₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
This is not about times changing. You are the one to come to terms with the fact that men with money would keep spending. Majority of the world’s richest men - CEOs, sportsmen, musicians…etc, are not on Nairaland neither are they members of your coven. Their partners cannot relate to your rant.

So wake up and smell the coffee.

Need I remind you that most of the wealthy men we have are not with women. Some were never even married sef. From Dangote to Bill gates. Name them!

Of course, foolish and low quality men would continue spending on some undeserving females just so they can get laid. In fact I have a neighbor who earns over 200k as salary permonth and guess what he does immediately he receives his salary alert, he invites different shapes of hook up girls and lavish them with the money. All na spending on women abi?

No sensible man who understands the value of money would waste it on some entitled women.

pocohantas:
The men with the money are not every ranting. It is you online alfa males crying upandan. So as you decided not to give, what happened? Did it stop babes from posting Range Rover and Benz? Rest with if all men are like me.

Many of your brothers are leeching of foreign fossils. Since you can be submissive and take a woman’s name, you can go that route. There is nobody stopping you. But enough with the “If every man were me”. Who know you?

My friend better come to terms with the fact that times have changed. With the emancipation of the female gender, more men are no longer willing to carry your burdens. I know you know this fact but would rather argue. Unless you're into hook ups whereby it is money for hand back for ground, no man is willing to carry you as his responsibility.

I know you and your ilks here would assume all whatnots about me for telling you the cold truth about this matter, but it's alright! I'll rather tell you how it is than deceive you (like many guys would) only for you to come to terms with the reality when you eventually marry them.

pocohantas:
Abeg rest! If all guys are like you what will happen? You fit buy car or house? Yenyenyen, if all guys are like me. All guys can never be like you because men like to provide.

It is you frowning at hypergamous men because I no send them. Sha keep your ego by the door and be submissive. Don’t expect me to buy you a car and tell people you bought it yourself. As long as you a man cannot confidently say it is your wife paying the rent and bills, it means you know the arrangement is wrong. As such you should get your ass off the couch and work!

E say na simp. So you are more alfa than footballers and CEOs? Thank God for nairaland sha. If not where una for dey claim this alfa male. Even for village meeting, them invite you?
Toor!

Lolzzz. See one of them!

No problems ma, I'll be 'submissive' and even announce it to the whole world when you buy me a car! In fact, I go even bear your name! Provided you load my accant with monthly 'allowance', change my car and wardrobe every year and also carry my extended family burdens as well. Who no like better thing!

And about inviting me to any village meetings, I say to HELL with such village meetings! Who village meetings help

Men jus dey suffer themselves for nothing in this world fa. It's worse when one goes through all that for one ungrateful woman.


Yeye dey smell

Gerrard59:
Bros, all women are hypergamous. You need to get used to it. Nothing will change it not even feminism.

That's because they are allowed! If all guys are like me ehn, we'll change it for them.

If women don't see simps who patronize them, they'll sit up! There have been many examples of such sitting ups.

I'm aware that humans generally look for where life would be made softer for them, but my angst is ; why do we frown at "hypergamous" men but allow it for women When both genders can do better for themselves

Why don't we just call all of them OPPORTUNISTS which is what such people are?

Persephone1:
Would you be of this opinion if a woman had created a thread this with same title and evidence? You will be part of the group to call her names or justify the guys by normalizing their actions. You would probably say it is natural for men to go after a woman with beauty, boobs, brain and bum. It is natural for men to go after a feminine woman. You will call the woman an immature attention seeker. But here you are crucifying ladies for going after a masculine man. Now should we mete same punishment on you for this?

While you think you are dragging these ladies who may not even be on this forum you are actually showing how little minded you are. Truly no matter how well traveled an African man is,his barbaric nature can never be completely wiped off.

