₦airaland Forum

So if you now go to the swimming pool or beach abroad you will assume every woman half dressed wants you to sleep with them?
I don’t understand how both genders around here are wired

Yes she did
And you’re the most trusted she can find in the market. Who dates and kisses a guy to frustrate him ehen she has a relationship except a donor
They did and she was afraid she took in probably the menses came and it cleared the fears. Maybe it was once and to think it was even without protection.You better note the date of that text and go run tests. She didn’t just sleep with him but without protection. I think she doesn’t respect you but you need to let that girl go. You can’t love who don’t love you. Anger is foolishness you don’t own her so if you choose not to do again leave her to go and forget those useless cries and apologies. You better not lay a hand on her. Quietly let her go and thank your stars. Goodluck

It’s not about being black but recent studies from 2009 have showed men are more at risk of throat can*er than the women are from giving head. Why would you want to end his life knowingly?
But in our perculiar clime a lot of women are not clean down there and it’s not nice.

Truth is if he boldly posted that it means there are many other girls as he noted she is clean it also means it's a huge trade going on. The embassy might need to extend this to include liaising with the Labour Ministry to obtain details of all Nigerians in the country working and maybe be like the USA open a link online of register of all Nigerians working so you register with the embassy where you work and details of your employer just simple so even if its $15 you pay every quarter let the embassy call in to check on you

She is childish and your not matured and she knows. She finally got you where she wants you. You can’t change her by complaining to her. If you’re truly a man you know what to do. The part of I love her so much is funny because it’s like saying you love a reptile. You don’t love it no matter how you admire it. Goodluck

You were in love and you supported her that’s fine. She has told you she can’t go against her mother so move on and let her be be a man and tell her you reasoned it and want her to follow her mum advice. She might come back but pls don’t accept. You are a medical student for f sake behave like one seriously not seen a potential Mbbs being this childish over mls. You need to focus on that remaining yr and pass your course and focus on training under the best housemanship rather than this ur mentality. You’re there complaining she listens to her mother when you are planing marriage not because you are ready but because your elder brother told you to. How did you pass your medical exams really? You’re in a relationship and a girl is even given u ultimatum if you don’t pass no show what kind of childish relationship?
How can patients be left in your care when your this childish in opinions of life? As I said before move on and you need to work on yourself you have personal esteem issues pls

I think your more worried about her attitude to you as you mentioned dumping the baby on you.Now my advice is this the best you can do isn’t to talk as that will be seen as complaining not every woman handles a complain by a man rightly. Continue to play your husband role and keep an eye on your wife not suspecting but watch her from afar. Stop the intimate advances and let her be for the next 6-8months to heal and lose the memories of going under the knife. When this scare in town is down hire a nanny or get a relative to come assist her now and let her get sufficient rest and you too as though some people think it’s only the women who go through CS the stress undergone by a husband of a woman undergoing CS is not funny providing care isn’t something some men are prepared for them suddenly your overseeing mother and child. Forget about the 3months before the delivery. Give her 8months from delivery and don’t give an opportunity where she sees you as weak. Get a hand to assist her as I mentioned before and let her have time for herself and maybe you both might have time alittle more to yourself but if that will be too hard to come by I suggest you chill out and go about your normal business and see how it goes after the wait.
Some things aren’t meant to be discussed in marriage understanding isn’t discussing everything, some you just pretend and move on for the time being.

Ningen:
No, it doesn't end there. You keep trying again and again until you are crippled by the effects of kneeling down. Then you start prostrating.

You are heartless lol

Try not to date a lady or guy who just broke up it’s likely never true. A lot of persons are in different levels of frustration around here and sometimes the way they treat you might just be them surviving and your in the middle. In real sense there is nothing like dumping anyone. It’s perfectly ok for a party to wake up and not be in love again or desire the ex and even walk over to that side yes it’s insensitive but that’s where their heart is now, difficult yes but you move on somehow. Thank God it wasn’t nature that separated you both and you are both alive if it was wouldn’t you move on? so wish each other well and get over this little sudden bitterness against the other gender.
modified: About the text my dear why weren’t you consulted before the plan started? A lot of manipulation and mind games I see daily. So she expects you to wait while she goes intimate daily with him and recks him then returns to you? Your life dear your choices

How does she leaving , two weeks prayer or you having your remote by yourself pay your bills the next two weeks. Some action require certain level of responsibility before you undertake them. If you can’t feed a woman then why invite or welcome her? Don’t even date in the 1st place because once she is with you food must be provided. You welcomed her so politely get her to return to her place safely and don’t tell us you put her in public transport risking her health at this time. This period though trying financially is one we are all being safe. Ensure she is safe whatever you decide and hey there is nothing wrong in telling babe all inflows am expecting isn’t coming and will be difficult caring for we both can you return home and let me figure myself out.
My opinion

