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Sleezwizz:
Dont be surprised that guy u c as ur special bf may also b patronizing them too

So don't b too quick to judge people..

Why is it that guys that engage in some practices like this are always quick to assume that other guys are the same way?

A man cheats and he concludes that all men do, because he judges from his own point of view and his inability to maintain self control.

N.B

My comment wasn't a judgement.

Modified

ladiesreject:
What would you rather have them do?
Get a girlfriend? Not everyone has money to take care of a girlfriend.
Marry? Not everyone is ready for that commitment just yet.
Stay celibate? Not everyone can control the urge.

Then again.... What what would you rather have the ladiesreject crew do? That's, those that want to get a girlfriend but are being rejected?

All your reasons may sound valid to you. But it's not enough to justify letting your guards down and being fused with a prostitutee in something as vital as a sexual encounter.

You have the task of protecting yourself and being mindful of what goes in and out. So that you don't find yourself in a precarious or life threatening situation.

Guys that patronize sex workers are really "minded". It's a big risk that they are willing to take just to release.

Xisnin:
There are a specific set of people who hold such an opinion.
Those who are scared of their own past or need to defend their religion.

Or those who think less of women. That believe she must have been lying.

teelaw4life:
You trusted her not to get pregnant?
I hate commenting on issues like this but I'll be frank with you. I think what you've done is pure evil, downright wicked and insincere.
When did you notice she wouldn't be suitable for you as a life partner? After you started having sex with her right?

Bro...you're wicked. You clearly got into the relationship for sex. But beyond that if sex is what you want, you should have stated it clearly from the start if not, nothing should've stopped you from first observing the kind of person she is and making your decision.
The moment you engage in sexual relations with somebody (without any sort of protection) you're communicating commitment and promising them that they are the one you want to be with.

What ever you want to do, please do it, but I hope and pray that you get the comeuppance you deserve. If the girl was my sister, you'd be seeing hell right now.

You claim she's not smart but it's so obvious that you're just as dumb as she is, otherwise, you wouldn't be in this situation.

Finally stop asking people for suggestions, you know what to do. Do it. But i hope you get exactly what you've paid for.

It's the deception of his actions that is really painful. He knew in his heart, probably from the beginning, that he wasn't going to marry her but he still led her on... having unprotected sex with her.

He went for a naive 19 year old, probably a virgin. And after he has had enough, he needs us to advise him on an exit plan.

I am not even saying he has to marry her but surely sometime in the future, his actions will come back and bite him

extralargehead:
Please we do want distractions. They( Eagles) should concentrate on the assignment ahead and win the cup. We did not send them to Egypt for beauty contest. Period!!!

Nicely said!

Martinez39:
What you said was something I would expect from a human with a single digit IQ. Go back and read what you wrote. Pastor Adeboye made many points and the guy you replied to pick a factual point yet you blasted him for not picking other unrelated points and being unbalanced. Is he not at liberty to pick a point from a speaker's speech? Need he address all points? Can't he address one without addressing the others that are unrelated to the point he is addressing?

I have, by chance, come across many of your post and it became clear to me that you are not bright. You argue with your emotions.

Cc. Kingosytex

What I don't understand is why you are being so emotional about a comment I didn't even quote you on. Seems more like you have been waiting for an opportunity to pounce.

It seems when a lady challenges a guys on this forum, aside crying "feminism", they cry "IQ". I guess you think calling someone"brainless" means you have a high IQ.

I didn't come here to exchange words. If we cannot have a mature conversation without insults and preconceived mindsets, you can please quote someone else.

Martinez39:
You are brainless, I swear.

Why are so many guys on this forum so insultive?

Could there have been a more civil way to respond?

And you are not even the one i quoted

Jacinthe:
I actually agree with your second paragraph.

Most times it's men who brandish their money to swoon women. Before you ask them what they do, they've already started telling you things that are suggestive of their financial standing. One in particular asked me "Jacinthe, why don't you want to eat my money na?".

