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Moneyheart0147:
Hi nairalanders, please I need your advice.
There's this girl I have been dating since earlier this year, though she told me dat this ogbanje spirit the disturb her,and she have gone to some places so that thewill remove the spirit from her,that she dont need it,and she told me that anytime she prays that she wil have an attack,so she stops to pray.but the problem now is that since I started dating this girl things are not moving well for me again,my business hav fall to zero,like I dont have any goods in my shop again,an I can't give account were the money is,things are very hard for me now,from one problem to another,and when I told her what am facing since we started dating,she start to cry begging me not to leave her that she will find solution to her problem.and if I tell her let's breakup she will be heartbroken because she loves so much.
Please friends I need your advice on what to do now.

first of all, the economy is not friendly now. Business that are not strong enough have folded. due to high cost of running, tax, fuel, high cost of living also (because you the business owner need to eat and its from that same business.) you see once your expenses is now higher than your profits, of course you will start eating the capital. and if this trend continues, before you know it, no money to restock the shop again and you will start blaming those around you for the misfortune or inability of your business to grow and stand the test of time.


in another hand, your gf need complete cleansing. yes. thats what she needs and she can not do it on her own. drop your contact lets chat. there are things that are beyond the human eyes. only few knows this

Ehi101:
Good day everyone, my name is Ehimare, pls i dont know how anyone can help me out. I reside in Abuja, i sleep in a church. unfortunately, the pastor of the church has asked me to leave on sunday. i have just 4days more. i dont have anywhere to go, i mean anywhere to go. None of my friends can accomodate me for now due to one or 2 reasons. I am totally drained mentally as i dont have any option. i cant be roaming about the streets with my luggage. pls does anyone have any ideas, suggestions or solutions. Mods pls move to front page

waitin carrry you go abuja first

When the lady you wanted to setttle down with as man, is not in same line with you especially when it comes to marriage talks and settling down to start a family, how did you move on from her especially when she is saying she is not ready for marriage. did you leave her alone or you waited till she was ready. share your ideas so others can learn. Note this is for married men.

jidowu84:
It's so painful to write this here cos I am feeling very bad right now. I don't know how to deal with this matter cos it's actually driving me crazy. He is a very wicked soul for sure but his wickedness ought not to affect my family. Kindly advise on what to do. Leaving the job is inevitable but no job in site as an option for now

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tell us the full story. has he paid others? are you the only one working in the company? is it a one man business?/organization? is the organization generating profits to carter for the payment of salaries? did you had any arguement with your boss in the time past? were you accused of stealing these and many more we want to know

ritaprincess:
My boyfriend's birthday is on the 19th of this month and I am planning on getting him gifts as I always do every year.
I plan on buying top and jeans with sneakers,then perfume with cream. I have bought everything except the cream. He uses Palmers cocoa butter for men. I have searched many supermarkets in owerri and I can't find it. The only he is using is about to finish and I know he will appreciate it a lot if I buy it for him.

you are the best gf in the world.. not those other ones who will want to collect without even spending a dime on him,, as you spend on him, God will blesss you

Promzy99:
At this point, i can't take it again. My in-laws should please return the 42 yams i gave them.

Got down from a shuttle and as i bounced home, someone walking behind me said "see him walking majestically, someone will think he has money", turned back and it's my wife 😡...

Am Finished...

bro you should be happy your wife is joking with you. thats a joke from her and she loves you thats why she said that.

all the miscrants under the bridge should be removed too. but one thing is why are tax collectors allowing them and collecting tax from them

YelloweWest:
Dollop the answer so other can benefit. Except it's a wrong advice.

i believe you are not the person who posted the issue. there are certain things that are met to be private and need face to face interaction. but i guess the op is far away and not in close proximity. if solution works for him/her and they live happily ever after with their kids . he can give testimony. but for now sir. some solutions are better shared in private or official. I love the fact that you want to know the solution so also others can benefit.