Some people are weak, very weak

Both threads are wrong although have valid points. In all the real intentions are destroyed when you read the comments that follow. The generalizations on all single women and “Nigerian men” on both is just clear show of bitterness. However I advice ladies migrating even interstate in Nigeria to consider their love live as every aspect is important more so abroad. For the part that clearly seem to attack both gender in the threads or imply superiority/dumbness to a gender is completely unnecessary. Every article is meant to discuss both views and offer a way forward, I find that lacking in both and completely suggest the mods to delete both threads as they encourage hate.
My opinion

You are so emotionally enslaved you begged to be loved? Who says you cannot breakup with him yourself.
I have nothing to say to you but pls spare the man who would finally marry you the burden of this mess by just leaving this guy because I feel very angry at you. I am not going to advice you but pls whatever you decide wish you happiness because its not just about breaking up but about your sense of reasoning when in love because in this I see you need alot of growing up to do. No woman puts herself in this situation. If a man dates you 6months and still no charts drawn I dont get what you need to be told even vulcanizers get married. The things certain women allow happen to them is unimaginable

Ineedtoheal:
No one says it must lead to marriage oga. why keep what you don't need? If You really don't see yourself in few years time with someone, why waste their time? did you really read all I wrote? coz if you did, you wouldn't have make this comment.
I have begged him on several occasions to end things with me if he knows we don't have a future together but he refused. Mind you, it's not just a Nigerian thing. you guys are so quick in calling Nigerian girls out.

There is nothing a counselor will do for you
You have your emotions messed up by not being allowed to have who you wanted and addicted to,your ex.
And rather than wait and have a fling to ease up those tension to reassess what you really want you went into a marriage and waking up now. This is the reason why most people are told to just have a casual Stuff after a breakup to have a clear head. Now this man is your perceived fling and you just woke up and now wants something. Guess what your marked and it’s late. You’re an adult,you can’t love someone if you don’t love yourself and making him pay for what you couldn’t have by feeling irritated always shows frustration. See he is a man when this continues you might just discover you pushed him to have an affair and babies out. You need to wake up and snap from this temporary irrational behavior and decide what you want as truly no one has to waste 3yrs to figure if she wants a separation.
The man you wanted has he gotten married? See sometimes the thing people wanted don’t come don’t put the blame on your father it didn’t happen so wake up and move on with life. Every single day you waste in a marriage isn’t coming back,for every marriage that the man isn’t abusive and not cheating deserve to be celebrated. You have a beautiful opportunity to make this work not for him but for yourself. Stop making it about him that’s why you’re losing it. Deal with your self. And your sudden desire for something you want,that item is sold and no more on the shelve. Wish I know how to express all I want to tell you better because there is no guarantee your next relationship will end well as your still wired to a fantasy. Wake up dear for yourself and do it now

You married a woman that swing both ways and has a deep past. I hope you're not based in port harcourt. No man or woman would bring even a relative home without discussing talk more of mere friend. You have to decide how you want to live going forward. Stop that nonsense guilt and face the bigger picture. You seem weak though but snap off it and do what a real man should do. Somethings ought not to even be heard to think of happening
Put hidden cameras in the rooms and audio devices just to hear conversations for your good. You might just be in middle of something big.

Humans must learn to move on when it doesn’t workout. That idea that you alone can cure it has left many deeply disappointed. Move on with your life. Take my warning

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I think she has fibroid
You may go for scan to confirm
If its true find a good gynae to manage her and advise but please dont rush to surgery as they always push people to so you find the best hand and just scan is sufficient dont go about doing all tests they advice as some are highly unnecessary. If you're in Abuja visit Nisa Premier and see Dr Wada himself he has a process or injection of 3months to reduce the size then you might decide whether you are going for surgery immediately or finish with her babies first. Because the problem if they dont reduce rhe size before operation they open her upwards but if its smaller lower like cs.
Meanwhile there is this ferrobean plus (Not sure of the name)she can take morning and night to build her red blood cell and iron. Also Check her iron level from the blood test too much flow can result in iron deficiency
NB: forgive my incoherent and misspelling comes with typing at 2am

Tina26:
is this to encourage people or what what if there is a back to back to draw next week. these speculations help no one here

Yes its is to encourage people am open to criticism but people need to know their chances if not why do you think they tell you the distribution figures? Dont hate just be informed
its isn't speculative but based on the data given like I showed you the CRS distribution as at today.
Now when you know,you plan so for those on this range you get ready and be in the pool as next 2 draws cant be determined from this but from next figures published.
Alittle intellectual work is not lazy work.
Like I said earlier, if all conditions are right based on these figures published next draw will be 460. For those who think it's useful,pls work with it.
Those who dont find it useful atleast thanks for noticing
In all just my contribution to all hopefuls

