₦airaland Forum

oloshun:
I don't know how Man U is going to do it by playing 3 matches in 6 days.

solaj40:
Unless he has attended US embassy interview, he wont know if its like US embassy interview. A better question is what topics are covered and how was the atmosphere

NarnieAceTech:
Sorry to derail the thread but I need help locating VicLawrence Associate (VLA) office at Victoria Island, Lagos. I need to be at their office before 7am. Can someone help with directions. I am coming from Ikotun

aylive02:
Please I don't know much about Ibadan but i was scheduled for an interview with this Real Estate company. Please is anyone familiar with this company name?

Chreze:
Hahahahahahahahahaha. If I am to advice any one about abroad matter, I will say “ just be open minded”. By that I mean, don’t go for a particular race or people, just go for real human. When you see them, you go know say na real human be this and not animal, the only problem here is, you that is looking for real human go gat be real human too.

EddieMurphie:
Hmmmm, pretty fast. Pre-CAS interview mail came in 24hrs after payment. Make man go prepare oooo

omopapa:
The fear of the unknown is what I sense here. You need to break ursef from shackles of dependency. Yes, you can do it, it’s doable. You just need reassurance, dedication and commitment.

Like I always say, the first set of people you acquaint ursef with in the UK will have impact on ur UK journey. Find people that share same goal as ursef and it will be smooth sailing for you. People that mean well for you and point you to the right track.

You are not just a girl, you are now an independent, bold and courageous lady who knows what she wants and will strive to get it.

Lexusgs430:
So we are in agreement........ A lizard in Nigeria, can almost definitely, become a crocodile abroad (all things been equal).......

Lexusgs430:
It can o....... We also have bay leaf in the UK + agbari ojukwu, if you look hard enough, you would also find it prepared with firewood.......

Nah wetin remain.........

Lexusgs430:
Not true..... Asìpa òwe.........

The Nigerian condition restricts the lizard from flourishing........

Once the lizard discovers better ways of lizard actualization, the lizard self esteem matures..... Leading the lizard to naturally grow and metamorphose into a crocodile.........

LagosismyHome:
It hard to predict so me I no fit put mouth. .... that naija harsh environment of no job and frustration can bring out the worse in people so maybe he like that because of naija(although not excusing him)

He can come here and two possibleoutcomes ... he gets a job , becomes more focused and responsible or secondly he remains a total nightmare. I don't think anybody can predict which of the two outcome so only God knows really and you a bit

For me, my mental health is everything, all that suffering enduring in marriage is a no no for me. I just cant deal however I seen many marriages florist here that might not have if we were in naija . Especially the ones that adopt the "partnership marriage" which goes with mutual respect not the oppressive type

EddieMurphie:
Hi, I just sent you a pm. I made a £6,000 tuition deposit to Sheffield Hallam University this afternoon using the school online payment portal, I was sent a payment confirmation immediately.

I would like to ask you some questions however. Thanks

Lexusgs430:
Wetin religion and tradition go cause, both no go fit pack am.......

Culture and traditions, is been held to bondage.... By the dead.......

Lexusgs430:
Una dey hear so....... You are advised to continually live like slaves, keep enduring, praying, fasting and vigiling........

One spiritual being would make it normal...... Those who have brains..... May they think.....

felixzo1:
if the new guy losses his job, what happens

tubabs2002:
Play station 4, Barely used, comes with game console, pads, pad dock and few games inclusive


Price : 120,000 ( negotiable)

Contact : 08063831850 (watsapp only)
use Wese90 as escrow

Inkredible:
Naaa holmes, I rarely use same password on different accounts. Easier to know which account is vulnerable.

Anyways, how did you go about changing the password on here?

Inkredible:
Considering I only use this password here, has there been a data dump recently?

Anyone else get this?


Is password change a thing on Nairaland @justwise ?

RalphJean:
ALL the signs were as clear as day.
Although you clearly could see and feel there was no love, you still ‘forced him’ to marry you even after him chop the money wey u give am.

