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FamilyRe: My Husband Has Become A Domestic Slave In Our House & I Do Not Know How To Stop by JayPeeOham: 10:01am On Apr 29, 2020
Let me say I understand how you feel!


You didn't tell us how old the toddler is?


My advice is, wait until you wean (stop breastfeeding) the toddler, then you see if your husband will still continue with the chores.


I'm very sure he wasn't like this when you guys got married, maybe he only understands the fact that you're a nursing mother and hence he had to change to adapt to the current situation (my kinda man).



"The thing is that I can walk away from mess and he can't."
On the other hand, considering your above statement it might be difficult for your husband to stop since he'll always find mess in the house because there will always be mess and you will over look, then he will come do the clean up.
So, I'll also advice you put u the habit of not walking away from any mess around the house,, so that he'll find little or nothing to do when he comes back.
CelebritiesRe: Bollywood Actor Irfan Khan Is Dead. by JayPeeOham: 9:35am On Apr 29, 2020
The one common to every human no matter your origin, color or belief is DEATH!!!!
PoliticsRe: Adegboruwa: Buhari’s Speech Filled With Confusion, Curfew Can’t Work In Lagos by JayPeeOham: 6:38pm On Apr 28, 2020
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If una like make una kill unasef, e no cern me coz I don talk my own finish, anybody wey no obey, my boys (police & armed forces) go deal with Dem!
PoliticsRe: MURIC Says Kano Deaths Suggest Plot To Depopulate Muslims by JayPeeOham: 5:37pm On Apr 28, 2020
Chrisakuneme:
Is the Governor of Kano state a Christian?

Is the president a Christian?

If no, then who is planning the depopulation of Kano state?
Donald Mohammed Trump of course!! grin grin
TravelRe: Lockdown: My Visit To Street Market In Greece (photos) by JayPeeOham: 9:17am On Apr 27, 2020
CollinsWeGlobe:
I arrived at the supermarket for okro.

The hundred naira okro that will full everywhere in Oshodi market I bought half of it 5 euro (₦2,100)
E good na, after all the 5 Euro sef u no work for am tongue tongue
CrimeRe: Herbalist And Wife Use 7-Year-Old Son For Money Ritual In Ogun by JayPeeOham: 6:20pm On Apr 26, 2020
I agree with everything Sha except OGUN!! undecided


First tell us the meaning of Ogun in English and we'll know where they got the name from coz they are sure living up to that name! grin grin
HealthRe: COVID-19: Would You Barb Your Hair Wearing This? by JayPeeOham: 5:47pm On Apr 23, 2020
How do I breathe if I should allow him cover me with thathuhhuh?
PoliticsRe: Lockdown: Ugwuanyi Monitors Compliance, Visits Land Boundaries by JayPeeOham: 5:40pm On Apr 23, 2020
StarUp:
How some people's mattress will look like after lockdown...
Abi ooo, the children go down play all kind play and jump plus piss on top the bed tire!!!!.....lol grin grin




Ahem is that not what you meant? tongue cheesy
RomanceRe: Don't Marry Anyone In This Category Of Men Or Women. by JayPeeOham: 3:39pm On Apr 23, 2020
Now let's here the conclusion of the whole matter:

WOMEN DATE WHO THEY LOVE BUT GET MARRIED TO WHO IS READY!!
TravelRe: Lockdown: Beautiful Drone shots Of Lagos by JayPeeOham: 3:10pm On Apr 23, 2020
You for tell us say na Island pictures you want show us na........How you go mention Lagos you no even put one Mainland picture?...mtcheeeewwww
HealthRe: Covid-19: Woman Covers Her Head With Empty Container To Stay Safe (Photo, Video) by JayPeeOham: 12:43pm On Apr 23, 2020
MetaPhysical:
If it was done in Europe you will call it innovative. grin


...but how is this different from the ones you see on nurses in Europe?

She has made the best she can given what is affordable and available. The end goal is safety.....she has given herself safety.

I cheer her efforts!
U dey mind that guy wey they call am stupidity?

Wetin the woman do no even reach wetin our "ogas" Dem dey do for Europe...!

