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If your sister is in Osun state, you can pm me. First, yes he can divorce her in absentia. By using a proxy or virtual hearing. Second, Unless he can prove that your sister is a bad mother, he can’t take the child. No court will grant a female minor to a father she hasn’t seen for years Third, that your sister’s money is inside the building makes it as much hers as well. She just needs to know the right witnesses to call and she WILL retain the house. Finally, she should let him go, and request for maintenance for her and the child monthly. Most men in such circumstances loss more money, since the divorce is propelled by greed. You can PM me. I practice in Osun |
@lionize, @Mobil567 @ebim I just got admitted and by Gods grace, will be coming with 2kids. Following your experience, I will apply for myself first before the kids bc them never get passport. My questions are as follows: 1. Has your family joined you?, did you register for kids school from Nigeria 2. Accomodation, I saw some places on sssb and facebook, I was advised to queue but was discouraged when I see the waiting time as 1119 days 3. What should I note about bringing kids to Stockholm as Na only me and them Dey come 4. All other insights and contributions are welcomed School: Swedish Defense University, Stockholm |
Nnatuu:How did you go with this process? |
Romanoff:She will. This is sure. Person when fit talk say the kids will be ugly, if you allow her come prepare for thorough criticism of your children. If they look like your wife, better tell her not to come without mincing words |
I have gone through your trends. One of an openly hateful in-law, there was a Facebook story some years ago about a MIL who came for omugwo, and I believe , despised the wife. Anything the wife tells her , she will abuse her. One night, after immunization the MIL wanted to bath the baby though I the Dr/ hospital said the child should be cleaned with towel not bathed that day. The MIL again refused and in the process of bath the child, she dropped the baby and the baby died. Moral of the story, any person in adverse to a nursing mother should not be in the same living space with her. BP Dey rise, stress affect milk production/lactation and if anything do your wife, you fit raise the twins on your own?. This is not matter of she is your mother or not, even in the Bible no be mother na roll press her pikin die?, and asked king Solomon to cut another person own into two. Person when no like your wife, you feel say she like your children?, especially if any of them looks like your wife. You are even lucky to have a Step Mum that cares. You need to do better in protecting your home o, in your other thread, you abandoned your wife with her at nights, instead of allowing her to stay with her friends you Dey say “I pity her”. It’s true that women don’t like themselves but isn’t your wife and step Mum getting along?. Only few people will despise a person and stop at that, many will actualize their hate either on the person ( your wife) or their loved ones |
How many of the comments are from riverine people?, That boat is safer than Okada and Keke most people take. But humans will always criticize what they don’t understand. Drowning is your fear not ours (theirs), keep it to yourself. If you are not from Niger-delta, no quote me abeg. Children when don Dey swim before them learn to write A |
Kog45:Exactly ooo, this agitation implies some benefits they want to “kolobi “. They started building on some part of OAU land, the university sued them before they stopped. Without a “co-operative VC” they can’t continue those buildings and ife indigenes can not occupy it. They knew the land was for OAU before starting. the Prof Adedoyin they want who is an indigene Number 7 on the VC selection list, them wan force and enter because of land. The VC of FUTA, is an ife man. If Akure people say he must comot, will it make any sense to them. So many education, so little wisdom |
Chairwoman:That number 2, go to a court and do affidavit of husband place of residence. In my time applied directly, with all the documents and was posted to my state. I went to camp with my baby and was allowed to go home that day. My PPA was 5mins work too. If you have already applied as single , go to the camp with your marriage certificate and husband place of residence. You will be redeployed |
Mariangeles:You know if he get gas/firewood or even oil. Na so he easy to buy plantain and still fry it |
Candidlady:That indicates the husband is a ‘pastor/minster abi prophet” |
lolu2019:Tor. I do completely agree with the latter part though, in Warri most of our mothers are very unsubmissive , unlike other states I’ve lived. Prolly resulted in wide spread stubbornness |
oliviabeem:How exactly will he do that?, kindly shed more light |
