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Look don't let this weigh you down :because it could mean something or nothing at all. But I suggest you pray and seek the counsel of your spiritual leader. Allow him pray with you so that both of you will be in agreement to cancel every negative declaration regarding this dream

Lab rats is the preferred word

OP, just tell us you to subscribe to your channel and stop all this nonsense of trying to figure out women. If Solomon(the wisest man of the bible) could say " it is better to dwell in the wilderness that to live with a contentious woman", then who are you to follow data that only adds to the preexisting confusion?

ZIMDRILL:
you are also missing the point from the person who opponed the thread he wants a women who he can have an intectuall understanding which is above basic education like primary or secondary education

meaning is basically looking at woman who has a college to uni level of education, he doesnt want to take chances

Bros, read through the thread and stop embarassing yourself like this. The OP claimed he is married to an "educated woman" who has three children for him. So what other woman is he looking for again?

E no go pass crashing landing. RIP to the dead

ZIMDRILL:
dont try to hide behind a finger

in basic in africa intelligence is very much linked to level education

hence you find eg most people go for masters etc

dont get it twisted the guy didnt link being intelligent with contributing anything on table

think of this what if intelligent to him mean questioning his thinking aka having two minds on problem than having a wife who says yes to everything without a putting her own intectually thinking on the problem

You're still missing the point : intellectual prowess doesn't mean you can't relate with an illiterate wife. Neither does it mean she cannot add value to any conversation. If indeed you love your wife, and you value her input, there you can find ways to have conversations that will include her in your affairs. Most men out there want to marry "educated Barbie " who know nothing apart from eating fatty foods and giving mouth-action

ZIMDRILL:
ok the main point raise here is would you marry someone who has a basic interlectual or someone who is at the same
level interlectually.

Have seen that when someone gets rich or well enough they find their wife basic educated boring, WHY its simply becoz the new ladies they now meet they talk to them on an interlectual level of their business or social status hence they excite them becoz they speak the same
langauge whereas with your wife if she is not part of daily running of your business or social status you might start finding her boring

so by this scenario the hubby is likely to cheap and abuse the wife saying you are uneducated

so basically the thread is asking would marry someone on the same
intectual level as you or lower

You're interpreting intelligence for education and this is wrong. Do you know you can have a wife whose intelligent but not educate and she'll still be able to contribute to your life in more ways that you could imagine...? Please don't write of people just becuase they didn't see the four-walls of a school

Steel is an alloy that's basically a combination of carbon and iron varied ratios ; while iron is just processed haematite that's been refine. But I'll advise you check a standard mechanic's workshop if you're looking for steel wool.

Tomorrow the figures will go up and then they'll come up with more excuses to have us all vaccinated like cattle.

ZIMDRILL:
you are twisting things it doesnt mean married people have universal problem and solutions comes
from married people Nope

being married doesnt make you a better solver of problem than some who is not married

There is no twist here because there is nothing to twist. Experience still remains the best teacher and until you've experienced something, you don't have the right to talk about it.

Na so

If you quit now, what will your children feed on...or haven't you given that thought...? My advice is you endure with your current job and start saving to become a driver/Uber driver. You can do this by doing contribution(àdàshi) with trustworthy friends who have the same plans like you.

ZIMDRILL:
Open your mind some got married simply becoz the girl pregnant, some actually married becoz they agreed and planned so when we say married people we are not looking at how you got married but those are said to be married

if married people are so exprienced am sure problems in marriage or divorce wouldnt be a thing

there in no general rule on has better advice

It seems you're not following me on this issue because your sense of reasoning defies logic.


Let me give an example : two men are trying to know how it feels like to shoot a gun. So Mr A watches a video of a man shooting a gun, while Mr B goes to a shop and buys a gun and tells a soldier to teach him how to fire. Now who amongst this two men will have a better experience at shooting?

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ZIMDRILL:
not always

not everything is black and white

look at your parents most likely your parents have the same age as Dangote but are they rich like him using Age ?

