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Music/RadioRe: Sinach No 1 On Billboard USA For Christian Song by JayPeeOham: 9:02am On May 06, 2020
Onlinealaba:
Am seeing Chris brown on the list huh huh Please which of the Chris brown
Is Chris Brown a Muslim? grin
HealthRe: Union Bank Staff Dies Of Coronavirus Disease In Lagos by JayPeeOham: 5:40pm On May 05, 2020
MyVILLAGEpeople:
What if it's something else that killed him ??. They now attributes all deaths to Covid 19. Besides this Covid 19 in Nigeria is a big scam.
Government has seen it as an avenue to loot as usual. The pictures circulating yesterday actually shows people don't believe in it. angry angry
No mind them!!


COVID-19 is the new "witchcraft" or maybe "brief illness"....Lol grin
PoliticsRe: 10 Things Yar’adua Will Be Remembered For by JayPeeOham: 5:04pm On May 05, 2020
There was a President! cry cry cry
FamilyRe: Time To Divorce My Wife? by JayPeeOham: 4:56pm On May 05, 2020
bukatyne:
You realize that the error is all yours for not choosing well.

For that, you are half way there.

You mentioned that you married in the Church: brother you know that except adultery and I will say abuse, you can't divorce your wife.

You have tried counseling, reporting her to family etc. etc. and it has not worked.

Now, I want you to try changing your reaction to her attitude. You have been married long enough to 'predict' her actions/inactions.

She forgot your birthday, fine. Celebrate yourself. Go out with the kids, go out with your friends etc.

She tries to keep malice, apologize and move on.

I know it is hard, it is abnormal even however you need to build a shield in your heart so that her attitude doesn't get to you anymore.

Don't beg or cajole her to 'change' or 'be better' or whatever: you are telling her that she has power over you.

Thank God finances are not a thing: treat your self, go on vacations, do the certifications or courses you wanted to. Channel your emotions into the things you have always wanted to do, pick up new hobbies, go to gym and workout youf frustrations etc.

And prayers work: if not for her to change, for you to be whole mentally and emotionally.

It is well.
OP what @Bukatyne is trying to say in a nutshell is that: Though you're married, it's time to live single even as a married man


But no 'chop' outside o, I'm sure you understand!! wink
CelebritiesRe: Which Celebrity's Death Pained You The Most? by JayPeeOham: 9:22pm On May 03, 2020
rottencorpse:
Which celebrity's death made you lose appetite? Which celebrity's death made you cry? So far I'd say Michael Jackson and Kobe Bryant but if I were to choose one, I'd pick the King of Pop Michael Jackson.

What's yours?
OP it would have been better you split it by saying 1 from Nigeria and 1 from outside Nigeria...so there can be a balance!!



For me, MJ and John Okpa
PoliticsRe: US House Of Reps Members Oppose Plan To Return Abacha Loot by JayPeeOham: 12:32pm On May 03, 2020
Make USA turn the loot to express Visa for those of us wey for like japa!

Like if you're in support or Share if you think the loot should be "relooted" grin
BusinessRe: Access Bank To Shut Down 346 Banks Nationwide (List) by JayPeeOham: 12:22pm On May 03, 2020
sarrki:
Nigerian financial power house, Access Bank, annunciated the closure of more than 300 of its branches nationwide in a bid cut down running costs as a result of the outbreak of the deadly virus, COVID-19.
OP the heading should be: "ACCESS BANK TO SHUT DOWN 346 BRANCHES".....not "Banks"....how Access bank go close other Banks for Naijahuh
HealthRe: "Arrest Bill Gates": Americans Protest Against Bill Gates' Vaccines (Video) by JayPeeOham: 9:07am On May 03, 2020
wickyyolo:
Thank God Americans are not as dumb as some Nigerians still supporting Bill Gates.
I'm telling you!

Imagine if it was Dangote who was in the picturehuh??

By now you see some blind people following him not because they even know or understand what he's doing or trying to do. But because he's of their religion and tribe....lol
RomanceRe: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by JayPeeOham: 8:49am On May 03, 2020
[quote author=Robisky001 post=89088703]LOL.. Op, the house has harmoniously agreed you settle for your likes to avoid being called a gold digger or an opportunist. [/quote

Seconded!

OP, we the Ndi Elders of Nairaland hereby go with the above verdict. If you choose to do otherwise, do not come crawling back and crying to us for any effing advice or directions!!!


A word is enough for a wise HND Holder!! tongue
TravelRe: Lagos New Guidelines For Public Transport Operations by JayPeeOham: 7:06am On May 02, 2020
Na only Nigerians dey copy, after dey copy finish them go still fail exam while people wey Dem copy from go pass!
FamilyRe: Do I Build A Small House Now Or Keep Saving? by JayPeeOham: 6:31am On May 02, 2020
bikerboy1:
I don't know who you are, but my sincere advice to you is to keep on saving.

