TimT: I am single... I have a friend who is married. We always hangout at least every weekend... But last weekend, he didn't come around I called but he didn't give me a tangible reason... So yesterday, he came around my place, I noticed his mood isn't as cheerful as it used to be... I asked, what was wrong?. He said "You Neva marry you no go understand". He wanted to say more, but I said no need, he shouldn't say anything.. till he left I kept quiet.. I didn't say anything... So I want to ask o, if na only married person fit give advice to who don marry...
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode] Even married people may find it difficult to give accurate advice because we marry different characters. Your counselor or pastor may suffering and smiling in his or her marriage. Singles need to exercise common sense, vigilance , hardwork, with Divine guidance while making the choice. It has an element of luck.
Serendipity2023: The new girl I met requested to come and then leave for work from my house the next day, I obliged her. Few moments after her arrival, she became quiet. She looked pensive and moody.
She requested for alcohol and I gave her Smirnoff. She demanded for something stronger; I now offered Origin bitters.
She recoiled into her shell, her eyes were misty if not teary.
She was lost in thoughts about the past, it was obvious. "What could be the issue?", I muttered to myself.
She didn't want to talk and asked to be left alone.
I was worried because I had prepared my manhood for intimacy. I can't seem to get enough of that tight womanhood down there. So I didn't want any mood swings.
I prodded further and she said our discussion earlier brought back sad memories.
"Which discussion was that?"
"The genotype", she answered.
I now remembered she jolted me in the afternoon when she inquired of my Genotype.
I am AS. And I told her so.
I now remembered that I have checked this genotype at 4 different hospitals, 4 different occasions just to be sure there isn't any errors.
Because there had been cases of people thinking they were AA only to discover they were AS after giving birth to SS kids.
Some equally rejected AS spouses in the false belief that they themselves were AS.
"I have missed five men because of this",she continued. "This is the reason why I am not yet married," she added. It was painful to watch her in that mood.
Few ours earlier she was basking in the euphoria of having met a prince charming, a lover who would wipe away her tears and walk down the isle.
These hopes just got shattered. Not like I had promised to marry her shaa. But you know women and fantasy.
I comforted her.
Research suggests there are more AA genotype than others. But my personal experience is different.
I have met more AA girls. But all the girls I ever liked were AS.
This is an impediment of some sorts for some of us. But we aren't ready for this discussion yet. ➖➖➖➖➖
We still made love later because I needed to give her some natural sleeping pills.
I must add that no two women taste same. This girl has a very tight womanhood, that contracts to grip my manhood.
Her womanhood drives me crazy. This is how some women lose their husbands. Just pray your husband doesn't meet her type as a side chick.
Government should finance those of us who are AA to marry plenty.
LivingTribunal: RIP Mr flag man the forgotten hero.. It's sad that this man had been alive till this moment but long dead in our memories.
How? The man had been celebrated many times. And money was raised for him couple of times. Do you know how many teachers out there who have not received their pensions, talkless of gratuity.
SocialJustice: There's no need limiting anything. Poverty will teach any unwise family a bitter lesson. This is not even a time to get married, talk of having children.
Those who can afford it, please carry on but those that are assuming starting a family will bring financial breakthrough, safe journey too.
fineboynl: I’m in a serious situation. i have been dating this young widow for a while now without any issues.
But From the day I slept with her i have been noticing some things i don’t want to talk about.
Many things have been going through my mind concerning her.
From the igbo/Yoruba and all other cultures in Nigeria. What should a widow do before she start sleeping with another man? Should she returned the bride price?
Because I’m considering cutting ties with her and go for deliverance.
Return to who? The dead? The husband paid bride price, not family members. My answer is NO
YoungDaNaval: Greetings naira Landers, my only sister is happily married to a lawyer and this guy have been instrumental to me and my family since he got married to my sister. Now I intend getting a car for my sis because her office is a little bit far from their home, the problem now is I don't know how her husband will feel if I use my sister's name for the car papers. Now I'm contemplating between using only her name or including her husband's name to the document which made me to bring the question here. Please married couples in the house,I need your sincere advice.
