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Candidlady:
Why all your post no dey always make sense...

Just read what you wrote again


That was how you went to house your gfs brother so just she won't break up with your biri asz
Mutula

this is a forum and has to be updated with topics and fictions.. so you have been following me up and down..

allow your son smoke week in peace. influence of the cousine he visited. introduced him to that smoking thing which is your concern right now that he has started smoking

one man down.

possible cause of committing suicide

1.. heart break

2.. Debt,

3.. Jobless

4..BROKE

Confirm4real:
Please this is a serious case she happens to be my younger sister I'm putting this up on her behalf.

1. The husband doesn't give her money for upkeep.

2. Most times he beat her up mercilessly.

3. Disgraced her in the compound by telling a mechanic that she doesn't wear pants.

4. Treat her like rag.

5. Doesn't have regard for my family.

6. Monitor her everywhere and accuse her wrongly of following men, this is someone that they've been married for more than 15yrs and have 4kids together.

7. Always accuse her wrongly of stealing his money.

8. Follow her to the market and pays for any food items she buys.

9. The little money my sister earns as a teacher he will make sure she spends all the money at home.

10. Locks his phone but told my sister to always unlock her own so he will be seeing all her messages and calls. Even put tracker on her phone to monitor her calls.

11. Smells my sister's undies atimes to know if she went to meet a man.

12. There was a time my sister was into restaurant business the husband didn't allow the business to last, he told her customers should not sit down to eat they can only buy and go.

13. He now bought a Sienna he still put tracker to monitor the car and inner tracker to monitor calls inside the car. If he noticed some conversation in the car he will start calling my sister, if she doesn't pick while driving he will start insulting her.

14. He pays the children school fees and house rent with complains. They're living at Ajah.

Although I have reported the case to Human Rights. Please what advice can you give if she's your sister.

Note: They dated long before marriage almost 5yrs, but I wonder why she didn't see those red flags then.

Women should be careful in their choice of selection, most men pretends to be nice during dating but not knowing they're beast in human form.

both lives in Lagos. i smell trust issue here and could be as a result of what your sister has done in the past before they got married. and he does not want that to repeat. A man hardly forgives and forget about a cheating partner and could do anything to prevent such from occuring again espcially now that they are married. but as for the issue of going to the market with her, that one strong gorr .. call both families and talk

ElBenny:
I took my girlfriend to KFC for lunch. I was working when she called that she was hungry. As loving as I could be, I drove to her office, picked her up and took her out for lunch.

I was at the counter placing the order when I saw a guy seated in front of my girlfriend, talking to her. I thought he was just asking a question but then the conversation got longer.

I saw my girlfriend pointing at me and the guy turned to look at me. He smiled and my girl also smiled. From there, I was at ease. When I finished placing the order and was going back, I saw the guy leaving my seat. He placed a complementary card on the table and left.

When I got there, I saw the card. My girl was laughing. She said, "Some guys can be very bold ooo. I was telling him I came here with my boyfriend but he didn't care. He even left a card. Who's going to call him?"

I looked at the card. It didn't state any position or workplace apart from a name and a contact and a quote behind that said, "Champions keep playing until they get it right."

I told her, "That's what they do. They go around calling anything in a skirt. They won't find a better job to do with their time."

My girlfriend took the card and also looked at it. She gave the card back to me and said, "You have a friend now. Keep it and call him when you're bored." I don't know why but I kept the card in my wallet. I still have it today.

A couple of months later, some things didn't make sense to me. My girl changed. She won't call and won't visit. Whatever I said got her angry. We were fighting over just anything at all, even statements I made as a joke. I couldn't help it so I told her, "If you think you're tired of the relationship, better say it and..."

"I'm tired!” She screamed. “I’m tired of your incessant complaints and insecurity. You drain my energy yet I don't see the head and tail of this relationship. I need a break!"

She got the break and later called for a breakup. Her reason was this, "I need space to think over my life and where I want to take it to."

Our two years relationship went down the drain without any tangible reason. I went to her place to collect my portable speaker only to see her locking her door. There was a Honda C-RV parked in front of the house. She told me she was going somewhere and would talk to me later. She got into the car and I watched who she was with. Just guess…

The guy she met at KFC.

I was shocked. I was like, "How did it happen? She didn't even take the card so how was she able to..." I took my wallet and checked the card. It was still inside my wallet. "So how did she get the number to call him?

While I was there asking myself questions, their car was also moving away.

When a woman wants something, she'll get it. How she gets it is only a matter between her and the God she worships. The guy drives Honda C-RV while I use my Kia Morning for Uber. here are levels to this game but I wasn’t angry. A man can’t keep what doesn’t want to be kept. Obviously, she gave the guy a chance because she saw a better opportunity there than here.

