Teddy96:
I really don't knw how it work but most nigerian ladies don't bleed after s3x


Is there any good reasons?

Women who are virgins don't always bleed after sexual intercourse. Chai, sex education classes are so desperately needed in Nigeria. Smh.

This is why parents complain their children don't talk to them or seek their guidance. This is the reason right here. I'm sweeping.

DarlingtonC:
So I have this married neighbour. When I bought my bus, he didn't congratulate me. He just asked me if the bus is mine, and I said yes, and he just walked away.

Now he wants me to lend him the bus to use and pack some of his belongings out of the compound.

If you were in my shoes, would you lend him the bus to use?

OP, it's almost as if you don't want to lend it to him because he didn't congratulate you. But he's just a neighbor, not a family member, and certainly not a friend. So why is the acknowledgment so important to you? If anything, it should give you a clear indication of how he views you.

As to your question, I would not rent to him at all, especially if you're not familiar with the way he drives or the way he handles vehicles. What if he damages the bus and the expenses to repair are higher than what he paid to loan it from you?

phemmyfour:
They shouldn't put monetary value on it

You're the only person in this thread making sense.

You need a tongue scraper. This is normal. Each night when a person goes to sleep (and throughout the day honestly), the saliva in their mouth dries up and coats the tongue because we stay asleep for an average of 6 to 8 hours a night (or close our mouths for long periods of time).

When you brush your teeth (which should be twice a day), use a tongue scraper or tongue brush (not the same as a regular toothbrush) and you'll see the difference in your oral care. You'll have minimal to no mouth odor. When you clean your tongue, make sure to really clean the back as well. I can see yellow there and that indicates a staleness (from really old, dry saliva) and bad breath. Good luck.

OP, you still cheated. You had so many opportunities to step away and you still chose to go to her house and make out with her. But I guess because you didn't put your diick inside of her, we should commend you for your "strong will." Clap for yourself.

She probably won't get that freedom that you're describing until NYSC.

NaijaCars4sale:
It's great to see how Davido tries to be part of his Children's Life

Tries? Davido should be continuously and constantly present and available [i][/i] in his children's lives, not just trying. He's just as responsible for this child as the baby mama is.

Being DL is never good because of the lack of honesty and trust in the relationship (not to mention the higher risk of spreading STDs to different partners). But at the same time, Nigeria being as homophobic as it is, it's clear why it continues to happen.

Black is beautiful.

Lostchild:


Chaiiii. . I lauuuuughhhhhhhh over your feedback.

1. I am very sure you don't really know the coconut you are trying to hurt with words.

2. I personally write for my belove readers and they enjoy what I feel comfy to share.

3. I write true life sob stories about me, so I am not competing or trying to hit front page.

4. He pain me say you not get sense at all. At first I thought you have sense but I was damnnn wrong.

I didn't read your list. But see how easy it is to use formatting when you try?

Lostchild:


You have been a nairaland user for the last 13 years with just only three topic.

You foolishly come into my thread to fault find because my message pain you wella.

Shame on you

Mitchewww..

Oh, shut the fúck up. You had nothing else to say but you decided to deflect to something that had nothing to do with the topic at hand. Let me do the same: You've been a member for just over a year and have over 125 useless topics, none of which have made it to the front page NL. Eya. Sorry for you. It must hurt to not be able to get the attention you so desperately crave. Lost child, indeed.

COMPAQ:


How can latino/a be Asian again??

Wow. Many Asians immigrated to South America from Asia and have lived there with their families for generations. There are currently over four million Asian Latin Americans who live in Central and South America. Here's a link below. Wikipedia itself is not the source but Wikipedia sources hundreds of websites and pdfs that demonstrate this common fact.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asian_Latin_Americans#:~:text=There%20are%20currently%20more%20than,include%20Indians%2C%20Koreans%20and%20Filipinos.

Kisico:
Three days ago I received an sms from a company where I dropped my C.V close to two years ago. I went through it and low and behold, it was an invitation for an interview yesterday being Saturday. I was happy really. I prepared well for it, cancelled my supplying business appointment. I do a supplying business while looking forward to a good job opportunity. So, I woke up quite early dressed up and left for the venue. I got there around 8:10am while the interview was scheduled to hold by 9:00am.

I got to the venue and met two persons who was there for the same reason. Before it was 8:50am the whole place was filled up with others who also came for the same interview.

