How can you claim to love her this much yet made her have an abortion? If your not ready to bear responsibility why dive raw or dive at all. Youre like her selfish and never letting go. Sorry bro if I sound rude but I detest guys who claim love but prey on their partners. Maybe she has seen through you as not different from the other guy and who knows you asked her to breakup with her guy and she asked for time maybe the guy is back and she has also promised him to breakup with you. Smh
How can you start a relationship by being asked to give time to breakup with current relation and you stayed? You both deserve each other. Breakup and be man enough to have a gurl of your own not someone's babe and be responsible and stop being proud of abortion or since you know she shares you with someone and you need her for "luck" share her too.Goodluck with whatever you decide

So in all it’s about you not wanting to break his heart. You didn’t just fall out of love but you also pity him. Smh. My dear see how grownups date, sometimes you wake up and you move out and it’s perfectly ok but the thing is this while you’re all over your new guy hope he is. Move to you new guy or remain where you are. And pls next time stop letting in people on your sexuality except you are ready to have something shows you’re weak. Imagine if all men you chat with know about your personal stuff. Not decent

How does not being social amount to being less intelligent? Smh
So if you tell he isn’t intelligent where can he go buy it?
My dear move on to your new found luv or go get the boyfriend of your dream and leave the poor boy alone. If a partner isn’t someone you want you move on not make them feel inadequate. That’s who you fell in love with and proudly dated for 6 months. Hope the social person you find next will be in luv with you like he is you know

My dear it isn’t so bad. I perfectly understand your fear. Where will the next funds come from. But clearly what I see here you’re alittle lazy as you need to make up your mind what your next plan is with life not just in the telling as your story didn’t cover that. When you tell them you have to be the one to tell them where you want to go from there and not expect them to think for you. You can finish the biological sciences work alittle and go back for direct entry for medicine but keep your gp high or you can rewrite jamb and pick any course of your choice. A senior back in the day succeeded and now a dr. But while you’re at it pick a skill even if it’s Barbing so when you’re in school you earn little for yourself and not rely on your parents fully. Children of this age need to understand the economy and snap that mentality parents must provide all. Goodluck

It takes two to have a conversation. Why don’t you give her the same treatment but don’t do anything stupid outside. Completely ignore her and focus on something positive. Maybe she got you there several years back to make you miserable and feel it’s only way to humble you and you taken a good seat at it. Focus on something positive and assume she travelled wherever it leads you take it from there. No partner should make the other miserable. What’s it with being in same house and not talking that’s some childish mind game. Learn to overlook things and stop being sorry all over the place. Now that part of you feeling suicidal, you just finished yourself. How can you be that depressed over what exactly?You’re the man not a brother Inlaw. You have a lot of growing up to do. Grow your income, join a club , register in a gym. Do something productive and for sakes quit staying around the house looking for body to touch. People go to rigs and stay months what’s its with you must have her. Clearly she is punishing you and enjoys it so enjoy your life productively and keep an eye incase she gets wayward you take the red pill fast

Just so we understand alittle
1.what’s the level difference at work and is your relationship known at work?
2. In your other thread you said you planned to wed her in few months, is she aware of these steps?

Modified: I think you should hold off with that list and clear your fears and also stop spending and invest those bills payment in something productive. It’s your life and you must feel comfortable in all you do. A matured girl interested in a marriage will tell her man over a kiss babe pls I mightn’t be wearing this ring as it draws much attention or any excuse by herself not you having to ask before an excuse comes. If there are spiritual problems how come you both haven’t sat to discuss all. Are you sure this the only problem or you will be told the complete after you wed

It’s 50-60k normally and he fuels the car
The upper limit if it’s a v6. Sometimes you need to realize if you agree on their rates it saves you the chance of them using your car to transport passengers. And pls ensure it’s serviced before leaving Lagos and find out if he moves alone because there are these guys who move in group it’s safer and they don’t leave any spoilt car behind. Hope it had papers complete as if it doesn’t you know even his police uniform will not help when he meets certain custom. How come this wasn’t concluded before the car got to Lagos?

The mistake that made her a single mother she hasn’t learnt from it or maybe that was even what happened. Took you months to get her and each of the breakups she is quick to say it’s over,bro soon she will make it permanent she just has a reason for keeping you. You don’t want to wait to find out trust me. Like others said you’re insecure and desperate. If she was that beautiful and great like you see her trust me she would be married. Imagine discouraged you from redeployment as in really? Not even for economic reason. Most people are angry that if you’re that sincere no single mother should relate with you like this and for you to still be there itsnt just about this but you need to also look at your self esteem. I wish you success with whatever you decide

Read this carefully
Transfer service and start process for the relocation
You get to earn better in the new agency pending your move. Yourent the visa officer to know fate of your visa and more so Canada you have to write ielts and do ECA these takes months and then wait to be invited if in the pool for federal or pnp before you know it its over a year. Take every good opportunity prayerfully and wisely and pls stay safe. Goodluck

