₦airaland Forum

Klass99:
You're just determined to undermine and derail this master piece thread, bitter wannabe feminist like you

You should be taking notes and highlighting the sound-bites.




You forgot to add logical, I've fixed it.

Vision101:
I'm very surprised at the opinion of ladies here concerning men. Yes there could be some of these boys that go over the board in what they write concerning women but that is not a reflection of all men here.

I for example have been here for a long time with the Monika saintmog. I only come here when my head is full and I want to read and laugh. I wasn't commenting.

I created this new Monika to start commenting. Most times I only look and stir up the comical part of the discussion just to laugh. Sometimes I feel very uncomfortable with the use of language from some male here to women.

Assuming that I'm available or interested for the request that the OP made will it be right for I to be labeled the way the ladies here labeled all men?

Dailyparrot:
It happens.

In fact, an adult child that says yes to every opinion of the parents will live to regret it in the future.

One of the things that makes you an adult is ability to take risks and dawn the consequences.

My sister got married and while waiting to complete the process of the marriage rights, she changed her mind not to proceed with the marriage. All efforts by my mother to stop her from leaving the marriage failed and today, she never regretted leaving. My mother's utmost interest at that time was to see how daughter married and to avoid gossip from people.

When our second son made money, he wanted to demolish our old house and build a new one but my mother asked him to start building his own directly beside our old house instead of demolishing it and building in the same spot.

My mother's thought was that she didn't want my brother to finish building the house only for him not to have money again to build his own elsewhere which will cause problems between him and our first son since the land traditionally belongs to the first son by birth.

My mother regretted that decision up till her death because our second son built his house beside our old house and continued to be richer and richer. He now refused to rebuild the old house he wanted to demolish and before you know it, he got married to a wicked woman.

The rest is history. Over 15 years after, that our old house is still there and our first son does not have what it takes to rebuild it.

Personally, my mother allowed me to take any decisions that I wanted in life.

So YES! mother's opinion can be rebuffed and it will still be the best decision ever.

On a similar case, my sister advised me not to take up my admission because I applied for Economics and was given Economics Education to study. Rejecting her advice and proceeding with the admission was the best decision that I took.

She was concerned about my future earnings and potential as a classroom teacher. Today I earn 5X more than she does from her federal government job.

It is not only parents but elder siblings, pastors, Imams, and people we hold with high respect. There opinions and decisions especially when it affects an irreversible part of life should be researched and scrutinized before accepting it.

They’re humans just like you and make decisions based on sentiments.

ImaIma1:


Sarcasm

cococandy:
And they make it our problem

cococandy:
The situation is hopeless

sigiyaya112:
Why do Nigerians think that getting married is an achievement

Klass99:
Lol mad !!!!

As a side chic my job will be to screw hubby and collect his money, what does his likes and dislikes have to do with the transaction nah?

Please open the business for me or at least introduce me to one of your brothers and I won't go near hubby nor screw him.

Lol @ entering highway with no breaks. He is 60 years old and rocking it, I can understand why you're catching malaria.

Ishilove:
You are a proud masturbator, to the extent you even gave yourself the nomenclature. Oga carry your wahala and well serviced preek dey go.

cococandy:
I don’t expect you to.

For someone who reads a post where one woman & few men murdered another man, and then thinks the solution to such societal problems is to limit women’s rights, I’d be surprised if you actually had any neurons to understand anything at all. I’m surprised you can actually read. That (being able to read and write) is probably the pinnacle of your intellect anyway.

Klass99:
Dem use marriage swear for us in Africa? - Will forever remain my favourite question, phrase and take away from Nairaland!

I can't stop Lol and smh at what I just read. Hathor you will do well to let me be your hubby's side chic, when I'm done with him, please hook me up with one of your brothers.

I hope hubby and brothers are good looking like Idris Elba, Mel Gibson, Richard Gere or our very own RMD. Dick size doesn't matter one bit so long as they've got game in other ways.

TarOrfeeek:
An evening newspaper is looking for reader.

The wall is imminent so a beta cuck, blue pilled simp is desired.

'A real man'



TRP

greenie77:
A side chick knows all these about keeping a man and she is still a side chick to a married man, not wife-material enough to be married by a single guy?

