Same here...I hate show off,attention seeking suckers,...God frowns at those who do good and try show for the world to see....such persons will have no honour in God's sight,will only gain cheap praises from common men.
Vinnie2000: So I visited my young Married friend and we were watching a movie where Christopher Okagbue (one handsome Guy that won GUS in 2012 or 2013) showed up.. Suddenly, my friend's Wife said 'Oh, see my Crush'..
Was surprised. My friend Did not say anything!. Whether he was Angry or not, I don't even know!..
But I was really Surprised and somewhat Confused! Because some Singles Might have the likes of Genevieve, Nancy Isime, Beverly Naya, Ronaldo, Wizkid, RMD, etc as Celebrity crushes!
After Marriage, Are They still going to be Crushing on these People?
But, Really. Is it Right or Responsible for a Married person to have a Celebrity Crush?
Please Move to FP for further deliberation on this Issue! Thanks!..
It's wrong for married persons to crush on anyone,celebs ain't excluded....You are married,stick to the rules or become a fukk person in and out.
The evil one is the federal government...IPOB no do all this things you guys see.... Government just dey blackmail dem anyhow,left right and centre so that world power will back them up and go against IPOB,but IPOB sef dem no wise,Na why e no fit work...so make dem just chill and live In one love,peace and happiness.
Yeah...God's willing...this year is a special one...Good,bad,worse,better, everything dey inside this year...cos as some broke,Naso some cash out like they've never cashed out before...As e be Sapa for some,Na so some dey build house,as some dey die,Naso some dey jolly go....We thank God for life regardless and RIP to the dead for they've only rested from all the troubles and evil of this world.
Eya....A strong man has fallen,niggas feel am well..,see as that humble comrade for right use hand cover im eye in agony ..excessive alcohol intake is a NO NO...but yet too much water sef no good and something must kill a man Las Las.
NGpatriot: You don't have Oluomo to occupy vital office in your rotten abia village and that shithole is the nastiest shithole in the history of mankind, so what is your excuse?
clown!...Wetin concern me with Abia? ... I'm full lagosian incase u dunno :...Don't let tribe tear u apart...We be one...Yoruba,Igbo,Hausa....lets just call a spade a spade....cheers.
AgencyReport: An 11-year-old girl who was impregnated by her aunt's husband has been abandoned in her village Orokam, Ogbadibo Local Government Area of Benue state to fend for herself and her unborn child, Igbere TV reports.
It would be recalled that the suspect, a security guard at the Benue State University, Joseph Adoyi, was arrested by the police few months ago.
The victim was said to have been living with Adoyi and his wife at the North Bank area of Makurdi since she was three years old.
Adoyi was said to have threatened to kill the victim if she told her aunt.
One Andrew Obeya Adaudu took to Facebook on Wednesday, December 29, to share the plight of the minor and seek help for her as she is almost due for delivery.
dyingheart: we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me
****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.
I have been dating my girlfriend for some years now. She became an orphan recently, so I decided to open a shop for her so she can start earning something for her not to turn herself into something else since no family support.
Though she also invested all her savings into the business and I supported her also with the little i can. I thank God her business has been doing well and developing gradually.
But her behaviour has really changed seriously towards me. She hardly dail my number to check on me, she also goes out with any guy or men, she also password her phone, i cant even touch her phone, she will flare up. She will say it's nothing that she is just catching fun. I do overlook all this just to make peace rain.
Something happened yesterday that make me feel so bad. I told her I'm coming to visit her in her shop that if any food seller pass her shop, she should help me order food. So when I reached her side she told me to bring money that she can't use her money to buy food for me. I felt somehow inside with her response. I had to give her the money to get it because hunger dey wire me seriously.