With time the vision will be clearer
Set awon General Overseer! grin grin
BusinessRe: You Will Remain Poor Forever If You Continue Doing These 8 Things by JayPeeOham: 6:21am On May 02, 2020
[quote author=martinmiller post=89039097]Character they say is the beauty of a woman and money is the beauty of a man that's why every man desires success and a luxurious lifestyle. quote]

Nice one OP.

The beauty of a man is money, that's why they say Men are Handsome meaning....as a Man, you have to always have SOME money in your HANDS!!
RomanceRe: Every Woman Is Born With This Talent Of Looking At Phone Of Partner by JayPeeOham: 6:07am On May 02, 2020
sarrki:
Away from politics and convid-19 matter


Every woman is born with this Talent clap for them.
From experience, I feel it's only a woman who loves the man she's with that will be interested in knowing what goes on with his phone.


I've dated someone who doesn't care what I do with my phone and she's very okay with it.
HealthRe: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by JayPeeOham: 6:44pm On May 01, 2020
QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.
It depends on how fast the woman's body can heal after childbirth!!!!!


So be the Judge!!!!!! grin grin











If yours is 1 year, Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 tongue tongue
HealthRe: Lagos Discharges 26 More Coronavirus Patients by JayPeeOham: 6:37pm On May 01, 2020
They're all only clearing bed spaces for new converts....nonsense and ingredient!! lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: A Male Friend Stopped Talking To Me Because I Have A Boyfriend by JayPeeOham: 6:06pm On May 01, 2020
Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.
Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.
Set awon "Male Besties"!!!!...........mtttttttttttttccccccchhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwww tongue
HealthRe: Sanwo-Olu Comissions 118-Bed Isolation Center At Gbagada General Hospital by JayPeeOham: 5:58pm On May 01, 2020
PoliticsRe: 3 Persons Arrested For Insulting President Buhari And Governor Masari by JayPeeOham: 5:26pm On May 01, 2020
onyi25:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/05/breaking-police-arrest-3-for-insulting-president-buhari/amp/
Thought you'll have attached the so-called "viral video" for better understanding of the "insults" grin



Op abeg attach the video, I want check something jor grin grin grin
PetsRe: I Caught This In Lagos: Is This A Tortoise Or Turtle? by JayPeeOham: 3:56pm On May 01, 2020
pezeji:
As a result of this lockdown, boredom became too much and I went fishing in a nearby water behind my building here in ago, Lagos State.

Fortunately I caught this little, innocent and shy animal.

It's my new pet
Congratulations OP!!! tongue


And the name of your new pet shall beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee tongue shocked



























TORTLE grin grin grin grin grin grin grin tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue grin grin grin grin tongue tongue tongue
CelebritiesRe: Mompha Flaunts His Rolls Royce Wraith Eagle VIII 2020 by JayPeeOham: 7:38pm On Apr 30, 2020
fulaniHERDSman:
Other people are busy touching lives and this useless baby bastarrd is still out there fooling himself.

NOBODY CARES FOR NOW ... EMPTY BRAIN MOMFO.
How do you expect the likes of Mompha and Hush puppi touch lives with ill-gotten wealth?
FamilyRe: Share Your Funniest Experience While Growing Up by JayPeeOham: 7:30pm On Apr 30, 2020
IAmTobore:
My first kiss was from my female classmate when I was still in primary school. Though I can't remember the class. We were playing when she did it. I was shocked while she laughed. I wanted to raise alarm, but she frowned and that was how I kept shut. Along the line, I later molested her alot before I left the school. I still miss her though. I know their house but I wouldn't go there to check on her because I feel I haven't achieved much.

The second kiss I got. I was still in that primary school then. And my mom ran a buka. Students from a nearby secondary school would usually come to buy food from my mom. There was this grown up and very cute girl. She was way older than me. Starting from the day she set her eyes on me, she wouldn't leave me. Whenever she comes to buy food from my mom, she would always call me her husband, hug and even wrap her arms around me. I always ran from her anytime I see her and my mom usually laughs over it.

Well, one afternoon, I was out in the street playing with my friends and I was seated in a wheelbarrow when all of a sudden I saw her coming with her friends. She saw me and started hailing me as usual and I just used hands to cover my eyes in shame. This girl walked close and gave me a kiss right there inside the wheelbarrow. Chai, ground nearly swallow me. And my friends started hailing me.

Well she stopped everything as I grew older and entered jss. Then she just decides to greet me and pass when she sees me.