You have a job dont ever forget that
Millions are doing photocopy and even some at the copy stand just to direct people to where they do photocopy. Some are even graduates. Whatever youre doing just dont let your life end there.Keep growing. Some where guards today they own their own guard company some moved on to something better and dnt forget prayer. You see those moments you spend crying to God it works and try every good opportunity you see wisely.Sometimes its one of them God will pick

How in God’s name do boys get into relationships?
So in your mind now you’re man enough because you have money. My brother you are very weak. How can you open your mouth to talk to your mother? Oh I get you send them money so you think she is now your mate for a girlfriend issue? You lack upbringing and you don’t know how to be the man in a relationship. Listen to me many women are worse than your girlfriend but guess what they channel that anger to outsiders and respect their bf/husband and relatives. This girl has no respect for you and imagine talking like that to your mother. Next time she will slap your mother and you will still scold your mother. Point is even more violent women respect their husbands and those who can’t are single quoting all men are useless. What this anger will do to you wait and see. You better go home and kneel down and apologize to your mother bcz the curse you attracted shaming the woman who was gifting you mango after breastfeeding you. And this isn’t just about this babe you have problem and you need to figure it out yourself as you see this life never let life teach you the hard way. Even if my wife is angry over anything she has to wait and call me aside or get home to say it that’s maturity. Anger dey look face my brother and in this case this girl doesn’t see you at all

If you have been this quiet about it I suggest you let her go quietly and cut all contacts. No need showing her proof just cut off completely and assume she doesn’t exist. You already know and taken a position she didn’t inform you before cheating so why do you owe her explanation to dump her. And pls avoid giving women heads except you have the oral cover one because imagine you and another guy are putting your fluid in same place and probably doing without protection then 2nd men aren’t built medically to give heads check research. Use an oral guard if you must

This comment is highly unnecessary and any local paper that carries it ought to be sanctioned.
How do we even practice journalism here?
Do you know what this news alone can cause to the naira?

Thats the case when you buy love or believe you can change the world because you get small change coming in then you feel even leeches can be tolerated and as always you wouldnt seek our advice before you spent. How can you begin what you cannot finish. So after one year who renews the rent? I dont understand guys lately you want to prove you care, who says you have to. If all the jobless women get so much from guys like you all make it seem you think they will still be on the street? Guys most of youre not rich,stop acting like one.Hope they havent taken your name someplace because thats usually the next stage.

Really sad how things are with some families facing challenges putting food on their table. I advice you save up and invest as it’s a salary job too. Have a second income. I suspect your problem was believing at extreme building up together your woman will stand by you when maybe she wasn’t built for that..You need to inform both family in a general meeting take that baby for DNA and if yours atleast provide for her. You will be doing same wrong leaving that baby to suffer as do you know what she might be exposed to living with that woman. Even if she decides not to release her to you provide for the baby. You can enroll in school and put her on an allowance monthly but pls before 1st 1yr setup a business on the side. Allow yourself date but don’t rush into another marriage. Date and then marriage. Goodluck with whatever you decide

Actually Wike is
Who is this guy again and how is he an SAN if he doesnt know the constitution?

This should serve as lesson to both genders stop wasting your money on the other rather invest these monies and if the person is there by your side to build you both reap the profits. Who says you cant marry an uneducated lady and must you see her through school? She can go to school when your business is fully running.Imagine some guy mentioning his gf who lives in Mpape wants Iphone Xs Max who is on a 40k salary job. Later you come to complain she left you.The other day it was a gurl after she borrowed him he left her even with her money, my dear who says you must be the finance house let him go to the bank or cooperative and you invest. We waste alot of money forming love. Guys have sense pls

You see how newspapers report news without balance
People are meant to self isolate now the government is assisting to ensure safety of the general public at the cost of our tax payers money yet they want to risk everyone because they came from abroad. So if they had let them go home that’s how they will go hug their families and walk around town because they know better. Nigerians were indoors for 5weeks. Imagine just 3days alone they are complaining. Do they even know when they leave that site and get home they ought to isolate further for their own families because do they even know the contact they have from there to their houses. Nigerians and over sabi everyone just has an opinion. I was even expecting to hear that some who are health professionals have offered to join the frontline after the quarantine no they want to stroll out

Quite an achievement raising the funds for the business. Yes have seen their software in two hospitals but again while we celebrate and wish them well most hospitals using them are not cheap and I doubt they got the applications for free to make its deployment to achieve larger number of hospitals use them. This was supposed to be in such a way that your medical records can be accessed across hospitals and you don’t have to manually apply as only a licensed medical professional can access it even in your hospital. Therefore if smaller hospitals can’t afford it or not available then aim might be for their profit alone. In all it’s a good one but need to be deployed at affordable rates to all hospitals as in the end patients bear these costs and where it’s only in big hospitals like I saw on their website then it speaks volume what their intentions are and hope data of patients are safe

He was just flattered by the remarks and responded to the greeting in solidarity probably a reflex like when someone salutes you