Another one located my cousin on Facebook and was telling him if I respond to him, he will chase his wife from the house and spoil me with money. From a man I never met physically.

So, really, if the average man presents himself as someone who only has money to offer a woman, he shouldn't complain when women who only want money on offer, flock in his direction.

Or how good they are in bed.

truthsayer009:
Yeah, because without the female gender, Life is not Interesting & God created only two, one is interesting & the other is not.

If we don't bash you, who will

Can you imagine!

truthsayer009:
Quick question: is there any other gender that threads can be created about?

Lol... this your question ehn

I am sure you know what I mean. I mean the near obsessive attitude of a number of guys here constantly creating female bashing threads.

[quote author=AstroG post=79991541][/quote]You are just a trouble maker.

Kingosytex:
"...when a woman accuses you of something nobody will listen to you... PASTOR ADEBOYE


The pastor just said the plain truth and this is clearly what is happening.


Once a woman accuses you of something, almost everybody will believe her except the few rational, sensible and reasonable folks who don't employ emotions and sentiments in their quest to ascertain the truth

He also said

"your sin will find you out"

"What you don't intend to eat, don't smell"

"Whatever is hidden will eventually come out"

You just picked one that suits you and categorized on it

AstroG:
What's you point now??

Good thing you are not the op.

Are you expecting me to tell him to marry her or not to marry her?

That decision should be left to him to make. I only painted the picture clearly for him to see how whatever choice he makes will impact on her.

pcguru1:
Women are encourage to break relationships that they are not happy in to seek better alternatives, but all of a sudden it's suddenly sentimental because the woman here is the victim. smh someone keeps malice, not looking to further in education that's a negative for me. Marriage is a different ball game o, if he can't cope in relationship , marriage will be worse my brother move on and pick the one you desire, all these agony aunts will not be there to help when the problem starts in your household.

You are right.

And it will be worse in marriage. While he is forward thinking and progressive, she is not progressing and has already become redundant.

He should do the needful now or endure the marriage for a lifetime.

But she is a virgin

If she is not fit for you to marry, she should not be fit for you to sleep with. Now you have complicated her life and you want to run.

Where do you want her to start from with two children? You probably don't like the idea of marrying a single mother. And you have put her in that status. She has that single mother "Nigerian curse" hanging over her head.

Her family is bad. If she is with you in whatever country, the influence from her mum should be limited and as she grows, she will get wiser. When you decided to date a 19 year old, you should have known it has down sides too.

She could be the way she is...naive and all because of her age. Though there are many smart ladies her age but she is different. You could help develop on that.

You didn't try. You point fingers and say she's not smart. Meanwhile you kept sleeping with her without protection even as you say you don't love her and didn't intend to marry her.

What does that say about you too?

Sterope:
You need to mind your own damn business! Gboron mi deleru!

I don't wear an ijab and you have not seen me type any offensive words.

What is the essence of your ijab right now? Were you wearing the ijab as you were insulting me or you had removed it?

You can't even have a civil conversation without your true nature manifesting. And you think an ijab is enough to cover your true character and flaws.

Sterope:
Oh no, I am not the one claiming someone's headscarf is the root cause of my headache.

Nigeria is not a secular state! Uniformity will not be affected with or without hijab. A child has the right to go to school and also the right not to be discriminated against or denied education because of her religion.

Whether you like it or not, this issue has already been decided once before in our favour. This was exactly how you huffed and puffed with the Firdaus issue. Guess what happened? She eventually used her hijab along several others and the occasion went really well.

For goodness sake, why you are bothering so much about someone's head? Will you die if your neighbor uses her hijab? How does it affect your ability to function as a human or practice your religion?

Go to bed.

You need to relax

LordKO:
You for no say things like "Trust, Commitment, Mutual respect And understanding" na end product them be, they no be raw materials (values/attributes) - na raw materials the breed product nah. lol.

LordKO speaking pidgin

princfred:
How you can't help but talk about yourself while refering to others.
Only a goat will end up with this one.
Better resort to native doctors to get a fellow goat as no pastor can help your moronic case.

