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Iogobenz:
Face your front,face your front....na when problem never come.
Go to your family and fix things with them however you can.
N.a. dem get your back anytime any day.
Also make some people in your family to be financially stable too.that is where the grief is coming from.
All I hear Is I bought provisions,I bought food etc..
That one no be help at all and you should know it.
N.a. provisions dem go use be person?
You know what to do

Not every family got your back. Sad truth.

Why should she help them to be financially stable? Everyone should be able to carve out their own life. She can assist but it's not her obligation to make them financially stable.

Doesn't her own immediate families have needs. I am the last child and nobody had to make me financially stable when they have their own lives and bills to pay. We need to get rid of this entitlement mentality and do or die affair with unsupportive family members.

It's a two way thing. She is also a single mother because she fell in love and failed to protect herself from the consequence of unprotected sex when she knew pretty well that she was unmarried.

She isn't without blame. She made a mistake too. But it doesn't mean she should be shamed for it

Marriage is not for selfish people. A woman that cannot forget about herself and put her husband first should not waste her time and emotions.

KanwuliaExtra:
Why would anyone ask for marital advice from a third party?

If you have to solicit marital advice from ANYONE, you are not qualified to be in a marriage.

Simple!

Very wrong.

Why do people go for counseling? Some look up to an older couple or a mentor. Nobody is an island and no one knows everything. What a couple might be struggling with in ignorance, another couple has gone through it. Marriage is not mysterious that people should be suffering in silence.

He had such black lips

Festus Keyamo...very young. At 49? That means a 33 year old is a toddler

OOJAY:
I wonder if we decided to show our chats with some ladies. All they want is assistance and none of them agrees to having a boyfriend. How would their boyfriends feel when they see stuffs like that. I feel If a man decides to run after a lady on social media and she doesn’t like him, she should block him rather than embarrass him by putting up a screenshot of their chats

What are you saying? Is it that she doesn't like him or that he lied about his marital status?

A married man that is being cunning and deceptive should be embarrassed and shamed

kittykollinxx:
NwaAmaikpe, come share with me from the money you collected now

As in!!! Someone that has been quiet for months suddenly resurfaced to defend Pastor Fatoyinbo. I won't be shocked if his palm has been greased

He never marry...no plenty responsibilities yet. Haven't noticed that the older or elderly keke drivers don't have time for even radio. Their Kekes are mostly rugged. They are paying school fees, feeding, etc.

Enjoy your life

franchasng:
Unfortunately, that's how majority of women of today are; insatiable.

Have a job with busy schedule that brings in big income, and spend on women, they will start complaining that u don't give them time/attention, that you don't sex them often, they start to admire the jobless, broke, fine boy forming junkie boys on the street or neighborhood or they start running back to one of their useless ex boyfriend who didn't see them worthy enough to be their wife, and before u know it, they start to sleep with him shamelessly.


Then stay idle, have plenty free time and earn less, and spend more time with them, sexing them like kilode, they will hate u that u are broke, that u are not their class, that your mates are making millions undecided

The truth is, no man can satisfy a woman, so as a man, work hard/pray so you can make enough money, enjoy your life to the fullest, be happy, any woman that gives u trouble as a girlfriend or wife, change her without looking back, no woman is irreplaceable to any man except his mother!


My little observation about Nigerian women: Igbo ladies cheat more while single by keeping multiple boyfriends but as soon as they marry, majority respect the marriage vows and stop cheating or messing around but Yoruba ladies are more professional in cheating after they marry.

Seems marriage brings out the infidelity in most Yoruba women

This is not even something of the present time or women of today. They were known to have an alé. That's where the phrase omo alé(bastard) comes from.

Prompto:
But Ebele Patience n Allison Madukwe should not make the. List ba ? The level with which you prove you are foolish on NL is astonishing. It seem it is safe to say you have been cursed to argue that way.

You guys should not reduce this to a PDP APC battle. Swallow your preferences because everyone of them should be on that list. This is no longer about the party but about Nigeria

Cc FarahAideed

Today someone said it's people that were poor and became rich that always want to show off that they have arrived.

Tzadeola:
Please aunty I still don't understand your purpose in this thread ,is it that you haven't heard such happen or you think it cant happen or you want to defend ladies involved in such acts??




Because you coming here and saying the story is fake still leaves me wondering what your purpose is?? If the story is fake what do I have to gain Your pity?? Your affection Nothing!!! Since rape is now becoming the trend of this period and people's lives are getting destroyed by this trend am trying to put words out there that it isn't always true.... Right now my friend has been tagged a rapist in our area and am been tagged the friend of a rapist..... Or are you trying to tell me that we should accept and execute anybody that has been accused of raping someone without getting to know if it's true or not? Please desist from such...... Because




"GUYSLIVESMATTERS" too!!!!!!