So after I'm done eating, I was gisting with her but she is not responding, she was pressing phone, then a call entered and he told the man she is in her shop, that the man should stay at the junction that she is coming to meet him, she stood up and told me to be looking after her shop till she comes back. I was really dumbfounded and shocked, I coundn't utter any word as i don't want to talk or do anything silly as people are plenty around her shop. She left me there, I stood up also and left the shop. I really felt bad and sad. This is a person i have really tried my best for since she lost her parents. I'm planning to send her packing from the shop first, but my bro said i shouldnt try it that it's childish for me. He said I should chill for now. please I need your advice on how to go about this.
NOTE; I rent the shop for my MUM just to use it as her second shop to store her goods. Though the shop is too big, so i told her to let us split it into two, my gf can use the other half.
Y'all be dating idiots and be calling em lovers...mumu never do Una sha.
dboY1123: I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.
I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.
My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.
Just look at able bodied full frown big boys revelling in murdering & eating such poor little creature. Should we call this poverty, hunger or wickedness?
All three:
Poverty Hunger Wickedness
Cos I don't see the motive behind killing and eating such an innocent creature.
Sammydanny: In what will come across as a really shocking development, a fight broke out inside a church in the US state of Tennessee on Sunday, December 26. The fight actually happened while the Pastor was preaching.
As the Pastor preached at Olivet Baptist Church in Chattanooga, Tennessee, a man was captured on video moving towards another male member of church sitting in the front row.
After he threw the first punch, the guy who was sitting instantly engaged, and the 2 go off-screen as they continue punching each other.
The preacher, Bishop Kevin Adams tried in vain to stop the fight, saying, "Stop it, Marcus. Marcus, come on."
It's unclear how long the fight went on, because someone pulled the plug on the Church's live stream.
Speaking after the fight, Bishop Adams said the man in the white t-shirt had just gotten out of rehab and beelined it for the youth pastor, who was sitting in the front row. The Bishop added that the man might have relapsed, because he says the guy didn't know where he was.
The cleric also said after they were able to calm him down, he broke down in tears. The Bishop also revealed the man said he's going back to rehab, and the church is fully supporting him.
hotwax: My lovely girlfriend is a sweet woman who always give me sense of assurance. She is very decent, caring and respectful. She is so firm that it took 4 months before we could talk about romance or trying it out.
She is well known in my family circle. I base in Lagos, she stays with her parents in ibadan, but she usually come around when my family members are having a gathering. She will cook for us, do the chores. Everyone grew found of her. My siblings do even ask of her. “Where is Anu? Take care of the lady ooo”. My mom who hardly get along with our girlfriends always ask about her. All these made me to be sure that’s the woman I was going to marry. After all, my people already knew her and they are getting along well. No complain from any angle
The Problem
Late October 2021, I informed her that I would be attending a ceremony in ibadan where stays. She was exited, she even told me she missed me, the kisses, sxx etc. She can’t wait to see me again. I was excited too. I texted her the hotel address when I got to Ibadan.
She came, we hug, and she started kissing me, but we later calmed down afterall we are just seeing and we still have the whole night. So no rushing. She told me she saw domino pizza opposite the hotel that she is hungry for it. And this is where the devil came in. She took some cash and prepared to go and buy the piza. She was walking out towards my hotel room door, so I stood to accompany her to the door, more importantly help her with the door. She opened the door before I got there, but I was behind her. A guy also came out from a room not directly opposite mine, (I actually knew when the guy checked in. He was dragging his trawl on the room walkway, so I guess he was a new guest).
As my babe came out, the guy was coming out of his room giving my babe seductive look. Immediately he saw there was a guy behind her, he quickly looked away. He went out of the hotel via the walkway, my babe also followed him because they were coincidentally going towards the same direction.
Truth be told, I never suspected anything. I was even mocking the guy in my mind, my girlfriend is the last person you want to mess with. She came back with the pizza, sat on the bed, munch while she was busy pressing her phone. I suspected something must have crop up with the way she was busy chatting on whatsapp. She gave me no attention. So I joined her on the bed. With sad face she asked if I have tissue, I asked what happened, she said her period just came now. I said the bathroom has a tissue paper. She went in spent minutes in the bath, came out of the bath, to pick another pant in her bag. (She came with clothes, because she want to spend few days with me). She went back to the bathroom wash, did some other stuff.
