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heniford2:
lol and the female word continue with nothing to show for it expect that little thing inbetwn her legs

And you? What do you have to show?

Ishilove:
I'm tired of reading made up stories so all threads are assumed guilty until proven otherwise.

All threads?

Ishilove:
I'm always wary of well written posts on Nairaland. This one in particular is really supish. Make one Hints writer no use me catch cruise

Many threads are unrealistic but never mind.

Klass99:
@ The first bold, I concur.

@ Second bold, you know when we were in secondary school we used to say things like ''out of sight is not out of mind'' ''distance makes the heart fonder'' but in reality these things are not true (speaking for myself).

If you haven't formed a bond with someone before distance interrupts a relationship, it can be hard to keep that person in mind or maintain a relationship with them.

And if her love language is quality time, touching, holding, cuddling etc I can see how things will quickly fall apart with distance in-between them. So, on that point I don't really blame her.

You have actually said the same thing using different words. Had she formed a deeper bond / loved him more/truly, she would not have given up so easily. Or ... she would have at least tried to make it work before she would give up.

don4real18

You dodged a bullet.

The girl is not very sensible and very selfish (judging solely based on what you have told us about her and the wedding plans).

The lesson for you is not to get mesmerized too much by a lady's appearance to the point that you ignore all the red flags. A girl who can forget you easily because of some distance has never truly loved you in the first place. That was the first red flag.

Lamanii22:
That light bleed is called implantation bleeding

Yeah, it could be this too but only a doctor can confirm or a pregnancy test.

Upset700

I am very very sorry for what has happened to you. I don't blame you. Love has a way of making people lose their mind. I understand the pain you are going through and you need time to heal but you eventually will. You are young and you have your life ahead of you. I know you can't see beyond him now but trust that his decision to move on is for the better. It's better for you and your unborn children.

It's hard to let go and move on but trust that you are moving towards something better. One day you will be grateful things didn't work out with him. Trust that something much better is waiting for you. You are not only moving from the past but you are moving towards a better and safer future.

Maj196:
When he does not take charge of his life and allows a vagina person do that for him. He's not fit to be one of us.

The thing is this. I think people who talk/type like you are very insecure in their masculinity desperately trying to prove how strong they are by putting other men down.

Taking charge of one's life is not a masculine trait. Every adult should do this.

Walkee:
everywhere

In my environment fvckboys are not being championed. We expect our boys to be and do better.

I am sorry your father is so harsh. I guess it's the only way he knows how to push you. Many parents do not know how to encourage their children and do a lot of damage even though they mean well.

I'm saying all this because I'm grateful to have come to this point successfully

That's the most important part. You need to make yourself proud and nobody else. Focus on your achievements and try to be a little bit better every day.

Maj196:
weak boys.

What makes a boy weak?

Some women bleed lightly during the first period after conception but your wife should go for a check-up asap because it could also mean that the egg has not embedded itself in the uterus.

mvem:
what of the guy ramming the lady...why do we see the oart of the lady only as immoral but tolerate the immoral part of the guy ?

It's called hypocrisy.

Walkee:
a man's "value" doesn't reduce with sexual activities. A boy who has fuccked all the girls in his compound or department would be hailed as a champion while a girl who fuccked all the boys in his compound would disparaged and dismissed as a worthless whorre.
A boy is shamed for being a virgin while a girl is hailed for being a virgin

In your environment.

Maj196:
With all these pusssy boys around. Some girls are more useful than boys

Pussy boys? Define pussy boy.

WoundedLamb:
This is as result of societal predilection for the male child. If a society has made it in such a way that only male kids inherit their fathers' wealth or encourages the boy child to travel out to make money, build a career, etc. while the girl child is expected to stay at home to learn some kitchen skills and how to keep a home, then it makes sense why people from that society perceive the male as far more important.

What a waste of potential.

danilmo:
So that I know abt female body is now a crime?? With the volume of research, knowledge at this age u feel know the body system is taboo and an act to peadophile

Why are u like this self..

