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crackkhaus:
While some of you are busy forming happy on their behalf, the Prince says the opposite and expressed how he truly feels about the whole situation.

How you or anyone can be happy for someone who is deeply saddened, is beyond all human comprehension.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=55OQ7aC7hW4

He only said that to appeal to his people. He also said he wants a life of peace with his family and that he and Meghan share the same values. How come you didn't see all this? You only acknowledged the "deeply saddened" part. Obviously, Harry has always wanted freedom, a life away from the press, royalty, etc. And he found someone that someone he could achieve it with.

I wish them the best.

Ekemeze:
Didn't you know about it before now?

You are funny.

Maybe not real mental issues. But I have always wonder how people follow so gullibly like they are hypnotized or being controlled somehow. It's like the Marlian craze. People are idle and feel the need to follow or believe in something that they fall for anything.

Ekemeze:
Okay oo. but my lil advice is, avoid these people here, there are mostly jobless with one mental health issue or the other.

No wonder.

Ekemeze:
Imaima eyenka mi oo. which one is "fowl" words again? do we have goat words?

My mistake. Was going to say "foul"

ubunja:
no. Mgtows don't attack NLanders. But celebs. I don't know how that can be hurting anyone who's not that celeb. Celebs are the lesson books of mgtow.

mgtows don't attack anyone here by naming a thread after that person . Look at my threads. You won't see me busy wailing about how women need to change etc. I just tell men what to do. How to play the game. How to win. How to take advantage. I don't have time to open threads and with titles like: "Listen Up Women.." or "Dear women etc...".

I never direct my threads to women. But to men. I tell them "Women are like this, so you, do this and that and win". Simple.

Instead of all these endless mgtow threads, why not write about the type of men you like? And inspire men to be that. Why not write about how women can take advantage of mgtows? It can be done. Believe me. But you waste time attacking. And you gain nothing. The only men who cheer you on are the type of men even you don't want. The weak ones who are the Nice Guys. It's laughable. Im reasoning with you and it would be a shame if you miss my point. Not to mention a waste of my time typing it.


P/S in case you never noticed, the men who are the most violent against mgtow and the Red Pill are married men.
So already their support of your threads won't lead to any tangible benefit to you lots.

I don't open threads on mgtow.

You may not be guilty of attacking people and hurling insults but your followers are guilty of this. You know how fanatic followers can get more passionate and aggressive than their leader...like they are trying to impress you.

Westernlove:
Shame on you too girl, Now please excuse me.

Yawns

Westernlove:
Don't you ever address me In such manner again.....Who Is a boy? Are you In your right senses at all? Don't let me descend on you this morning, last warning!!!

Descend from where? You are getting all worked up. You are blowing hurt, meanwhile you address people worse than this. Oh! So you can not handle what you dish out . Shame on you!

You are warning yourself, not me boy.

Westernlove:
Stale.....Always trying to play the Victim card, If I unleash my wrath on you now, You'll start crying, cry cry baby, Women never grow up. I'll spare you this morning.

What victim card? I don't think you even know what that means

I am the one sparing you boy. Don't think you are tough. It's little boys like you that always refuse to grow up and act right.

AstroG:
Hmmmm

Fix yours while you are at it

Westernlove:
Expired evening newspaper, Aren't you suppose to be thinking about taking good care of your family and be a responsible woman to your household. That's If you even have one and not not telling lies. You had to stoop so low and come on here arguing with bachelors and spinsters. Irresponsible women always poking nose Into matters that doesn't concerns them.

You are just so predictable. I would have predicted this response. Stale gist .

Discuss like a mature man instead of ranting and throwing tantrums like an overgrown baby and trying to "married-shame" or "household-shame" me. Chicken

Westernlove:
You must be very stupid and a big foool for this hasty generalization. Oponu, Ugly mofo.....Who will bed an Orangutan like you Ugly smelly olosho...

One of them obviously.

So quick to attack with foul words that hardly even communicates sense.

ubunja:
and even if they do how is attacking them with post after post going to help anyone's case?

Have you also pointed this out to them? If their going around attacking people post after post will help anyone's case.

I think their values include being combative, defensive, insecure, bullish, brash, verbally abusive and so rigid.

[quote author=ericsmith post=85949096][/quote]If you are asking if I assign chores to him, the answer is no

ericsmith:
what i can induce is that he is probably self employed and he needs ur contribution, my sure guess is that he does those tinz out of freewill not becos you ask him to.
when a man get to that level he makes enough to cater for is home ... he won't just tolerate sometinz becos d woman is working.

Your deduction is just funny. He earns more than twice my salary. When I was out of work for over a year, his earning was enough for us. I almost got lazy about getting back into the job market.

He's just the rare kind. Not something most guys on this forum can understand. His upbringing was amazing. I wish I had met his father to really thank him. Because from what I see on this forum, he's superhuman.

ericsmith:
I do agree some men see women earning as threat or feel threatenes buh some men are not like that ... my concern is these so called career or job not gettin in the way of her primary duties to our home. a woman can work as long as it won't she doesnt let it distort her primary duties as a well.
now lets me put you in a not tew tight corner, does ur hubby do house chores occasionally or regularly.

