/ Just like TB Joshua and the collapsed building saga, they are quick to see other people's problems but can't see vision of the ones under their nose. Apparently guess work only works some of the time. Feel free to believe whatever you want.
/ EFCC and other LEAs in Nigeria are useless. Foreign law enforcement officers investigate and build files over a long period of time. With the mountain of evidence at their disposal, they get arrest warrant and effect an arrest. In Nigeria, the morons arrest first and then start digging for evidence. Like I always say, you can take a Nigerian to the best school in the world, teach him or her all there is to know but once you throw him back into Nigeria, the ingrained mediocrity in their DNA must show. A 4th world country like Nigeria makes mockery of human existence.
"However big the fool, there are always bigger fools to admire him"...Nicolas Despreaux
/ The thought of leaving all the flamboyant lifestyle to depart to the land of unknown is giving him nightmares. Between heaven and earth, he will definitely choose the earth.
If this man goes, the church will scatter. The company will be tied up in litigations and multi breakaway factions will emerge.
/ This is a big lesson to the ones that believe the myth that "he is too rich to steal/loot". Okorocha was the poster child of the myth.
Keep running after the phantom philanthropists with hidden political agenda. When they loot you and your parents' pension funds, you will learn the hard way.
Any so-called philanthropist in Nigeria who delves into politics is criminal-minded. That's all. Where your wealth stops, mine starts. Nobody is too wealthy to steal in Nigeria. Even Tinubu still dey find money. /
After the decimation by the Malian military, Boko Haram is running short of able-bodied fighters. Their godfather Buhari came to the rescue to relieve those in the field from tactical exhaustion.
aguerogh: I have been enjoying the various pictures of some of the universities in Nigeria posted on Nairaland, and I have decided to post pictures of my alma mater the University Of Ghana which I believe has one of the most beautiful campuses in West Africa with a lot Greenery and infrastructure with an environment conducive for effective learning and teaching.
Located on and around the hills of Legon (Translated to knowledge Hill in the Ga language of Ghana ) Just some few Kilometers from Accra city center UG has always been the pride of Ghana producing some of the most prominent people and leaders in Ghana.
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This is just Ghana o! Before the merchants of mediocrity tell you that we are only 60 years from the day of Independence.Travel. They say No! But in the confines of their dirty and delapidated infrastructures, they will be claiming to be the giant of Africa. Ignorance is a disease.
Confusedgirl869: Hello everyone. This account is created for this .
This issue has been bothering me a lot and I am very confused on what to do.
We have been together for more than 2 years now and we hardly have issues, infact we are a perfect match or so I thought.
I am 26 while he is 35, we both working and I never disturb him for money, I take care of all my needs myself. He is very calm and peaceful, doesn't hit me and I really admire him a lot. I on the other hand is also good, hardworking, not materialistic and all that makes a good woman.
So after thinking of our relationship thoroughly some weeks ago, I realised that there is really nothing stopping us from getting married this year or next. I decided to hear what he has to say because he never talked about us being or getting married. I also noticed that whenever he sees or hears about bad marriages he felt lucky he is not in yet. This always makes me feel bad because I know myself. I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy, he is what I want. The very first day we met, the first thought that came to my mind was 'this is my him' I don't know why I had that thought being our first time meeting.
Anyways, few weeks ago I decided to ask him what his plans are. Are we in on a long thing or not? I got the shock of my life when he made me understand that he doesn't want to be tied forever, he loves his space and the way nobody disturbs him. That he only wants a baby mama, he wants me to be the mother his kids but not in marriage. I was mad and I cried for days. He was even sounding like nothing is wrong with being a baby mama, maybe not but I just can't.
Well, I made him understand that I can't be a baby mama and it will also be hard for me to move on with another person. I've bonded so well with him and all that. And I also hate jumping from one man to another. I told him to talk to people who are in successful marriages and stop looking at the bad ones. Today when we were talking I asked him about it and he is still maintaining his stand on the mama.
I don't want to give birth to kids that have 2 homes, I grew up like that(it took me lots of self discipline not to become useless) and wouldn't want that kind of life for my kids, I want them to grow with their parents in ONE house. At the same time, I don't want to lose my good man and relationship.
I need your opinions please.
/ Your life, your choice.
Whoever you are with now is the best you can attract. Tomorrow your best will still come. /
Like I always say, social media is Law Enforcements' best friend. There is no need pursuing amateur criminals. They just sit back and relax. The criminals must "show face" in a bid for validation from their teaming fantasy-chasers and dreamers.
Why people love to draw unnecessary attention to themselves beats me.
