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TheGoodmanCaleb:
Hello Developers, can anyone help me build a keyboard that has verification badge as an emoji. I did pay you handsomely for it, I already placed a bet.

drop your details let me reach out

unattractive10:
a Southern western university

jjdhd

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

side boy friend.. and of course give him the pot hole too to ride.. terrible generation. you are not even ashamed to come talk such here.

unattractive10:
life is hard for me
no female attention almost all the women hate me for no reason
I am polite,gentle and caring but I have not had sex
no one respects me
if I ask a woman out
am sure she is going to say no so why bother
I have never had a gf before
am frustrated and tired of life

I don't know why women just hate me
I don't exist to most women like I am invisible to them
I have done all I could
I have prayed
am tired
Am also financially stable

where you base

Walkerstilldey:
my anxiety now is that if a lady I like visit me,I won't be able to perform because the dick has failed me sometimes due to anxiety

ohhhh. i see, thats not an issue, drop you whatsapp lets chat, there is a remedy for that. thats just a small case

Walkerstilldey:
Any answers?

whats giving you anxiety? from that we can know what solution to give you

Ladygee12:
Is it proper for a Christian to seek help from sourceress and after hearing all that is to hear then just leave ..
In other words ,you meet a sayer who tells you stuffs (70% of what they see is never good things and for that reason you must Pay for a sacrifice)
As a Christian is it even proper to contact them just to listen to the good ,the bad and d ugly

waitin carrry you go there at the first place. you see all you christians who patronise sayer, seer, debia, you are all disgrace, whats the need of calling your self christians?

numar:
Hey there, my friend. I want to let you know that you're definitely not alone in this journey. It's quite common to come across individuals who are grappling with similar struggles. Out of curiosity and with the utmost respect for your feelings, may I inquire about the specific form of gambling that has captured your attention and become a challenge for you? Understanding the particular type of gambling you're dealing with could help shed light on the nuances of your situation, allowing for a more informed and empathetic conversation.

thats true.... most of those ones who cry out are always those who play virtual games, needing quick instant money. not know that it will land them in great mess..

Bobwil96:
Hi guys, I know this is not the first time I would be posting this. But I am just tired.
2013, a friend introduced me to gambling, I started betting at a young age. I would stake small money then, till I got addicted. I started staking high, I started lying to get money to gamble. I started borrowing money from friends and family, loan apps just to gamble. I was embarrassed countless times, I lost my respect. I was so foolish and stupid. Even if betting gives me some money, they would collect it back within few days and even collect more than I won. This has made me depressed. I have made my mother depressed also. She paid lots of debts just because of me... Please how do I stop this thing?? I just started working, I have been distracted because of this gambling and it's really affecting me mentally. Just today, I recovered part of my money 50k, within 30mins, it's all gone again... This is so sad. Well I have blocked all my betting account, but that might not be the solution. I just need help guys. Today is my mum's birthday, I didn't even send her 1 naira.
I really want to start all over again.
I pray this works this time.

Declaration.
I vow to stop any form of gambling today 16th of August 2023, and focus on my life.
So help me God
I hope this works.
But this is a challenge, today being my mum's birthday would be the day I quit. That's if I truly love her.
So help me God.
Amen

if you like declear now till tomorow that yyou will not play, you willl still see yourself there again. the government need to act on this, they should not look at the tax they are collecting, rather should consider the health and well being of the youths. i watched a video of someone in tiktok who went and staked 1million naira for a live game thats about to end, in less than 15 minute the game cut, 1million gone, the guy was rolling on the sofa while his friends where recording him. i felt for him.. whatever you can not let go, don't use it in gambling.

norblinks:
Good day great people


Please, I am in a very serious dilemma at the moment. The agent that helped me to find a shop here relocated to Benin republic few moments ago and he is asking me if I would like to go work in benin republic.

He said he is currently working in a company and the pay is good and me currently is running my shop for almost 5 months now and I have not made sales of up to 300,000 naira. Most times I make sales of less 2,000 a day.

I don't know much about Benin, please if you're in benin or have stayed in benin I need your advice.



I'm just so confused and hopeless.

ask him which type of work, the requirement, accommodation, pay and many other questions

Couragejay:
https://www.nairaland.com/7439077/moms-tears-weaks-me-each
Good morning NL I created this topic for advice but now am finished, is like nothing is working for me again am planning of seeking a spiritual solutions to my current predicament. I remember same last year my guy told me to come over to Benin and stay with him let's Hustle but my mom started crying and told her mom(my grandmother) my grandmother invited to the village and took me to her pastor who made Matters worst that If I travel to Benin I will have accident ooo. Now here I am I doing nothing It's now I know sometimes is not everything you confide in someone just do it on your own now my man na millionaire if I ask him howfa he no dey even give me listening ears again, oyo is now my friend. I don't even know what to do am 27 now nothing to achieve nothing to live for I feel like ending it Sha I need God interventions before it's to late

all you spiritual people..