Don't assume that because you are a goat, it means everyone else is a goat.

When you are done with your childish rant, you can pack yourself and leave my mention or this thread. Or if you like, you can stay and keep up with your silly charade.

2buffagain:
All this is what happens when you try to force a woman who doesn't like you (talkless of love) to be with you.
The average Naija man's idea of toasting is to bum-rush a girl with money. No game. No psychological configuration.
Just "look how much money I can throw at you".

Then all of a sudden when your wallet shrinks you start wondering why she has no respect for you.

A man with sense...making a point in an objective way.

princfred:
Young lady, jot down and receive sense now that you were opportuned to jam it and stop beating about irrelevances.
No one is sharing award here for beating about the bush.

Little boy learn to discuss without bias, hatred or any preconceived notion.

Jot that down and go through it later.

It just gives you joy to bash ladies and feel superior.

princfred:
Lol ....
Imagine projection and deflection.
Abeg Align with sense before claiming intelligence and before its too late.

The person I was even discussing with in the first place is not fussing like you three lot

princfred:
Lol the matter tire mathias. Phony more, is how these are the ones who claim to be intleiigient and how she is projecting what she is actually doing( twisting and replying out of context) on me.
Btw, I know one village where people reason like her maybe she is from there or its just a personal thing.
Also most women do this projection thing when they are losing blood so i can try even if unsuccessfully to understand her.

You both should remove the log from your eyes first before you form an alliance to analyse and judge.

Cc
Korllarmi007

biz2get:
Inasmuch as, I would have loved to jump into this your SHIP SH!T.

I cannot waste a second of my time exchanging words with a Simpleton.

[s]Quoting me again, will only confirm your a dunce[/s].

Neither can I

Quoting me again will only confirm that you are a dunce

PUSSYHOE:
People can't keep shut about their problems.

And men don't have problems?

princfred:
I dont know if you have comprehension problem or bent on twisting my post out of order. My emphasis is on respect which is a primary need not women intelligence (actually academic intelligience) which most men regard as a secondary desire. If you dont have the primary basis then the secondary is almost useless.

Most men don't have problem with higher intelligence for women or intelligence women but disrespectful ones.
One can be academic Zar but a romantic emotional or psychological moronic illiterate without respect and that is what the man will seee you as.

If a woman, or anyone for that matter, obtaining more "intelligence" makes her less respectful then she is actually getting dumber to the man relationship-wise not intelligent.

Emotional and relationship intelligence matters as much to men as academic knowhow and as much as the educated ladies dont get this the will keep jumping from one prayer house to another for husband. Again if you don't want to be controlled then remain single and control yourself.
If a woman feels too big/egocentric to leave under or with a man then she is better off alone.

Men dont marry to be heggled and dragged into superiority/equality contest and any woman who brings that in to a real man sooner or later finds herself manless regardless of her academic or career wherever because men are not naturally overly hypergamic towards marriage like women but marry for cohension reasons.

If you like have PHD, without respect men will see you the way they see a masquerade and while you wrongly interpret it as out of low confidence, its actually out of detaste..

When you read your posts from when you quoted me, you'll see that you are the one twisting and speaking from both sides of your mouth.

Apparently, you didn't comprehend before diving in.

Goodbye.

biz2get:
No Worry.

I know your type.

YOU GO SOON GET SENSE.

CONTINUE TYPING/TWISTING OUT OF CONTEXT.

Type A or Type B?

Obviously you are the one with limited sense if you just jump into a conversation and speak loosely without decorum.

The fact that a commenter is a lady should not automatically warrant insults. Not only men deserve respect.

ubunja:
Your words. Not mine.

It was a question, based on your own words. So don't try to be evasive.

You need to tie every end when you make such comments.

ubunja:
see you're now becoming unreasonable.

I told you most single women are intelligent. Why are we still discussing this?

And most married women are unintelligent?

ubunja:
doesn't matter how you take it.

You're a woman you've never dated a woman.

Validating a false conclusion.

Whatever rocks your boat. Face your South African women