , u had to send ur gf to tell me?
I noticed last time but I was just too busy wit boring school talks. I've got something very important to tell u, Call....


Don't ever call her again until she calls

HARDDON:
Question is: ARE U INTO HER?

Sounds like u ain't. She isn't ur kinda gurl huh?

If u r not into her, start ignoring her , U know how gurls behave when they ain't digging u? Yea, apply that . she wud get the memo n stop bugging u. Or tell her u r engaged now n ur fiancée isn't too keen with her incessant msgs.

But if u r into her, know that the blame is on u 4 d boring convo not her. The only day man let a woman lead, he was driven out of the garden of eden.

U should know that it is ur duty to lead as a man n they naturally wud follow. If u want her, change the flow of the discussion from dis day n start bursting her balls garnishing with fun flavour

N u shld look to take things physical without much delay, how to do that is on pg 11 , 12

Btw, to all Mr nice guys, the bolded is what happens when u start calling too much , getting needy n clingy!
This is why she ignores u because u seem not to have a life of ur own !

Isn't life funny? Another guy might be dying for this same gurl now but she be ignoring his msges n calls yet , here is she with someone who want some kinda space n doesn't njoy her incessant worry!

Those u want, don't want u, those u don't want keep monkeying for u ! N d circle goes on



......but with sassy n humor , u conquer it all! Have dat dream one

DavidTheGeek:
HARDDON nice job bro. Currently reading from beginning... really gaining. I got a question tho.

There's this girl, she's (kinda) into me but here's the problem, she doesn't allow me to rest! Always messaging me on Whats app morning, afternoon, evening everyday! We met about 2 -3 month ago. The issue is there's nothing to talk about cuz she doesn't give "us" space. Basically our conversation is mostly boring but still she keeps messaging. I feel one day she would just lose inerest. What do you suggest i do?

Question is: ARE U INTO HER?

Sounds like u ain't. She isn't ur kinda gurl huh?

If u r not into her, start ignoring her , U know how gurls behave when they ain't digging u? Yea, apply that . she wud get the memo n stop bugging u. Or tell her u r engaged now n ur fiancée isn't too keen with her incessant msgs.

But if u r into her, know that the blame is on u 4 d boring convo not her. The only day man let a woman lead, he was driven out of the garden of eden.

U should know that it is ur duty to lead as a man n they naturally wud follow. If u want her, change the flow of the discussion from dis day n start bursting her balls garnishing with fun flavour

N u shld look to take things physical without much delay, how to do that is on pg 11 , 12

Btw, to all Mr nice guys, the bolded is what happens when u start calling too much , getting needy n clingy!
This is why she ignores u because u seem not to have a life of ur own !

Chuksprince:
Good day, I just came across your articles and I must confess it is dope and enthralling... I have a problem... In my office there is this sharp beautiful IT student that came newly and I have an eye for you with good intentions though.. I need to settle down soon. So after some months I asked and collected her phone number and we started chatting.. I invited her for lunch at an eatry and she accepted to my surprise though.. At lunch I expressed my desire and intentions to her but she said she is not ready and that she have a guy she love(she has a relationship). But am not a guy that gives up easily and I think all women always have a guy.. So I persisted.. Invited her to my house, after some no no no she came the same day.. And we watch movie s before she left to her house... I keep telling her my good plans for her but she keeps refusing.. my love.i insisted and keep calling her sweet names, trying to make her say yes and all that shit. But now I read your articles I understand I 1.was using the wrong approach.. So my advise is
What should I do now cos I really love this girl
2.she I let her go since she insisted she is in a relationship and love her guy
3.what should I do differently from now on if I still have chances of getting her?
Thanks

This is why wud keep drumming
It into every guy that reads this thread:

NEVER CONFESS UR JROD/GUD INTENTION INDUCED LUV/Lost TO ANY LADY!

It wud mostly put u at a disadvantage . n u lose ur balls instantly the day u do that cos she wud now be totally in charged n can therefore control u subtly!
He who SENDLESS/turns the other down, Control any r/ship whether in bf-gf or marriage.

Men reason things differently from woman.

As u r there Pouring out how much Luv u feel for her, she id reading this meaning into it:

" he obviously is saying this cos he wano lay me! That was what Don, Steve, Uche , Paul n the others told me n after I opened my legs for them, where r they now?

