₦airaland Forum

Zandena:
I'm beginning to doubt the sanity of this man called Tinubu honestly.
Calling God 'father ' is a No No in Islam and is not negotiable.
We are between the devil and the red sea in this 2023 polls:
Tinubu: unstable character
Obi: Bigotry and malfeasance;
Atiku: corrupt and arrogant/ nepotism.
God which way Nigeria!

Obi is not a bigot! Forget what his opponents are saying just to discredit him.

Igbo men are the pillars that have held this country from breaking apart. Go to any village in the north and you'll see them living and doing business peacefully without causing any trouble.

An Igbo man as president of this country will not want to do anything that would put his brothers in the north at risk. Besides, an average Igboman relates better with other tribes than even his kinsmen. Nnamdi Azikiwe was a good example. Aguiyi Ironsi was captured in the house of his Yoruba friend.

You people should stop listening to politicians who lie to you about the Igbos when they want to achieve their selfish political gains. Obi might even do better in the north than in the east just the way Jonathan was doing before APC deceived the northerners into voting him out.

BigBashiru:
I know a man who married for six years....in those six years the man was playing one man one woman. One day the wife asked for a separation....now the guy is stranded. But if over those six years he also kept side chicks he won't be As devastated, he will simply convert one of the girlfriends in his concubine into a wife.

NB: I'm not encouraging sleeping around. You can hv a girl friend you enjoy her compaany without sleeping wiv them

Abi o. I have equally discovered that many women won't take a man serious if he's faithful to them. They want that man that other women also wanna have. The drama gives them some kinda kinky pleasure.

I'll differ with you on the sleeping around part. If I can't be sleeping with a lady, then no need of having a love relationship with her. Her bedmatics would determine my level of commitment to the relationship. Me I personally love a girl who has a tight game on the bed and is not shy.

Supported! Concurred! Endorsed!

Op, you're very right! Broke ladies don't have any right to get wet let alone get married! In fact, 1.5million is too small. I'll rather raise the bar to 3million. Any lady who can't boast of having at least 3million naira in her account is not a marriage material. Such an 'efulefu' lady deserves to die lonely without a man or children.

Enough of having broke and lazy women fill the earth with children they can't cater for.

BigBashiru:
I like ur second paragraph but stop calling it "cheating".... even if bills were equally split, the man is still free!!!

Don't forget the power dynamics at play here.... everyone both men and women make the most of what they hv..... now is the man's turn....the females had their turn and they used it quite well to their advantage....now that the man is good looking and the lady is fat, the man wants to use his power and all of una dey cry cheating.... no its not cheating its making the most of what a person has.

I know a woman who got married....after she got married guys were still chasing her and she has a boy friend outside of the marriage. Why? because she can. In a few years she'd be too old and her bf will dump her for a younger girl and she will hv no option but be loyal to her husband cos she gat no choice.....that's the power dynamics at play....everyone makes the most of their power....

You're right bro. I can't imagine myself getting stuck with one fatty who's no longer attractive. I'll definitely get my fill of younger girls outside because from what I have seen in the hands of ladies today, no lady is worth sacrificing my desires for.

Ladies that would reject and broke shame you if you try to approach them while still struggling, why would I be faithful to them when I eventually have the upper hand I have been searching for a lady who can prove that she's worthy of such level of sacrifice, but thankfully, none has proven that.

faceland:
She looks like the type that manage his shop, the type he can tell he doesn't have money this week and she would understand. After knocking her up and reducing her chance of ever getting another man, she doesn't deserve this type of disgrace.

Nobody knocked her off and reduced anything. She agreed to get married to the man because the man has the "igu". She most likely also has children. She should focus on them and leave the man alone! We know she'll get rewarded by the children more than the man ever will despite all his sweat to train them.

Freedom to cheat is a man's only reward for all the efforts he's expected to make in his family, he shouldn't be denied that freedom. The only thing that can deny him that freedom is if his wife is footing equal bills in the home. In that case the man should be castrated if he as much as admires another lady outside.

Unless the wife contributes to the man's finances, she has no right whatsoever to question how the man spends his money!

Maybe the side chick is his source of happiness, sexually and otherwise, hence his decision to spend on her. The wife should deal with that and make do with whatever the man decides to give her.

But if the wife contributes equally to the family's finances, then the man is wrong and should be crucified

Hopebringer:
Bro it is so annoying. They spent their youth jumping from one bed to another with their legs wide open shouting independent woman ...

Now age has set in and men are desiring younger and younger girls they have found them selves floating between a rock.and.the deep blue sea.