Congratulations to ITA clinchers
Like I predicted this draw to be 459 because my values showed 459.1,it is. This is just to give hope to hopefuls although there might be some miracle which might alter values.
Now for next draw based on available facts of this published values(if all conditions remain same). Currently values are,
CRS score range Number of candidates
601-1,200 262
451-600 6,193
401-450 38,013
441-450 7,571

My values show next draw to be 459.6 meaning next draw will be 460
(*All conditions being same, I hope I will be correct)

Hope this helps hopefuls plan

Mickyade:
Goodday house, please need your assistant. My wife applied for canada study permit in which am the sponsor. She got a refusal saying "they are not convince that after her education she will return to Nigeria base on her personal assest and financial status". So am re-appying for her now. 1. We already paid the first term tuition fee earlier. 2. Am including her landed property which was not included in the first application. 3 Her account balance is abt 1.5M and my own account balance is about 7M. 4. She is working and earn abt 280k as net pay.. Also please advise me on the address to put when writting the sponsorship letter since its an online application.
Finally, does she need an Letter of explanation and Statement of purpose or just one is ok.

I suggest you,increase your balance to 10m by any way that can be explained,move the money money for her studies to her account and pay full tuition

So I think I might have figured it out
This was 459.5 based on last figures and draw today is 460
If all conditions remains equal and draws continues on this trend then next draw will be about 459.1=459
All conditions being same, I hope I will be correct.

Hoping its 459 today, all the best hopefuls

I think you have a problem and you need a lot of growing up. 300l and you travel so often for non monetary generating venture or family? In a relationship you dont wait to be disrespected to even say repeatedly, to even think you were called a fool before people hmmmm. I think you're weak and appear it. Dont ever call this girl again,go out and get a gf anyone just anyone and be open about quitting easily till you find that girl that will stay. Always have a plan a plan B till you're settled or be open minded about it. I understand you need s#x but how can u suffer such belittling and be cool. Go around there if you must and laugh yourself out. Go with friends and even a new gf and tell her about your ex,how did you get so damaged emotionally? Someone bully you and your afraid to go around where she is and stay happy?are you such sisi?
And last before I forget,since you have so much time to travel start some revenue generating venture or some program to better your life like a certification, just make some move that can make you independent and meet responsible people as I see your too comfortable with money from home and no single plans for yourself .
Just ask what exactly do you gain having this woman

I think it's an update thing. take the receipt and go to any service centre around you it will be upgraded in 1week and returned to you. keep the job order for pickup. This is based on experience I have seen two cases same A30 but note you might not get all the docs

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Happy New Year Everyone
Last year by Jan 5,2018 POF was also increased by 1.4% and the first draw came Jan 10 or so. Little increase but many became ineligible. For the ineligible profiles you may add a figure in about same range to see if it changes in creating a new profile early for next draw.
I think new figures should reflect on POF requirement page after the holidays
Good luck everyone this year

Justice Idris was fair to both sides, the silk I guess lacked preparation as most do in courts and only ride on the ego of their title. You said he does not want to give evidence in the box but can make a statement and the Justice has agreed but tactically telling you the weight of that is of no relevance in this case as even a news reporter can make a statement in the court from the door where he stands; then the silk became confused on the way forward as to what his choices are. Hehehe, see how they ride their clients into the unknown. Now he needs time to go decide what choice to take. Yet the news reports it that EFCC failed? Common guys! Either way his choices are limited from where i stand. My point when you engage these lawyers and silks also engage a consultant to evaluate their preparedness as I see how they drain these clients and barely prepared each day in court. I wonder do they understand its human lives or just careless

yejistiker:
Thank you Shyee.
I am 26,single, I have a B.sc.
IELTS result- Listening 8.5,reading 7.5, writing 7.5 and speaking 7.

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yejistiker:
Thank you Shyee.
I am 26,single, I have a B.sc.
IELTS result- Listening 8.5,reading 7.5, writing 7.5 and speaking 7.

I'll suggest you rewrite ielts. Try to increase your reading to 8 and your speaking to 7.5,by this I assume you have 3years work experience. From your result I can see you understand how the exam is marked,so I expect you have less challenge retaking it.It will be safe to have 441 than wait with 435/438.

You filed fundamentals hoping to be given to a friendly judge, it wasn't and hoping this judge would rule without putting the other parties on notice, not knowing these parties have their ears in all courts. Then they get informed and rushed to meet you in court and request the judge must hear them, then you knowing you were not ready to face the rigour of defending your application as you wanted to pull a fast one ran like you were chased. Lawyers you have paid for the little effort without focussing on the proper criminal case you have and will pay more when trial starts.
Then considering he has vast audience who are willing to play to gallery with him and play ethnic card, he grants a press interview to say Gtb rushed to the court, then I ask, if you mentioned me in your suit is there any law prohibiting me from being heard?
People are not looking at the main issues of these cases from what I see.