This must be the the line he uses on all d gurls he meets. He sounds like he's on heat , how cud we have hanged out just twice n he already Luvs me? Hmmmm Guys r really all the same!

I have to be careful with this guy , he ain't getting into dis honey pot.

martoz:
hey bro,u too much..m feeling u and u r on point...hv got huge prob...atleast m comfortable approaching girls Aldo I still get litle approach anxiety,aldo i heard almost all de gurus feel dsame..hv bin approaching girls and its lyk i find it difficult to tk it to d next level..d tym to cal nd or how to chat dem up on how we can meet up na whala..dey flakes a lot...bro I need ur guide,d road seems DISCOURAGING,,buh wen I found dis trend i was hapi dier z someone wu z on d peak of game...

About the anxiety u feel, not every one feel that . did when i was learning this royal robes but now, i don't.

I always use this analogy when I discuss this: let's say u are the CEO of a company and u advertized for employment n people came for the interview: r u the one that wud get nervous asking questions or the interviewee ? R u the one that is going to have to strive hard to impress he interviewee or the other way round?

If u can have this mentality n practice what I said in one of the pages about having a friendship mentality when meeting new ladies, u wud naturally overcome it.....

To ur Que,

We have been dealing with how to get physical after collecting the number .... When to call, what to way, for how long ,when to have her over , where to go etc....we have dealt with these , kindly read from page 11-13


U shld know this: ladies only flake out on regular guys because they already know what he is looking for: s3x.
So unless she wants it, she wud naturally flake or come with her friend to eat ur money !
Someone like u needs to practice in phone /calls first before seeing them.

Here is a lil secret: do u know that most guys always want to invite ladies over their place so as to sleep with them ! Now u shld stop doing that. Have the boss mentality , it is not every gurl u invite to ur place. Infact, don't invite them over to ur place, sit out, go swimming, or some place. Not ur house. I have had gurls practically begging to come know my place even when I told them I'm engaged to be married next week. This is because, I send less!

Imagine meeting a gurl n u go telling her how beautiful ur gf is.......sends mixed , confusing feelings... But that is just me. U eida ride, or roll .



SENSE PILL 23: JUST LIKE U CANT KEEP THE BEE FROM HONEY, LADIES CANT AVIOD A GUY THAT KNOWS HIS ONION

micskales:
bros my own case is very serious,,,, could you believe i dont have a bae? despite am a good looking guy

No bae? Just buks?


Ehmm, maybe its ur reading time in life

aieromon:
Full time

Manchester United are the 2015/2016 FA Cup Winners

Very lil to celebrate


Its only mid table clubs like a33'nal that celebrate this kinda cup.

We'd gladly let this go for a top 4 finish

rocasmilatos:
hi, i heard u you missed me so much and cant wait to melt into my arms in warm embrace. thatz my line, call." Dat was the fire msg oo. But i need to learn what to say and how to say it unlike normal guys

Oh that one ....... Nice!


The thread is full of so many words to use or draw inspiration from n coin urs . learn em as we all did b4 we cud start thinking more on our fleets( quick wit) n give switf n nerve wackling answers

HARDDON:
Learn the Royal Robes

Rush to :

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/2


Thank me leta!

SENCE PILL 13: Men Like switch, get flipped On. Women like Nobe, get tuned up

HARDDON:
Learn the Royal Robes

Rush to :

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/2


Thank me leta!

If u must meet ladies n date, kindly note:

1) women don't choose who they get attracted to n the power lies within the palms of d guy who GETS IT( knows his onion)

2) they r illogical in life n in Luv: men and woman r wired differently, we hv diff psychological make up n therefore see/reason things differently .

Men r logical ie they respond to big b00ties, fine bady n melon standing b00bs......very logically physical.
A man might have one pair of shoes n one faded jeans, he 'd tell u, "that wud do for the week"

But women respond to more of emotions n intuitions . this is why a lady can have warehouse wadrope n yet come complaining she ain't got nothing to wear!
they see different shades of one colour, men only see one

Ladies want guys that don't want them or guys that SEND them less, guys too busy to worry about some feeble fine bones

witty/funny lines in meeting women:

lets say u got talking and she asks the boring question( never answer a boring question st8t!):

"Where do you live?"

you reply with

"I'm not telling you. For all I
know, you could be a psycho stalker

or huh, with a funny face, and say: so u and ur crew can come gang rape me @ night? no im not telling

or you can simply say, I live on tries, I luv the breeze up there, until one day i freeze and i fell!