Alexbio:
Good day all,
Actually, I need your sincere advice on my rude girlfriend young niece. For sometimes now I noticed my girlfriend niece had been very rude to me to the point that if she sees me outside she doesn't greet and even when I'm with her Aunty who is my girlfriend she doesn't greet me respectively and receptively, she just greet me casually. However, this a girl (my girlfriend's niece) I'm by far not her mate. Each time I sees her I become furious but don't speak in anger and for some reasons I would complain or challenge her because my reply could leave the the girl (my girlfriend's niece) in serious issue with her Aunty (my girlfriend) in spite of all the goods she has been enjoying from girlfriend.
Furthermore, from my observation I realized from my girlfriend family they actually lack manners and rude and that's why she (my girlfriend) hasn't felt any flag of disrespect from her niece to me (her boyfriend).
So far, I'm in a doubt if the relationship will work eventually because I'm from a background where my people cherish courtesy so much and never trade anything for it and I particularly already wired that way. In addition, my girlfriend love me but like I said they naturally rude in their family. By the way, I'm also tired of complaining on people's attributes seriously.
Pls, help with me with your best advices?
Thank you all

IF SHE IS NOT INTERFERING IN THE RELATIONSHIP, I WOULD SUGGEST YOU MIND YOUR BUSINESS. LEAVE HER AND HER RUDENESS TO HERSELF. OR DOES HER GREETINGS ADD MONEY TO YOUR TABLE OR YOUR POCKET? ACT LIKE SHE DOES NOT EXIST, HI IS HI, ABI HOW DO YOU WANT IT TO BE AGAIN? SEE MY BROTHER I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL TO BE BROUGHT FROM A GOOD HOME AND EXPECT SAME FROM PEOPLE. BUT YOU KNOW WHAT LIFE IS NOT FAIR.

ForG:
Revolution2022
jackmrandy

Thank you both for your tireless input. The issue is solved.

The laptop powered back on after removing and re-inserting the battery.

This was recommended by a user from another forum.

alright.. good to know that....kudos

Templee333:
I heard that dogs and cats are mystical beings,yes, I've heard stories of cat's who were initiates in witchcraft coven and attend meetings with witches at nights. Not just that, i've heard stories of how cats and dogs can make the life of their owners miserable once their enemies bewitch them to use these as a medium to torment their owners . i don't want to write long stories but will like to know if these "pets" are as dangerous as they say. Does any of you know about this?

black man.... go and do research before coming to ask questions like this.. have you seen any or withnessed any

ForG:
Yes it draws current.
How much do you think?

price is based on your location and availability of parts to fix it. for power issue, have around 15k or there about, depending of the laptop thou and parts availability. overall, it depends on who wants to fix it. if you are dangote's son don't expect him to tell you 15k, you go pay more

ForG:
Yes it draws current.
Please would I need to change the whole board?

Because I will tell the guy from start say: no power on, no down payment.

tell the engineer power issue. Short Circuit, it draws excess currents. with this little explaination the engineer will have an insight of what he will be facing because he will need to dissamble the entire system for full inspection to finger out which of the IC is short to the ground. whats the model of the laptop ?

ForG:
Thank you very much.
I've attempted the suggested solution, but unfortunately, the issue persists.

Whenever I connect the laptop, there's a typical noticeable decrease in power to other appliances (NEPA) or even the generator.

This seems to indicate that the laptop is still operational to some extent.

However, despite this faint sign of hope, there's no indicator light illuminating to show that the laptop is charging.

ohh.. if i understand you properly, once you connect a charger to the laptop, it draws current.. it has short. short circuit in mother board. not what you can fix. take it to an enginneeer. possibly a roasted IC in the board. don;t attempt connnecting it again cos you might be doing more damage to the board and also your other appliances connected to the same source.

ForG:
My laptop was making a beeping sound in the pattern 1-3-3-1, which I found out indicated a problem with the RAM.

The laptop would power on but couldn't complete the startup process (stuck at black). During one of these instances, I decided to remove the RAM while the screen was blank but the laptop was turned on.

However, as soon as I did that, the laptop immediately powered off and became unresponsive, even when connected to a charger. There were no lights or any sign of activity.

I attempted various troubleshooting steps like swapping the RAM modules, using only one RAM stick, and even running the laptop without any RAM, but none of these actions produced any response.

I'm uncertain if the issue lies solely with the RAM or if there might be a more serious problem with the laptop itself.

