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Stevo30:
I hope one of GEJ boys would direct his attention to this thread or simply print it an give it to him as he contemplate adding to their burden by subsidy removal. Kudos to all hard working Nigerian women. My mother was like these women. She laboured to give me and my siblings the very best of Education. God bless you Iya Alate.

soreola:
^^^^ Word!


OP, I think you made the right decision. However, if you are a christian I would suggest that you pray; Phil.4:6-7. Wait on God and hear what HE has to say about the situation. With our limited knowledge, there is only so much that we can do. You can't see her heart, you can't tell what she is thinking or how she truly feels about you. God knows all things, remember that. You acted in your own interest which is completely normal and general what a lot of people would have done as well. All im saying is that you should pray. I pray that God will strength you mentally and emotionally. He will comfort you and reassure of your great tomorrow. Like people have said, surround yourself with positive people and things. God bless! . . .

Live, Laugh, Love!

S.

Gbyte:
This is indeed a sad story, I am looking at this story from another point of view, let's not all put the blame on the lady, I am not putting the blame on the guy either but let's weigh this issue here, you had a job that took all of your time and all you were able to do was talk to your GF on phone (body no be wood), that's one, and I also want you to put yourself in her shoes, I don't know how much love you've shown to her but on the other hand we should also understand that she's a lady and she's not growing younger, what am thinking is that she might not be sure of her stand with you; like if you are eeing someone else or not, that you could be away from her that long even though you talk on phone, thats not enough from my own point of view.  it's not like she was so confident to hurt you, but she made it CLEAR to you that she has no feeling for you again, there is something I want you to know here, every human's heart is like a gas burner that needs a gas cylinder with gas in it and if the gas cylinder has no more gas in it then it need to be replaced. Don't get me wrong, your are the gas cylinder here and you have no gas in you; you've not been around and she needs you around, its not all about sex but presence at time can mean alot to ladies at times; ladies in the house should tell me am lying

I read almost everyone's comment here and not just one person' would view this from the ladies point of view.
OP, I want you to know you made the right decision but still I don't want you to see the lady as a devil or disgrace to women because the reverse is the case, her heart has moved with another man who has time for her (atleast at the moment), not all human can stand the test of time, everybody has their breaking point, the mistake you made was that you did not take your time to discover her breaking point, she's reached her breaking point and she broke, I'm happy you said she was reluctant about visiting you again and you persisted then the poor girl honoured, one thing that made the whole difference was that SHE DID NOT SLEEP WITH YOU, though she must have Were Intimate with you in the past, but the moment she moved on, she did not allow you touch her even when you were sleeping together, not all women can do that, if am lying ask the guys here to tell you if they've slept with their ex even when she has another BF ( We often call it once there, always there). But she did not allow you, that even gave me the impression that she did not cheat on you for the period she dated you. SHe broke up with you long ago but was not strong enough to say it to you, some guys do that too. I want you to see that she's done the right thing, honoured your last invitation and still did not sleep with you. 4stars for that to her.
On a final note, she's moved on and am sure you've moved on too and I wish you all the best,
I hope people would see this the way am seeing it

lepasharon:
Is that why u men say we r unintelligent because we cry often??Well u knw wat,wen u express your feelings that is helthier and wen u check it out women live longa than men!
because we talk a bout stuff nd express ourselves!!

chic2pimp:
Haaaaaahan hehehehehe roflmao wetin do ugly girls. Shey dey no be girls. My broda tips for attracting women 'OWO,CASH,MONEY,DOLLAR,POUNDS,NAIRA,CEDIS,EUROS,YEN'

all4naija:
Hahaha, That rain must be one of the ushers! ROFL!!!

ekao:
didnt knw pple lykd avn boiz 1st, buh probli cos dy want 2 stp at 1 if he's a boy,

denny4ril:
Why everyone thinks of what can make them divorce, i always thinks of how to make it work. before you ever go into marriage did you court and get to know each other? is love unconditional? do you stand by each other through good and bad times? though people change they say but i have always learnt that once someone is a friend you can vouch for, those changes can be handled.

Reasons for most divorces these days:
1. conditional love
2. comparisons
3. financial probs
4. laziness on one part of the two
5. pride
6. lack of trust
7. unbelief n God
8. making issues out of trivial things
9. lack of attention to details
10. lack of patience to make it work
11. lack of perseverance
etc

Do you think you will be better off once you divorce? dont even think about it because the regret is so massive an will live with you forever. People claim infidelity as an excuse for divorce and i reason with you. we are all human but be careful as you may be the next victim of what you just crucify someone for. if infidelity is repetitive, make a wise decision otherwise make it work

Aderupoko2:
Our president GEJ,when he was sworn in as our President

seedord247:
see waitin i mean . .  It takes you so many hours to reply.

btW   . . . do you have 3G in the Villlage you leave?

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]It sounds better coming from you than from that obfuscated nincompoop, Breadloaf! [/size][/color]

freecocoa:
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I know say Una hate u, but wetin una fit do na

Who hate you?

you