As far as say na Africa or Naija na foolishness but if na that side na creativity!!

We're the cause of our own problems

FoodRe: Bishop Kwakpovwe Distributes Food Items In Ogudu, Lagos by JayPeeOham: 11:18am On Apr 23, 2020
Nice one Bishop!!! From giving the manna on paper to giving the manna in reality!! grin
EducationRe: Angry Zambian Father Slaps His Son Over Poor Result After Paying $21k As Tuition by JayPeeOham: 9:05am On Apr 23, 2020
In my own opinion, the boy for just open up to him father say him one do music before th father spend that kind money. But if him still insist, the boy go remind am say him bin don tell am before say him head no dey book! so no be him fault, short and simple!


Now, him don allow him father waste N7.5m wey e for use train 3 children for naija! sad


Abeg na small thing dey make me vex!
RomanceRe: Runs Girls Are Getting Better Husbands Than Church Girls - Lady by JayPeeOham: 8:13am On Apr 23, 2020
Liliantalks:
How true this ? well to me , very true



https://mobile.twitter.com/Deola__Adereti/status/1252567725693702144
The twitter handle says "Pastor..." When a Pastor begin to conceive thoughts like this.......hmmmmm shocked


I won't say a word! lipsrsealed
FamilyRe: What Are Your Stay At Home Realities During This Lockdown? by JayPeeOham: 8:04am On Apr 23, 2020
Temitope1759:
Hello Nairalanders today marks the third week of the mandatory stay at home order by the federal government in Lagos , Abuja , Ogun and some other states to curb the spread of the novel corona virus pandemic.

Since the start of the lock down have been forced to apply some little adjustments to my lifestyle and daily routine.

Now I take my early morning work out more seriously than ever before, eat more , read more articles on the internet and getting enough rest during the day. I also have to be vigilant especially at night because of the recent cases of armed robberies around Lagos.

So what have you been forced to accept or change in your everyday lifestyle. Also what have you been doing to keep safe during this lockdown period?? Share your opinions.
The lockdown further exposes our Governments' already existing loopholes and also new ones
PoliticsRe: Pictures Of Governor El-Rufai After Discharge by JayPeeOham: 9:05pm On Apr 22, 2020
In this COVID 19 Battle, the GOOD ONES will always come back!!! wink
FamilyRe: What Are Your Stay At Home Realities During This Lockdown? by JayPeeOham: 7:31pm On Apr 22, 2020
uuzba:
Requires more discipline
Yeah....The annoying part is I have no comfortable let me say conducive place to sit and work undecided

So i'm having body ache, back ache and waste pains as a result of my improper sitting positions cry
FamilyRe: Mothers, How Did Your Husband React When You Were In Labour? by JayPeeOham: 6:53pm On Apr 22, 2020
cutewifey:
I could remember vividly when my water broke with my first pregnancy around past 12am. I woke hubby up and showed him what I saw, he jumped up from the bed and asked me if I'm sure baby is about to come, as a JJC that I am too I told him I think so even though I still feel fine that he should go back to sleep.

After some hours, I started having backache with stomach tightening, I went into the restroom to per and I saw show, I had to wake him up again, I told him I think baby is about to come, immediately hubby's body system changed, he started purging going into the restroom to poo. It was around past 3am, he was confused on what to do next, he ask me if I can hold on till around 5am when we can vet bike to the hospital.

I tried to hold on but around past 4am I couldn't take it any longer, we had to go out and look for a means of getting to the hospital, thank God we were able to get a bike, and I delivered around past 6am. All through the labour he was panicky, the nurses sent him out of the room twice when he was hearing my shouts while in the room.

Men are always afraid when their wives are in labour, share your experience too lets have fun reading.
Women gossip dey sweet well well, Let me sit and relax while I go through these juicy comments of strong women! grin (Sips wine)

Ahem, let me shake small table before I sit down tongue........

Talking about Labour and childbearing, this is the only point where Women are known to be stronger than Men cool

Argue with your ancestors!!! tongue tongue
FamilyRe: What Are Your Stay At Home Realities During This Lockdown? by JayPeeOham: 6:42pm On Apr 22, 2020
Temitope1759:
Hello Nairalanders today marks the third week of the mandatory stay at home order by the federal government in Lagos , Abuja , Ogun and some other states to curb the spread of the novel corona virus pandemic.