No man wants them even for one night stand..
Men prefer the 15 and 16.yesr olds
These old crones now band together bitter sadistic and unhappy spreading their frustrations everywhere

Honestly! And they'll not properly direct their frustrations to the players they were frolicking with all their lives. Instead they'll be looking for innocent you and I to tackle. Yeye evening newspapers

Hopebringer:
You are a depressed barren frustrated unhappy old crime who will die alone
.

Probably before new year

Biach
Now cry more ...

That woman's frustrations in life is becoming so glaring for everyone to see. When you advise them to get married on time when they're still fresh and desirable, they'll refuse and be forming levels. But once they get older and undesirable they become so bitter like that one you quoted.

They are the ones that eventually suffer the consequences. Once they get to certain age (typically in their 30s), the attention from men drastically drop and they turn bitter pseudo feminists and start looking for younger girls they'll deceive. Very unrealistic lots!

That is why I don't pity any unmarried evening newspapers.

The good thing is that more girl children than boys are being born on daily basis and men still age like wine while women age like bread. So, in the end we'll know the gender that's on the losing end.

pocohantas:
Reason with me done carry sugar baby.

Naso e suppose be jare. If one virtuous woman builds, omo wobe would enter when it is soft.

I wish him goodluck this time.

Which yeye build you dey talk sef E be like you don't know the meaning of build! Nonsense.

You dey busy dey advertise say you be "sugarbaby" to a sugar daddy. Continue o


Akuna ga ebe akwa nnwa na nka sha

Our military men should please learn from what the Americans did when Trump lost to Biden. If it was possible for Trump to use the instrumentality of the state to upturn that election, he would have done that. But everybody stood their grounds in opposing such move by him, so he had no other choice than to relinquish power.

That is the gain of having a well-educated populace and strong institutions. Therefore, the Nigerian military should prove to the whole world that they're a strong institution by rejecting every pressure from desperate politicians to compromise that election. It must be a free and fair election! We can't afford to drag the country back to the trenches.

If not for evil agenda, why would the herders carry arms to a state like Enugu where northerners had enjoyed relative peace while residing and doing businesses there

Anyway, I have noticed that it is usually places they enjoy peace that they like to attack. Same thing is what's happening in Jos. Because the native Berom people are peaceful people, the blood thirsty jihadists started killing them until they were pushed to the wall before they started reacting.

They won't try that rubbish with Aba boys

That's the worst part of the problem with women. The entitlement mentality leading to lack of appreciation! If ladies would at least appreciate the things men do for them, some of us won't still mind doing things for them.

When you make women believe that they're to be catered for and pampered like babies, they develop entitlement mentality. Such women don't consider it necessary to appreciate the little things a man gives her.

So op, even as you blame the ungrateful girl, also blame those encouraging that attitude in ladies in the name of hypergamy.

okunwaye:
You will die a very painful death for quoting me you abominable creature.

You and your entire generation are already doomed to die miserably. That is why your body is peppering you already. It's a sign you'll soon be gone...f000l

FYI, I'm straight. But I can never support any f00l like yourself who thinks it's okay to kill people because they are homosexuals. NEVER

I don't join bandwagons but follow my common sense

okunwaye:
Don't worry very soon you will breath your last

Live and let live! Stop hating on people who don't conform to what you consider as norm. Life is not that black and white!

It annoys me how you people feel okay killing other humans just because of their sexuality! It's totally inhuman! They're people's sons, daughters, brothers and sisters! People's loved ones!

Even as a straight guy, I know that there's absolutely no justification for killing people on account of being homosexuals. I've been wooed many times by some homosexuals guys but I simply turned down such proposals without making any serious issues about it or trying to hurt their feelings let alone their lives.

It can even be argued that those of you who want them dead are potential gays who are only fighting hard to suppress the feeling because of your religious dictates. Any real heterosexual wouldn't care that the next man is gay because he's sure of himself.

Wealthbrain22:
They are mostly tolerating each other at that age and their so called kids give them stipends at best, only very few kids even remember to bless their fathers it’s mostly their mothers they remember. Men are designed to be enslaved by that marital union and I’m never falling for that trap!

Exactly, my brother. Marriage offers no benefits to a man.

At this point, I give up on Nigeria.

Thunder faya any ediot wey go come dey discourage people from leaving this hellhole. Na beta thunder go faya that person o

Ebubu:
the older you get, and those kids all leave home to found their own lives, and all your male friends retire to their own wives, you’ll be 50 + and lonely, with nobody to share memories with, companionship with, in that old age.

How many married men around in their old ages really enjoy the companionship of their wives Most are leaving like cat and dogs while some are just indifferent.