I’m roaming around town doing my Uber business. Some day I might be rich. Or I might not be rich but no matter who I turn out in life, there would be someone for me. Love can be found at every level in life. You just have to be alive.

IF THIS STORY IS TRUE, LET HER BE.. LET HER ENJOY THE MOMENT..

Enddy50ty:
Is it still available for sale..??

Yes... Drop your number let me reach you

PaganTerrorist:
I want to make an application. Application is meant to be used by women to measure appropriate bra sizes for their breasts. In order to do so, they must take pictures of their breasts and the app will tell them what type of bra is good for them. I want all those images processed and safely stored on a separate server (for me to look at them), while basic app will be just an interface for server communication. Can any of you do this?
The server would be hosted at my farming facility in Dutse.
I can't seem to work on this alone , looking to expand my horizons
Stack being used : Kotlin and PHP

To store in your farm house for you only to view abi. And possibly with their names and details. You never tell us waitin you want? Market don finish abi. Which sane woman will even want to do that in this present time knowing fully well info can be licked outside of the server. Go and ask Esther what happened to her drive

Dataflip:
Ok am actually building it from scratch...this is my biggest project actually..I use php for the backend...am stuck at the stage of data api integration

ok..

Hier:
Is there anything that can be done to undo it

The reason I said it was because, this morning we went, alright, before I left home, it was 8 thereabout, he eat something, though not much but sizable meal, immediately we got to the shop, cooler stuff, I took my serving and he took his and a good sizable amount of rice was still remaining, rice, the stew was sliced tomatoes and fried egg, so somehow, just to test my curiosity about his feeding Appetite, I told him a little was remaining in the cooler, not up to an hour after eating the previous, not to talk about the one he eat by 8am, and the other around 9am, then this around 10am. I went to check the cooler, the food was cleared. Alright

I checked the stew, small tomatoes and egg was still remaining, not even a spoonful of rice was remaining. I took it as okay, it's alright. Afternoon, he eat, just around 3:50pm, I saw him reaching for pure water somewhere in the shop, I knew he was probably hungry or something, I pretended as if I didn't see him, he went for the cooler, I knew there was no food in the cooler, he opened the cooler as if there was food in the cooler and went to a corner to, I don't know, cause it was only the stew that was remaining in the cooler.

Now the funniest part is, I have placed him on a kinda savings whatsoever, that probably he could save something over time and probably start a business where he would be self reliant, but seeing all these narrative is kinda cold foot or something, I feel so discouraged, but I believe there is light at the end of the tunnel. I am a positivist but this one is somehow above me

if he is still into drugs, talk to him and let him know the dangers.. if you are scared of doing such, talk to an elderly in the hoouse aboout his predicament..

emmask:
WhatsApp.... 0.9.1.5.1.7.4.7.9.1.3

your number not going through.. send a mail to verdinglink@tutanota.com expecting your mail..

Hier:
Well, I want to state that I have seen many do the weed like and they tend to look so odd among others. While others have that fresh looking radiance and ambiance, the reverse is the case for them.

We recently accommodated someone who is recovering from drugs or let's say a post drug life and chaiii, they eats veraciously. It really hurts me to see him eat at every slightest opportunity.

Previously, before he came to stay with us, he would keep calling me for money and all that, so I placed him on a weekly something, thinking it would be enough, but just like that, he's calling me. I have never been this close to someone who does drug, but ewwww, it's something I can't process in my head.

When he first came to our house, we gave him the sitting room to stay and the bathroom is very close to my room where he uses, vomiting all nights. It's just too much, it's a dreadful experience and I really feel probably I'm new to this experience, but if it was me that was housing him and I see the manner he's eating, I would throw him out. His feeding is way way too much that even me, I'm feeling discomforted.

Is this th normal experience or something, I love understanding people before I take my stance, but this one is more than me, how would anyone do drugs knowing they don't have the means.

if you don't have food, don't do drugs. especially weed. it will empty his stomach and alll he will be craving for will be food and food

emmask:
Please, I’ve 2800 Indian rupees(30$) stuck in a trading website, I need help with withdrawal. My crypto option got blocked, I only need someone who’s willing to help me please. I can’t imagine letting that money go.

