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Demigod22:
My mom have a friend, a very good one. The woman really like me because I am a boy and she doesn't have a male child, so she holds me in high esteem. She has five daughters, my senior, my age mate and my juniors.

Since I returned back from school after my final exam, the respect is becoming too much, my mom started complaining about me being single and her friend becoming more friendlier. Her third daughter just graduated too, and my mom is trying everything for two of us to date. Recently, the started chatting me up frequently and I discovered she is not my spec. She is this spiritual and religious Bible kind of girl and I am a liberal. When I told her that I am not spiritual nor religious, I can see the shock on her face.

She doesn't wear trouser, no earrings nor necklace, a very decent girl by appearance of course, and that's the kind of girl I want. She is even complaining that I am too unstable because I am always traveling every now and then and she doesn't like it.

I am not ready for any relationship right now and I don't want any relationship that involves two families. I will get a girlfriend for myself whenever I am ready. So I told my mom to bury that thought, it won't happen and she said I am too stubborn and rebellious and radical, I smiled and said nothing.

So has your parents ever try to match make you with anyone before? Please share your experience.

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Don't sleep with her. If you do, you will marry her.
She is just being pretentious to please her parents. Ladies like that are crouching tigers in bed. Be warned!

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Romanoff:
It is possible to recover from this. I know someone who did, happened to him in his early twenties but left a little side effect.

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I hope you do know that there are many things that can cause partial paralysis. So what was the diagnosis of your friend's condition?

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God1000:
I'm fascinated by these masterpieces and edifices in different parts of the world.

Do our civil engineers have the required expertise to construct such?

Though we have some similar structures in Eko Atlantic city, but not up to the standard here.

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Nigerians can construct something similar but it must be limited to a bungalow or one storey to avoid stories that touch.
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Moonshine101:
Hello Everyone!

I have a family issue but I don't have someone to speak to about it, so I'm very grateful for your inputs on this matter.

SOME BACKSTORY (You can skip this if you want):
I'm the youngest of my two siblings (26M). I have a sister and a brother. My sister's kinda okay. My brother (35) is a selfish, toxic and entitled person. He dropped out from the university, doesn't have a job and he steals from my parents like my dad's watches or property or my mum's jewellery and then sells them to buy weed or something.

One time he sold my mum's car and after some police and legal issue that basically went nowhere, she basically had to steal it back (The guy who bought it, passed away a little while after, so I guess that case is closed..), he once took my phone while I was sleeping because I refused to give him a different phone I had, that belongs to me after selling his own phone or something. It's like he acts solely on impulse. My dad (who's in his 70s now) is almost always on security alert when my brother is around. As for my mom, she just straight up enables him and bails him out of trouble every time, saying things like "He's your brother" or "God will change him" when I talk to her about it. My brother and I got into a fight, like a year before I left for university, because he wanted to look around my room to see if I had his usb cable despite me telling him I don't have it nor have I seen it. That was the last time I willingly spoke to him.

My family moved into a new house and I finally left for school (my brother stayed in the old house and my sister moved in with her husband after marriage, so it was just him over there). During my 3rd year, I called my dad, asking him for some money because I was broke, and during the phone call, my dad tells me that he's at the hospital cuz my brother and some girl just had a kid. okay.. I came back for holidays and found out that his baby mama (who's also toxic and insults people alot) and kid, my nephew, are staying with us, with my parents providing for them while my brother stays in the older house, renting it out to people (who messed up the house and compound to the point it just became a disgusting place to live in) obviously without permission from my parents (who don't even own that house, it belongs to my uncle). By the time I graduated and came back home, he was now living with us in the new house because free food and no bills, I guess.

I haven't gotten a job yet so I'm stuck here.

Recently, he's been staying away from me because I don't talk to him or even look at him.

BACK TO THE TOPIC:
Around a year ago, I had a serious wakeup call and decided that, if I was going to go forward in life I would have to better myself so I began a journey of meditation and self-improvement, and I think I've made some good progress. Now the issue is my brother---earlier today, I saw him scouting our house (after my parents went out) and I could instantly tell he was up to no good. I was cooking when I began to hear some noise from upstairs like he was hacking at something. He came downstairs and readied his car while my cousin who stays with us (19) carried the AC unit my brother was planning to sell.
Usually I'll just mind my business and avoid him because he's an adult-child (narcissist) and I think he'll just put his vindictive sights on me if I interfere, but this time I don't know what came over me..

I called my cousin and demanded where he was taking that AC to. I then asked my brother (first time in years I've spoken to him) why he was taking it, he just gave one nonsense flimsy excuse then I told my cousin to return it. When he tried to explain whatever, I didn't acknowledge his presence, I just ignored him and ate my food. He just stood there staring at me for like 3 minutes before he left while murmuring something.