I hope my guy in PH who worships Hushpuppi sees this. /
abdulskulboy: Earlier today, angry youths in Yan Tumaki town, Danmusa local government area of Katsina State stage a peaceful protest band burn down president Muhammadu Buhari and Gov. Bello Masari's billboard due to growing insecurity concern in the state.
Any group that had voted in "our son" in Nigeria had always lived to regret it. Last last "our son" would only take care of his immediate families and cronies.
I blame religion which psychologically primed Nigerians to be emotional instead of logical. And the wheel of hardship continues to rotate.
The good thing is that the rain is beating everyone equally. /
They expect Chioma to leave David if he cheats. Other than being his babymama or fiancee, what profession or skill does she have?
David is the guaranteed meal ticket (from career and inheritance) if she acts right. It will be silly to leave David while there are thousands of other gold-diggers lurking for an opportunity to invade.
OLDESTWARRIBOY: Bros you lie, we don condition all Hausa/Fulani for warri o, dem no dey misbehave here. We no be coward like ona, if fulani wan start madness, we start our own
/ Condition indeed!
You are in your papa land doing security jobs for oil companies while they degrade your farmlands and destroy marine lives. Most of the funds realized are taken by Hausa/Fulani who occupy juicy positions in NNPC. Only fools take glory in being enslaved in their land. Oil producing states in Nigeria should look like Dubai but ogogoro and kaikai wont let the indigenes reason like rational beings. \
Aizen123: Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.
So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...
On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.
Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.
/ Find out why and try to make peace.
If that doesn't work, go to war with them.
The only one uncles respect in this scenario are the troublemakers. If they do bad, do worse. Don't be intimidated. Once you show the crazy side of you, they will respect you. They are overtly testing your manhood.
NB: The more you preach peace, the more they destroy.
It is the trend in this Buhari's regime--outrageous statements and subsequent denials. They are guaging the temperament of the masses. Let your guards down and be massacred.
/ What Whites say in public and what they do in thd privacy of voting booths are totally different. It is politically expedient to say "No Trump" but when the tally starts coming out, everyone will be like WTF!
cynosuree: Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.
But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.
He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.
I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?
The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .
I'd like to know what you think
/ Maybe you talk too much...
...and he doesn't want to get your radio started.
Is it possible that you are very annoying and he can barely tolerate you? /
Greenbullet: I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.
Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.
I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.
Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.
PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT
/ There is a thin line between cheerful giver and a maga.
Righteousness89: If you Miss Heaven, who will you blame? If you go to hell, you will cry, wail , regret, cry again, Wail again and scream ! You will wish to turn back the times, you will plead for Mercy, but it will be too late.
Hebrews 9:27 And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment. If you Miss Heaven, Who will u blame?
Revelation 20:12 And I saw the dead, small and great, stand before God; and the books were opened: and another book was opened, which is the book of life: and the dead were judged out of those things which were written in the books, according to their works. If you Miss Heaven, who will you Blame?
Revelation 20:15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire. If you Miss Heaven, who will you Blame?
Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death. If you Miss Heaven, who will you Blame?
Luke 12:5 But I will forewarn you whom ye shall fear: Fear him, which after he hath killed hath power to cast into hell; yea, I say unto you, Fear him. If you Miss Heaven, who will you Blame?
Hebrews 10:31 It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God. If you Miss Heaven, who will you blame?
Luke 16:24 And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame. If you Miss Heaven, Who will you Blame?
Luke 16:27-28 27 Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father's house: 28 For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment. If you Miss Heaven, Who will you blame?
Zephaniah 1:14-18 14 The great day of the LORD is near, it is near, and hasteth greatly, even the voice of the day of the LORD: the mighty man shall cry there bitterly. 15 That day is a day of wrath, a day of trouble and distress, a day of wasteness and desolation, a day of darkness and gloominess, a day of clouds and thick darkness, 16 A day of the trumpet and alarm against the fenced cities, and against the high towers. 17 And I will bring distress upon men, that they shall walk like blind men, because they have sinned against the LORD: and their blood shall be poured out as dust, and their flesh as the dung. 18 Neither their silver nor their gold shall be able to deliver them in the day of the LORD's wrath; but the whole land shall be devoured by the fire of his jealousy: for he shall make even a speedy riddance of all them that dwell in the land. If you Miss Heaven, Who will you Blame?
Luke 16:29-31 29 Abraham saith unto him, They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them. 30 And he said, Nay, father Abraham: but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent. 31 And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead.
Today you Have the Preachers In the Churches, Twitter, Facebook, instargram, YouTube, etc Preaching the Gospel.
Here on Nairaland, You have Righteousness89 and the other Brethren Hammering the Gospel of JESUS CHRIST.
If you Miss Heaven, Who will you Blame?
Do well for your Soul by Humbling yourself before The LORD in Repentance and Accept JESUS CHRIST..