That was then.
Little wonder why it was the woman who ate the apple first!
FamilyRe: Share Your Funniest Experience While Growing Up by JayPeeOham: 3:13pm On Apr 30, 2020
The only funny thing that comes to my mind is the scenario of the first time I got kissed by a girl.........lol grin


I was in this relationship with a girl older than me with about 2 or 3yrs, really can't remember. She came to visit me and it was time for her to leave so i went to see her off on a cool evening.

We got to this very lonely road, just like a flash. she bent my head over coz I was taller, placed her lips on mine for a kiss that lasted for at least 5 seconds.


I struggled to release myself from her which I did, she started laughing because she could see the shyness all over me.


Before she knew it, I ran back to my house without saying bye to her, the race back to the house took almost 5 mins but I never stopped nor looked back. Voom! I ran straight to the bathroom, picked up my toothbrush.........you no the rest of the story!!!!!! grin
PoliticsRe: Zinat Abebi Omotowo Is Dead! MC Oluomo's Mother Dies by JayPeeOham: 2:30pm On Apr 30, 2020
MC OLUOMOhuh



Sorry, never heard of this comedian before tongue



RIP to Malleh by the way!! cry cry
CelebritiesRe: Chioma's 25th Birthday: Aloma DMW And Davido's House Staff Sing For The Chef Ch by JayPeeOham: 1:56pm On Apr 30, 2020
If the LASG could arrest Funke Akindele and Co., then this should not be overlooked either.
RomanceRe: Can I Forgive Her Past And Move On With Her? by JayPeeOham: 12:51pm On Apr 30, 2020
The bitter and annoying truth is that she cannot and will never get over a man who deflowered her. It's even worse that they were a "couple".

So my guy, it's either you find a way to live with it or you let her go!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TravelRe: Worst Bridge In The World At Igwe Ito, Obi LGA In Benue State by JayPeeOham: 7:13pm On Apr 29, 2020
ijaw1stson:
hahaahahaha bro... You funny o grin grin
My guy!!! I thought as much!!!...Lmao grin grin grin grin
FamilyRe: I Am Ending My Marriage Because Of These (see Reasons And Give Advise) by JayPeeOham: 7:01pm On Apr 29, 2020
After carefully reading your story! I wonder what you came here for after telling us that you've already received so many advice from different people.


Now here is my verdict!!!



Do what gives you peace!!!! Any relationship built on lies will and can never last, you can tell better!!!


Truth be told, nobody can tell you what to do in this matter, I'm sure form the numerous people that have given you a piece of advice, all the advice still tilted towards you forgiving her.

I'm sure you brought the issue to Nairaland because you can't frogive and in other words, your mind is already made up, ur attached pictures says it all.

Finally, my brother na u wear shoe and na only u know where and how e dey pain you it's either u comot the shoe or u manage am like that!!! But who wants to manage his/her marriage....Lolhuh

Las las na ur decision to make!!!!!!!!
TravelRe: Worst Bridge In The World At Igwe Ito, Obi LGA In Benue State by JayPeeOham: 6:45pm On Apr 29, 2020
ijaw1stson:
This one na death trap na


Meanwhile check out the bridge that leads to my village...

#proudly kalabari
Show us a picture of u on the bridge grin

No be like say I dey doubt o, I just want check something!! tongue tongue tongue
HealthRe: Lagos Discharges 49 Coronavirus Patients by JayPeeOham: 6:41pm On Apr 29, 2020
fergie001:
The Lagos State Government has released forty-nine more Coronavirus patients. Eighteen from the Infectious Disease Hospital, Yaba and thirty-one from the Onikan Isolation facility.

This was announced by the Lagos State Ministry of Health, via her twitter handle



https://twitter.com/LSMOH/status/1255536006050258946?s=19



https://twitter.com/LSMOH/status/1255536011788144641?s=19[/quote]If only the world knows what they do in that so called isolation centers!!! cry


I just weep for Nigeria where we value money more than lives!!!! cry cry




well......let me not say a word!!!! undecided
TravelRe: How I Survived Ogbunike Cave And Its Colony Of Bats (photos) by JayPeeOham: 6:38pm On Apr 29, 2020
The video dark pass black! Didn't see nuffin!!
PoliticsRe: Tobias Okwuru: Buhari Appoints Dead Ex-lawmaker To Board Of Federal Character by JayPeeOham: 2:45pm On Apr 29, 2020
Buhari be breaking records back to back to back like David Moyes in Man U. grin
TravelRe: Maiduguri Lockdown In Pictures by JayPeeOham: 1:51pm On Apr 29, 2020
Shettibosss:
Residennts of Maiduguri are fully complying with the lockdown order from the State government.
First picture be like death trap...mere looking at it, I felt sorry for those who are living around there shocked

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