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Angelfrost:
Did he force his way into the home or into the woman??! Would it be less an act of adultery if it all happened elsewhere??!....

Attacking, maiming or killing the man for "Visiting" the woman is a crime punishable under law! Why go to jail because your wife or husband chose to be indiscreet??!

You are right but you can imagine how a person can lose control under these circumstances.

SMH

Angelfrost:
A real man would transfer any aggression on the cheating hoe of a wife rather than bother with his fellow man... Same should also go for women and cheating husbands (Side chick ought to be left alone while all venom released on the bastard husband)!

A man that had the audacity to enter his home? This man should be grateful he doesn't get killed.

Variety is the spice of life.


So they say ...

INTEGRITYA1:
You post suggested both loved the kids, that's good observation.

Do you now think the man should be at the mercy of the ex wife and her new find love ? Don't forget the post said the man is financially able and it also shows he cared about those children.

It seems the man patiently waiting for the ex wife to see how far she can carry on with the financial obligations that comes with the children up keeping.

Now she's getting down and the new find love can not meet up as expected with those finances. So, you expect a man with his brain fully functioning to succumbed to their request.

I said it in my previous comment that; you should forget that.

Two options here.

The man is not willing and not ready to be funding the children outside his custody.

1. Either they keep struggling to provide for those children and let the man be.

2. To relief themselves, they should let the man have the possession of those children.

Simple as ABC.

Like I also said earlier, if the man is not showing any concerns before, not caring at all or not responsible; it's a different case.

@bold
How is the man at their mercy?

CHoccolaTE:
In Nigeria after a certain age unmarried women are mocked and insulted for being old spinsters. Unfortunately.

And the high rate of unemployment does not even help the chances of people getting jobs when they are still young. Some people are still job hunting 6/7 years after University

I know but I would much rather be mocked than ruin my life. The people mocking these ladies won't feed their babies.

Andrew87:
I got married to my wife. I love her both with the kids but the biological father of the kids is a bit wealthy and left the whole responsibilities to my wife since last year.

This is not funny because I am part of her although we hustle hard but it's not easy. He insists the kids must be with him if he must take care of them but a member of his family informed my wife that he plans to take them away and she will not see them.

Please friends what's ur take on this? Times are really hard.

What would you do if they were your children? Would you wait for someone else to support you? You married your wife and by doing so you decided to become one so help her raise these boys.

CHoccolaTE:
This is why marriage doesn't favor women.

Imagine sacrificing her career and ability to make real money so that you can focus on raising children that bear another man's name, then after divorce you are back to square one. The evil ex-husband refuses to take care of his children then their mother who is too old to get any meaningful job starts running helter skelter to take care of them.

Men are so evil.

But why would a woman sacrifice her career? There is no reason to. Secure your future first, then have children. A woman's biological clock does not start ticking before 40.

Ebengosandra:
I am from drc congo

Ok. Have you ever seen the father's passport/ID?

Ebengosandra,

where are you from?

Klass99:
Lol I saw you display it on one thread recently. I think it was the one where OP deactivated, the mother of 2 kids who was in a bad situation or so.

I was moderately annoyed.

PastorM:
Children are visitors
Short video: 1 minute

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lE7ui_s_aMo

First of all, there should never be a competition between spouse and children.
Secondly, if it is about your children leaving then we could as well argue that the husband is to leave the wife first because men die earlier which makes the children more important because they are the ones who will look after their mother.

But like I said, there should be no unhealthy competition. A family is unity.

Klass99:
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Thank you , my reaction shows I am growing nah!

Believe me, my first reaction to seeing all the mentions of my moniker and the exchange between them was to go in guns blazing and be just as vile and as nasty as she was. But, I said to myself calm down and don't play into the hands of these people. I haven't seen that Ogunboy moniker around for ages the same way I haven't seen Romangalactic but out of no-where he resurfaces and Mariahangel quickly jumps on his posts to say I am the one. I mean, what is or was their motive? The both of them?

Still on the bolded, I get really impressed by people who are able to put jackasses in their place without getting low and dirty like those jackasses. I have seen Coc.ocandy, you, eyin.juege and a few others do it. It's an art/skill I want to learn as well, so this was a chance to practice. Additionally, I am mindful of the fact that some of these male trolls don't like female unity amongst us on this forum and they are usually out to create rancour, animosity and bad blood with their alternates, while claiming the alternates is this female, that female, A, B, C or D.

Finally, I was genuinely curious to know what her issues are with me and why she thinks or rather believes I am ogunboy. But, having seen where you said she has accused you of the same thing too, I realize this may be a pattern with her and it's not worth expending any more energy on. She seems to enjoy directing her own brand of toxicity towards women though, I will never forget how she went after Buka on one of Buka's threads. I find it curious/suspect that she has been quiet/silent not answering the questions I asked her.

Count me out. I don't have this skill. If I don't react, it's because I am too lazy.

Klass99:
@ bold, you've got that right.

I was enjoying the thread too until page 4 or 5 where the female bashing began, the female in this case, being Poco their favourite target.

I stopped reading and exited because I was in a great mood yesterday, having received good news about some things and someone, I didn't want my mood ruined.

Imagine my surprise when I logged in this morning to catch up on front page news and current affairs, only to find myself in the middle of the toxicity as well! Except mine was coming from a fellow female instigated and spurred on by one of these idiots.

Poco gets under their skin, she is witty and funny and has a way to nail things. All of this gets to them in a way nothing else does.

Congratulations on the good news! I am happy for you. Don't let the thread ruin your joy.