In my hearts of hearts, I’m pondering: NA JAZZ?
If all the ‘signs and SYNDROMES’ you saw since 2015 didn’t convince you that it ain’t working, I really doubt anyone in here can make you see the light.



PS: you wanted to bring a man who clearly doesn’t love you to the UK so that he will work, earn and balance your school fees?

Justagirl01:
Hey guys, please bear with me for this is going to be lengthy, but at the moment I am at a crossroad. Had to create a new account because of this.

I met my husband in 2012 while I was serving (NYSC), we were first friends before we started dating. We started cohabiting in 2013 and we had a lot of issues from family to money management to cheating to gambling to fighting to breaking up several times and getting back, I will spare you guys the sordid details.

He lost his job in 2015 and since then he has been gambling. He does other things on the side like writing which doesn't bring alot but the money goes into gambling. I reported him to everyone I felt could speak to him because this was destroying and taking a toll on our finances, all the times this was happening, we were not married. Please keep in mind that I wasn't the best of persons at the time, I used to be throw my fists at him, fight with him in the middle of the road if I get triggered, our sex life was dead because emotionally I was deeply unhappy at the turn of events. I kept talking to him and wanted him to do better because I believed he could only if he just applied himself.



When I decided to start the process of travelling to the UK, we were in the middle of a breakup, I pleaded with him that I want him to walk this path with me, and since I didn't have enough, he could come along as a dependent so he can work the balance of my fees while I concentrate on my studies, and that since he didn't have any tangible thing doing, it is an opportunity to start a life and start earning something again. At first he was reluctant, I had to plead with him for weeks before he finally agreed to do so with me. His fears accordingly to him is that he doesn't trust me because I am erratic.

Fast forward to 2020 April, i got admission, sold alot of my stuffs, and travelled. Prior to my travelling, I had sent him money to do his passport and pay for marriage in Ikoyi registry and money for clothes as well, he didn't do none of it, and couldn't account for the money either. I got to know this a day before the so-called date that was fixed as I came from Benin, thinking I was getting married the next day but in the morning when I woke him up for us to get dressed, he said the wedding would not be holding. To cut the long story short, I had to pay for a fast track wedding a few days to my leaving the country.

I left for the UK this year January in the hope that he'd join me latest March unfortunately he hasn't been able to join me. He doesn't have the resources to fund his trip either and I can't fund it because I still have my balance tuition to pay. Since I got here its been one quarrel to another. I can work to fund his relocation after paying off my balance tuition but I feel he doesn't love me as he's willing t walk away at the slightest provocation.

I feel so alone, I don't feel loved and it has been like this for the past years. When we have a quarrel, he shuts me out, never takes my calls or read my messages. When I call those I think can reach him because I have tried to reach him for days, its another round of anger and shutting out. I am just really unhappy because I am at a loss at what to do at the moment,

Infamous:
Oh boy. I have been dulling myself all these while

familier:
Good day RomanceLanders
I just clocked 20 today

what are those advice you'll render to us in our Early or mid twenties...What are those mistakes or bad decisions that you'll never want us to make so as not to have regrets in life... I'm currently doing my ND2 in a state polytechnic with the thought of dropping at this level, I'm interested in leaning building construction.

You're advice and insults are welcomed

tellwisdom:
I don’t blame you. I blame those who wasted their money on you with the hope of positivity. You need to be trained till you are 40.

starbuck:
Is it a must your phone must be switched off throughout the journey


I am planning on flying to abuja soon, make my village people no come disgrace me

tellwisdom:
Inefficiency and lack of knowledge your bearers Suffers, reflects in you. You are a risk to humanity.

tellwisdom:
Be very careful with these kids telling you 21st century and modern day. Tradition is tradition.

If you do otherwise, just make sure you don’t step your foot anywhere close to your village.

You see these ones talking like they know anything about life; they will be no where to be found when spiritual problem starts, and you will have no option than to carry your cross alone out of sheer negligence.

JeffreyJunior:
You never cross 30years be that. Families of some of us dey pray mek we even carry goat come house say we wan marry am.