[/s] Your analogy is off-point. And mind you, Dangote got rich through corruption, not hardwork. Now before you open your mouth to start vomiting rubbish, try and see how many commodites Dangote group is holding in Nigeria

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ZIMDRILL:
dont be too blind

not being married doesnt mean, one
can not seee the wrongs/mistakes done by married

remember you either learn from your mistakes or learn from others mistakes

[/s]Bros experience remains the best teacher. So keep silent while we wait for other meaningful people to talk

ekerensima:
you've created a path for yourself, my eyes are set on early harvest 3-6months crops I'll graduate to bigger projects ad i gain experience. I'll mention you on my new thread on My watermelon farmer.

I'll be looking forward to it.

GodWrites:
You're being disturbed by ignorance, and I only hope you get better!!!

You're the one the ignorant one. Kindly do yourself a favor and stay of DMT while bits of your sanity is holding on

ekerensima:
it seems you have vast amount of experience on this topic. I'm officially starting my farming career this year.

Glad to hear that. I'm a farmer but I don't farm potatoes on a commercial level. I deal mainly with yams,
groundnut and sesame seed.

Casham:
Yeah! I know! It sounds stupid even suggesting such idea, especially when we are surrounded by French-speaking countries and considering the religious commotations. I am christian and I know too well what formalizing Arabic may imply. But I always feel hurt whenever I hear people call these almajiris 'illiterate'. I mean, you need to see how these kids read the Koran. But most of their parents won't allow them go to a 'boko' school. The purpose of education is learning; and if Arabic will give them the chance to learn, why not push it?
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Just me thinking out loud shah.

Bros have you lived up north? Do you know the kind of brainwashing that goes on there?

See, even if Arabic is formally accepted as the official language of Nigeria, northern Nigeria will still have the greatest numbers of illiterates alive. All because of the islamic nature that stays with them.


To the average northern Muslim, islam is not just a religion ; it is a way of life. Which is why you'll see majority of them inculcate islam into their everyday lives.

For example, you'll see women wearing hijab under the hot sun( and some dressing like ninjas ), all in a bid to follow the "sunnah " of prophet Muhammad. And to them, this is holiness. Now how do you tell such people that wearing a hijab under the sun , could possibly cause a heat stroke or any sort other sort of malady...? How then do you educate them since they are already brainwashed by islamic culture that stays with them? One thing you have to understand is that Islam's rigidity is in a class of its own. Which is why if you a take a look at the world's map, you'll find that the poorest nations in the world , are basically Muslims dominated. And this is a fact

Sammielee007:
Sweet potato is highly profitable for commercial farming. Go ahead to plant it, you will see buyers for it. Hausa always convey sweet potatoes in their trucks to Mile 12 everyday.

It's more profitable than Irish potatoes? Bros, I hope you're not one of those Internet farmers that peddle lies all in name of wanting to show relevance

Money that could've been used to better our internal railway system was used in appeasing Buhari's cousins in Niger republic. Thunder and Ogun will continue to fire our leaders as long as they've surrendered themselves to misplaced priorities

This is why you should be careful of whom you marry because you may just be marrying your own killer without being aware.

GodWrites:
Tell me about it!!! So extracting an element using a solvent automatically makes the extracted element bad, because it's hallucinogenic? What do you know about DMT, or the supposed Mimosa tree?

I can see you're a dense junkie. Oga, kindly go and read up on the isolation of DMT before you start talking stupid once again.

GodWrites:
What's a drug? An element extracted from the bark tree of a Mimosa tree is a drug to you? You don't equate it with hard drugs. Stop ridiculing yourself on a public forum

Bros don't be stupid. The extraction process changes its pharmacological properties from an ordinary plant to a strong hallucinogenic substance. This something SS1 students know...

You're just confused. English is the most widely spoken language and the world is looking for how to extend English to most parts of Africa and you want to take us backward with thoughts of establishing Arabic? Oga, you nor well!

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GodWrites:
All I see here a devolved, water based organism whose brain lags to comprehend simple mechanisms of life.

[/s]You're just a silly drug addict whose life is about to be snuffed by a mind-acting drug.

ekerensima:
sweet potato, white skin to be precise

Sweet potatoes is not as lucrative as Irish potatoes because of preference in taste. But let me ask you a question : do you want to go into it for commercial purposes?