₦airaland Forum

fuckpro:
...evasive maneuvering hmmm ok it will be assumed the general trend applies to you just like the accuse shaibu you failed to defend yourself

Sorry if i refuse to succumb to you as my judge. You can be my prosecutor for all i care...innocent until proven guilty.

N.B.
This reverse psychology is too amateur to work on me.

kestolove95:
ova 20yrs of marriage ur dad still keep ur mum in rented apartment? nd he has money to marry another liability instead thinking towards an asset? ur dad is the problem, beta leave that woman alone and u guys own her alot..mothers ar never wrong even when we think dey ar..

And i am sure it is the same house. His only form of progress is marrying a new wife. The dad is actually selfish and really the problem here.

Op did your dad ever sacrifice the way your mum did when she was working? Or he was relaxed and laid back since your mum was fending for the family?

fuckpro:
...question:have you collect money or gift(s) for gratification or as a preamble to future gratification simple yes or no will suffice

Like my answer can change your preconceived notion.

Why didn't you ask this question before concluding that i collect gifts or however you put it.

You are already set in your ways and i don't have the energy to change that mindset

fuckpro:
...then you stop collecting money and gift from men as entitlement for gratification

q5
Why this narrow minded thinking? Do you know me? Have I collected money from you for "gratification"?

Guys are quick to call every girl a prostitute even if they don't know them

prechbills1:
shut up and read the post again.. the bitch called him a drunk and a thief first

You should learn to address people with some sense. Telling me to shut up is uncalled for. Did i abuse you?

Serves him right. Guys just call women prostitutes randomly as if that is all they see women as...sex objects.

ChildOfDoom:
Hopefully, the likes of onecorner, earthbound, imaima1 and nwanyiawkaetiti will now see reasons why I said 'Nigerian mums act as if they are mentally unstable'

My mum was Nigerian but she was nothing like your mum or this OP's mum. She was strong,selfless and formidable. Someone who we cherished and loved because of her hardworking nature and personality.

You cannot use a few bad eggs to label the whole crate bad.

There is no terrible thing anyone will say and generalize about Nigerian mums because i had a Nigerian mum. She didn't just give birth to me...she helped shape the quality of what is in me.

Wearing agbada to marry an igbo lady. Is he Yoruba?

I think your mother's well being could be in danger because of all the diseases and infections that your dad could pass to her.

People might say you should keep your mouth shut but your mum needs to be able to protect herself.

I recently heard of a case of a distant relative. Father contracted HIV and has most likely passed it on to mother. Mother is still unaware.

This incurable disease of not minding your business is becoming an epidemic in Nigeria

Opoki:
This is a reflection of poverty in the country.

Forget poverty. How can a mother send this child to go hawk. Is she not scared of kidnappers,ritual killers...

Isn't that wickedness on the part of the parents? They don't love the child

This is the kind of woman to fear.

Kingsley10000:
China is currently the world's leading economic power, in
China there is Zero Church!
Finland has the most stable economy in the world today.
There are less than twenty churches in Finland!
Switzerland has the second most stable economy in the
world. Switzerland has fewer than thirty churches!
Denmark is the third most stable economy in the world,
there are about 23 churches in Denmark.
These countries are considered to have the highest number
of atheists, but they are blessed!
Come to Nigeria, there are more than 70,000 churches.
+25 000 churches in Lagos.
+2 500 churches in Oyo
+30000 churches in the south east
In Africa, we have more churches than schools and
hospitals combined!
More pastors than doctors.
Everyone is born again!o
Everyone is covered with the blood of Jesus!
Jesus even became the husband of all single women
(according to them) in revival churches!
Everyone is filled with the Holy Spirit!
However, none of these claims reflect the moral elevation
that is hoped for in a society.
We are among the laziest, the most deceiving, the most
corrupt, the most hypocritical, the most hateful on the planet
today, with all our Jesus and the Holy Spirit!
Our people need to distinguish between religion and
stupidity or between spirituality and tradition!.
Wake up!!!
religion is the modern day slavery holding Africans down...

Yes...everything else might be true. But No...we are not lazy.

prechbills1:
since you started dating have you spent upto 100k in your various boyfriends

if you say you're married.. what have you given to your man? did you purchase a car for him or what

Ok.
House.
Car
Yatch.
Island.
Are you happy now?

highpriestess:
don't mind these guys,it's just for online troll,they are actually caring outside here.

they are the same guys we love and date,nothing differs.
we love our men,they are the best.