Dshocker:
Is there any quality herbal root mixture that goes below 5k?

yes.. do you want any
mention me back

LEARN TO HANDLE HEART BREAK. NOT EVERYONE HAVE THE POWER TO HANDLE SUCH. AS FOR THE WOMEN OUT THERE. DON;T GIVE A MAN FALSE PRETENCE THAT YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. DON'T COLLECT HIS MONEY, DON'T ASK FOR FAVOUR FROM HIM. IF THINGS DO NOT GO WELLL, HE WILL SURELY BRING OUT THE DEVIL IN HIM

beerfraud:
“Because they hate Igbo” people will not like this

its not igbo people that is selling alcohol oga, majority of those selling the alcohol in the streets and packs of lagos are retired yoruba oloshos.

Pojomojo:
From DM

I feel your pain... Drop your contact.., there is answer to every pain you are going thru.

Prexy:
Pls an advise, u travelled for some months last year for business, spent two months, came back to discover that my pastor whom I trust so dearly infact I call him my daddy, was capture on my hidden camera sleeping with my wife, when I confronted my wife she confessed, now what should I do? As am so shocked at the betrayal of trust from them both, pls am confused.

If you are sure of what you ar saying and have all evidence, confront the man. Tarnish his image, bring him to book. Let him lose that his position as a pastor. These are the kind of things I want to get hold of. Devorce your wife. Send her out. Oh my God.. hope you are not a simp. And you are still living with that woman whom you called your wife. Be a man and bring that pastors asss down.

LegallyBlunt:
Good day everyone. For a couple of weeks now, there has been issues where I worship.

Mostly between the Pastor and his assistant (presently former assistant). They had a falling out, which escalated to a point where the assistant stopped his duties.

Now, I managed to ask questions about the issue and the Pastor gave his version. I also got to know about the assistant's version.

However, here's the issue - they're not in speaking terms! Isn't that malice? Isn't that dangerous, and a deviation from what Christians ought to do? Are they not in danger of hell and manipulation from the devil and agents of sin?

What's even more painful is that the church just continues like there's no issue on ground. It's sad, really.

You didn't tell us the issue so we can know which among the two of them is wrong. Please tell us the whole story. I don't like hearing incomplete story. And in as much as I am concerned, I would love to know the whole story.

Solofresh2:
Hello fellow nairalanders, there is this issue I am dealing with and I would like to share it. I get emotional with almost everything. I mean where am supposed to be logical, I get emotional even over little things and I don't like it. I don't like it because I feel weak and easily manipulated.I need advice on how to get less emotional as a guy and do my thing with no emotion attached.
Your opinions are welcomed

Seun,Mynd44,nlpfmod please I need people opinion on this
Thank you

Read books.. read books that will bring out the monster in you. If you continue in this state, you will be used, manipulated, and you will not like the outcome

Thank God you mentioned your sister among them.. they are just too many everywhere... What really happened. You need to enter TikTok and see the number is large. What happened.

Rashduct4luv:
In a previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7701078/one-muslim-still-engage-fortune we stated about fortune telling and witchcraft:


"There's this woman we made contributions for to start up a business. Frying yam, potatoes and fish in a very busy junction.
We got her frying pan, gas and tripod, beans, potatoes, fish and other stuff in small quantity for a start, the first day she sold everything and had to buy yams from aboki for her waiting customers, we were surprised and happy. 🤑

She sold for one week and stopped, I asked her what the problem was she said her pastor asked her to stop that her ELEDA (creator) is not happy with her, her destiny is greater than frying yam at the junction!

I asked what her new plans are now, she said her pastor asked her to come to the church to fast for 7days so as to appease her ELEDA, I asked her what will happen to her business?
She said her Pastor's cousin will take over. I said ok
The pastor's cousin came to the point where she does the business, found the locker open the gas and other utensils were not there. She called from church to tell me her pastor's cousin's findings.

I told her the people who contributed has taken them back, let the pastor's cousin buy her own. She ended the call...
I saw her today in mile 12 helping people to carry load for people! A year drop escaped my eyes.....😭
Perhaps, her ELEDA IS PROUD OF HER NEW PROFESSION!