Guys this judgement was 100% sound guess they deleted that part of ACJA completely to avoid ambiguity again but Head of court of Appeal cannot issue a fiat to a judge under him to return to high court to perform any duty as that level of court has an head independent of his office. Thats why they wondered what wig he will wear in that lower court. Thereby saying once a judge is elevated give his cases to a new judge. They didnt dismiss the case but said return it to the high court to retry and pls give it to a judge in that level. The man shouldn't rejoice yet as now both sides know each others points of both prosecution and defense both closed cases. If i was leading the prosecution now is time to add more charges or amend those dismissed based on their defense

Good work@op
Please can you tell what the disadvantages are for part time masters programme if the person is eligible for post study stay. Trying to find program for a relative and keep seeing part time in his field for masters

The point he is making is clear. The poor and average in society must learn to look after themselves because see all the comment above you are only talking because you are safe. Its simple go out and go about but pls maintian distance and hygiene and cover your nose. The government cannot share mask for everyone and even if your so careless think of your family. Check all the cashiers how they look after themselves and take for example. Dont join a full vehicle, dont pack yourselves where much people are as if you get sick you be the one fighting for your life not Buhari and he also fears it will not just be your family as we all in one way or another we interract so its safer if you atleast respect yourself so others are safe by your action. Must you join that car? If your much at the bank and they arent managing the crowd like supermarkets do why not post it online here and attention of the management will be drawn instead you don't use this medium rather come to abuse govt rather stay there to push bank gate. Finally people must learn to prioritize their health

This man should nust find his way and come to berekete family radio in Abuja so the IGP will be forced to act. The village people of the SP and CSP just opened their page yes the man maybe best him up but the part of helping the woman steal him dry and charging him to court thats a no. The fate of the poor and unconnected in the society.

Connect her Watsapp to your pc and click on keep me signed in so you read the msgs on the laptop whenever you see her on the phone and you can snap.
You would have installed anti delete but that will show her.
Other option you can after watching her chats on pc is to chat up the guy in middle of the night just drop a line like can’t wait to feel you or anything creative and follow the conversations but this should be after you watch more of the chats live as after the chats you might have to make a decision. Do a DNA when you can. You need to act fast as if it hasn’t happened this lift on lockdown might make things happen if they discussed ur luv sessions that’s deep
I pray you come out of this strong.

Why anyone will want to buy mask on the road or traffic light beats me. May we not use our hand to destroy ourselves. That’s how I saw a land cruiser at Bannex on Tuesday and the car owner was trying to buy from a roadside and am like what’s wrong with us around here. If you enter Pharmcy where atleast little safety and guaranty of quality will it be bad? We are so cheap and unorganized even the rich

She should be glad she wasn’t aborted or her husband tied through one prayer house. It’s common around Africa and you don’t go about crying. It’s what it is and you cannot afford to stop making progress in life as that’s your only gain. I know someone whose half brother doesn’t talk to only once or twice a year and it’s not like they are fighting but constant gossips in the family ask me what they are fighting for I have been asking. They are so terrible around here rather than come together establish a family business or something to make progress as a family they are busy on each other. She and her husband should focus on making it good in life as that’s more important. They might come around someday they might not but life must go on no hating but they should never compromise their health or safety. You can’t even leave the woman in your house with your food. Like I said before she and her husband should focus on building their finances as what matters most is how much care they can for their children not what they say about them

I think you fancy the dark side he told you about and you dont want his progress because you are indecisive. A man doesnt tell you he likes you so after you turn him down you both can be just friends suggesting it is manipulative and childish. He knows what he wants. Imagine you making it about you saying like he doesnt value what you both had,kai you are funny. You are the one who doesn't because you saw all the signs and played him. Even when you got a bf you ought to tell your best friend you hide it. Practically you were just wasting his time and he was basically getting you both to know so it doesnt seem desperate. I know what you feel, you feel abandoned because to you you want it all and be the one to decide the fate of 2 grown men,Its childish. Youre lucky he left because he is nice some would have stayed and get to lay you and leave. You need to grow up as yoi seem young and manipulative because when you think you figured it your choice might just be the bigger evil.Goodluck

God bless you Sir for the kindness

Stop forcing yourself to love
You’re just afraid to start afresh. You caught her before the cries not that she came on her own. No sane mother will call you to shout except even the family don’t respect you. You’re lucky you got out now if you have married her you would have been put in a bottle. Hope you learnt your lessons about dating a girl with male bestie more so a married one. If you like go back because they buried your placenta in her

There is something about tailoring, most of them are useless and because they are they tend not to make good money but that has changed with some beating that and expanding their trade. You probably arent the serious type and they see no progress with you not the tailoring as you think. I suggest you get serious with your job and stop those get one job sleep at the job play board game waste all day and still not deliver on jobs next you finished both income earn and your drinking garri, thats the style of most tailors. They so disappoint customers not knowing they are destroying their trade even vulcanizers under the sun are more dedicated than they. If the pay for jobs arent good at your location liaise with a tailor in bigger locations to get jobs and deliver or move. I have never seen a lazy set of skilled trade like tailors. Beat that and you will make it good