The guy is better off. It's never good to stay where you are not wanted. And for the record, the man is not unpure because he has an uncircumcised penis.

So how does this make you a hybrid? Genuinely curious.

OP, you rushed into this relationship without taking the time to get to know this young woman. Moreover, it doesn't seem like either of you are ready for a relationship because both of you are asking each other about who should be calling or texting. If the feelings were genuine and there was emotionally maturity, neither of you would care about who is texting or calling.

What? It sounds like you have an issue with PDA, not how men and women treat each other.

Reading some of these comments just makes me feel bad for these women who have experienced FGM. I can't wrap my mind around it. How can any person think it's appropriate and acceptable to cut a woman's clitoris so she can't enjoy sex? So she can't get aroused? Does anyone here know what it's like to have sex with a woman when she's dry? (Rhetorical question). Are women hated that much? I already have my issues with male circumcision but at least the circumcised men get to orgasm and get aroused.

Crazy. The same woman you're insulting and cursing is the same one who will birth your children and who birthed you.

Blackfire:
Take this news down...
Ordinary local airport.. igbos too like chest beating



We know yorubas like party and food more than life, but you igbos eeehh always making noise on top of nothing


North2023

Shut the fūck up. Can't you just be happy that different parts of Nigeria are advancing instead of mentioning what different tribes are doing? Just shut up.

Why do Nigerian airports always look the same? Always the same style, same color scheme, same construction. As in, we're always building the same thing in the same style over and over. I'm glad Anambra has an airport but would it have hurt to add some color or visuals like they did in the PH airport?

AnambraTerror:

You don't understand, she explained it very well:
(1)it was wasn't a live video of them making out,it was prerecorded, yeah
(2) he did not just realise instantly after that,it took some time for him to notice of which he quickly deleted

So that means Snapchat was open, he accidentally selected the video and it accidentally got uploaded to the platform. Sure. (read the sarcasm).

siofra:
Nairaland boys are already attacking me

What kind of insensible people are these?

OP, you should not have come here looking for decent, sensible answers. You won't find them on NL. But to your original post, it's very rude in any circumstance to ask a person how they're making their money. For women, it's hard for many to believe that she's made the money on her own or through legitimate means, hence the question. In fact, a lot of people are incapable of seeing that some of the questions they ask women (e.g. how old are you?, when are you getting married?, how many kids do you want?, when are you having kids?, don't you want to lose weight?) are inappropriate and very rude. But they genuinely believe they have the right to know. OP, you can always give a non-sensical answer.

ibrutex:
To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month..

Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added??

Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share...

Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons.

I don't agree with this. If you're hesitating to tell your spouse that you got an increase in your salary, then you have bigger problems, OP.

GayPontiff:



Very possible...

Was once making personal videos not knowing I was uploading d stuff straight up...somehow noticed some 30 mins later and screamed. Was lucky no one saw.

It's possible when you have Snapchat open. Why not just open your phone's camera/video feature? Why open the app?

AnambraTerror:

Her lover accidentally uploaded it on Snapchat himself,by the time he realised what happened and deleted it someone has already saved the damn video,do you now understand?

You don't understand my question. I'm not asking for a relay of what happened. I get that. What I don't understand is that the story does not seem plausible or believable. Think about it: you're having a sêxually, intimate moment with your significant other. But the significant other has their phone in their hand, they have Snapchat open, and a picture "accidentally" gets uploaded to their followers? Honestly, how many people are handling Snapchat while having an intimate moment with their partner?

Moreover, if it got uploaded to Snapchat, it's better to assume someone did a screen grab or captured the video and/or image before it was deleted, especially if you're a celebrity or it's sêx-related. So Tiwa should've, in my opinion, assumed the worse and not been so surprised when her manager revealed he had been sent the video and/or image.

Something about the explanation does not add up.

Ya'll, this is not Tiwa Savage.

Explorers:
Jeannie wrote to him twice but didn't get response.

Eventually she showed up at the care home facility this summer with their graduation photo in her hand and butterflies in her stomach.

She recalled their reunion, writing: 'The minute he rolled into the visiting room and uttered the sweet nickname he gave me, forty two years melted away.

'He and I were 18 and 21 again.

We cried, we laughed, we held each other and most wonderfully we realized we were still in love.'

Steve had suffered two strokes 15 years ago, leaving him debilitated and Jeannie was his first visitor in ten years.


'I knew at that moment that he still loved me, and this time it was going to be forever.

I just knew it,' .

With the help of a GoFundMe page, and using the rest of her savings, Jeannie has managed to bring Steve out of the nursing home to her home in Portland, Oregan, where she is now his carer.