Btw, all bio questions are boring questions! never ask them, never answer them str8t! make fun of her asking them



Find out more from d thread on my signature

fuckDmod:
U better forget that stupid ass woodward be suckin van gay cock,am tired of seeing both of dem in old trafford

El woody is gud with d Biz aspect not footy.

I think Van hell was once a defender in his playing years cos only defenders celebrates goalless draws

Segadem:
hmmmmm,but is there any better and experienced coach out there apart from the mouthy one?

Wow, can't bliv u asked that . I hate the mouthy one as much as u do .

Segadem:
I hope this is not the voice of man u fans

Man utd cudnt have descended so low as to celebrate mediocrity ! That is the birth right of a33'nal

djblue007:
Winning for Man U. They deserve this. #TeamChelsea.

Nope we don't!

We gladly sacrifice this for a greater gud!

Van hell needs to go to hell

All hail Van Hell the man that prefers fa cup to global champs league futball!

I wish I doesn't win it so he can get sacked ! Cos d way I see El Woody , he doesn't wano sack d guy .

Imagine scoring just 46 times in a full season, full 38 games! A whole club!

Yet Rinaldo, one man, that is not even a striker , gets 52 !

telim:
nice thread

Yea, sure , hope u ain't a nice guy to them ladies though ....

Tell us ur story

lrguru:
his plan is to bae the chick, and u want him to start first as friends? then another sharp guy comes and toast the chick and gets her while you remain a friend and adviser.

U dont just get it do u?

B4 u met her , guys have been all over her, after u long gone, they wud still keep coming....
So why u choking on ur d1ck like a peacock on heat?

It is this perspiration n despiration , that get guys friend zoned , and they turn needy , clingy wussbags n never live to their full potentials .

Know that Women r illogical.

Also, from basic economic laws, the higher d demand, the higher d price!
Wooing makes her feel she is high in ur demand n begins to task u to prove ur love which leads u to start sending recharges, buying lunch dina n Bfast, paying her sch fees n all sortS of wacky things just to make her say yes!


An interviewee has no right to interview the interviewer........ Go figure



Please soak up the thread on my signature , u wud see the light



#BossBall

Menzy86:
I totally agree wit d suspense and 'unconventionality' tactic. I have like 10 years real wooing experience and in dat tym never met a girl who doesn't at least pick my calls. Reason: after meeting and gettin ur num, it takes me like at least 3 days to call u d first time. I knw 4 sure most women easily become contemptious of an over calling chyker

10 wow wooing years ? prof pro , we greet.

Well, my drills says, woo not. cos every other guy is wooing n toasting , dare to be different .

Last part is very kul, every other guy wud rush to cal after colecting number, but ofcos, u keep them waiting for the presidential call



Link on My signature is a comb of honey for guys

lrguru:
wrong move bro...make any lady ur Friend and u my dear friend will be friend zoned.

How can some1 u met n friendzoned right from d on set friend zone u again? See?


Check my signature

fabulous2000:
everybody...help me out in dis fresh chick...
My primary skool frnd...nw we ar both in diff
uni...though I've seen her once since primary
skool...we reconnect through Facebook...she ask
4 mai whatsapp...we been chatting though I av nt call her since just decided 2 call her ..call her 2day nd she sound
comfortable with me..though joke with her a lot
abt her skool....hw do I step up dis game....I don't
want 2 rush her...pls reply me fast guyz...

We ain't out to make gurls comfortable we us! We don't give gurls full seats in our lives, rather we keep their hair on edge, we make them so drawn to us they lose appetite for fud.

U shldnd too: a gurl that is comfortable wud soon friendzone u, soon start making demands n playing pranks with ur hearts!

Ur answers r in these threads, read it all up.

But a quick one: page 11 I think has the answer u seek.
Since u guys r on whatsapp , use that to ur advantage

rocasmilatos:
Chaiii Hardon. I used the part u said about text msg on two gals that have been dissing me and it worked like fire.they call me immediately i sent the text. I was feeling like a boss. Thanks for all this.

worked like fire huh? But u got no lighter! Hahaha

Btw, so that other guys can learn , what thread is that msg talk located? Cos we have a lota them


Know this: everything here is real life experience ! It is like mathematical formulae, once applied correctly, it can't but yield same result!