The main reason I've been avoiding him for long is because he's toxic and I decided that family or not, toxicity is still toxicity. He's very exploitative and once he familiarises with someone it's like an opening to trample the person's boundaries. I think I confronted him today because the more you ignore bad/evil the stronger it becomes and eventually it will come for you except now it'll be stronger from all the experience.

The issue is, I don't want to relapse into my old life of toxicity by further engaging him if he decides to steal from me on get physical because he's the kind of person that only listens to actions, not words.
Please, what do you think I do?

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The blame lies solely on your parents. They overpampared their first son. They are reaping the results.
Take solace in knowing that the millennials are worse.
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SweetOnugbo:
Run for your life.

Run away from domestic violence.

It's so sad that she's not even up to 30, and she has been sent out of this world in such a manner.

Wether husband or wife, run away from domestic violence.

Witnessed a patients death today in A&E( Accident and Emergency). A young Lady that died from hypovolemic shock due to traumatic brain injury as a result of assault (domestic violence). She had 4 cuts on her head with cutlass that caused tearing and bruising of brain tissue and blood vessels( especially middle meningeal artery) You could see the brain tissue, that means she had a skull fracture.

Please leave for your life in you're in an abusive relationship/marriage. No Dey form Jagaban abeg, say u sabi fight back (because they said she was with hammer). Save your life first.

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Nothing is wrong with marriage.

These days people are marrying for the wrong reasons. For some, it is a poverty alleviation program while some do it because of the societal pressure. There is no more due diligence because people believe that they are too "woke" to carry out proper family background investigations before marriage.
What do you expect? Exactly what we are witnessing these days.
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If Nigerians like let them elect a vibrating effigy. The good news is that the rest of the world is moving forward even if Nigeria slides into a 4th World country.


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Earlystar698:
Nothing to see here other than a simp claiming alpha over overused public pussy

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Why call him a simp?

How many times have you been shown that all the online show off na shakara?

No be Bobrisky lease house claim say e buy am until eagle-eyed snoopers doublechecked the documents s/he posted.

Stop believing online ostriches.
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This is a very good news.

Afterall they are the ones being used to squash every protest against the inhumanity of the FG.

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Like it or not, Ponzi schemes are here to stay. It is every month a new expose'.

Whoever falls should be left to lick their wounds. Ponzi schemes come with fictitious promises in the form of: MMM, tithes, Farmforte Agro, Galaxy Transport, Wales Kingdom Capital, MBAForex, and numerous others.

The worst of them so far is tithe. The only return they are promised is hope and prosperity --two unquantifiable outcomes.

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Thugs are humans and they die too.

Do I need to say more?

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lightskinnigga:
https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/6/gunmen-kill-six-people-in-ondo-state-days-after-owo-church-massacre.html

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Waiting for the usual IPOB/ESN wailers.
I guess the war has arrived at their backyards and they don't know how to process the information.

Let's keep the blame game going instead of taking preemptive steps to forestall the occurrences of these heinous crimes.

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Rochas Okorocha, Jack Rich and Tunde Bakare

Even BetNaija degenerate gamblers haven't lost so much in a short time---N300m down the drain!

Now we know the fake God that Bakare talks to that informed him that he will be the next President.

Gullibles will still go to his church.

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As expected...

I didn't understand all the noise about Buhari's anointed candidate. This is his last tenure after which he will be relegated to oblivion. Why empower him? They are only watching out to know the direction of flow of funds. That's all. All they needed was to upstage him in the dying minute and that's what happened.

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Hustle in reverse.

Any slowpoke that puts on white garment and jumps on a pulpit gets followers in Nigeria. From there, they continue to dish out idiocy and planting the gospel upside down for money.

Ebube Muonso should be ashamed of himself. The Bishops cannot contain them because of the large envelopes they bring in every month. Who said church is not business?

If anything happens to Soludo, he should be arrested, locked and the keys thrown into the lagoon.

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THE ISRAELITES AND ASIANS ARE LAUGHING AT THE STUPIDITY OF THE BLACK RACE that kept them at the bottom of other races.

After shouting JESUS, you go and beg Buddhist China for loans to sustain yourselves.
They are sharing your saviour at the APC Convention today. It will determine who rules you in the next 8 years.
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I like how the guy in blue caftan is pretending like he is in deep thought.

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Jesus go leave Israel, fly pass Middle East, Egypt, Chad and enter Nigeria. Are people really this delusional?

Even for his fatherland in Israel na so so fight fight. He no help them na Africa he want go waste his time. Jesus saving Nigeria is akin to Afghanis praying for Buhari to come and fight terrorism in Afghanistan.

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Even if he is a biological son, does it give him the right to lock out his siblings?