Engineers and learned personnel, what do you think please

use another charger to test? while the batttery is out. if no sign of power, the board is fried as your heading just stated. but pray there is no short circuit in the board. test with another charger first. if no sign of power with the new charger pluged in, then the laptop need to see an engineer for inspection and diagnosis and finally enter the theatre for surgery,,,,,,

nathdim:
Is there offline mode

just saw your post now,.. its available. let me reach you via chat

yes. its available.. let me whatsapp you ..

Lexzeey:
This girl was a casual friend for a while, we live in the same street, we were close friends, I noticed she was into me for two reasons, first reason is she gets angry when she sees me with other girls to the point of not talking to me, second, some guy from her church came to warn me to stay away from her because he's interested in marrying her, and I told the guy we're just friends, when I told her what happened, she laughed and told me she's with the guy because she got tired of waiting for me to ask her out, which I never did.

So I gave her space to be with her guy, we only kept in touch online, she left for her home town, for almost six months I didn't hear from her, I later found out she got pregnant for the same guy who warned me to stay away from her, funny thing is, the guy abandoned her with the baby, she was ashamed, she couldn't tell me she got knocked up by the guy, she's now back from her home town, living with her sister whose house is down my street, we met and I didn't act surprised or anything, I just ask about her baby and everything, now the problem now is, since she returned, she's been doing stuff I find uncomfortable, trying to initiate stuff when she visit me, trying to get me to visit her, calling me every now and then and getting mad if I don't check on her, she kept trying to ignite a relationship by telling me stuff she should have saved for her baby daddy, now I can't outrightly abandon her based on the fact that we were close friends before the whole pregnancy thing.

How do I let her down easy without loosing the friendship, to be clear I don't want a relationship with her, the baggage is too much and I don't want to walk right into that, I just want to stop her from making another mistake by getting pregnant a second time, especially with me, cuz she's tempting me.

She is broken already... First guy abandoned her and her kid. Flee from her.. Make her know you can't marry a single mum neither date one. Friends is ok. But don't go to far. Let there be boundaries

AGBperson:
Hello please who has a Nigerian paypal account capable of sending money abroad. Please dm me.

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Babe1994:
Hi

I’m a girl in her late 20s, I live abroad was born here but spent most of my schooling years in Nigeria. I came back to do university. I’ve been with a guy now for 7 years who hasn’t paid my bride price properly due to the fact he did an arangee marriage and the divorce process is taking too long. I got with him in my early 20s.. and have a child with him. I believed in him but now I’m at the point where I’m honestly frustrated and tired. I really don’t know who to run to to express myself. We are living together but I really want to run away and start my life afresh but I want to be told the truth. I really want to be married and content, It feels like this guy has reduced me to nothing. Im so ashamed of my situation with him, it’s like I’ve disgraced myself and my family. I’m going to try and list out all the issues we’ve been facing.

1. He’s very confused about his career path. One minute he’s a musician.. then he wants to be a painter.. then he wants to be chef. This is a man in his late 30s

2. He has anger issues. We have tussled on some occasions and he threatens to beat me when he’s angry but so far he hasn’t

3. He has addictions. Betting drinking smoking. To the point where he drank so much that he almost killed himself . I was honestly fooled by the fact that he was a worker in the church and I “believed” I could change him. Young and dumb I guess.

4. Cannot communicate properly. To the point we have not had a proper conversation in almost 2 months but we are living together. I feel so lonely and stuck.

5. He insults me so bad to the point where I question myself.

6. He is not very hardworking and I don’t gel well with his family and friends.

7. None of his family ever talk about marriage or paying my bride price. All they ever ask is when I’m having another child for him. They have reduced me to nothing and I can’t blame them.

I will say that when I’m angry I can be verbally abusive also. He also claims that I’m too reserved and isolated. I feel like I’ve been pushed to the wall and I can’t recognise myself.

I really want to run away.. and start afresh. Where will I start from? I have a son how easy will it be to find love again? All the love I have for this man has gone..I don’t know if it can be rectified. He has really seen me finish.



Thank you .

Nlfpmod front page please

Thanks

Good for you.. Carry your cross...... Church worker indeed. Evening thinking you can change him. Sister carry your cross's..

Oluwashina72:
Should I still save more or leave? 😢
I'm 28,not married yet because there is no money, my fiance is going for her service end of this year. I'm still working under a private sector and all I have saved since I've been working since last year January 2022 till this present time is 100k cos my pay is just 30k. So I actually planned leaving end of this year to start a business or wait till end of next year to save more then leave probably if I discipline myself more I could save up to 300k or more... Someone reasonable should please advise thank you🙏

That your 100k way dey do you to stop work, na shop rent be that. That's if you decide to open a shop. Think we'll.... Look for higher paying job which planning for a business also.