Since the start of the lock down have been forced to apply some little adjustments to my lifestyle and daily routine.

Now I take my early morning work out more seriously than ever before, eat more , read more articles on the internet and getting enough rest during the day. I also have to be vigilant especially at night because of the recent cases of armed robberies around Lagos.

So what have you been forced to accept or change in your everyday lifestyle. Also what have you been doing to keep safe during this lockdown period?? Share your opinions.
In summary, I have discovered that working from home is more difficult than working in the office!! undecided cry cry
RomanceRe: Should I Lend My Boyfriend Money? by JayPeeOham: 2:19pm On Apr 22, 2020
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Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?
And you think his love for you is going to grow after seeing this thread??

I'm very sure he won't have asked you for that money if he knew you would go all over SM platforms to ask for permission

And besides if the money is chicken change to u as you claim, I wonder why anyone would need advice before giving out chicken change?...smh
CrimeRe: Nigerians Blame Banks For Negligence As Robbers Visit Homes With POS Machines by JayPeeOham: 12:34pm On Apr 22, 2020
nairavsdollars:
how did POS even get into the hands of armed robbers?
Very brilliant question!!

Because these POS are tied to a particular account and with that they can get the identity of whoever owns the account!!

If it wasn't the account holder who used the POS for the robbery, then he/she should be able to provide who did!

But alas, this is where you get to know that there is an insider or insiders from the bank working with these criminals!!

How can you explain the fact that transaction histories and account statements cannot be accounted for by the bank.SMH

I won't be surprised surprised if all the POS are of the same bank!!!!
BusinessRe: Man Loses The Money In His Saving Box To Fire (Photos) by JayPeeOham: 12:03pm On Apr 22, 2020
danboy1234:
A man who has been consistently putting away 1,000 and 500 Naira notes in his saving box has lost it all after fire gutted his home.

The Nigerian man, Kelly Mark who shared photos of the burnt notes on Facebook wrote:



https://m./593937164113419?view=permalink&id=1336133563227105&_rdr
Bro just take the money to the bank maybe they can help...coz i'm sure disposing it off in ur waste bin will not be appealing to you as it will be very difficult!


Besides, there is no harm in trying,!

Once again take am easy with yourself, No think am!!!!!
BusinessRe: Man Loses The Money In His Saving Box To Fire (Photos) by JayPeeOham: 12:00pm On Apr 22, 2020
AlfaSeltzer:
Next time use a bank.
Oga bank worse!...just pray say all these Lagos boys no snatch ur phone, u go no how far!
FoodRe: What's That Worst Mistake You Ever Made While Cooking? by JayPeeOham: 6:25pm On Apr 21, 2020
Threads like this are sponsored by boredom in association with Lockdown and isolation! grin ?? ?? tongue
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 5 Tips To Make Your CV Standout And Grab Employers Attention In 2020 by JayPeeOham: 11:10am On Apr 21, 2020
PatrickOkunima:
https://patrickokunima.com/5-tips-to-make-your-cv-standout-and-grab-employers-attention-in-2020/

A really need a new CV make over...Can you help make that possible for me?
FamilyRe: My Wife Has Turned My Children Against Me by JayPeeOham: 8:54pm On Apr 20, 2020
Paul8000:
Good evening ladies and gents...

My name is Paul, I am married to my beautiful wife Vivian by name for the past 16 years . We have 5 wonderful children together Jemima 15, Isaac 12, Elizabeth 9, Samuel 6 and Tabitha 3. We are based in Liberia. We both are working and earning well by God grace. I have few issues with my wife that brought me here to get some advice.

