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I dare say Igbos may eventually win my support and the majority of Yorubas if they can keep this new agitation free of hatred, incitement and of course seek allies. They should learn from the mistakes of Nnamdi Kanu and IPOB and see others rise to stand with them. Most of us don't hate igbos, neither do we wish to see any group marginalized nor subjugated. The time for hate campaign is gone and this time around,it should be about the real issues that affect us and the path we wish to follow be it restructuring or separation. |
Before I start giving reasons for my epiphany, I would like to state for the records that I don’t expect my plea to change anything, or make our people love each other, I just felt it Is something I ought to do whether or not it makes a difference. These past few weeks has been a roller-coaster of feelings, triumph by some over their perceived enemies, anger by some at their defeat,heartbreak and indifference to some.for me it was anticlimactic. I’ve never truly hated the igbos, at a point in my life, I admired them. I sought them out to befriend them. The reason was mainly due to my father’s words, one of the most kind hearted men I know in this world. He always told me how igbos persevered during the Civil War, how they stood and defended their land and how they took their subsequent defeat with their heads held high even to the admiration of the Victor’s.after the Civil War they left their arms behind, and went back to being full patriots once more to help nigeria grow as if the war didn’t happen and the truth is they did loose so much. They picked themselves up and excelled and in a short time became the successful igbo tribe the whole world knows today. However,fifty years after the Civil War,it was like all of a sudden a buried darkness emerged and there seemed to be a growing need for retribution for the loss and pains of the Civil War brewing among the igbo people. I first noticed it on nairaland, some openly calling for the extermination of the Yoruba race for our alleged complicity in the Civil War, which I as a person dismissed as nonsense because from my days as a toddler till that point being around igbo people, I had never once heard them talk out in bitterness about other people because of the Civil War. Time flew and on a fateful day, I walked into a department store in my hometown in ibadan. The results of the president elections were being announced, and from the results announced to that point it was a close call. Then an aged igbo man walked in, and he spoke the following words aloud ‘Yoruba…very bad people, God pass them, they don’t with Jonathan to win, and may God punish them. Wicked people ‘ I was shocked and in that moment a lot of thoughts rushed through my mind,ranging from the unrealistic to the ridiculous and then the outrageous. The statement hit me like a giant sledge hammer and I was disoriented, at a point my mind told me I was lost and had wandered to a remote eastern village, why? Because I didn’t imagine someone could utter such a statement in a Yoruba city aloud, without fear or sensitivity to our feelings. I felt under seige by enemies I never knew existed. A lot of people heard but no one said a thing. I decided saying nothing was also the best course of action, hurriedly paid for my purchases and left. I began thinking, could all those hateful comments I see on nairaland be the reality, I decided it couldn’t be. 8 months later, one cool eveningI was in a shop on my street in ibadan, a middle aged igbo man walked in, he looked educated, like the banker sort. asked the price of an item, and discovered that the price had almost doubled due to the dollar scarcity. Then he began, raining curses on all yoruba from our illustrious father, the sage Awolowo down to abiola, obasanjo and down to the rest of us. I was shocked again but this time it wasn’t, as much as the first of course. This time I was also angry I debated in my mind whether to confront the man, but then I thought confronting him wasn’t going to change his mind, it was either going to lead to physical altercation or a shouting match. So I left the shop. Then next day I saw the nairaland comments in a new light. Of course I had been fooling myself thinking it was all inconsequential, it was a person behind those comments afterall. I was disappointed and It was at that point I started feeling a bit of hatred for my igbo brothers especially the ipobs. Now this week a lot has changed too. I must confess that during this whole wahala in the east, I was happy that finally those who hated me for “no reason” ,called my people cowards and so on were being dealt with, the images of people like me being made to wallow in the mud was hilarious,and of course the routing of the self acclaimed Supreme leader, Nnamdi Kanu,a man who has called for my people to be killed and now hiding like a rat. but then I began seeing young men dead in Keke napep which was heart breaking, seeing people defeated and dejected was just too much. And I thought, this isn’t what I wanted.they may or may not hate me for being yoruba and apart from the insults and curses and the wishes of some of them to see my tribe exterminated, no Igbo man has ever done me any physical harm for being yoruba. I lived in the north for 12 years and those years were characterized by ethnic and religious bloodshed perpetrated by the hausa-fulani on my people and till this day I don’t hate the hausa-fulani because during that time, there were a lot of them ready to sacrifice their lives for others they don’t even know. So why would I hate my igbo brothers. They felt the pain of a bloody civil war and today they are being marginalized in national affairs. I can’t in good conscience support their annilation or subjugation. Maybe we did play a part against them in the Civil War or not, I actually don’t know for sure. Because in the accounts of the Civil War both sides would always claim to be right. And if truly we did I can only say sorry and say to myself it wasn’t my fault because I wasn’t even born then, but now I feel standing by and watch them marginalized and subjugated while either approving or saying nothing would be an actual crime. I want to appeal to my yoruba brothers that we should try to show some love to our brothers in the south. Some may want to harm us but at the moment that is proving to be impossible. We should be magnanimous enough to belive in the humanity of others, the act of generalizing a whole group of people whether yoruba igbo or hausa as bad should be stopped so we can find a way to live in harmony either as neighbors in separate countries or together.if not for the sake of unity,then for the sake of development and prosperity we must see that this injustice is redressed whether or not we think they would come to our aid if the roles were reversed. I’ve seen other threads of some igbos and yorubas waving the olive branch and I feel both sides should accept and find a way forward.the social media is powerful and while the effects of these ‘little gestures’ may not be felt in the next week,I belive it surely would make a difference 10,20 years from now.to my Yoruba brothers im not saying turn the other cheek ,I’m saying we need to be human and try as much as we can to douse this tension.lets scale down our need to throw jibes at each other.may God bless Nigeria and help us heal. Cc Mynd44 Alcatraz005 OmOnnakoda sarkki Pazienza Victorvezx Kettykin honourhim robotix tsdarkside Attackgat Laudate raumdeuter afam4eva omenka shukuokukobambi ODvanguard |