Finally, the interview that was scheduled to hold by 9:00am started around 11:30am. It then got to my turn, I went in and met three persons in there, one man and two young ladies. Then the man started the interviewing questions and I was giving out an impressive answers, while one of the ladies tried asking me a question, the man now cut in and ask, ' by the way, are you married'? I answered, 'no, I'm single sir'. He then asked again, ' were you married before'? I paused for a while and was wondering if it will be proper to let it out exactly the way it is. Then I decided to come out plain and answered that I was married, and I tried adding to it that I left because of a case of domestic violence, but he didn't want to hear that at all, so, he immediately cut in and said, 'young lady there's no need going ahead with anything else again since you couldn't manage to stay back and remain married, is it the company that you can be able to manage'. At this point, even the two ladies were more than astonished at him than I was. He ended it and said, 'Just forget about the job'. I just left feeling so devastated.

I managed to hold back tears till I got home and nearly cried my eyes out, recalling all that I went through. It's really sad that some people feel they can throw words anyhow at others not minding what those words are doing to their emotions.

What does your personal life have to do with your professional life? OP, fùck that job and fùck him. Can you imagine having that man as a supervisor? You dodged a bullet. You'll get a job that is more suited for you.

OP, please stop formatting your threads like this. Are you afraid of paragraphs? Your friend Jason just sounds like a gold digger who got lucky. And there are some women who are kind and generous, regardless of race or ethnicity.

What do some of you men want? You get upset about proposing. You get upset about having to kneel when you propose. You get upset that you have to purchase a ring to propose. Now you get upset about some women proposing. The hell do you want?

Uniquetani1:
I know ladies keep nails because of fashion.

A lazy man should not keep nails
I see guys that keep nails as being dirty and lazy.

What's the pleasure?

It's disgusting when either men or women keep nails that long.

Stop going to your friend's house without calling first. Simple.

MrBrownJay1:


my brother.... the wife is LATINA (Bolivian), and whether white/latina/asian or black, they all know the law! he could be married to an African woman and the outcome would be the same!

Being Latino/Latina is not a race. Why do people like you always say that? A Latino/Latina person can be Latino/Latina AND White or Black or Asian.

udeh3:


So, what happens to using condoms during sexual intercourse? What happens to family planning?

Our problem is the inability to take responsibilities for our actions

Because the lack of education when it comes to sex education and family planning in Nigeria is minimal to non-existent, and some people are shamed for advocating for it.

planetE:
Anyone that is involved in abortion processes is a murderer. I can't even imagine the pain the lively foetus gonna pass through during the process.
That's wickedness

No. What's wickedness is having a child a parent does not want and does not love. What is wickedness is treating that child poorly because the parent sees them as an inconvenience. These people, including you, are not pro-lifers, just pro-birthers. They do not care what happens after the child is born, especially about the quality of life. Or should Americans do what some Nigerians do and abandon a newborn child in a trash can or a bush?

Why is this in the romance section?

Some of these comments are just sad and pathetic. What is with some people's obsession with pointing out people's weight and insulting them because of it? Smh.

Why are you toasting a lady when you're clearly in a serious relationship? Didn't you say the whole point of your trip was to meet with your potential in-laws? Smh.

Jazzman01:
[s][/s]

You must be a girl, reason why you are pained. Who gives a fûck whether a woman is enjoying it or not? It is the man that needs the pleasure. Even nature doesn't care if a woman is feeling it or not and that is why female orgàsm is not required for conception to take place.

Fūck out of here, idiot. I'm a guy who can muster empathy for other people. You keep talking a big game but you're just a simp who probably lets his wife bend him over because he doesn't even know how to please her. Fûck off.

Because God only gave men just enough blood to operate either their brain or their pênis but not both.

RIP in peace to all those men and women who were murdered last year, believing their deaths would lead to some substantial change in Nigeria, only for them to die in vain.

Can you believe that Powell was older than Buhari when Buhari looks the way he does?

If a worm could be a person, he would look like Ned Nwoko.

Jazzman01:


Most parents are afraid that their girl child will become promiscuous if not circumcised and that is why they do it. Unfortunately after marriage, her husband will not enjoy her.

It is still very common in our society and that is why you hear men complaining everyday that their wife is denying them sex.

First, no offense but I didn't ask for an explanation. I know why---objectively speaking---FMG is done but it's still mind-boggling to me that people try to rationalize and explain it away. FMG is just another means to control a woman's body, that's it. Just like male circumcision control men's bodies, though many of them don't view it that way.

Second, forget about whether the husband is "enjoying" her or why the men are complaining. What about the woman's own sexual pleasure? What about the pain she experiences during intercourse. Look at you, you can't even think about FMG beyond how it's affecting men. Smfh.

DaInferno:
you have a problem with male circumcision, how, men shouldn't be circumcised?

I don't want to get into my opinion about it.