This your experience reminds me of my neighbor, when we want put lock for big gate. The plan was to give the key to car owners only, the rest people go use small entrance. She say them go must give her big gate key too, because her guy sleeps over sometimes. , Na them I con put eye down to see the fiancé sef, OMO!!, them reach 4 guys. The constant one, different from the one when stay nearly 3 days last week. Also different from the one when Dey use bike come, when I see they smooch am the day I pass her front go backyard to go pack clothes. If I see the guy when Dey carry provisions etc come, I go Dey sorry for am oo. Because I get brothers, God forbid that they will be in these shoes |
Lawyers do not read will in reality (Nigeria) . Wills are read by the probate registrar at the Probate Registry |
Crazeworld:They are not, in fact they are some of the kindest and most reasonable officers. The problem is resources, they can only make do with what they are given to take care of the inmates. For example Prison built for 100 convicts in Nigeria, Dey house 500 people, of which 420 of them are still awaiting trial. Anything prison officers can legally do to reduce population, make them happy, engaged, they will do it. In prison they learn to sew, make paint and go to national open university too |
Thank you for this thread oo Just got admitted to RGU Aberdeen by God’s grace, will like to bring my kids currently aged 4 and 6, both boys. Both very noisy too. More helpful tips please |
This your interpretation na sth else ![]() JustAPasserBy: |
Really? So, what would they do? Is there no exception to this?They can live apart till the 3 years is complete |
You can only divorce after at least 2 years- 3years, No Court will divorce you after 5months, so long as you did statutory marriage in this Nigeria |
Andyblaze:That’s not how it works, you have to deep-cut that same spot on your anus continually daily for 4-7 days . Then count the pad you used, if you one manage that one pad take Dey sleep, comot house, after bath etc but the bleeding must not stop Na real wa |
As a lawyer, I know lot of women do this and men too, when they want to suck the other person dry in a dissolution. The intention is to control the narrative, and twist the parts not contain in the audio recording, so it appears they have strong evidence (mean while, it’s completely out of context) |
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reader29:Yes, you can |
Virtual law office , with latest legal technology. |
johnfaleks:Sent. Hope it helps. Me, I need 150k to start my law firm. Working for people as a litigation lawyer is hard, especially when you have kids. I wish to get printer and office supplies first. I will start from home, I get laptop already. Till I gather enough to get a law office |
TarOrfeeek:In the Armed Forces Act, it is punishable and sue is entitled to upkeep from him. Read the Act, about care of spouse, desertation, etc. it’s to check their conduct really. But I’m 200% sure this soldier is a married man with grown kids sef |
Rahkman:Oduduwa University too, zero culture and academics. They even pay to waive carry over |
30k weekly, that’s over a 100k every month after buying fuel and pumping tyre… Some 9- 5 no Dey see this kind money. Before you know she don get more buses, join union Dey run things for politics and become “king of the boys” |
Esthered:This is true. Because in her mind, she may be expecting the pain or doing it to please you (and she Dey die inside). |
Poster the lord will strengthen you o. I am going to advise you from experience. Your wife is in serious pain, initial sex for virgins make the vulva swollen/injured, the whole outer surface swollen in fact. There is hardly any pleasure in it, just pain. if the sex is constant, she may soon start peeing blood towards the end of her urine (if she wipes with tissue, she will see this). How can it be better 1. Make sure she is wet before penetrating please. 2. Use ky - jelly, it can’t be over emphasized. Buy like 5 sef, bc for the first months it is super necessary 3. suck her bxxbs occasionally while penetrating , or anything that puts her on 4. Use styles that spread her legs, eg. She can sit face you on a table with her legs spread. 5. Avoid Doggy or generally any position from back, no go kill person. 6. You can spoon too and use mood music Sex is hard for virgins, so please be considerate. After the first child it will be easier for her (may not be too easy for you though, because you don taste tear rubber) |
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The ball is in your parents court. Especially if he is troublesome, no put body. Bc you are acting on what they told you, but they cannot tell him personally. Na you them they push go front to go fight their battle so, if your skin no full better no put body. I’m a lawyer, and today so, I Dey go court because my clients wants a restraining order against their first son for similar troubling behavior. though the guy is 42, and issue him pops several blows, but na small small like this he start |

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