Ok let's go out of this discussion..

let's go into technology, Programming, Politics, Autos, legal and criminality, commerce/entrepreneurship if I will not finish u up there.. your 13 nor reach

Common Reprductive system is now a secret that shouldn't be known by opposite gender..

You have tried to teach several females about their reproductive organs for two days and you think you are ok.
Kontinu! It's been very amusing so far.

BRATISLAVA:
A key reason why African men and Asian (Arab) men are backward is their unnatural obsession with sex and women's bodies.

His virginity definition is astonishing. That someone even reasons like that is something unfathomable.

These men need intense reorientation. This is how they go abroad and end up in jail. And abuse minors. And continue the cycle by indoctrinating teenage boys into their demented ways of reasoning.

Obsession indeed. This is why nothing useful is ever invented or made by them. They will be discussing and monitoring vaginas like the moral police and be useless at the same time.

BRATISLAVA:
You would think he has a vagina.

Nigerian men need a lot of healing and reorientation. Their mindsets are troubling. Comment after comment on what sex is like for virgins, coming from men.

At this rate, no female child is safe, if all grown men want to do is deflower girls then turn around to talk about promiscuity in young girls. As if they aren't non-virgins and the reason female virgins are in scarce supply (according to them).

If he had studied anything else as eagerly as he has been studying vaginas he would be the next Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk.

But be nice, he has given us a new definition of virginity.

A man who has never had sex must NOT be called a virgin. I repeat MUST NOT be called a virgin.

fineboynl:
I have also reported you. You are mentally unsound.

Shut your trap pedophile!

Everyone is an expert on everything nowadays.

A toddler is not supposed to be in school. They can go to kindergarten but it's too early for formal education.

fineboynl:
how do you tell if she was molested. She might enjoying it. I have seen a 11 years old having sex with a guy of 21. It's was not forced they have been doing it. How do we find out.

The boy look the girl in the eyes. And she followed him to a corners. That move was suspicious to one of my friend who was very sensitive and he knows that boy for been a notorious person. Then he went after them and pipe only to find them having sex. One thing that shock us it that how his penis was entering that small girl. And It was clear they have been doing for long And she was already a pro at such age.

I have reported you to the supermods. You are sick!

danilmo:
Ridicule while u expose ur ignorance ever since
Ridicule by telling me first Coital is painless, ridicule by telling me hymen isn't a sign of virginity, ridicule while ur meagre knowledge on how research are done..doing the Chidinma crude question and answer u self I tire for u.


As u no wan learn oya lemme na..

Mr Gynecologist, tell us why sex is painful for a virgin.

danilmo:
Oh, so u want to know now.. question wey u suppose ask maa enlighten u, na now u just wan know..

Tell me please first I LL enlighten u why an average lady is tight and feels pain at first Coital all in some other abuse cases..

Infact I will take u through Virginal wall, anatomical makeup , disease condition, birth and after birth care..

Enlighten me so I can ridicule you some more until you add tightness to the hymen to define virginity.

danilmo:
I talk base on research , seeking from knowledge, personal experience with females around me..

So u have u met any as u claimed to know too??

2nd question, yes she is a virgin of course.. if I have sex intimacy with such lady won't I know?? The tightness, pain , won't I know??
U can't tell me u lost it via something after I dive in and it's all free like the normals now.. abi wetin u wan hear again..

Now Compare to men.. u can never know even if a IndecentStar is claiming sexually unexposed.

U too get wahala

Why is the lady tight and feels pain?

danilmo:
This girl self.. .. What are u driving at gan?

Ok since ur question is born out to jettison fact eh.

Oya how did u now know there are some women born without hymen?? How did u know some lost theirs via exercise?? How did u know some lost theirs via sexual act?? Because u claimed the above also..

So now take back ur jettison questions.. Did u also say hey beautiful, how did u lost URS?? Is that how u knew those things u claimed??

Get sense, get sense .
How can u be asking me how I know..

You are the one who said that he has never met a girl without hymen like you interview women on the state of the vagina.