Anytime my wife and I had some misunderstanding, she does involve the children. The oldest 3 she tells them everything including how I cheated on her, she also feed them with lies that I am a bad man and I want to kills her. She tells them so many things to make them hate me. They will disrespect and keeping malice with me to the extend of if I send them for errands, she will stop them and tell them not to go. No matter how much I shouted at them to go, they will not obey me because their mother has the final say. For example my wife and I are having some misunderstandings for over 3 weeks now, we are not talking or sleeping in the same room. I have tried to makes things works for us but she refused.
Mr. Paul your wife is being very immature by sharing some secrets meant for just the both of you with the kids. No matter what happens, it should remain in the bedroom.

Because tomorrow those same children will grow up and leave the house, and it will be left with your wife and your self alone in the house.

Oga, you also need to man up and take charge of your home as the Man, Father and Husband of the house...it is wrong for you to allow your wife have the final say in your home.

I don't know if you are a Christian but if yes, you need to go and read the role of man as outlined in the Book of Ephisians.

A man is a man. If you're not a man you're not a man! Meaning, as man it's not Everytime you do things to get a thumbs up from people. Sometimes you have to trust your will, judgement and opinion as a man.
CrimeRe: 'One Million Boys' Storm Oworonshoki In Lagos. Youths Resist Them (Video, Photo) by JayPeeOham: 4:49pm On Apr 20, 2020
merit455:
Oworonshoki Is Currently Boiling

Please we need police attention in Oworonshoki area of Lagos

Men who claims to be one million boys are currently raiding and terrorising shop,homes.
I couldn't take pictures because my sister wouldn't allowed me move out.

Edited


E be like say these guys dey on tour for the whole of Lagos...What impetus!!!!!!! shocked
PoliticsRe: Dino Melaye Now Doing Calculation Spending (Photo) by JayPeeOham: 2:40pm On Apr 20, 2020
I understand his calculation jare!! cheesy


If he was spending 200k in a day before, now e don reduce am to 150k....lol grin




all na calculative spending tongue
HealthRe: How To Manage Your Finances During Covid-19 Pandemic by JayPeeOham: 1:26pm On Apr 20, 2020
DonMustafa:
All those people dropping bank details everywhere begging for money, I have advice for you. Go and do online dating because white people have good hearts. If you meet a white person online, become their friend for a week or 2, then you explain your problem to them, they will assist you. Nigerians will only look and pass. If they help you, it is N5k max. But white people have pity.

If it is only $500 the person sends, $1 now is N400. $500 is N200,000. Imagine what N200,000 will do in your life now. This is what I did last year December and I was able to raise money to start a betting shop that is feeding me today.

You can use free sites like Facebook. But on free sites, it is hard to find people. If possible, use a paid dating site. You can see dating sites for as low as $29. I used a site called Bit Mistress to get the white lady who helped me. You can try it too. It is very cheap
How is this different from Yahoo biko and how legit is thishuhhuh



Abeg na question I ask o undecided
HealthRe: How To Manage Your Finances During Covid-19 Pandemic by JayPeeOham: 1:22pm On Apr 20, 2020
How will you forget the share meant for ......"the 1 million boys'" grin cheesy




















































Abeg, GOD FORBID O!!!!!!!!! shocked
HealthRe: Men’s Testicles Could Make Them More Vulnerable To Coronavirus - New Research by JayPeeOham: 1:09pm On Apr 20, 2020
ExAngel007:
Source: https://metro.co.uk/2020/04/19/mens-testicles-harbour-coronavirus-12578779/?ito=cbshare
LWKMD!!!!! LMAO!!!!!! ROTFL!!!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!!!! grin grin grin grin grin


Nothing wey CORONA no go see inside VIRUS grin grin grin grin


Okponku!!!!!! shocked shocked shocked
TravelRe: Lockdown: 3rd Mainland Bridge Today's Morning (Photos) by JayPeeOham: 11:03am On Apr 20, 2020
iwaeda:
Covid19 FG Lockdown; See 3rd Mainland Bridge Today!

Traffic on 3rd mainland bridge this morning as sent in by our Correspondent � please where are these people going even after cases in Lagos rose to 70 just last night. What is the colour of our problem? Cc @trafficbutter

VIA @Hasshabie

https://twitter.com/trafficbutter/status/1252149673869090816?s=19

Lagos people are I dont understand. In the evening, 100 new cases
They are all members o f the Press and Health Workers!!!! grin

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