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sexkillz:
Thank you very much Nayah! Your Best friend is Your BROTHER!. . . How clever! Now we arent discussing Brother's here, are we? NO We are discussing External males, NOT your brother, or ANYONE in your family!

Permit me to discard all you previous answers, as it i very obvious, you confused male best friend, to mean your brother! No wonder you have been answering OUT of context!. . .

Now i see why Nayah likes best friend

Nayah:
https so if I follow you I have to leave my friends because we're married??
Sorry but I don't have this conception of marriage and friendship especially when we're like brothers and sisters, and I could never, exceot if I have prooves say to my husband " don't want you to see her anymore" it's a bit selfish, my life don't have to turn around my marriage, even though as wife I have to respect and love my partner

Let me ask you this, are you married? if yes, you will understand that, marriage is about giving up somethings in life including those things you think you cannot, compromise, selflessness. If you really love you husband and for your children sake and happiness in ur marriage, you will not have someone called best friend except your husband. In real marriage, you think about urself last, ur husband and children come first, you feelings come last

Nayah:
Http , I can make the difference between my husband "my half" and my best friend
Do you know that having a girl friend can be seen as well as dangerous for your couple? imagine if she talks too much or put ideas on your woman's head and so on?

All I'm saying is that you should trust a minimum your partner

That is why nothing good can come out of "Best friend" either male or female, let your best friend be your husband or wife.

My best friend is my wife, and nothing more, not even my formers male best friend.

Nayah:
Another way to be unfaithful?? sincerly I respect your opinion, but I totally disagree marriage is not prison, is about communication, respect and understanding

You talk about communication, respect and understanding, if you do have all these and truely value them, you wont keep a person as Best friend in your marriage.

Pls check this links for live confession: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-300669.0.html

Why do you want to start what you can't finish? having a male or female best friend is another way of commiting adultry, ur wife or husband should be ur best friend. All this i can control myself, bla bla bla is all lies.

There is no man or woman on earth that can predict what he or she can do or capable of doing; God said do not move near fornication, let alone doing it. Tell me what is the discussion will be like with a Male or female best friend? that will not go into ur personal life in ur marriage. Infact, the reason for calling someone BEST FRIEND is you discussed personal matter with them, that all; so you want to discuss about your marrieage and other things with someone is not good enough to be your husband or wife.

Why can't you marry this so called Male or Female best friend when you were still single?

People just come with different excuse to commit furnication and destroy their marriage, relationship and life.

I remember someone says this prayer, i stand to be corrected.

the prayer goes thus: " whoever vote PDP into power, may their life be run as Nigeria is being run" . i guess the prayer is in effect now, this one don pass Fresh odour o! cos the pollution done reach everywhere now.

Am not surprise cos this is what we voted for Polluted air.

@ OP, what about inviting wife and kid? are you going to include the kid too or just the wife detail alone?

Odunnu:
huh?! Know me? Go thru my posts, its not too much hard work. I beg to disagree with the part in bold.
I know people, as in 'knowing them real well' who work in very good companies with the exclusion cert. given to NYSC.

what is there to know in ur profile, this all i see, use ya mouth abeg

@ Odunnu, everything happen for a reason, i want to know you plsssssssssssssss.

pinkrex:
One year of sitting in a Government ministry, hanging your boots on your desk and playing with old civil servants?

Is that not an experience?

@ OP, please, don't spoil my market o!

Hey, atleast i know Jigawa well enough, Hadeija is cool as capital city.

Yoo Ish nai, Yoo ka naih, Good thinking, Good Product

Gbammed^10

Take her to Cinema to watch Horror film, when she cling to u, tell her tha YOU HAVE DECIDED TO MARRY HER, kapish

i am never in the band -wagon style, i stick to my Nokia E75, gbammed!

i fell off my chair and slam my head against the table, people think say i don get epilepsy cos i just dey shake and laugh for ground, am in ER now doctor said i have broken ribs , pls i need emergency fund for medical cos i no get insurance, how i go pay hospital now

The following are the reasons:

Poverty: More than 70% of Nigerian are poor, and i mean poor, a poor man hold on to religion as his last hope and u better don't mess with that, cos he has nothing to loose but his life at no cost.

Illiteracy or Mis-information: Alot of Nigeria are literarily illitrate interms of religios comprehension cos we mostly follow our pastors and imam blindly and we lack common sense alot, if not, why should anyone tell u to kill in the name of religion and u start killing without asking why.

Laziness: Alot of us are lazy to truely seach for divine guardians from God, we all rush to Pastord and Imam to pray for us without us praying directly to God ourselves, we don't read, we are lazy praying and are so bigoted to the core anytime.