Exactly!!! They are just talking for the sake of talking.

At least i married a Nigerian guy and he is really the best

Posts without bearings or verifiable facts.

onecornerboy:
THAT Y I ALWAYS TELL MY GUYS BET9JA IS AN ADDICTION, THE EARLIER U STOP IT THE BETTER.. OP BIKONU GET A LIFE DONT ALLOW BET9JA DOOM YOU

Don't take what he writes seriously. He is a creative writer...pure fiction.

Stingy people always have a "good" reason not to spend.

If you cannot spend on someone you claim to love, please let her go.

I don't mean taking over her education,feeding...or adopting her and becoming her benefactor. Some men actually do that but that is a choice.

The lady herself should not be a liability. She should be able to give too

Op you don't need to soak overnight or uae a mortar. That process is too long.

I wash my beans in 15mins. I learnt a very easy to peal method and it works fast. Just with the hands...no mortar.

And some people believe it is not moimoi if it is not wrapped in the leaves

prechbills1:
you're still dreaming... if you can't stand up to your responsibilities to contribute 50% you better remain a spinster.

marriage isn't meant for poor people.

It is already too late for that.

But you can keep wallowing in your ignorant display

UDUJ:
Very mature response. This is how you know adults.

Not these jobless silly overpriviledged kids spewing rubbish all over Nairaland

Lol..

It is obvious from his responses that he is still a child

He obviously does not know that marriage is different from boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

Aitee1:
Please what of during pregnancy does cold water have any negative effect?

No i do not think it does. Pregnant women crave cold things a lot. My friend who gave birth in the US said they gave her a very cold drinkwith ice when she went to the hospital.

prechbills1:
shut up joor... nothing like head of the family .
both spouses are head of the family.

Hey!! Calm down!! You don't need to shut me up because you do not agree with me.

The difference between a child and an adult is being able to communicate without hurling insults.

Don't worry God will provide for you so that you can provide for your family without waiting for your wife's money.

prechbills1:
wake up from your dream lady.

so who'll be solely responsible for the finances needed in the home? me?
nonsense

both spouses are responsible for the finances needed in the home.

nothing like head of the family crap
both spouses are head of the family
we are in an era of gender equality.. keep deceiving yourself

.

See boys renouncing their "head of the family " role because of responsibilities. The men will understand.

prechbills1:
younglady.

the kids you both own, are the responsibilities of both spouses.

feeding, clothing and whatever are the responsibilities of both spouses.


so stop saying "as a man " as a this... as a man he should carry every load?

nonsense..

thank God my wife to be doesn't behave this way

Young man when you get married it will ne clearer to you. A man being the head of the family is not just by title. If you go for counselling,you will understand it better.

You think it is your wife that will be responsible for the finances in the home.

You need to man up and stop acting like someone that will be waiting for his wife to settle bills.

I am sure you read in my previous comment that the woman also helps out but her income is not primary source.

LotusFan:
No vex ehn, try to get over it!

Assalamualaikum!

I prefer greetings that i understand

prechbills1:
history for the gods..


This is an era of gender equality.

nothing like "his responsibility "..


what is your own responsibility?? nonsense

Ok


When you marry, you can ask your wife to submit her earnings to you every month.

LotusFan:
For one second forget about Freeze, watch the video and look at the smiles on those children’s faces. Even if freeze and Benedicta are being fake the food was real and those smiles and laughs coming from the kids were not staged.

Who have you made smile of laugh today?

Don’t hate, appreciate... in this case I will ask you to emulate.

Unfortunately i didn't have a camera to record mine this morning.

Off course the children have smiles on their faces. I just can't get past the fact that freeze would have looked for a loophole or wrong thing if it was posted by someone else especially if that someone else is a religious leader.

prechbills1:
same way you must have a stable income to pamper and care for him.

I didn't go to his house to ask for his hand in marriage...for him to leave his parents and come and live with me.

He did!!! So he should have the means to take care of me and the children that come.

Being a man is not about gender. It is about not shying away from responsibilities like a lot of men do today. Their eyes are always on the woman's money.

My money will be there to support, back up, and do as we decide. But it shouldn't be the primary income.

A stingy person is someone who has an assortment of excuses and reasons on why he or she cannot,could not, will not, may not and should not give.

Why did he go with a camera crew? People have done much more without making it public.

Freeze can never get that approval he seeks from sane people.