Although Steve finds it difficult to speak, he can still make Jeannie laugh and they have forgiven each other for the past and rekindled their long-lost love.

She said: 'I did a very stupid thing 42 years ago and I've regretted it ever since. And all I can do now is love him as best I can and see to it that he's happy and give him the quality of life that he really deserves and he's missed all these years.'

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10064011/White-woman-secretly-dated-black-man-seven-years-1970s-reunited-42-years-later.html?ito=social-facebook

This is the worse. No one came to visit him for ten years in a nursing home? Not one person? Worse than death.

OP, divorce this woman (if you did court wedding) and just be a single dad. If this is true, this woman is a liar and will continue to lie to you. Chai. Wahala be like motorcycle.

I'm confused. How does this accidentally get on Snapchat? That means the phone was in hand, the phone was unlocked, Snapchat was opened, the picture was taken, and button pressed to upload? Something doesn't make sense.

Miracood2:



Stop this kind yarn, friends are supposed to watch out for each other.

A very close friend(atleast I thought of him as my inner circle friend) did something similar to me last year, I cut all ties with the guy.

You're not listening. This guy isn't your friend, or he's not as close a friend as you think he is. Otherwise, why the heck are you so surprised by his behavior? When you say, "friends are supposed to..." that's you putting your expectations on that person. When they don't meet up, you come running to NL to complain. You've been told. Be guided.

Edit: I thought this person was the OP but my point still stands. Friends will continue to disappoint you if you expect too much from them.

OP, although this guy is your friend, he doesn't owe you anything. It's harsh but it's the truth. The reason you are disappointed is that you had an expectation of how he would let you stay in his accommodation and that expectation was not met. Just because you would've let him stay at your place doesn't mean he's willing to do the same for you.

OP, I would take this as a lesson and either cancel the trip so you can save up more money or just stay at a hotel. In the future, start keeping this friend at arm's length. Reciprocate the same energy if this vibe he's giving you continues. Maybe his time in your life is coming to a close.

OP, the decision to get with her or not is completely up to you.

But let me ask you this: if you weren't good enough for her or her parents the first time, if she wasn't willing to fight for you the first time around, what makes you think she or her parents won't disregard you the second time? When people show you who they are the first time, please believe them. You were good enough the first time. You deserve someone who will see how special you are from the beginning, not when their circumstances have changed or when it's convenient for them. Good luck.

KingDash:
Op you don Bleep up.. see fresh young toto, you no be man joor.. mumu man.

Pedophile spotted.

Why did the guy even talk to her for this long? I know he was trying to lecture her but if I were him and I realized the direction in which she's trying to steer the conversation, she would've been blocked immediately.

JESHAL:


The pictorial citation is part of the research where the peer reviewed studies was carried out and links are cited, the scientific literature is sound about these, the empirical evidence is clear

Where is the link? I don't want a screenshot. In fact, stop quoting me.

JESHAL:



Promiscuous women empirically have been proven not to have the capacity to pair bond because they are damaged psychologically, experience is beneficial to men but detrimental to Nature and science backs these

Everyone, watch this person. He or she is using the word "proven" without providing evidence or a quote.

Figger:
Oga stop deceiving yourself, you and I know the truth here.

I know the truth and it's not what you said. The OP literally gave you the definition, I explained it to you, and you still want to believe what you want. Stay ignorant.

Good.

Kobojunkie:
What would you consider the right platform for this sort of education?

Honestly, I'm not sure. But NL is not the place. You have too many toxic, misogynistic, sexist people (notice I said people and not just men) who are very happy remaining ignorant and narrow-minded. You'll drive yourself crazy trying to educate others here. But I still appreciate your effort.

Figger:
so any girl wey don use extra large cucumber scatter her toto but have not met any man is still a virgin?

A cucumber is not a pênis, just like a dildø is not a pënis. The only thing the lady has done in the situation you're describing is masturbated. Ergo, she's still a virgin.

I agree with you but you've come to the wrong platform to express your opinion. All you're going to get are responses from some men who will try to rationalize and explain and justify why Nigerian society benefits them more and why it should benefit them more.

Hamiltonii:

What they did is Biblical.

Whether it's biblical or not, my point is did they need to post it? Keep up.

Nobody asked for e-Naira. We want constant light, good roads, reliable WiFi, and good-paying jobs.

Edit: grammar

Sunzee:
I've been in a relationship with my gf for the past one year, anytime we have sex, I do notice this unpleasant smell..av talk to her many times and now she said I can't continue insulting her...pls advise me..I truly love her

Why don't you both bathe before you start? Make it fun and playful so she doesn't notice. Have you advised her to see a doctor?