Note: I don't want to discuss this with my sis and her husband because I want the car to be a surprise
Experts, kindly help on how to get rid of spam on my phone: through WhatsApp. My Whatsapp account has been banned for more that 8 times in the last 4days.
Moment a slayqueen was embarassed at a restaurant after her online date left her there.
Apparently, her supposed date had sent her Tfare before and she ate it. So after much pleading and persuading, she agreed to come and he sent her another Tfare to come and she came finally.
He took her to a local restaurant, ate and drank and excused himself to pee only to "vanish" into thin air leaving a note that said she should use the first Tfare he sent to her to pay the bills.
[font=Georgia]LIKE for His Excellency, Late Umaru Musa Yar'Adua, GCFR (2007 - 2010):
Obasanjo is the president I respect most. I am not one of his fans but he is more equipped than the rest. Yar'adua was a good man, just like Jonathan but not in terms of politics
UnfairLife7: government primary school o. I don't think i will advise op to accept it. If it were government secondary school then it's fair. Secondary school that he can get to principal and also get some juicy position before or after retirement. A principal in a government secondary school can earn close to 700k
Owa444: It started last June when i woked up early morning, i was very weak and tired i couldn't able to eat, so i waited for almost a week whether i will be okay but no improvement.
So i went to the hospital i was asked to conduct a test and the test came out as h.pylori that i have ulcer and indigestion problem .
The doctor recommended some drugs to me like Omeprazole, amoxicillin and Clarithromycin. After taking all the drugs i still feel the symptoms.
I went back to the hospital the doctor told me to take another test, i told the doctor that i don't have any money so they told me to increase the dosage of all the drugs.
After that still same thing, i dont what to do again. what's bothering me now it is the way i'm losing a lot of weight, people are asking if i'm sick i will just lie to them that I'm keeping fitness thats why/
I have taken alot of blood tonics and fruit's still my weight didn't improve any bit. I noticed anytime i eat or finished eat that is when the symptoms will wake up like i want to throwing up, increased in belching, infact i dey pooping like woman about ot give birth.
I always have to forced the poop out, abeg make una help me check weda some foods wey i dey eat dey make d symptoms worst like apple, watermelon, banana, chin-chin, indo-mie, biscuits,rice ,sometimes like semovita.
i don't eat hard food if i do dat means I'm looking for problem, abeg my people make una help me again d matter don tire me, i would have liked to go back to the hospital but i don't have any money now to conduct another tests.
i need an advise what to do infact excess of drinking alot of water do make me belches, anything i eat will trigger the symptoms, sometimes the thing go dey be like say fire dey inside my belle dey dance.
I know money brings COMFORT in all form, marriage inclusive but does it bring HAPPINESS along? Like does being married to a man rich automatically makes a woman a happy woman? Will it make the marriage a happy marriage? A happy home for the kids etc. I know the wife of a rich man would quite be comfortable compared to that of a low income earner.
She can easily outsource whatever she needs thereby making her comfortable in her home. From washing machine, maids, full dstv subscription, driver, Gateman, shopping, vacation and all good things that money can buy; does all these bring true happiness?
When a distance sister of mine got married to her husband years ago, we were definitely not too happy for her. We thought she'd suffer in a marriage without finance. The truth is they still have finance issues till now, but not something beyond their power. It's close to 10 years now and I realise she is happy there, herself and her husband are low income earners yet they found happiness in each other. See her looking younger than her age with two kids to show for it.
I have also come to realise(from observation) that most times, it's likely for a woman to eventually marry a low or average income earner(as against the illusion of a millionaire husband). As long as the woman has something doing, they usually end up doing well. You see them looking better than they were when they both got married lol Seems like a good marriage brings out the beauty of both sexes, little wonder why young ladies dont mind dating married men
So married men and women, what is your take on this? Does money bring happiness in marriage? Is finance all about the comfort it can bring? Let singles like me learn something new
Theoarhics: Look for chiken urine and use. It works very fine. One drop in the morning and another drop at Night. Do for 11 days that will do the magic
Politics › Re: 2023 Presidential Election Tribunal Judgement (Live Updates) by Integrafamoo: 11:09am On Sep 06, 2023
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