I've been a guest for a couple of years now, created an account to seek advice
My dear nairalanders, does it always end well marrying the Breadwinner of a family? He's the last born with 4 elder siblings but they all depend on him.
Yes, I knew he was the Breadwinner from day one but I thought with time, everyone else will be able to stand on their own, but it hasn't happened yet, we've dated for 3yrs now and he doesn't support me financially. I don't complain but he feels entitled to my money and when I get tired of him always asking me to lend him some money and decide to say no, he nags and tells me I'm not being supportive enough.
This is driving me really crazy cause he reminded me of how unsupportive I've been to him and his family, he's driving me insane, you can't possibly put the responsibility of your family on my shoulders, that's crazy and insensitive, over the years, I've borrowed him nothing less than 500k which I know for sure he's never giving back.
Is it normal to be in a parasitic relationship whereby the female remains the host that's being fed on?
I'm only 24 while he's 31.
My candid advice,
Have you asked yourself why they say "LOVE IS BLIND"?
Well, it's simply because it doesn't see things like this as problems, that's how foolish love is!
Love stops to exist when you realize yourself or better put, come to your senses.
Modified: it is not love until you are being called foolish!!... That's the bitter truth!
Now to the advice, if you want to have [b]PEACE and SECURITY i[/b]t is time to move on from that relationship!!!
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