I’m attaching proofs as soon as I get where I’ve a better network.

no details how do we reach you

plsdisvirginme:
...
Copied his bad life styles that affected me negatively.

now that you know he had bad life style. adjust. and face the reality. thinking back will only hurt you more and more and might even make you do the unthinkable.. you dad didn't groom you in the right path. there are so many out there without parental up bringing especially fatherly guidance. at least you have seen the loop hole. try and close it so that it does not transfer to your kid

i just checked you up now and you have one of the most nasty addict in life that has led to your misfortune and you are now looking for excuse by blaming it on your dad. leave the innocent man alone.


this is what you posted in another area

I graduated 9 years ago and I have been jobless.
Due to my condition.
I started patronising olosho, I do bet9ja and menial works to survive.
This year will make me 42 years.
No wife, no job, no business.
My family member sold a land and they decided to assist me with 200k.
First time in my life seeing such money.
Now I don't know what type of business to start with.
Please I need your input

plsdisvirginme:
Yes, he is evil.
I have made enquiries about it and they say is the one responsible for my misfortune.

whats your definition of evil and what misfortune are you facing in life. no job or what, (the economy is hard now) the govt are not helping matter. feel free to ttalk to me

gameova:
Good afternoon Nairalanders. Challenges in my life right now is making me Lose faith in God ( that's if he even exist) I've served since 2017. Ever since I've been jobless. Can't even afford basic feeding or necessities. 32 years , no wife, job , business, nothing. Still depending on my aged mum's pension. I remember when i was afire for "God" . Spoke in tongues, did evangelism, a prayer warrior. But what did I get in reward, shame and disappointment. Honestly I'm tired and can't continue living like this. I think I'm better off dead. Let me go and protest to God himself.

don't go and kill yourself for nothing oh. Life is not fair. you are complaining of no job, no business, those that have the jobs are complain of insufficient funds to sustain. those that have business are complaining of lack of patronage and unfavourable economy. The problem is not your's ok. just be strong. man up and be courageous. You are even lucky to have a mum who is supporting you cash wise. just dust yourself and hit the street . there is no white collar jobs anywhere again. Even those in the office with the white collar job are complaining. my guy see life nor balance. look for a way to carry your cross and face the reality of life.

Joecross888:
The lord is here to save the lost souls and put sweetness in your life

Whatsapp
Contact father now on 0903 848 69 52

Up in me it we u we

what are you saying sir/ma

Dataflip:
So I am developing a vtu portal does anyone have idea on it?

WHICH PART ARE YOU FINDING CHALLANGES...

ghettochild:
Look..here is my opinion...
Never pay evil with evil.
Let the brother know what's going on..
Tell him u have the right to chase him out but u wouldn't do that as he's not the offender even tho it was because of the relationship u had with his sister that made u accommodate him..
But as a guy man.. u won't chase him.
You will see how the guy will respect you.
Plus help him secure a job if u can so the bills won't be on u alone...
My guy move on with ur life
That kain girl go show u her true colors when she enter ur house ooo..
Girl wey u no fit control or talk to..
Just assume u dodge bullet o.

Got a job already at a place I directed him to...

Endeared:
Pls i want tech gurus on. Nairaland to come to my aid. Something unusual has been happening to my Sim for quite some time now. The latest that broke the Carmel back was when i was woken up with that mtns ladys voice at the backend saying 'dear customer..u do not have enough balance to make this call,pls recharge..." That was d voice from my phone at exactly past 2am this morning...which woke me up. This has been happening for some time. After the voice woke me up i decided to check my balance and my airtime of #300 had diminished to zero balance😲😲😲

Pls who can honestly explain whats going on with Mtn Sim cards...i doubt if d fault is from my phone but the Sim. Are they now hacking Sims down to using your airtime to make calls? Pls explain. Am i sharing my Sim with thieves ?
Lest i forget i also get calls or short dials from foreign numbers..countries like Togo,senegal etc why always on Mtn lines? The complaints are getting out of hand

possible your phone is malfunctioning. no ghost is dialiing any number. luck your phone screen and see if it will happen this night? and by the way you didn't tell us if the screen if your phone is good or not . or if its lucked. cos your maltrass could possibly be doing the magic and you are liking it to a ghost.

SUBJECT:
Proposal for Implementing User Engagement Incentives on www.nairaland.com

Dear Nairaland Team,

I hope this message finds you well. I am writing to propose an exciting opportunity that has the potential to enhance user engagement and foster a thriving online community on www.nairaland.com This proposal aims to introduce a user incentive program that rewards users for their valuable contributions in the form of mentions, likes, shares, and comments.

Background: In today's digital age, online engagement has become a cornerstone of successful websites. Users are not only consumers but active participants who contribute to discussions, share content, and interact with other users. Recognizing the value of user-generated content, we propose implementing a comprehensive User Engagement Incentive Program on www.nairaland.com

Objectives:
1. Boost User Engagement: The program's primary goal is to significantly increase user engagement metrics, including mentions, likes, shares, and comments. Active participation from users will enhance the vibrancy of discussions and interactions on the platform.

2. Foster Community Growth: By incentivizing users to engage with the website's content, we aim to foster a sense of community and belonging among users. This will contribute to the growth of a loyal user base that actively contributes to the website.