The frequency depends on his free time. We both work and we don't have a maid.

ericsmith:
No one is killing anyone dreams or aspiration, the basic truth is without our primary/statuory roles and duties we are useless as humans.
One word women don't understand is "responsibility" for every choice made you must be ready to take & bear d responsibility that comes with it.
what these means is that if as a woman u feel ur career & aspiration is a primary priority then don't marry, also if a wife insist she must work,she can go ahead buh don't complain or nag about ur primary duties. you can't put ur leg in a pool n stil b complaining it is cold.

bottomline if a woman's life is all about career & aspiration i don't see why a woman shuld b in a man's house. just be single n enjoy ur life jeje instead of tryin to manipulate men into simps. You are not even caring you're not even romantic that is hw they start

What you are saying is different from what the OP is saying that a woman should not even think about a career.

Still, why should a woman be a t a disadvantage because she wants to get married. I have always worked right from before I even entered university. For a man to now come and say I should sit at home will be impossible.

Thank God I met a sensible one who doesn't feel threatened by a woman's success so much that he has to try to suppress her to make himself feel who and manly.

Kennedyiheme:
yes you are not in support of the archaic style of marriage but the modern style of marriage... the same modern stylenof marriage with high divorce rate... wow

And the traditional style has less divorce rate? Because women enjoy slavery? Who are you kidding? Women are not fools. Which woman will completely phase out her own life just because you want to feel complete as a man. Work on your insecurities and stop allowing a woman pay for your issues

Kennedyiheme:
then dont get married, the moment you go into marriage you become part of the man... I'm sorry its just the way nature has programmed life to be... men and women aren't the same.. if you cant drop everything then don't get married as thats the sacrifice women have to take if they ever want to get married...

Which nature? Or you mean it's your own idea of marriage? You think all the couples you see practise this archaic idea of marriage? It is peculiar to you and some few other that happen to think like you..

You think marriage is supposed to be a disadvantage for women and an advantage for men?

You obviously don't know what marriage is about. You are just using some traditional mumbo jumbo to make an excuse for you to intimidate and suppress an unfortunate woman

Kennedyiheme:
the duty of a wife is to be a wife and perform her duties with pride while the husband performs his .. that is what the traditional marriage is all about. If you cant follow the rules, you have no business getting married, stay unmarried

What about her duty as a human being? Or her own dreams and ambitions? You think being a wife is a woman's only duty?

Is being a husband your only duty? Don't you pursue your own ambitions? Why do you now think you can suppress a woman's dreams because of marriage? Isn't that slavery?

Kennedyiheme:
if I'm going into a marriage , my wife is never working

Because you brought her into this world or created her? And so you decide her future because you think you bought her because you paid an inconsequential amount for bride price. You think that is enough for a human life?

So you kill her dreams and aspirations because she is unfortunate enough to be your wife. I see.

ednut1:
u clearly know nothing

It's not hard to decipher that.

Kennedyiheme:
with women they think like fishes.. yhe day you stop doing it, there would be chaos

You were obviously raised to see women as beneath you and to disrespect them. That's why you can open your mouth to say women think like fishes.

Men will still do chores. It's not a big deal to them as it is to you. So relax and stop trying to turn them to your side.

Most of them go from school. Their parents think they are in school, meanwhile, they have gone to stay with man.

He needs to man up and accept his responsibilities. He should stop acting like it's all your fault. When he had unprotected sex, what was he expecting? A pumpkin?

His family is just being bias. They blame you for not concentrating on your studies. Fine! That's true. But do they also blame their son/brother for not controlling his manhoood?

Both of you are at fault. He should suck it up and face his responsibilities. He should come up and say he is not doing again or that you both should work on the marriage instead of acting like a demon.

Joshmodest:
This isn't about spoiling kids , its about taking responsibility for your wrong doings , and failure to do so is pride , and it's teaching the kids a bad habit " pride "..
My dad was the rigid type like this man , and my mom was the liberal type , growing into a man today , whenever i visit my parents , I have this close bond with my mom , we discuss ,laugh and share stuffs together , and my dad is now jealous of the results of his past actions ...I obviously find it hard to have a convo with my dad , cos the relationship never existed , and its too late to start one !
make your kids your friends , and you will enjoy respect from them when they are no longer afraid of you !!

That's something a lot of men don't understand. It's not about paying school fees and all. If there's no relationship, they will regret it later.

Are you the only child or son? Seems like you married your mother because your wife is very much like your mother.

The truth is that your home is for your wife and you and too much interference should be controlled, whether from her mother or your mother.

Your mum should understand that you are married and she needs to give you space. I can't imagine my MIL coming to my home and trying to run it for me. She needs to give you guys a breather.

WetSmoke:
Men no de too eat am sef.

My brother can eat 1k worth of it at a go. He has three kids...

maasoap:
And they're not even colleagues.

For me, that behaviour was suspicious, not necessarily "rape intended". But he was obviously trying to warm his way to her. Besides he might not be telling us the full details