So because person message you fess, the person is desperate. See yarn for 21st century

Yes, men are free to woo the women they like because they pay the bills! On the other hand, a lady trying hard to woo a rich guy can be likened at best to a gold digger who is hunting for a man to leach on, at worst she can be likened to an armed robber who is looking for a rich man to part with his money. You can't describe such as LOVE and so, people are right when they call out such ladies! They're OPPORTUNISTS

I can only consider scenarios like this as real LOVE when the lady is trying to woo a guy who is not financially well off.

christistruth01:
Lexus Cars attracts Cursed People

Abi o. The crave for that car among those hoodlums is something else

Gerrard59:
Cut Nigerian women some slack. The same happens everywhere. Women are naturally hypergamous. Singaporean ladies judge a man by where he works, and ditto for young Japanese women. The latter is even worse as they judge by the university first before the company. The belief is that as a grad of a top university, you would get plum jobs. It is the same everywhere. The difference is in the wealth/poverty ranking of the country. The poorer a nation, the more desperate the women are.

And why should they be cut some slack That attitude of theirs is very wrong and should not be condoned. It smacks of greediness and laziness!

Women now have equal opportunities with men in education and careers. Many women have also created wealth for themselves by sheer hardwork and so, no excuses for any of them to be LAZY.

How can a man respect his wife or girlfriend knowing fully well that she is with him just for his money? No more genuine love for men but some fake love based on how much money he has. I believe this is why many men now cheat on their wives with reckless abandon because that same money that was used to acquire her can still be used to acquire younger, fresher and hotter girls. It's that simple!

At this point, men of the underworld now target people with Lexus jeeps. I know upto five cases of snatched Lexus jeeps just between March and October this year. It's as though that car is a hot cake in the market now. I had to advise my big bros to park his own at home and start using the smaller car.

So, this could be a case of robbery gone wrong or perhaps a planned assassination.

RIP to the young man.

The resemblance is just too striking! There was no need for DNA sef

Nor be only companionSHIP na CompanionBoat

Op, I perfectly understand where you're coming from man. Keep giving it to them wotowoto. Those hungry, broke b1tches that want to reap where they did not sow.

They'll now be forming yeye love in a bid to trap an abroad husband. Many of them are here on nairaland.

Yeye gender

onadana:
The story no clear...this DNA part.

Some of you don't know what it means when it is said that blood is thicker than water.

Once they're same blood and already in contact, they'll keep getting drawn together until everything gets exposed.

Ladies should try as much as possible to always hide their used pads from their men or avoid blood stains on their panties.

Those can be very irritating and a big turn off

Greyworld:
Like I dont even understand how they reason. You see those girls that have problems with guys being attached to their moms would eventually be so attached to their own sons.

The ones I hate most are those trying to compare their importance with a guys mom... a wife is a wife and a mother is a mother. Two very important and dominant female figure in a man's life, they can't and shouldn't be compared at all cost.

I dont think any man would like to be in a position to pick one from both, especially if they are both great people.

If I even find myself in that position, I'll quickly pick my mom and marry another wife. No two ways about that

Op, search your mind very well and ensure you don't have cockoldery fantasy. In this internet age, many people may develop weird sexual fantasies. It doesn't happen to only whites. If you watch rubbish and weird pornography, trust me, you'll start seeing what our cultures consider as taboos as normal.

It is also possible you're under a spell. Whichever it is, you seriously need prayers and deliverance!

Jeon:
Black Men love and value the parent that left them/wasn't there when growing up [which is the male] and will hate on the parent that stay back with them, went through a lot of pains, hardship and stress to brought them up [which is the female ]

This I have noticed.

but yours is different.. I feel sorry for you.

You haven't noticed anything my dear! Most men have unquantifiable love for their moms (myself inclusive). The fact that some children look for their deadbeat dads does not and can ever imply loving him more than their moms.

Some of those guys might have been insulted all their lives for not having their dads around. They may have been called bastards and other derogatory names by their peers. So, it's only natural that such a son would want to look for his dad at least to prove that he's not fatherless.