Now dont screw things up! make sure u digest all u have read here and keep the tension going


#BawseBall!

HARDDON:
Sense Pill 2: THE WAY UP, IS D WAY DOWN

For ladies r like money, the more u chase them, the harder it gets


SENSE PILL 3: Suspense; Works like charm on women.
Always Keep her Guessing! It puts them on edge ,out of their comfort zone n what they r used to wit other guys! " all guys are the same "...they say and they are right! so Dare to be different

DRILL NUGGET 2:

HOW TO APPROACH LADIES( THE VERY BEST, YOU GOT TO HAVE STANDARDS NOW),
GET THE NUMBER AND GET OUT( WITHIN 5MINS)

To start off, we would like to advise: for now, your aim is to try and build your confidence, douse tension and expunge the fear factor first; let's make friends instead looking for mating dates.
D

SENSE PILL 3: Go with FRIENDS making ATTITUDE NOT DATING/MATING one.

have it at the back of your mind that for every lady u meet from now henceforth, you wud be genuinely interested in meeting them and making NEW FRIENDS not the boo0bs and down below.


Reason for this is that when you go with a dating attitude,
it breeds tension, which sometimes breeds stuttering, oozing off of needy personality( doing all to please her ) , losing your respect and self worth and ultimately losing her. or you get friendzoned or turned into a mugu( this usually happens when she senses u can do anything to please her but she doesn't really like u, just ur cash).


and if peradventure she rejects you, talks down on u and embarrasses u in public( never experienced that,How can u also? Armed with fun n quick wit?), u wud handle it like a man should and not let it make u withdraw into ur sheLL from d world of women



Meeting a lady with just friendship attitude, removes the tension, u are more likely to be u and in full control of the convo and how it swings, throw in cocky and kill it off with humour. by this, you learn to be more relaxed around the super hot ladies, fear factor is blown out and u get to realize them hawt ladies luv to meet guys as much as guys luv to meet them, just that they have filters you must get tru b4 they shine tru

a practiced hunter is frigid with his weapon, he aims and takes out targets( no matter how far) but to get to that peek of perfection, one thing is most needed; practice. he wud miss alot of great kills while at it, but if he keeps his head down, and learn his trade, Experience wud be his life long anchor.
R
Remember, the monkey earn his right to life, by humping from one tree to the other.


So first learn to crawl( make friends) b4 you dare to fly( mate dates)



go out and meet ladies, whether they appeal to you or not, just poke some fun and walk on by while she laughs loudest. build your confidence, then u begin to get selective and only approach the super hawt ones as your balls grow and you learn to think more funly on you feet!


If u r a Guy and u havent soaked in this thread, u r missing out greatly!


Rush now:


https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only#42357837

Sense Pill 2: THE WAY UP, IS D WAY DOWN

For ladies r like money, the more u chase them, the harder it gets


SENSE PILL 3: Suspense; Works like charm on women.
Always Keep her Guessing! It puts them on edge ,out of their comfort zone n what they r used to wit other guys! " all guys are the same "...they say and they are right! so Dare to be different

Give a touch of excellence to all u do!

But ehmmm, bow tie under this hawt sun?

If only christians wud follow Christ , we wudnt have these confused , mutiplicated religious sentiments as we do today.


May there come a time when Christians wud really appreciate what it is like to be one and throw these religious sentiments away!

HARDDON:
Learn the Royal Robes

Rush to :

https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/2


Thank me leta!

No need to toast anybody , is she a chicken?

Click on that link and learn what wud make u a super success with ladies.

One of the SENSE PILLS in there says: Money n Fine physique wud get You fakes while ............ wud get u real deals.....
Find out

Learn the Royal Robes

Rush to :

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Giving lil Incentives ....

Respecting d bizness n not coming late to work !

marvelck:
A girl once told me the reason why most girls find it easy to move or jump into a new relationship after ending a previous relationship, its because of their desire to forget their ex, get over the heartbreak and put any pain of the past behind them immediately. No longer it doesn't take a girl a long time to find another boyfriend after breaking up from her ex. You know most naija girls do have enough guys or toasters bt side while in a relationship. So she can easily pick any of them to replace her ex immediately.

Works both ways!
Any one that have contingency plans, can easily move on .

Guys have lota side chick dey can convert to main bae.
As gurls also hv that one guy lurking @ d fore ground