He can fight with the law but can he fight the whole village?

If he had made better use of the opportunities and resources at his disposal, he won't be fighting for his father's assets.

Everyone will lose at the end now that arson and threats have entered the equation.

Even if the man left a WILL, it usually ends up in litigations. There are notable families in Nigeria whose WILL are still being contested in court 20 years after.

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DOTian:
When you pamper criminals because they are from your ethnic or religious group, this is what you get; a fearless multitude of criminals who commit crimes brazenly and with an audacious impunity that is uncommon! They do so because they know there will be no punishments for their crimes.

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Do you blame them?
Everyone knows that the government is not willing to help. Yet the citizens carry on like everything is normal. No contingency plans.

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MadamVanessa:




No sensible southerners should love this sinking shithole.

I know South East and South south do not have any iota love for this zoo, it's our brothers from the West that aligned with the Fulanis, and they seems to see themselves as brothers hence they're being chase away from their land and killed at random by this same Fulanis who are their brothers.


Sorry dear, I know it's painful. I will forever hate this zoo more than you do.

Cursed be Nigeria forever.

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It is always painful when one or close associate becomes the victim. Our SW brothers are still in shock.
No zone is immune from this menace afterall.

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Nigerians sef

In less than a year, Buhari will cease to be the President. The power he enjoys today will be taken away from him and his opinions will be open for attack by the minions of the next President.

With this information, the Governors can afford to waylay him politically at the convention.

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LOL!

Common sense is not common afterall. Even in Secondary school we know that crying never stopped bullies. You fight like your last breath depends on it and the bullying stops.

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Expect more of this. That bishop saga has shown that Nigerian churches have millions to spare.

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Church is a multi billion dollars business. If you go in without this information at the back of your mind, they will turn you into a glorified slave. The way Daddy G.Os and Mummy G.Os live and carry themselves is a pointer that they don't believe the Bible. They see the Bible only as a marketing tool for pecuniary gains. The church is not interested in your salvation.

Heaven is very beautiful. Yet the Bishop of the Methodist church paid N100m ransom within 3 days to avoid going to his maker. Oh well ..

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All of you cursing Buhari cannot wait to elect another clueless leader in 2023. Even those who voted him based on ethnic and religious sentiments are also bearing the brunt of his maladministration. Fair enough.

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I still don't understand why the people can kill to defend God but God cannot defend his/her people even in his supposed house.


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Every time Southerners are attacked, they are advised to remain calm and be law-abiding until....the next attack.
I hope those ones against Sunday Igboho have better plans to protect the people. People like Sunday are rare--act more and talk less. What we have these days are effeminate males whose strength are only on social media.

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frankfrank:
Adviser well done...o
"unlocking" of phones.
Na hear you really say you dey hear na so you come repeat am for here with your very load megaphone
You better buy your phone and come because na one of the first shock you go recieve be that.
Telcom services is very expensive in Canada, that $50
monthly plan you mentioned na joke.
Na dem dem dey run the business here if you know you know

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I have time for idiots today.

Repeat yourself.

I mentioned $50 monthly plan?

I guess in your hopeless mind when he gets to Canada, he will not spend money.

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Updating9JA:
Photos Emerge As Chinedu Nwadike Was Laid To Rest Today

The body of 39years old gospel singer, Chinedu Nwadike who died on March 27th after a long battle with Chronic Kidney disease, was laid to rest in his family compound in Umuokekpu, Owerre-Ebiri, Orlu Local Government Area of Imo State today June 3rd.

Nwadike is survived by his wife and three children.

Shared By tom GAP Media

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His friend and partner Odumeje claims that he can raise dead body to back to life. I am wondering if they ever asked him to raise him.

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Realteeyee123:
Hi everyone, so I would be relocating soon Abroad .

I just need a little advise, a little confused

I currently use an Infinix Note 7 and I've been told the phone won't do me good when I travel I'm looking at buying either an;

Iphone 11
Iphone Xsmax or a
Samsung Galaxy S20

Would appreciate your humble and honest feedback.

Country is Canada.

What phone should I get please, I'm looking at buying it Soon

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Don't waste money buying any phone.

Telecommunication deals abroad are not the same as in Nigeria. Most of the deals come with phones locked to the carriers with monthly plans. That's why you hear about "unlocking" of phones. There is a 99% chance that you won't use the phone you buy in Nigeria.

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Malory:
Jonathan is not interested. Posterity will be kind to you and your generation if truly you disqualified old men with entitlement mentality

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He is interested. The backlash would have been too overwhelming for him to handle. Bring out a pigeon tomorrow for President, there are many shameless fellas that will tell you that a pigeon is more intelligent than a human--just for a piece of the pie.

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