The sh1t wey go full inside that snail's intestine ehn....

pukes

Zee0007:
Rita exposed breast and she's happily married. The man no complain. Na you com complain. Smh.

I wonder why Rita Dominic had to expose her breast in those pics and her husband allowed her.

Female breasts are most men's weak point! In fact, seeing those melons arouses even more than seeing the v itself. A supposedly classy lady like Rita shouldn't have worn that outfit she wore yesterday. I never expected such from her tbh

manforgu:
There is one here in Delta State that needs to be apprehended ASAP. I have even created a topic in health section of this forum inquiring on how to report the fake doctor.

Check medical and dental council of Nigeria official website and send them a mail. You can also check Nigerian medical association.

Persephone1:
Lol... to be sincere , i'm really skeptical about this. I don't know you and there are lot of mad people on Nl .

I can't really promise anything for now.

Never take what you read on nairaland to heart. All na cruise!

Some of the guys making such post are actually cool guys who just wanna pull your legs

MufasaLion:
When will you dolts stop sexualizing women?

She sexualized herself first with the way she exposed those brezz

Artiiclebeast:
Congratulations to Yuzedo and his sweetus....

For real??

Is that man Yuzedo ? That was once popular here on nairaland

Even small nyash dey shake oo

Yes, Ned is politically a small nyash where Wike is.

mbahdi:
Apv APC.baba Bulaba blublu
An na fine man,why indulge in such,God will see u tru
Abeg free d man he's a doctor na u say he no go skull.country hard an man must survive so far he no kill person.come Oyo state.u go see Dem in plenty just go pay 30k for any hospital in d next 3months u are already a doctor and free to open ur own hospital.as am talking now am also a doctor by learning

F00l!

This is how the thinking of an olodo works. Quacks like yourself and this one kill unsuspecting Nigerians subtly and because your victims may not fall and die immediately but afterwards, you think you don't kill Just because we don't conduct autopsies when most people die but bury them without probe!

I recommend life imprisonment for this idiot and others like him when caught

Peter Obi is light years ahead of all of you in this presidential election!

I just wish Nigerians would be smart enough to elect that man. I'm very sure Obi will do very well as president if elected.

I don't just know what is wrong with some Nigerians! You see a man who is clearly sick both in body and in the mind and you're seriously campaigning and trying to push him in as president! Later we'll start reading nonsense apologies on how you made mistake by voting for the same man.

There's still time for all of you to reboot your brains and vote right this time around. Stop being so selfish that all you care about is the stipend you're getting to support this misfit. You'll always benefit more from having a good leader than a bad one. You're children and unborn generations will benefit too.

Let's stop this selfish politics that has done no one no good in this country!

A word is enough for the wise!

This animal once existed in my village in the east and stories had it that they were dangerous and often targeted new born babies and children. It's called ezi ofia

The hunters in my village got them decimated.

Persephone1:
The truth is people go overseas especially UK with high hopes. They think life is easy there and money flows on the streets. Aside social amenities the difference in UK and Nigeria is at the end of your "hustle" hours you get something to show for it. But you will definitively HUSTLE . Heaven help you if you go as a single.

We know that people must hustle to make ends meet while abroad. No complains about that!

At least you'll see the work to do over there. That's a departure from the situation in Nigeria where even to see work is a big problem! You'll need to know people in high places before you can secure a job that'll pay your bills.

This lady juss dey whine herself. If she serious, let her trade places

mariahAngel:
Which of the soups do you not mind having for the rest of your life?

Picture source: Instagram.

Which of the soups do you mind not having for the rest of your life? Rephrased



Me: Banga

Yes, I remember vividly how Atiku treated Jonathan with so much disdain during that 2015 election. His hatred for him was always clear whenever he spoke about Jonathan then.

KennethEnyi:
The thing is most people always say they don’t want kids it’s not necessary but the truth is that eventually everybody will still settle down…

Yeah