The same female who accused you has accused me too of being someone I don't even know. I was surprised at your reaction though. After all these insults and disrespect she has rained on you or who she thinks was you, you still kept your calm and composure. I am glad you didn't let yourself be dragged into this madness. Respect!

I admire women like her.

Husband and wife agreed. Why isn't the family supporting them or at least minding their business? Dream killers.

I am not clicking on any links.

LienwaltAbel:
The way he bans accounts for nonsense comments. You can't make a misogynistic post or one that can potentially cause trouble.

Facebook could do more. They have given a platform to all sorts of hate groups, conspiracy theorists and fake news. It's governments who have been pressuring them to do something about it.

LienwaltAbel:
Funny enough they'd gather in one useless thread and start calling themselves redpillers when they are either incels or misogynists, all they talk about is pant and pussy smell which irritates the hell out of me, this is why I am beginning to see the good in how mark Zuckerberg governs Facebook. Very disgusting and hopeless individuals.

The redpill thread is how long? Over 600 pages? Men go their own way (MGTOW) talking about women nonstop.

Obsession can never be logical.

@bold
What do you mean?

pocohantas:
A social media user @Queenprecy_ laments over the cost of a bread she bought at a supermarket.



She went back there and posted this again;

I can get 11 of them abroad for the same amount.

LienwaltAbel:
Just terrible, he says you are irrelevant then goes on to say please face me. NL continues to show me that a lot of Nigerians really have mental issues.

Many of them keep trolling several females at the same time. Whenever Poco mentions one of their monickers, I am like ok so it isn't only me they keep mentioning without success? I blame Buhari's economy. They are bored, desperate and without hope. NL seems to be the venue to take out their frustrations.


@bold
I was reading the thread last night and realized that the issue is very serious. Some people really need help. I have seen a lot but I was shocked and spooked this time around.

Juliusmomoh:
No mother in_law is bad... Na the character wey you carry from your house to your husband house bad. And your mother in-law can't be sitting down looking you.

Wrong. Mothers-in-law are just human. Some are good, others are not. Saying that no MIL is bad is like saying that no wife is bad. You wouldn't say the latter, would you?

I don't have any problems with mine. She is great.

I wish him a quick recovery.

EduTechTainMent:
Even my 2 Yr old child uses a smartphone-either mine or his mum's. He doesn't hv a personal phone yet. His siblings all hv - the oldest is about 7 yrs old. It helps kids develop their intellect. You would be surprised when you see my 2 Yr old kid handling a phone and playing games on it.

For those skeptics or anxious parents who are afraid of the Internet, there are measures you can take to safeguard and monitor all activities on your kids smart device.

There are many educative and informative apps that can help kids from pre-school to toddler age to kindergarten and also grade 1, 2, 3 etc.

Best to expose your kids to tech at a young age. The future is tech- irrespective of gender and age. Already set up a desktop PC for 'em. Will be walking them through the use of a PC gradually.

I love tech and my kids will benefit form what I am passionate about.

For anyone interested, I can help you get the best and most affordable of such tablets. It's All In One with value added services (apps installation and setup) at no extra cost.

Reach me @EduTechTainMent on telegram

Studies show that excessive use of smartphones has negative effects on child development.

While you are here advertising the benefits, you should never ignore the risks.

Ishilove:
She has been advised by her lawyers. I knew she was going to eventually recant her story because she had no business granting interviews or making confessions without a lawyer present in the first place.

How stupid can a person be though? Everything will be used against her in court.

God please give this woman sense so she doesn't embarrass herself in public anymore.

larryjonze:
I have always known we share mutual feelings ... just that my own sorry is for whu will later in the future marry you.

Look who is talking about marriage. The one whose wife ran off.

pocohantas:
Common sense maybe.

Sometimes I feel pity for him though. Comes off like the ugliest/dullest in a secondary school clique.

But he types with the confidence of an overachiever.

pocohantas:
Always would be appropriate.

I would always feel sorry for him if he was worthy of sympathy but he is too rotten to be feeling sorry for him all of the time.

Yet, at times I can't help it but feel sorry for him. Don't know what he has been deprived of but it's a serious issue.

Plead:
I agree with the OP as regards men being in power.
Since inception,men have been the ones leading the country and it is clear they have failed,hence it is normal for the blame to be appropriated to them. Assuming the relevant/top leadership positions rotated between men and women,only then can both genders be blamed for the failure of the country.
Women should take over let's see if they'll do anything different.

Correction. Men and women should be represented accordingly in positions of power.

Btw,giving women power or chance. Are women prohibited from contesting elections in Nigeria?NO. I usually see reports that females are more than males in this world,so how come males keep dominating them in all areas without them trying to change the status quo? I believe Nigerian women and other women in most parts of the world are suffering from Stockholm syndrome(probably inflicted by religion and culture,I keep saying it that those two things were created to control people mentally and otherwise. Until you're ready to ditch them you can't be free). If they're ready to lead or change the status quo they should do it and stop waiting for shit to be handed over to them on a platter of gold.

Fair enough.

But don't forget that Nigerian women live in a society where a boy can tell them confidently they are not capable of leadership positions due to menstruation that makes them behave out of control. If you then ask the same boy how these menstruating out of control creatures can then be doctors, he will tell you that women in STEM jobs are different.

We have a very very very looooooong way to go.

larryjonze:
Here we go meet the gender that never take responsibility dem go shift am

i see highness, how could you mistake me for some else, anyways blame that boy that gave you alcohol.

Sometimes I feel sorry for you.