Am aware rape happens heck I was almost a victim once and the experience left me with scars!!! Buy before tagging anybody rapist how true is what the girl says?? Was she really raped Or is she punishing the guy because he has offended her one way or the other!!!!!!

I am against anyone lying and putting someone else in trouble.

If the story is indeed true, the lady is evil and should be dealt with. She gave herself freely and the guy didn't have to date her to appease her.

I am just wondering why guys here would just swallow a story hook line and sinker because it's a guy that is the victim here which is very common on this forum. When they would have cut it into tiny pieces and disected it if it has come from a lady.

That's my only reservation. Besides, I prefer not to answer guys here that always tend to be verbally abusive towards ladies.

The goons have arrived.

Tzadeola:
Please aunty I still don't understand your purpose in this thread ,is it that you haven't heard such happen or you think it cant happen or you want to defend ladies involved in such acts??




Because you coming here and saying the story is fake still leaves me wondering what your purpose is?? If the story is fake what do I have to gain Your pity?? Your affection Nothing!!! Since rape is now becoming the trend of this period and people's lives are getting destroyed by this trend am trying to put words out there that it isn't always true.... Right now my friend has been tagged a rapist in our area and am been tagged the friend of a rapist..... Or are you trying to tell me that we should accept and execute anybody that has been accused of raping someone without getting to know if it's true or not? Please desist from such...... Because




"GUYSLIVESMATTERS" too!!!!!!



Am aware rape happens heck I was almost a victim once and the experience left me with scars!!! Buy before tagging anybody rapist how true is what the girl says?? Was she really raped Or is she punishing the guy because he has offended her one way or the other!!!!!!

Yawns*

Benblaq

That girl is dangerous...a snake. And you are not to be trusted especially with other people's girlfriends.


Just learn to live with the result and reactions from your actions because even if he forgives you, he may never trust you.

An egocentric chauvinist who cannot see beyond his nose will go about acting like a know it all when he is actually a conceited ignoramus.


You expect to bully ladies on this forum like only you has an opinion and mouth to talk. Sorry to burst your bubble.

Little children like Martinez will always throw tantrums when they don't get what they want. It is expected.

Such a spoilt child.

Martinez39:
Switching to uppercase is to direct your attention to the question I asked you. Stop pretending you don't know what I am driving at with the uppercase or you failed English in school?

Lol. As usual, saying irrelevant and unrelated nonsense and then running away. You couldn't even answer a simple question.

I don't have to answer your question. Seriously... I don't. If you can't deal with that, then that's actually your problem.

Martinez39:
Did I ever say it was real? Don't try to divert, HOW DO YOU KNOW THE STORY IS FAKE?

Hey!!! So switching to upper case indicates what?

Please quote someone else. I am not ready to be insulted today... before you start singing your "intelligence vs dumb" song

Martinez39:
If asked a simple question, how do you know that the story is fake?

How do you know it's real?

Martinez39:
How do you know this story is fake? How? You just sit down and presume like an unintelligent creature. How do you know that the op's story is made up? Any evidence? Where you there?

Martins sit your butt down somewhere quiet and stop running round my mentions like a headless chicken.

I don't know why you are being touchy. Why are you allowing your emotions outshadow your reasoning. Your supposed intelligence is only good for running that toxic mouth of yours.

If it was a lady that put a story, your tune would have been different. When you learn to respect people...male and female, you will start to sound smart.

Tzadeola:
i stand to be corrected but, those force personnel that wears bullet proof vests with SARS written on ,I believe they re called SARS but like I said I stand to be corrected!!! I think your one of those type of people that on hearing a girl got raped would jump to conclusions and actions without properly investigating or giving the accused a chance defend himself!!!



See your comment .




And am sure if the story had ended up with the guy been sent to jail you would have applauded the story!!




I pray God save innocent souls that might be in jail right now suffering because of people with mindset as yours AMEN!!!!

I will take your comment with a pinch of salt because it is based on "standing to be corrected".

Gullible people will believe this hook line and sinker.

And since it's a lady in this situation and it involves rape accusation, watch how guys will dive into this thread and spill venom.

Different supposed and alleged rape stories will keep surfacing on this forum..

My cunninlungus is second to none and my libido is so high that I never get tired during any match. Also, I have got a fantastic 'rod' that any lady who taste it would always come back.

Nice advert though

Another fable. SARS indeed.

He should just clear that thing on his head.

Lamasta:
In sensitive cases like this we are suppose to be hearing updates first from the court and from social media trial where judgement has already been pronounced even without trial

What the court pronounces will still be upheld over social media trial regardless.

Lamasta:
Why coming to social media in the first place? Let the court do its job without bias

Social media won't stop the court from doing it's job. It's a medium like other... newspaper, radio, etc

"Forget about what I want or everybody else. What do you want?"

emmyskies:
Tribe: Yoruba
Reason: Humility

Yoruba humility?!!! Indeed

So that our IQs will finally hit rock bottom