Abeg if a husband dies in the hands of a Chidinma will his wife go to hell fire for it?

We have normalize a cheating husband not to take responsibility of his infidelity, I clearly recall the commandents where God said "Thou shall not commit adultery" He did not say "Wives, your salvation is tied to preventing your husband from committing adultery because if he does, you are hell-bound".

A married man who is not bothered by the risk and ridicule he exposes his wife and children to through his promiscuiity, is mentally not okay.



Eyah Madam is willing to pass over her husband's side chick to her younger brother!

All these delusional minds that concentrate to come up with such scraps of write-ups are minds who needs to validate their disorderd personalities

binarymachine:
What Is Breakup?

I initially thought of skipping this part because the rate at which people including children get into relationships is rather very high. Still, so we can still do justice, we are going to try to explain this term in the simplest possible way.

Breakup is a situation whereby two individuals who were initially together in any kind of relationship cease from being in such a relationship any more thereby parting and going separate ways.

Dailyparrot:
Like someone rightly pointed out, it's generally about getting fed up with the presence of humans and not girls in particular.

It's the life you have lived over time that you have gotten used to it. When you marry and have your family with you for some years, you will start feeling inadequate when they travel or leave you for a long time too.

It's about what you are used to.

I feel the same way too. Mine is not up to days, just don't even sleep over at all. Come, we do the do, and you go.

The perfect solution is to live in a multiple room apartment. That way, you can have your privacy while pretending as though the other person isn't there.

I have had several of my friends try to come live with me in my self contained apartment but I declined. It's better they say that you refused to let them in than saying you treated them badly in your house.

Smile4mee01:
Sometimes I think hypothetically to when Adam was created. He seemed to be cool, playing with the animals, tilling the ground and flexing.

When eve came, he was glad to see her, someone to enjoy with bla bla bla...

Then satan used her , they all fell.

Had kids, cain killed abel... bla bla bla.


I am sure Adam must have relished the time he was alone by himself,


Thats by the way, women do you feel this way sometimes too,

CHoccolaTE:
I believe they are two different people.
Their post history shows it.

But I an kind of hoping the whole thing is a farce and made up to decieve nairalanders because I am really feeling bad for the small baby in the story.

budaatum:
Open a thread and beg again on Nairaland, of course.

It's clearly become a profession now and new scamable Nairalanders register everyday.

CHoccolaTE:
I am just feeling sorry for the poor children caught up in this mess. One is even still a baby wearing diapers.


Madam lizzy try going to your church for help. You are not likely to get any money from nairalanders.

Meanwhile the man that had unprotected sex with a 19 year old child and started this mess does not even have the conscience to help his children.

Mindlog:
How menstrual flow inhibits leadership capabilities, still baffles me.

yinkeys:
You don’t know how to argue with facts.
You’re only good at ad hominem, insulting & the undying need to be right SMH.
This is what most women do when they can’t win an argument.

If you check my posts you’d see I stated this up somewhere

In conclusion I’m not saying all women but most, over 90%.
I might exclude the women in STEM disciplines
Apologies for all the grammar errors
I’m actually multitasking right now & barely proof read before submitting

Maybe you don’t know what STEM means
Looks like you don’t know the population of women on a global scale that don’t like anything relating to it.

SenecaTheYonger:
You fvcking demon. You realize if we had more people like your son, this country would look better than Japan.

How do you even think people from civilized countries behave? Please note that I don’t consider America a civilized country, only Japan and Singapore (maybe some small European countries like Luxembourg etc)

We honestly don’t need people like you, OP, in this country. There’s millions of your type here that’s why it’s a shiithole.

Yes, all offence intended.

cococandy:
Yet, women-led countries are currently doing better than the rest. Why do y’all love to regurgitate nonsense that’s based on no actual fact. Why? Why are you like this? Women are emotionally unstable? Says the gender that starts wars and kills millions just for lust and ego trips. My brain hurts from this foolishness that y’all have been raised to believe.

There’s even no reason to acknowledge the rest of the gibberish you typed in your post. Nothing based on any type of fact. Just beer parlor talks and incel propaganda.

Yet you’re the “logical” ones?

#facepalm