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A thankful Nigerian woman has revealed was she gone through before she was blessed with a baby. Taking to her Facebook page, the woman identified as Anigala Ifeyinwa narrates how she survives cancer before she was finally blessed with a baby. Read her story below; "My name is IFEYINWA.. Mama Adawenah.... I am happy that I am a year older today. My name carries a lot of weight. And do you want to know why? Please read on.... My life is a story & I'm ready to tell it to the world...... I'm not telling my story to impress anyone or for anyone to have a kind of sympathy for me.....Not at all. My story is to give GOD all the Glory and to encouraged those suffering and dying in silent, come out let's fight together, I won the battle,you too can win PART ONE Dec... 2012 is a month I will never ever forget. I may have been compelled to face danger which I doubt, but I defeated the danger itself. That fateful day in December, as I was taking my shower in the morning to set out for my business, I noticed something big in between my right breast & my armpit. I didn't understand what it was. In fact, it was a big lump & how the lump appeared suddenly, I didn't know. I agitated a little. I was a bit scared that I had to call my friend 'Chinyere Ogu' who asked me to act fast immediately. I rushed to our family doctor who admitted me immediately. He sent me for mammogram & the result showed that the lump was benign and I was very happy that it wasn't cancerous. He went further and carried a surgery on me to remove the lump. It was later that I realized that he never had much experience on this case. I say so because of what transpired later. Besides, he gave me an unimaginable big cut on my breast . What would I have done either because I equally had no experience? I'm not a medical doctor nor a medical student. That period was when I knew one should beware of false knowledge, it is more dangerous than ignorance. The Doctor admitted me in his clinic for five days after the lump removal before I was finally discharged. I was strong, happy & good to go. Since the mammogram showed I was free, I was even happier. But the Doctor told me that he was sending the specimen removed from my breast to the lab to be diagnosed which was normal. My Doctor never contacted me afterwards. I ignorantly relaxed thinking I was in safe hands as I was not summoned by him again. Who would be in my shoes and wouldn't do the same? When you panic about anything & you are not called back for any negative report.......you'll definitely pray it remains that way. That means, nothing was wrong with you. But, I never knew that my doctor actually sent the specimen to the lab but he never went back to pick up the result of the biopsy. So so pathetic. April, 2013, the month I was to be celebrating my birthday, I noticed another lump in my breast. This time, it was a bigger lump. I panicked. I called back my doctor & that was when he remembered that he had not collected the result of the specimen he sent to the lab four months ago. What a shame! So unprofessional! Few days later when he picked up my result, he sent for me. When I got to his clinic, he broke the news to me. I was informed that; "I, Ify, was diagnosed of breast cancer". Ooh nooo. This news sounded like a death sentence to me. In fact, it is a bit difficult right now for me to put into words exactly what I went through emotionally the very moment the doctor announced my result. The news that you've got cancer kills faster than the disease itself. He took me to another private hospital for the new doctor to examine the new lump I dictated in my breast. The new doctor saw the initial result of the mammogram which showed benign & the biopsy which showed malignant & he told me it was complicated. He arranged for the removal of the second lump immediately to clear his doubts. After the removal of the second lump by the second doctor, I was discharged that same day. Exactly two weeks later, I was summoned to come for the result of the second biopsy. And I was equally told it was cancerous. I was devastated. I wept like I've never wept before. It didn't end there. In less than two weeks after the second surgery, another huge lump surfaced again (the third lump) I was then referred to University Of Port Harcourt Teaching Hospital (UPTH) where I would have been directed initially for proper management. I was then told by Doctors in UPTH that I would undergo a major surgery (mastectomy). That means the removal of my entire right breast........ After being told this; two thoughts came to me as I cried out loud over the report... ...."What am I going to look like without one breast? Am I going to be less a woman?" At first, that word mastectomy scared me. Later I had to tell myself the bitter truth; "Ify, this was the time for you to fight". And as I fought each day after my mastectomy, during my chemotherapy, radiotherapy, I just knew that cancer was losing and I was winning. Friends, never stop believing in HOPE because MIRACLES happen everyday..... You will realise that I am a miraculous child by the time you know all my stories. And don't mind that I have one breast removed which my sweetheart, my better half isn't even complaining; but .....I, IFY IS A CANCER WARRIOR. I appreciate God for I am wonderfully & specially made. God assigned me with that mountain, for me to tell others that any strong mountain can truly be moved....I came to realise that it is not just one person that gets this cancer the moment it is announced to the victim. Your whole family, your very close relations, friends, your loved ones are tortured directly or indirectly. They suffer with you emotionally, spiritually, physically, although you that is the victim suffer the most......One is not exposed to danger by her own making or wish. But there is even great danger if people you cherish don't fight with you & thank God that people I cherish have my back. But when it is your own cross, you will have to say how you will carry your Cross to suit you & everyone around you. Cancer didn't bring me down one bit, it brought me up to be strong & brave & I never knew I could be this brave, this open & this happier until now. God can never give me anything I cannot handle. My faith became so strong. I was even told that I would never conceive considering all the medications & treatment I went through during my radiotherapy, chemotherapy, etc. But friends, here I am with my Danielle, my miracle baby, a child that came and turned my situation around for good. She made me defeat