She joined me on the bed, put my hand on her padded private. She used tissue paper as sanitary pad. She said sorry, I Bleep up. I said no she shouldn’t feel sorry. Her menstruation is my joy. Afterall you are not here because of sex. We have a lot to talk about tonite. So relax lets enjoy the night. She then told me she can’t spend the night. She has to go on the same day, before evening. She gave me reason that when her menstrual cramp starts she always boil water and other things. Hotel is not the right place for it. I agreed. 6pm, she packed and started going, I was busy on my laptop fixing my office assignments. I stood to see her off. She insisted that I should continue. No need. But I insisted, as I saw her off to the door, she insisted again, go and do your work na. I will take a bike just at the entrance, I don’t know what happened, I just agreed saw her walk out the walkway, I banged my door and continue my work on the laptop.
Then few seconds later, even if she wanted to get a bike, she will still be waiting outside for one, I remembered that the plate I used for lunch still has some leftover food and if not discarded will constitute foul stench in my room. So I picked up this plate to try and place it outside my door so housekeepers could pick it up.
I opened my room door, bend down to drop the plate at my door foot, I noticed someone standing at the door indirectly opposite mine. The person was knocking gently and calling on mobile too. I guess the person is trying to call the occupant of the room. But he/she was being careful not to knock the door loudly. I always mind my business, I said to myself, why do I care, this is a hotel. So I attempted to close my door. But then, something occurred to me, the person is a female and she wore white shirt, exactly like my babe. Out of curiosity, I looked back what I saw made me sick for days. The memory keep hitting my heart like dagger.
It was my woman, I didn’t know she saw me and became frozen looking at me praying I do not look back. But I looked back and saw her. She was shaking with her mouth widely opened. Then while the looking competition was on, the door opened and the guy opened the door waiting for her to come inside, when she didn’t go inside, the guy must have noticed she is looking at someone on the walkway, the guy also came out to see who she was looking at, he saw me and quickly closed and jammed his door.
Then I jammed my door too. She stood on the walkway for 10minutes. Then she started banging on my door. Calling my line. I didn’t answer. She sent text and also whatsapp.
“Its not what you think. I can explain. Something came up. Please open…I need to discuss something with you. I will not leave if you don’t open”. She did all that for like 20minutes. Then she left. That was the end of our 1+year relationship. She too did not bother to call or text after that day.
The whole thing felt like sharp scorpion sting to me. I never believe what I saw. Anything relationship started irritating me. I don’t think I can go into relationship again. These people are quick to call men dogs, but they are public toilet. I prefer to be dog than be where everyone dump their sper_m.
.... Na their way....just move on and ahead bro....later they will say men are scum.
NovesaTillie: Good morning and merry Christmas everyone.
Please I'm in dilemma and really need some good advice. This guy and I have been on this relationship thing for 5 months now with occasional misunderstandings here and there. The first one was because he visited me and refused to go after the time he said he would leave, when he finally left I got back home from work only for the security to call me that I have a visitor at the main gate and behold it was him. I allowed him stay the night because he's a nice guy, really good in bed and also helps in the house to do stuff like wash the dishes and cooking.
Fast forward to December 15th we agreed he comes over and we spend the Christmas at my place then go to his place from 27th so we can enjoy the new year there. As we agreed, he came to my place on 17th of December and has not made any moves to leave or for us to go to his place. I am moved to create this thread because I got home from work yesterday and noticed more of his things have been arranged in the wardrobe with his shoes arranged by the front door..
Please how do I address this? I can't go on like this. He eats a lot. Snores also. Is relationship not supposed to be the other way around why is he moving into my apartment like I'm going to marry him We both stay in Abuja.
