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Romance / Re: This Is Why You Shouldn't Date A Fat Woman! by Jenifa1: 1:09am On Jan 14, 2012
stupid thread

zhukafa:

mamalola, hahahaha. Can i know more about you?
Advocator, am not saying that i dont do the slim girls and ladies, what am saying is that i prefer doing the fat big girls and ladies to the thin slim ones. I know much on satisfying the fat ladies.

well, check out your profile pic. you are a big man yourself wink
Family / Re: by Jenifa1: 11:51pm On Jan 13, 2012
Sagamite, the way i'm looking at you, you better be ready to remain a bachelor for a loooooong time grin
you complain about women's drama. but your own drama get as e be. who will be able to tolerate that?
Politics / Re: Why Is The Protest So Intense In The West And North? Why Are They Bitter? by Jenifa1: 8:09am On Jan 13, 2012
if you want to see igbos protesting, just burn a statue or effigy of their god Ojukwu. they will come out in droves  grin

^ am I a prophet or what? Just as I predicted a few day ago.

while the rest of Nigeria is protesting against fuel subsidy removal. The igbos have decided to hold their strike protest for Ojukwu's death. 
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-844646.0.html
Politics / Re: Ojukwu’s Burial: Massob Declares Sit-at-home Order by Jenifa1: 8:06am On Jan 13, 2012
What did I say cheesy am I a prophet or what?

these Igbo people will only protest if it has to do with their god Ojukwu or other tribal issue.
what do they care about fuel subsidy.
Education / Re: Privatize Public Schools And Distribute Their Shares To The Masses by Jenifa1: 8:02am On Jan 13, 2012
Seun,

your post is very confusing and contradictory.
I know you like to be known as a bonafide "capitalist" and despise all things associated with the government
but let's be serious here,

1. education is mandatory according to law. therefore there HAS to be public schools in existence to justify the law.
2. do you seriously think it's ok for students to be calling their principals "CEO"?  . you are confusing a school with a car company or something.
3. when "ALL adult residents" are involved in your scheme, it ceases to be a private venture but a PUBLIC one. did you consider this?
4. related to point 3, where will the shareholders' meeting take place? private board room or town hall? lol
5. what happens when there are issues/ disagreements and such among "share holders" (aka ALL adult residents ) who will arbitrate. will it be an elected official?
6. How will geographic residency be drawn out? who qualifies to be a resident? will we go by local government borders?
6. school fees. haha. you mention nothing about this in your post. who decides the school fees?


basically, your idea is headed in the right direction if only you acknowledge that what you are calling for really is better government.  grin ie government by the people, for the people and of the people.
Romance / Re: Getting Married In A Couple Of Weeks, And Discovered Hubby Is A Fraud! by Jenifa1: 12:23am On Jan 12, 2012
nobody is saying you can't have your wedding. undecided

point is, tell him what you saw. couples fight and have misunderstandings all d time.
it may have been someone else impersonating you and sending him emails
Romance / Re: Getting Married In A Couple Of Weeks, And Discovered Hubby Is A Fraud! by Jenifa1: 12:20am On Jan 12, 2012
@OP, your post is very confusing.

why not just tell him what you found.
and have a voice recorder with you.

your username sef is fishy. I think you are a man. impersonating a woman.

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Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Has Failed Jamb Again, Oh Noooooooooooooo! by Jenifa1: 12:06am On Jan 12, 2012
bin gbagbo,

you should seriously stick to comedy section. you are venturing out too much. haba
Romance / Re: Would U Tolerate A Partner That Comes Home Late In The Night? by Jenifa1: 7:09pm On Jan 10, 2012
expatiate more. are you experiencing this issue?

because this seems like a no-brainier question to me.
Romance / Re: 9ja Women Always Faking! by Jenifa1: 6:59pm On Jan 10, 2012
9ja woman r fake because that's what attracts 9ja men.
Politics / Re: Why SE People Are Not Really Interested In Oil Protest (imo) by Jenifa1: 6:52pm On Jan 10, 2012

Nigerian protests are always destructive; that is not how protests should be
So you want protesters to destroy the private businesses of another person who has no hand in what is being protested?

rotflmao
Romance / Re: : And How Long Should It Be Before I Meet The Family by Jenifa1: 6:41pm On Jan 10, 2012
I'm really ready to move on but yet I give him another chance,


what is this?