By Joy Anwulli

If you don't use your head, people will use it for you. Some people don't deserve pity

PLEASE NAIRALAND, STOP ASKING US TO AGREE THAT WE ARE MUSLIMS BEFORE MAKING COMMENTS.

MY OWN OPINION: THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH A PASTOR BUT A DUBIOUS FELLOW PARADING HIMSELF AS PASTOR. AND THE WOMAN WHO IS NOT WISE ENOUGH TO SEEE THINGS FOR HERSELF ALSO FELL FOR THAT DUBIOUS SHIT. IMAMS DO SAME, ALPHAS, TRADITIONAL PRIESTS TOO.

Greymann:
It’s travel documents 😭😭😭

ok.. travel document. fake vise, isssue. well well well, if you know the person you gave money to, get hiim /her arrested and get your lawyer. so that the number of this fake agents can be reducing little by little. they are many out there

EyenIbibio1:
Hello Nairalanders, please someone wants to send me a laptop from the UK, being a bush man that I am, I don't know what details to send, and what method to use, and also I'm in Akwa Ibom, is there a way to get it here or I must go to Lagos?
Thanks all, your contribution is urgently needed

drop your contact let me give you info on how it is done.. and you will get it at the confort of your house sent to you in good condition

hello friends in the house.

Has anyone ever experienced this, feeling hungry but afraid to eat. how did you tackle it. I am in this situation now. i know quite alright that I am hungry, but i am just afraid to eat. My reason " fear of food poisoning, constipation after eating. The person whose food I actually feel like eating {my mum/sisters are not nearby} cos I stay alone. As a result of this fear, I can go hours , almost full day without eating anything.

Please what could be the cause of this? if you have experienced it before how did you overcome it.

Note: I am not sick, I can cook. there are food vendors I can buy food from if i wish to, but I am just afraid.

Tell us say na you be the man.. you don enter you don enter

Go and arrest him and his sister. But wait oh before I can proceed further. Explain in details what the business was all about. What they told you before the start of the business and how you got to know it's a scam

Drop your contact

Jamb is shifting their loopholes to this girl's case. They ,don't want to admit that there was lapses at their end

Jennyclay:
Going on a date with a broke man.

Even God forbids it!!

That's cool everyone with their own mindset.. would love to know you... drop your contact let me drop you a message

Take what does not belong to me.

DEMAGE:
Please I need help ooo, I wanted to load 1000 naria airtime to my mtn and I mistakenly load 10000. Please how can I retrieved my 9000 back.

If it's still available, drop your contact lets negotiate.. Asap

CodeTemplar:
In a situation like this, isn it possible they tie a long rope to a pillar or tree at one end and throw the second end with sinking hook(s) for the drowning person to cling unto?
The friend who got in said he pull him down. If he had gotten hold of a rope he could have been pulled out from my estimate.
A potential GDP contributor has left the world like that. RIP

Be like this one never go river before. As you talk am e sweet. But no such thing there. They can only implement thin for future purpose. But who is going to do it? Except the locals or govt put a baricade using rope just as it is done in swimming pools and beach to mark the deepest part.

This is a joke. Let's assume in the whole department (from level 100 to final year) they have 256 students which I believe might be more than that. If each student is asked to pay 20k that's 256*20k, that's 4480000. That's times two of what they are looking for. Or let's even assume they asked student to pay half of the 20k which is 10k it will still give them that money. If the 10k is too much they can slash it down, and ask all lecturers in the department to donate. Compulsory donation. After they have been collecting salary for long. They don't need to come out publicly to cry. Even the Dean can afford this money. So what's the public outcry for. They have been collecting departmental money for years from students what have they been doing with this money?

pappy4real:
I tried this about a month ago and like I said earlier, she's so clueless she doesn't even know how n where to pack to. She was asking me to throw her things on the street

This is serious. How old is she and how did you both know or met each other?

pappy4real:
I swear to God I wouldn't. She's totally changed and become a burden to my life. She's lost the life and vibrance and the romance in her, she's just pale, clueless and unwilling

send her go her parents house. what are you still doing with a pale woman , an unattractive woman who is a burdent to you