Mods please kindly move to Frontpage.
Broke insensitive valueless lazy jobless Yeye boyfriend....Send him parking or else u will lose all you've worked hard for....He will keep borrowing money from you,giving you lamba,yet still cheat on you coded.....JAKPA JAKPA!!.... ...Though I'm a worker,I earn legitimately,I live alone, I'm single and partially available ....care to mingle for a better experience??
JustMe407: Well, 2021 is coming to an end in some days. And I personally don't like the way the year went for me. So by 2022, I want to put in a lot of work in my hustle and pray that it pays off.
But the issue is, how does one really hustle effectively? What are the specific things that should be done while working hard? Those that worked hard and made it, please what worked or did not work for you?
I know a lot of people would say avoid women; noted! What other thing should a young entrepreneurial minded Nigerian do in other to scale in his/her hustle.
Abeg make una answer ohh!! Mods please help push to front page for broader inputs.
Focus on what matters and ignore what doesn't,Save more than u spend,piggy bank savings helps,try small poultry business,it's cheap And you can also become an egg distributor as time goes and u make progress in the business,...Just cultivate a good saving habit and believe me,there's nothing u won't be able to achieve applying determination and discipline.
Taich: She took meth. She was probably high when the mugshot was taken. Her eye will soon clear.
Total rubbish....some people are just happy in their evil acts....which one be mkupru mmiri?..guess u take it too...she's aware of the mugshot,she just doesn't care,...her heart is cold and dark,she must be some psycho...Blame the consumer not the drug.
Kollins11: Happy Boxing Day Nairalanders. Please I need advice on this matter.
It was on a good evening... Abt 4 months ago. I went out to get a bag of pure water, but the woman that sells around my street has closed so I went to the next street.
I saw this beautiful creature, light skinned, slim and pretty girl. Although she narrowly escaped albino. Her hair is naturally dark, she's very light skinned like Regina Daniel. BUT if one observe her very well and look at her eyes one would tell she's an albino because her eyes are always swinging and dangling. Immediately I saw her, as a sharp guy I approached her, I flattered her and she smiled and gave me her number.
NL's, I have been living in my area for almost 2 years now. I don't know this babe stays down my street. She live with parents, I was so surprise when she showed me their house. Well, since then we've been chatting and calling each other.
She's a good and happy girl, she has never directly or indirectly ask me for money, she has a great sense of humor. She enjoys my company. She's 23yrs old an igbo girl. I know alot of guys would be attracted to her beauty but I doubt if she has a boyfriend. For her to be living down my street and even my guys haven't seen her mehn! She's well reserve.
The guys in my hood, I don't know maybe the girls that broke their heart made use of Thor sledge hammer (in Avengers movie) to break it. These guyz are hardcore red pillars.
Yesterday was the First day she visited me. she brought food for me, she saw I and my guys butchering our chicken, she also assisted us in preparing egusi soup. When she left. My guyz was like where did I see this beautiful fish....Before I could even narrate to them, they were already asking if I don lash her. I said No. Omo!! They almost pick up a Physical fight with me saying "why I neva lash her nw". Honestly she's different from other girls. If na before...I for don lash her since nw.
They were also surprised that she live down our street. This babe is so reserved and well mannered. I don't mind, I would like to marry this babe. I have never felt this way for any girl in a very long time.
NL's I don't know if I should ask her out or maintain the friendship.
donklens: This is the weather condition in port Harcourt is covered with Black soot as you can see the plantain and the rest are all black, this is what we have been inhaling here 24hrs, u always wear bathroom slippers in ur house, u mop ur house every time even when all windows are shut and Air conditioned, u must noticed ur hand and sole covered with Black Soot like a norm here.
Please I plead with the Governor of Rivers State and those concerned to put a stop in this black soot people inhale every time, this calls for an Emergency.
Love the colour of the big building by the right...."second pic"....weather looks calm..