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the best thing would be to find out what he hates so much and do it. my husband can't stand me being silent, so this would be a very good weapon if he ever cheats and i didn't choose to walk out of the marriage, which i will only stay if kidz are involved

You men need to get over yourselves eh, because this one wey una dey look for virgins now, how many women una don disvirgin wey una no marry eh. you do know that what goes around comes around, wetin una dey do to another person pikin, somebody go do am to your pikin.

chika98:
This is soooo pointless. if you want to marry a virgin, Good for you but I sure as hell hope you're a goddarn virgin yourself!

i rest my case.

debosky:
Look I am not talking about the deceitful men here who lure women, I am talking about the downtrodden, the deceived, the silently suffering Nigerian man who was DENIED the opportunity of marrying a virgin because of the DECEITFUL nature of some women out there.

I am standing here on behalf of those men - you can be like this man from Lille - come out and fight for your right! Don't suffer in silence. Don't let her get away with the LIES and DECEPTION. She stole your innocence, fight back!

@ amber

I don't know how he knew, but that is besides the point, she LIED and deceived him and that is WRONG

is it not still men that do most of the disvirgin

i no fit argue this again because na endless arguements we go dey have.

if only men would cut off their kinis


i dey go work

jennykadry:
what about a case or cases in d uni where a male lecturer must sleep wt a female student for her to cross over

thank you, you took that right from my mouth

debosky:
how did you women twist this thread about FAKE Virgins into rape?

The women claiming to be virgins and are not are WICKED. Men need to stand up for their rights. . .I hear at least 50% of men were deceived by their wives to be virgins in Nigeria, but are keeping silent. I urge these men to STAND UP and take courage from this incidence in France - these women stole your dignity, this is your chance to take it back!!

if you guys can lock up you dicks then you would have the right to stand up and take courage

most men do want it if you look at high school students these days sleeping with their teachers. they all want to be cool thats why they do it

@amber

thats why i said most women

yeah figured it out.

jennykadry:
how can they say no when they are gangbanged,how can they say no when they are threatened,tell me

thank you.

you men device ways to get women in bed, you could drug a woman and say stupid stuff. like prove to me you love me by sleeping with me, most women are stupid enough to fall for that crap

from what i have seen, - this guy or girl is an idiot-

@ saucekid
well the chances of that happening compared to how much men love to poke cannot be compared

i don't think Love is blind, we just refused to convince ourselves that a situation is really happening, we choose to ignore it and then say Love is blind. if a woman refuses to leave a cheating husband or a man who assaults and beats her then its not about love being blind. she must either be stupid or have good reason for not leaving. it ain't got nothing to do with love being blind.

jennykadry:
if u guys will lock your yekini with padlock ,then they will be real virgins

abi o, how do you men expect to marry virgins when you poke every hole on sight. most men are idiots.

@poster

when you come figure out say your guy wowo, when im been dey toast you and una dey date you no realize say im wo wo, na when marriage come enter abi.

one person food na another person poison, if you feel he too wowo, leave am for another woman, hope sey you no go regret when another woman sees him as the most handsome man in the world.

@ poster

some people like dem life. if she entered your car only God knows what you and your friend would want to do or have done to her

Abbygyal:
@ima 1
na sooo ooo
people think its stupid to ask 4 advice, if someone needs your advice give him na dnt care if its true or false.
@poster
tell d police and show him how its done if u knw what i mean
(that is if its true)

thank you so much, that is what i have been trying to say, no one made anyone the proof police to check to see if a story is true or not before giving advice. if you feel a story is a lie either prove it or keep it to yourself and just advice. i might have been guilty of this too, im not perfect.

(but i don lose respect for some people who i thought had higher standards)

and how will you prove that the story is not true, abeg tell me

Some of you people should be ashamed of yourselves, whether na lie or truth, Rape should be taken seriously. i felt sorry for some people who kept saying "oh its a lie or i don't believe your story" i mean just because most people in naija don't come out when they are raped and tell everyone because they are ashamed it happened to them and think that it was their fault doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

@poster
i'll advice you to get the police involved, and if it is true, your friend really raped her, then you should beat the shit out of him.

can't say she or he is a man if he/she was born a woman, so our generalization is wrong God is not stupid.

its not surprising because almost all young naija women today want already made husband, the want to reap where they did not sow, they do not want to build something with a man from the ground up. alot of them wanna come to the U.S thinking it is all bed of roses. so yeah it happens but i dunno when they will learn

9cent:
@ima, u never see were good men dey beg bad girls to marry them before?

na wa o, where do they keep their brain

Abuja, i think Gwarimpa area. i know charly boy has a house there

i think kate henshaw is more talented, she acts better n much more classier than genny. n she can actually sing

thats because the bad girlz want good men after they have been around testing other men. when they r tired n want to settle down, they look for good men

my dad n husband don't get along much because my dad is controlling n my hubby doesn't like that, so my dad put up alot of issues. they don't speak too much. but my hubby n my mom are cool n can talk about nothing for hours.

parents just need to respect their kidz decision n let them make their mistake instead of saying "its my way or the highway"

na so everyone dey talk, marriage is not for everyone, even if you live with a man for 1 million years, you have kids or not it is still marriage, so either way we are still married, so no matter how you do am as long as you dey find the love of your life. you still dey for marriage.
wats the difference between a couple that is married and another couple who are faithful to each other (na still marriage) because all thw wahala for marriage still dey

This is like threading on a tiny line because you don't want to come out as being the jealous wife, but then again you don't want to give him the opportunity to cheat on you. i remember a few days before my wedding, my husband was hanging out with his friend he hadn't seen for like 15 years, and they went to clubs in naija, without me asking my husband told me what happened. but then i went out with him and his friend to different clubs, and it was fun to see him having some fun. lol all those naija women were trying to rub up on him, but he wouldn't let them (prolly because i was there) but there is one thing i made clear to him. if you cheat our marriage is done-over-no more. so do whatever you wanna do but know your limits.

why is this thread and every almost every thread geered toward bashing women, abi una no know say una mama na woman. alot of men cheat but no one sees it as anything they blame it on him being a man, which is bullshit. i think women try alot to keep the marriage together but the man always seems to bring it down. and then blame women if they cheat, if you don't want your wife to cheat then be a F-ing man

Talking to their kids about sex, my parents never did but it would have been nice if they did.