Ethnic and Religious Intolerant: we all know that we hate ourselves, let truth be told, we don't love ourselves in this country, and until we love our neighbour as ourself, we will always see others as enemy.

This got nothing with where i come from, Mostly, those from the North are Muslim while Mostly South-eastern and south-south are Christain; this regions are hateful the Muslims in the North likewise the Northerners are not in anyway friend to the southerners, each believe their religion is the right one. You hardly found religious wahala in the Southwest cos there is hardly any family without the two religion. I came from a union of both religion, so may be i will have to kill my father for God to love me or my brother has to kill my mum for Gog to love him, or i have to kill my wife for God to know am doing his wish.

we better unite or go our separate way in peace or pieces

moderatorr:
all muslims are pottential terrorists, sambo is a muslim, therefore sambo is a pottential terrorist!

Dis Guy:
true, all muslims should be expelled from nigeria too, i wonder why jonathan is still working with sambo

I guess you guys are the terrorist, posting S.T.U.P.I.D , ethnic and religious bigot messages, bunch of Bigot F.O.O.L.S.

Yaa! Ori is good and i will recommend guys to help their woman after giving birth interm of massaging their woman's tommy with hot water and all those stuf, my wife was surprise when i was helping out on this, though my wife got some black spots on her chest and neck, but no SM al all.

Re-booting,

i was just jumping and assuming i understand the OP, but no way, OP, pls try to read what you post and see if u can understand it ya self.

Thanks to my mother for bringing me up to what i am today, i thank you for not abandone me when i can't take care of myself let alone anyone.
I promise to take good care of you in any condition i found myself, i thank God for making you a good mother to her children, I love you Iya-Ijebu, may you live long and enjoy the fruit of your labour, amin cos i know you just started life @ 80

beejaei:
So I am based in dc and I have gone to clubs with a predominantly nigerian crowd twice. I have also partied with people from all over the US (minus african americans), and they all said I was a good dancer. However, when I am at cubs with Nigerian girls, they avoid dancing with me. Usually I go to the girls just standing or dancing with other girls and begin to dance vigorously/seriously to convince them to dance with me. Almost every time, they will have this mischevious/mocking/affirming smile on their face as they watch me, then they begin to dance,too. The problem is that without fail, all of these girls then excuse themselves or tell me to excuse them after 2-3 minutes of dancing. I do not understand. Some people have suggested that it is either that I dance poorly or too vigorously. Someone please tell me about the etiquette of clubbing,

Bros, it either you dance badly or you have body odour, any of this must be responsible, wait the third one; you like hugging while dancing i guess in all it probably Ise awon Iya ni yen (Body odour)

When i've already bought Ghana-must-go bags here for my journey home,

For me i like girls that have self esteem and who know what they want and can afford it, not depending on a guy to maintain their high level or what-have-you. I believe a guy can help occationally, but not pushing that responsibility to him cos hes your Guy.

If you call urself High mainenance, then you should afford it without depending on a guy to do that, simple. I love simple but  elegant things and my wife knows that, she is pretty and simple.

tunde300us:
Oga next time when u dey go your village make u take the train ,am sure u go do 2 holidays on the same spot .No one is saying the man isnt trying,but the fb post is just not it sir.
Which train i ask u again ?

I can't even understand his motive behind the false report from Pres. GEJ, cos its like GEJ is a Facebook president, not Nigeria, i guess he spend more time on facebook than anything else, if not he will have more time doing things than useless facebook update.

Presido GEJ, do your job and forget about facebook, when you perform well, ur facebook will be overload with good comment, the reason why you are asking us is either, u don't have any idea or what need to be done or u are completely in another world

tunde300us:
This ppl re really out of touch with reality,which train is he talking abt sef ?

The one from Aso villa to Gwagwalada

hercules07:
Guys should just visit the Railway yard at Alagomeji, you will weep for Nigeria, there are junks all over the place, infact, the most modern space there is owned by Lagos state (being used by the Chinese Construction company)

no mind them, i don't know how many of them done enter Train before let alone know of Ido or Alago-meji, GEJ is justusing that medium to fool his blind followers

GCFR:
Never!

Grand C0mmander 0f the Federal Republic: Never say Never

@ OP, it is irresponsible of you to call people of other religion[b] Fanatics [/b] cos they are not Xtian, am sure u will not allow someone to insult ur parent just because they have a view as to what is better for them, let be cautious enough when addressing people. if you can't married someone from other relion, that is ur matter.

I will advise the guy to open up, and should not pretend what he is not, that is worst than satan, if they loved each other, there is nothing anyone will do about it;even the girl's parent.

confuse muntula

@ seun,
i will like to have one, don't know if one can living abroad can get a car loan in naija bank? cos all the banks here are Agberoes

There is no power outage in my area except when there is Thunderstorm or Tornado