these desperate old hags need to get a life.
here she sees all the "green card" signs and she's still talking about "give him another chance." wth?
Politics / Re: Why Is The Protest So Intense In The West And North? Why Are They Bitter? by Jenifa1: 5:30am On Jan 10, 2012
if you want to see igbos protesting, just burn a statue or effigy of their god Ojukwu. they will come out in droves grin
Politics / Re: Why Is The Protest So Intense In The West And North? Why Are They Bitter? by Jenifa1: 5:26am On Jan 10, 2012
westerners and northerners are more active in civic society. and more patriotic nigerian citizens
easterners don't want to do anything in the name of Nigeria. they will prefer to fight and accuse other tribes than to fight and hold the government responsible.
Politics / Food Subsidy Removal Responsible For The Arab Spring? by Jenifa1: 12:52am On Jan 10, 2012
For decades, many of these regimes relied on food subsidies to ensure stability -- a social contract so pervasive that the Tunisian scholar Larbi Sadiki described it as dimuqratiyyat al-khubz, or "democracy of bread." But over the past several years, grain prices reached record levels, and these appeasement policies lost their luster. In Tunisia, pro-democracy demonstrations began in late December 2010 with protesters brandishing baguettes. In just a few months, a wave of uprisings rippled across the region, toppling Tunisian President Zine el-Abidine Ben Ali and Egypt's longtime ruler, Hosni Mubarak.

http://www.foreignaffairs.com/articles/67672/annia-ciezadlo/let-them-eat-bread
Politics / Re: Muslim Youths Guard Churches In Minna by Jenifa1: 12:34am On Jan 10, 2012
that's the spirit.
Politics / Re: War Drums •northerners Flee by Jenifa1: 5:06am On Jan 08, 2012
they say the north is dangerous
violent and riotous
they say the people are blood-thirsty
angry and feisty

but for me, as a south easterner
the north will always be pleasanter
for me and my family
a tempestuous land of milk and honey

tomorrow I will be caught bare
but until then, let me remain here
just send my ashes home, son
to the land of the rising sun
Romance / Re: Children Produced From Green Card Marriage How Do They Feel? by Jenifa1: 4:35am On Jan 08, 2012
MsDarkSkin:

My boyfriend is going to apply for citizenship next month
and he could have EASILY made me a victim if he was mischievous [i]reta[/i]rded however he was filed for legally by his father.


only a r[i]et[/i]ard will marry for green card when he has the option to get it legally.
green card marriages are always a desperate attempt. even the men in it see themselves as the victims. unfortunately
Foreign Affairs / Re: Guitar And Politics: Can Being A Pop Star Help Win A Presidential Election? by Jenifa1: 4:24am On Jan 08, 2012
oh no. N'dour pls keep the respect of your fans and stick to music.


Haiti: Presidential election in 2011 won by singer Michel 'Sweet Micky' Martelly

with Wyclef Jean as second runner up. lol
Romance / Re: Children Produced From Green Card Marriage How Do They Feel? by Jenifa1: 3:51am On Jan 08, 2012
darkman200:
Mixed kids are the most beautiful and they bring out the best of both worlds, i wish i have one cool. Stop dumping on others to make yourself feel better. And before they all start drawing daggers, i am happily married to a Nigerian woman , so save your breath smiley

shush.
be proud of your non-mixed children.
even though you wish they were mixed. eya
Family / Re: Why Should A Woman Accept Adultery From Her Husband And Vice Versa? by Jenifa1: 3:47am On Jan 08, 2012
jennykadry:

Outstrip tell that to AGIGBOMA of a silly and mentally deranged poster, how can a woman say she is staying for her kids? How will that environment help That child? THe boys will end up knowing its ok to cheat on their wives and the girls will see it as a norm when their husbands to cheat on them.

Women that stay in this kind of relationship, stay for themselves


oh my goodness. lol you're crazy grin
Family / Re: Why Should A Woman Accept Adultery From Her Husband And Vice Versa? by Jenifa1: 3:11am On Jan 08, 2012
@outstrip,

you make a good point but
not all women are bitter and resentful of unfaithful husbands. ex. there are some who believe that all men cheat and therefore do not see it as grounds for separation or divorce. I personally know a woman who puts condoms in her husband's briefcase when he goes on business trips. I know this because I overheard her on a phone conversation and she was very light-hearted about it. this woman clearly isn't the bitter, resentful type who feels she's losing her dignity. She is the typical woman OP is talking about who accepts adultery from her husband.
if the woman stays bitter and resentful,  then obviously she doesn't "accept" infidelity. she needs to get out of the marriage because I agree that such a hostile environment is bad for d children.