Eriokanmi:
Congrats brother and sorry for the ugly experience. Most likely, you left for the States before i did . I left in 2004 for schooling in upstate NY. I used to visit Dallas in TX back then where I had a friend. There's also a course mate who got employed in TX correctional centre the one at Nazareth. He later left cos of distance. I came back after my studies though i worked for a short while. It was while on the job I saw the opportunity and we're doing pretty fine in Nigeria today.

I'm really not against the japa time but my question is, is it worth it and on what purpose? And if you eventually japa, look for opportunities and bring it home. Market over there is saturated while Nigeria is a virgin land of loaded opportunities

All the best.

People should be free to jakpa. Nigeria is a hellhole.

It is only in backward countries like Nigeria that able bodied men require some sort of miracles to get a job. While in the west, job boards are there to help fix people into jobs because they understand the effect of a working population on the economy.

Are we talking about the security and healthy environment? Bros, I'll rather work my butt off in the US and have my offspring there than suffer in Nigeria with so much uncertainties.

You guys should give up this current trend of trying to discourage people from leaving Nigeria, you can never convince anybody that Nigeria has suddenly turned a paradise when we already wear the shoe and know where it pinches.

I'll like to see a video of Aisha Buhari trying to kick the boy and then falling and sustaining injury. That would be hilarious mehn

uba1991:
I like Rufai but sometimes he is sympathetic to Peter Obi.

He's sympathetic to Peter Obi because he pities you poor Nigerians who are in dire need of a change of government!

FreeStuffsNG:
I do not believe this.

Ruffy may have changed a lot from his endtime Sunday Sunday Apostolic meek personality in his 92.3 Inspiration Fm days to a seemingly voluble, arrogant and proud person now but he is no killer.

That anyone could even have suggested him as one intending to kill someone else shows how negatively his persinality has been polluted.

That is why the wise saying that success is a magnifying glass becomes apt. Inspiration Fm kept him in a humble, godly christian frame of mind but now it is good to say that all that na wash

'Na wash' because he tells the truth to the powers that be

Nigerians ehn, una matter don tire me abeg!

The truth is that taking a Nigerian wife alone abroad is gamble no wise man should undertake.

Women wield so much power over their husbands in the west. Knowing how ungrateful Nigerian women can be to their husbands no matter the level of sacrifice the man makes, it's an unwise decision to spend your resources sending your wife abroad.

It is better for the man to travel himself or if his children are grown, he can send them.

Lift the godamn embargo and let them follow due process in employment. Simple!

Why place employment embargo when people are retiring every month and some are leaving the country? Go to our universities and in some departments, you'll find out that they're in dire need of lecturers, yet can't employ due to the so called embargo.

lhordspy:
Before bigots start trooping in, ready to pounce on North and Islam.
Read from the report:

Sentor Olujimi said:
“We were very surprised when the majority of the senators’ spouses responded that they would not do such things because their religious conviction has taken care of such issues already."

"According to her, the outcome of the series of meetings she has had so far led to the reintroduction of another bill

..........as she pointed out that the contentious issues that bordered on religion had been removed from the new bill."


With these few cutoffs from the main report. We already have our answers to why and solutions . Very simple. ! No need to drag any issue further.

Meaning that the new bill would most likely exempt the Islamic adherents in the north while being applied to the Christian southerners. That would further suppress the south politically and our "woke" southern senators would jump at the bandwagon and support it.

Whenever issues like this come up, people rush to type just because they wanna sound woke and belong to a bandwagon of supposedly enlightened people.

Well, I have my reservations as far as matters like this are concerned!

Are we not in the same country where men from another region are free to marry even 13years olds, yet the political elites in the south would keep mum.

Some men are just so foolish!

See the way women are outsmarting them and making away with heavy chunks of their wealth. Later somebody would be telling me about how women are hypergamous nonsense! Nobody is created specially to be spoon-fed by others. People can just be greedily opportunistic either men or women. However, some women have taken things to a whole new fraudulent level, while some simps that call themselves men see nothing wrong in that.

The guy was clearly trying to hit it big for our hypergamous females!

Unfortunately he'll now face the consequences of his action.


RIP to the dead

Gerrard59:
Men cannot be hypergamous. Biology does not allow for such nor does it encourage it.

If men are hypergamous, that is aspiring to date women who out-earn them and are in higher positions in life, men would have to mate with women who are older than they are. But biology does not favour advanced women during fertility.

BTW, marriage has always been a way for the elites to mate amongst themselves and prolong/compound the financial benefits they have. Na proletariats con involve love.

Biology has nothing to do with the entitlement mentality of the female gender! It was all a human construct!

Who says younger guys cannot mate with and procreate with older ladies There have been many instances!