Nor let the 100k way dey inside your account dey make you feel say you don fit to run business.. Enter lagos, abuja, or Port Harcourt you go know say that's just rent money

NairalandGossip:
I am not too good at story telling but let me just narrate what happened as best i can.

On Tuesday, 08 August 2023, became the worst day of Mr. Francis life (Not his real name). He was just hired to the company on the 17th of June 2023, and is barely two months working with us but what happened on Tuesday, is embarrassing to say the least. One of the security personnel who was in charge of the CCTV camera on that day was watching through events within the company's environment when he noticed Mr Francis pant down, head up and hands on his phallus, masturbating inside one of the stores where raw materials were being stored. Unfortunately for him, he Mr Francis didn't know that there were CCTV cameras in all the stores where raw materials are stored (to check potential criminals who might want to steal one or two). After making a mockery of him and rewatching the tape probably to be sure of what he had seen, the security personnel invited two others of his team members to come and see what he had seen and he was told that this is an opportunity to make some money. He was advised to blackmail Mr Francis with the video and he did. The security man called Mr Francis and played the video to him, telling him to pay him #200,000 if he didn't want him to expose the video to the public. It was shameful to say the least. Since then, Mr Francis has developed a cold feet and has not been coming to work. I paid him a visit and he opened up to me.

My friends, Masturbation has ruined many lives. Some people have committed suicide simply because they were filmed masturbating. If you have this habit, try as much as you can to manage it or stop it. It has a way of embarrassing you one day.

For me, i recommend you read books to learn how to destroy this habit/addiction.

"GUILTY PLEASURE", Overcoming Masturbation, is one book that really points out realistic steps to handling Masturbation. The book creates an environment in which It will be impossible to fail in managing and eventually overcoming Masturbation.

Take charge of your life and regain control of yourself before Masturbation makes a mess of you. If you don't put an end to it, it will embarrass you one day.

Cheap way to advertise your book thou. Cos I know this is fiction. Was a fiction story.

NairalandGossip:
I am not too good at story telling but let me just narrate what happened as best i can.

On Tuesday, 08 August 2023, became the worst day of Mr. Francis life (Not his real name). He was just hired to the company on the 17th of June 2023, and is barely two months working with us but what happened on Tuesday, is embarrassing to say the least. One of the security personnel who was in charge of the CCTV camera on that day was watching through events within the company's environment when he noticed Mr Francis pant down, head up and hands on his phallus, masturbating inside one of the stores where raw materials were being stored. Unfortunately for him, he Mr Francis didn't know that there were CCTV cameras in all the stores where raw materials are stored (to check potential criminals who might want to steal one or two). After making a mockery of him and rewatching the tape probably to be sure of what he had seen, the security personnel invited two others of his team members to come and see what he had seen and he was told that this is an opportunity to make some money. He was advised to blackmail Mr Francis with the video and he did. The security man called Mr Francis and played the video to him, telling him to pay him #200,000 if he didn't want him to expose the video to the public. It was shameful to say the least. Since then, Mr Francis has developed a cold feet and has not been coming to work. I paid him a visit and he opened up to me.

My friends, Masturbation has ruined many lives. Some people have committed suicide simply because they were filmed masturbating. If you have this habit, try as much as you can to manage it or stop it. It has a way of embarrassing you one day.

For me, i recommend you read books to learn how to destroy this habit/addiction.

"GUILTY PLEASURE", Overcoming Masturbation, is one book that really points out realistic steps to handling Masturbation. The book creates an environment in which It will be impossible to fail in managing and eventually overcoming Masturbation.

Take charge of your life and regain control of yourself before Masturbation makes a mess of you. If you don't put an end to it, it will embarrass you one day.

Mr Francis is a not ready to face the reality of what happened to him hence the needy to shy away from work. I am not in support of the act, but if it's what will save you from sleeping with unknown ladies at the brutel, do it. STD are out there, no matter the protection, you can still contract it. As for the security men, they want to cash out but unfortunately, it's bad and not the right way.

Divinelush:
Please masters, how do I remove ❌ license code request from a site (PHP) and configure the email? sent..am a newbie

you just created an account today.. use your old account.. any way drop your contact lets chat

Ilamina:
Suicide shouldn't be a sin

shay you want to cmmit suicide ni?

Taylor90:
You get google voice for sale?

available.. drop contact lets hit

Candidlady:
See the yaro we are trying to advice oooo

Oya yankuridanallah
No vex kooo

this girl i can sense you are very pain very very pained.. attacking people up and down here