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TheUnsure:
I need sensible contributions please, no trolls.

I met a man recently who likes me a lot, maybe even love sef. He’s really serious and he wants to marry me but I’m not really feeling the whole thing for a few reasons.

He’s probably a dream come true for some women, rich, caring, generous and there is a possibility of him becoming a king in some years (which I'm not really a fan of, royal families, royal issues). But my issue is that he has a wife already but they don’t have kids (the issue is from the wife) and he wants to marry me as second wife because he does not want to continue waiting after 10 years of marriage. And I know he would give me the world if I have kids with him.

My main problem is attraction, it is not there. He has a small stature and I’m naturally drawn to tall guys. I’m taller than he is and I just can’t get over that.
I know I would enjoy the relationship but I feel like I’m always going to be feeling like I settled. Please note, I’m a single mother of 2 in my early 30s and I’m not doing bad financially too. He’s been begging to be intimate and I’ve been responding with a firm No. I’m not interested in starting what I cannot finish. I know if I give in, I would grow to love him because he's actually a nice person but....

I told him No firmly last night that it can't work between us but this man has been relentless, I’m just wondering if I'm not making a mistake...

No insults please, sensible inputs. Thanks

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LewisHamilton15:
My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

Benard5050:
I worked in a school for four years and I decided to resign to establish my own business, a laundry business to be precise.

Immediately I gave my boss a month's notice, she turned me into her enemy immediately, and she became so bitter towards me.

The school is run by husband and wife and I discussed with d husband who is the director that I still wish to maintain the room in the staff quarter till December that the house rent should be deducted from my last salary because our rent is being deducted every month from our salary.

The director agreed, wished me well and even advised me further on other things.

My last day at work was Wednesday and happened to be my birthday, this woman never wished me a happy birthday but instead a full manifestation of bitterness that was open to all to see. I made sure I fulfilled her requests but I cried cos I felt let down and betrayed... I joined the school when the college was only jss1 and 2 and now with d help of God and my hard work and those of others, the school has developed and grown to ss3

I'm into teaching aspect and also extracurricular activities that I do teach the students and won many things for the school regarding that.

I left unceremoniously and I felt so sad and betrayed...

Yesterday the director messaged me I'll have to vacate the room I'm occupying and this house is where I'm doing laundry, I planned to be there till Dec and then move away when I start making some money from my laundry.

How can humans be so inhuman and ungrateful?

I have nothing to say to them, I put everything in God's hand.

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Why do men withdraw after the chase?

Sirchiboy:
He is my friend and is on the verge of giving up on life.
Please advice him

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Dickcap:
Good morning Nairalanders
I would like to seek your advice. I'm presently working at a farm company where I hold the post of Assistant Manager. Forget the position I hold oo cause the salary is less than 60k.
Due to the harsh economy, we are currently facing, the CEO said he does not have the power to pay our salary again and that we should find a way to generate income to pay our salary.
It won't be hard for my team to generate income to pay salary but we would have problems with the CEO cause he's the kind of person that loves taking over any money we make from the farm

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that tiny vertical line on the screen .
It wasn't there before....is after relocating the tv to another apartment....I didn't hang it immediately. So later when I hanged it....that line started showing.

What could be wrong and how can it be fixed...like how much will it cost to fix.

Original LG smart tv 42"

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The screen of my tv got bad tonight thanks to non steady light in my area

Please does anyone has an idea of how much I can fix and a sure plug.

I reside in Ajah.

Thank you

MemoriesAndMe:
I understand where ure coming from, pls understand where I'm coming from too. It's easy for people to see crazy things out of anger when they are having issues in their relationships. We only heard of what OP said she said, have we heard of what OP said to her to attract that? So, dialogue is best in this situation, especially since a child is involved.

Zulum:
Hello Good Day all.

I am just sad and not happy at all, I just dey see my being as a dream..... I just want to make my self happy..

I am not broke nor poor.....i earn not less than a million in a month and have secured and permanent job....

But I don't know why I am not happy at all....did something affect my mental health?

Please psychologist in the house should advice me.....on what to make me enjoy life....most of the time when we watch movies with people, I will see them laughing and enjoying the scene.....i am just surprised and not seeing anything funny there.... From there I know there was a problem

Stephen2324:
How did your last talking stage end?

MemoriesAndMe:
She may be saying things out of anger atimes. Just wait for a moment when she is calm and tell her what she does to you that hurts you. Most likely she will adjust.

Some people simply don't know what they may be doing wrong until they are corrected. Who knows, she might tell you what you are doing wrong too, so both of you can fix your flaws and fix your home.

Zulum:
In fact I suspect she doesn't love me

Because I have to struggle before we get married....its like a forced marriage, but not from me but from her parents

She is in love with a guy before, my mum asked me to check her.......i have seen many thing that I supposed to do you turn but I insist and married her...

It's like she is trapped in my office, she doesn't appreciate me, she tells me whatever she likes, she insult me....and be telling me I am not doing anything to her apart from the house rent I am paying.




forget about the money you have spent. sit her down and ask her if she wants to go? if she says yes, tell her fine she is free go. don't die inside a marriage because of a woman. everything you said here are no doubt truth. because I Have seen a woman who boldly told me if she have a gun now she can kill the husband, why becuase of arguement. bro, sir, your peace of mind matters. ask her to go now before its too late. don't say you are not told. she might end up killing you one day and you will just lose your life cos she told you but you refused to listen
Walhy I loose weight, loose appetite, confused depressed.....

And I am doing very well financially, I am spending more than 300k in my house with 30days