Now let me ask you another question which you will dodge like all the others I have asked you but anyway. Is a woman who has lost her hymen due to exercise a virgin or not?

Coronavirus1:
I want to asked women this question.? Do you prefer your husband marries 4 to 8 wives
and he will not cheat on you Or you prefer your husband marries you only and cheats on you with side chicks?

Do you prefer lung or pancreatic cancer?

danilmo:
See analogy this one weak..

To ur question.. Yes she is a virgin because aside the hymen, the introitus is tightly closed and will also experience her first coital pain.. or have u heard of painless first coital experience from any of ur folks...

That doesn't rule out the fact that a well experienced lady can also feel pain base on genuie obvious reason ..

But my conclusion which ure sighing away from is Hymen is a sign of virginity, Coital pain is experienced at first coital exposure in almost all women..

Wen we say therr are sure way forward, that doesn't mean their aren't slight exception and that are rare...

Many "hymenless" sexually inexperienced lady u see lost theirs due to physical factor, not as if all are born like u're claiming.

Now aside the hymen, the tight intoitus is still intact. That why first Coital is painful Cox only mentral flow has been passing through not phallus.. hence first Coital, whether hymen is present or not, an average lady will definitely experience ncoital pain..

Haaaba, why is this too hard to understanderstand self

Back to my initial point nthat there is nothing like male Virginity, it's just a psychological hoax talked by people like u . No difference between a Sexually exposed and unexposed Male.. infact a porstar man can claim he's sexually unexposed deciefully without any obvious physical sign to disprove his claim..

Shey i told u to avoid me unsay Lai Lai.. I think sometimes u people need to be given some good dose of schooling..

Oya bye

Danilmo: Hey beautiful, what's your name?

Girl: Chidinma.

Danilmo: Have you got a hymen?

Girl: No.

Danilmo: How did you lose it?

danilmo:
Ok what's the statistics of women born without a hymen.

I don't know. You tell me. You have 'inspected' enough virgins to know as you insinuated.

Danilmo: Hey, what's your name beautiful?

Girl: Chidinma

Danilmo: Were you born with or without hymen?

Also why do women feel pains at their first sexual exposure despite all lubrications and arousal and feel lesser pains after more sexual exposure??

It's a thing of the mind. An inexperienced lady is more likely to be tense because she is nervous and scared. Likewise, an experienced lady can feel pains too for different reasons.

My point here is hymen isnt the only distinct change between a sexually exposed and non exposed lady..

Presence of Hymen is one sign of virginity
Tight virginal intoitus is another..

That is my point.

U're only sighing away from the obvious and trying ur best to laugh out fact by falsely accusing me of saying Hymen is the definition of sexual unexposed lady.. that LL b too crude of me now. Lol


Shey u ll leave me alone now.

Now we are expanding our narrow-minded definition of virginity to hymen+tightness.

So let me ask you again, is a baby girl born without hymen not a virgin?

So a wife needs to check husband's emails to know where their money goes? I will never understand Nigerian style marriages.

A grown up fully employed man (?) has got time for four side chicks?

When other men spend time with their families, have interesting/healthy/educative hobbies and/or develop their communities this one will be behaving like a mad teenager.

danilmo:
Oya avoid me.. Whatever u like believe. It doesn't change the obvious thing we see..


My own is op should use his head and don't fall into any emotional blackmail as u all wanted in d guise of ill protecting a gender at the expense of ops want.

Why would I avoid you when your illogical definition of virginity amuses me so much?

danilmo:
Lol, where did u see me plainly defining it the crude way as accused ??

All in a bit to make ur cohorts happy.. abeg avoid me.

Here ...

danilmo:
Talking abt virginity is only for female.(the hymen has a reason why it's present in female but absent in male genitals.)

No difference between a sexually active man and a non sexually active man.. tell us if u have any pls...

Stop putting emotion into what we are seeing face to face... Male Virgin kor..

At least you have enough shame to deny the stewpid comments you made on this thread; of which some you have already deleted.