3. Enhance Content Reach: Increased user engagement directly translates to wider content distribution through shares, mentions, and comments, leading to greater visibility and potential virility of the website's content.
Proposed Incentives: We recommend implementing a tiered reward system that provides users with points for each engagement action (mentions, likes, shares, and comments). These points can be accumulated and redeemed for various incentives, such as:

1. Digital Goods: Exclusive access to premium content, downloadable resources, or digital products related to the website's niche.
2. Discounts: Users could earn discount codes for products or services offered on the website or by partner brands.
3. Gift Cards: The option to exchange points for gift cards from popular retailers or online marketplaces.
4. Donations: An opportunity for users to contribute their earned points to charitable causes or community initiatives supported by the website.

Implementation Strategy: To successfully launch the User Engagement Incentive Program, we propose the following steps:

1. Incentive System Integration: Collaborate with your technical team to seamlessly integrate the points-based incentive system into the website's existing framework.
2. Communication and Promotion: Develop a comprehensive communication plan to inform users about the new program, its benefits, and how they can participate.
3. Tracking and Analytics: [/b]Implement robust tracking and analytics tools to monitor user engagement metrics and the program's impact on website activity.
4. [b]User Support: Establish a dedicated support channel to address user inquiries, resolve issues, and ensure a positive user experience.

[b]Conclusion: [/b]By introducing a User Engagement Incentive Program, www.nairaland.com has the potential to create a dynamic and active online community that not only consumes content but actively contributes to discussions and interactions. We are confident that this initiative will lead to increased user engagement, broader content reach, and the establishment of www.nairaland.com as a go-to platform in its niche.
We look forward to the opportunity to collaborate with you in implementing this innovative program. Please let us know if you have any questions or if you'd like to discuss this proposal further. Thank you for considering my suggestion, and I eagerly await your feedback.

Best regards,

A Concerned Participant.

PLEASE IF YOU ARE IN SUPPORT OF THIS LIKE AND SHARE TILL IT GET TO THE APPROPRIATE CHANNEL

Candidlady:
So why bring the matter here


Since you already advised your so-called friend which we all know it is YOU
Westernlove

drop your comment and passs, let others drop theirs. this is not western love neither is it Nolywood Movie.

Candidlady:
As a friend that you are


What advice did you give your friend
Westernlove

to let go of the girl and as for the brother, he should tell him to get in touch with his relations and move in with them

Candidlady:
Shame on your friend You

Westernlove tales



No comment again
Irest my case

you are free to bash. humans are wired differently. likewise you too.

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Jostapo:
So this guy chatted me up on Whatsapp that he saw my ads on JiJi and he would like to buy one of my systems, we finalized deal and the amount he's to pay the delivery guy.

The location is from Ajah to Ikorodu where the system would be delivered and the rider charged 10k ((due to distance and cost of fuel) but I hard to beat it down 6,500 with lots begging and promise of continuous work with him.

When the rider got to the location (mowo wole junction, Oreta, igbogbo in ikorodu) he called the guy severally but he refused to pick and was later declining his calls. I try to reach him also but I realized that he has blocked me on Whatsapp and blocked my number too.

The rider was there waiting for several minutes without any sign of him coming forth. . I had to tell the guy to leave the place out of fear of being attacked because he said the area doesn't look like there's much inhabitants there and it's quiet.

Now the rider has refused to release my stuff until I pay him. . So technically, I'm the one who's gonna incur the charge just like that. 6,500 will just go like that.

I'm thinking of mobilizing some of my guys who are close to Ikorodu to fetch out this guy and teach him a very painful lesson. . I want to send his picture and number to them. I'm glad the rider is safe because from all indications he could be a kidnapper and thief or something more dangerous. . Who knows

I just want to have you guys thoughts on this. . Is the action I'm about to take too extreme? People who lives in ikorodu, how safe is that address he gave?

your joy should be that your system and despatch rider are safe. this days online buying have turned something else. even the worse part of is that people are using fake identity and fake information to order for products and their picture too fake. have seen a scenero where someone was called that his goods are ready for piickup and that his other line is not going. the guy was surprise which goods and when did he order for goods. he just jejely told the caller he is not the one and that its a wrong number or he should wait for the right person. thats how dispatch rider return goods back oh.. so situatiion like this are done by scammers impesinating other people identity to get their victims.

oga so thank God. pay the dispatch ride and count your loss. thats business.

Scammers are using people's name and identity to defraud now. While also greedy people are falling victims. Even. Now that it's so easy to open a bank account

Sorry about your story. The challenges most young people are facing today is /was as a result of the mistake their parents made. And both parties could not resolve issue either due to pride, arrogance.

My word for you, move on and act like they don't exist anymore. One day they will surely need you..... But for now concentrate on yourself and look for a way out to solve your problem.