cancer. I laugh at cancer today because I never gave in & I never gave up. My faith dared me to go beyond where the eyes can reach. My eyes reached God immediately & HE performed a miracle on me, and I was made whole again. I defeated cancer. That will be a story for another day. Meanwhile, the conception of this my miracle baby Daniella rearranged every defect in my system/organs. God sent this child to me. Thank God HE used this baby to set me free. Medical science was proven wrong. Humans were proved wrong. The only report I stand to believe is God's report & we can move mountains with our faith. You can imagine! Due to the chemotherapy & radiotherapy which affected my menstrual circle. Which doctors also told me that I might not be able to conceive again. I never knew I was pregnant until I was almost five months gone.....Unbelievable! Friends, this is just Part One of my story. I'll continue with Part Two next time. Hey cancer, you chose the wrong victim. I'm not going to spare you this time around. I'm going to mess you up publicly for messing up with the wrong person. Cheers! Meet you in Part 2. #ifyani cancer foundation loading # I am a survivor" Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/nigerian-cancer-survivor-shares-her-story-after-defying-all-odds-to-welcome-a-child.html Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique
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Lalasticlala Mynd44 This news is old!! Donsimoniiblog, why can't you publish a new News? Stop posting old news This is what happens when a Lazy Youth who can't make findings venture into blogging. |
Ayanshola337:This shows your Parents forgot to teach you home training. It's my opinion, I'm entitled to it. If you're pain, write yours. I won't want to give you a reply that would cause a disaster in your life. |
I MISSED my flight back to Nigeria. |
trustyshoess:I do even more than you do. Try to re-read my writeup calmly and with your sense intact. |
Eberechi24:Thanks Eberechi for mentioning me |
What he loves Kill him |
skallion7:Ok! |
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https://www.torimill.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/torimill_BiEL9Uzhlci.jpg One Abayomi Akanji has been arrested by the Ogun State Police Command in the Adatan area of Abeokuta, for allegedly impersonating a soldier. He was said to have stolen the uniform from an army barracks and used it to terrorise residents of the community. He reportedly used it during the period of the fuel scarcity to harass people and create panic. Luck, however, ran out on him on April 17, 2018, when operatives from the Adatan Police Division, who were on a routine patrol, accosted him and while he was being questioned, he owned up to being a fake soldier. Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/man-in-tears-after-being-nabbed-for-stealing-army-uniform-in-barracks.html |
koolaid87:You said it all. You deserves some ACCOLADES man! |
EMMAACHILE:In short, he should be prepared for the worse (make extra money apart from the budgeted money) and also have plan B in case things don't fall workout as Planned. |
Bro, why not consider South Africa? In a thread, I remembered a man saying he is a Forklift driver and makes cools cash. If I considered leaving this country to any African Country, I'd chose South Africa. |
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![]() SHOUT OUT to all the Nigerian men who use their Dïck to perform wonders without drugs. Thank you all!! Without you, these ladies won't defend us and attack their fellow lady Amongst those ladies defending us are some called FEMINIST/MenAreScum crew that always attack men. But when it comes to the JOHN THOMAS, they'll lose their home training and forgot that earlier, they were Feminist. Back to the post, "I was triggered by something I heard can you Imagine?? This means most feminist/ladies are confused, most of them act based on what they HEARD not what they've ENCOUNTERED. LADIES will heard something from a PAINED fellow lady and would start reacting to IT. This is why most marriage fails because a married lady will take advise from her BEST FRIEND who is still hoping to God for marriage ![]() Nigerian Women!!!! |
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At a trying time for the youths of the country where the President of the country considers many of them to be “lazy youths”, a youthful Nigerian couple have decided to prove the depth of their love by sharing an in-bed photo of themselves online. Looking like an after sex kinda, this dauntless couple, boldly took to Facebook, to share in-bed photos of themselves and profess their love. Don Chris Thickness who shared the photos on Facebook wrote; "My love for u olatamamu Will never end � I dnt care abt wat people say abt me all i no is I luv u ❤wit all my ♥ I only belong to u nd nobody else Olatamotu I LOVE YOU Olatamamu. You are so sweet bebe" Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/couple-shares-in-bed-photos-on-facebook-to-prove-the-depth-of-their-love.html Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique
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Oluwambo147:The topic is DMW Vs. Starboy not YBNL I'll still chose Olamide over Wizkid this year. |
DMW Wizkid been dropping trash since the beginning of this year There was a day he released 4 tracks. Out of the 4, there is only one that makes sense as the rest were just trash. If it's not about GIRLS and MONEY, Wizkid never get talent for good music. |
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![]() Yoruba Amaka AJ been giving them back to back! |
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According to this Twitter user, once he is dating a lady who owns a house, he becomes the man of the house. He wrote; "Whether I have a house or not, if I date a girl with a house, I become the man of that house and she will listen to me. Or she can get out." Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/whether-i-have-a-house-or-not-if-i-date-a-landlady-i-become-the-owner-man.html
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isalegan2:The babe kill my balls |
boyjo:The theory doesn't apply to me. The first person that comes to my mind are the ones that I call last |
rainylad:Can you see your life?? I don't have girlfriend so I don't beg for money from ladies. It's someone who has plan to marry Nigerian girls will do. Yeah, I'm tired of women but NIGERIAN women! I spoke the bitter truth I'm not surprised with your reaction. |
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