I personally cannot know what I will do if I find myself in such a situation. there are so many factors involved. it's easy to say "divorce" but once someone finds herself in the situation, she might act differently.
Romance / Re: Children Produced From Green Card Marriage How Do They Feel? by Jenifa1: 2:16am On Jan 08, 2012
rotfl @ green card babies.

Just FYI, Obama is a "green card baby".
Romance / Re: ???????????????????? by Jenifa1: 3:27am On Jan 07, 2012
lefulefu:

or more like gonna get me some b1tch in da crib grin grin

maybe this is british slang. no1 in US talks like that. it's reminiscent of Ali G actually.
but of course u won't know that. how are things going in maroko village by the way?
Literature / Re: Do Contemporary African Writers Actually Sell Books? by Jenifa1: 2:34am On Jan 07, 2012
I think one main problem is with publishers or publishing houses. are there any good ones in Nigeria? they control the business side of it afterall
because I'm sure we have d literary talents. who probably have the skill to write,  but lack the skill (or even interest) to sell and do business.

take for example the very sad story of how "Confederacy of Dunces" (USA) got published. or how Samuel Johnson's  "History of the Yorubas" got published.
and many other manuscripts that were originally turned away by publishers etc. sometimes only becoming known to the public long after the authors have died.

in essence, writing and selling are two different things.
writers don't sell books. publishers do.

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Romance / Re: He Is My Best Friend, He Is In Love With Me (but I Am In A Relationship) by Jenifa1: 2:22am On Jan 07, 2012

can you please tell me the difference between him and your boyfriend?


I would like to know as well. lol
Romance / Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Selective Listeners? I Can't Believe This: by Jenifa1: 2:14am On Jan 07, 2012
eatme:


Anyways, I have this one dude that's been toasting me (mind you, he didn't even contribute to my flight ticket angry angry), so, I was explaining to him the situation and why I decided to fly out from BUF instead of Pearson. The response I received from him came at me from left fields, "AH, so you are going to America to visit your boyfriends and you will be using greyhound. Why are you being a cheap girl."  cry cry cry cry cry

What the heck Naija men, bikonu, help me understand where be drew that conclusion from my explained traveling arrangements.


I think he's looking for a sugar mommy.
Family / Re: Why Should A Woman Accept Adultery From Her Husband And Vice Versa? by Jenifa1: 2:03am On Jan 07, 2012
something you have to realize that the MAIN purpose of marriage is to raise children. that stable 2 parent environment is really important.
romantic love itself is being described by scientists as an evolutionary phenomenon meant to force a man and a woman to stay together long enough to raise their child/children.


agiboma:

I wont speak for women but ill speak to my reason's for staying in a marriage with a partner that is a serial cheater, i would not even call it cheating anymore because i just accept it to keep the peace. For me my child is the reason why i stay period. Furthermore i have never been in a relationship where my partner has been 100% faithful i am not sure such a thing exist. Leaving him to find better or g-d forbid i find worst omg. I have not made up my mind to take that chance.

You are not the only one. many women do it for the same reason as well.
Food / Re: How To Make Wara by Jenifa1: 1:41am On Jan 07, 2012
VENUSS:

i made a soybean cheese recently, i learnt its also the same process with d cow milk cheese. For d soy beans, u wash nd soak d soy over night or for up to 8hrs for it to be soft that you can bite tro.2. Blend to get a smooth paste.3. Mix with hot water nd seeve.4 pour d milk in a pot nd let it boil, but u have to kip an eye on it because wen it starts boil it fils up nd pour all over u cooker.5. Wen it starts to boil u start adding your coagulant,eithe naigari(bitter salt) not sure of d spelling but i wil look it up,but 4 me i use white vinegar.you start to add your coagulant bit by bit until u see d cheese seperate frm d water.6. Whem it done coagulating u take a clean cloth seeve nd pour it in so dat most of d water drains out. Leavin it with little amount of water.7 take it out from d cloth. your cheese is ready

that's tofu lol
I made something similar a while ago but didn't use any coagulant. I don't remember what I did but the soy curdled. thanks 4 the tips now I know what to do to intentionally cause it to curdle.

but doesn't the vinegar affect the taste??
Family / Re: by Jenifa1: 1:36am On Jan 07, 2012
Miss_Ife,

I even like it now when I try to chat with hubby and he doesn't reply,

weird
maybe a defense mechanism you've built up.
most normal people won't like to be speaking to thin air.

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