soulpeppersoup:lmao noting peson no go hear for nairaland, even the US the biggest economy in the world can't do without trade science. Chai the world is talking about global economy you talking about circuit economy. Your case go worse pass North Korea |
Lmao, we've been played, I just realized it was the author of the the article that over sensationalized the situation. So no one threatened impeachment, the Senate only said no confirmations. Our journalists sef. |
Blue3k:well the matter is in court, the Judiciary will tell us who is wrong or right. We always like to make a mountain out of a molehill. How does an arm of government telling another it doesn't have certain powers become such a big deal. The Judiciary is always there to settle such matters |
Blue3k:erm are you sure you read the post you quoted correctly or you must have quoted the wrong post. And by the way you didn't need to bring up the act on lottery commission or isn't it the same one the Ag sent for confirmation? I'm sure the one the Senate is talking about was about the efcc |
Blue3k:You got it wrong, in Nigeria we have a constitution, however flawed it way be, we have and is binding on us all, whether executive, legislature e,Judiciary or the common man. Right now the acting president, a professor of law said he went through the Constitution and he wasn't able to find where it was written that the legislature has such powers, now I'm not saying he is right or wrong, and like someone said the matter is already at the Supreme Court, the Judiciary being the only body that can interpret any law would tell us who has the power to make confirmation of appointments . so except you have found the section in the Constitution that gives the legislature the power to make confirmations I will tell you to stop assuming. The powers and extent of such power granted each of the arms of government is clearly stated in the Constitution. |
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Wow, just wow. That was an informative and educative read. Thanks op |
The guy should just politely ask for APC membership form, ipodian yoots now confused as fk |
I don't understand why everybody especially igbos are scared of a quit notice.. It is evident that it was a ploy/warning to ipob/igbos to consider the benefits they enjoy as Nigerians and what they stand to loose if they push for biafra. and besides they(arewa youths) didn't threaten violence, the north is quite peaceful now unlike some decades ago. To a large extent their objective worked in that serious considerations and consultations have been going on in the east. Now they have the facts of what they face in the event of secession and they can work with that and come to a conclusion if that's what they really want . because it looked like many igbos wanted secession but weren't sure what it meant and what they would get. The Igbos who are not in support are coming out to do so, those who want biafra are not being fanatic about it. That is the way it should be, it's a normal thing for people to seek for self determination, however what is wrong is for the movement to be extremist. No one should call a country a zoo, and insulting others is not the way. |
So the northerners have used the quit notice to call the SE to a forced parley. Now the stand of the FG has been made known to all and sundry. Be they arewa or ipob. But in truth we all know this to be a clear warning to the SE. Now they were forced to parley without promise of a better deal or a compromise . if only ipob hadn't used such crude and reckless methods, it would at least have gotten something out of this. Lesson to be learnt is always do things right way. |
GreatSE:Let me guess, kanu has hidden 1 million trained biafra soldiers somewhere to fight us abi? You people always start what you cannot finish. Na we go still finish whatever una start as usual. |
cumbak60:pazienza tried his best but him wound last last noni , the hypocrisy, betrayal and short sightedness displayed by the igbos towards the yorubas here stinks so much it can't be salvaged. That is why this thread is poison to every igbo man. Any igbo dude trying to interpret, modify, downplay the igbo madness displayed here go eventually wound ni. Ask your oga pazienza. . |
Pavore9:they know themselves, most have gone underground since" the kaduna declaration " feeling ashamed. But then all igbos must take the blame. And those who stood by and watched their tribe shamed by ipob should take the bulk of the blame. |
Now we can all agree that the igbos were only bluffing with their noise about biafra. They don't really want to go. Most of us have been wondering how igbos who are virtually everywhere across the length and breadth of nigeria could ever want to leave. Now their bluff has been called and they are now objects of pity. Biafra was a joke taken too far and all igbos most take the blame including those who didn't shout the usual biafra or death chants. The OP is a typical example. He has been shouting biafra as if it will suddenly become a garden of eden if realised. igbos were told to leave and we have igbo mouths agape in disbelief, the so called 'parasites' turned the tables and the reality hit them straight in the face. Now they are begging and giving explanations why they shouldn't be pushed out . the Igbos now behaving like a wife who after serially threatening divorce was asked to leave now changes tune to the usual "so it's true? You want me to leave so you can marry another wife?". Now I see igbos been even more submissive than they ever were and we are left wondering why a once great race decided to take such monumental fall from grace, as if controlled by higher powers. |
hammerF:ok I get it, you don't have any investment in lagos, how many igbos with investments do you know that are willing to relocate to biafra to start afresh? Or how many are even considering such move?you see relocation isn't something you can just wish for. And besides we will just go ahead and tax those with investments, those who sell gala or own 2x2 shops will be deported immediately. Just ask how much the US makes on visa applications yearly and you go Fear. Also you will need to pay extra for what you import. In a few years the south west will be like dubai where the citizens just enjoy while the foreigners do the all the work. ![]() |
A truce of some form has been called many times and it didn't work. However it's true the status quo does us no good. But what to do? Do I as a Yoruba man watch as lies are peddled against my people? Do I sit and take the blame for a civil war I know nothing about? And do I sit and watch when an igbo man decides a Yoruba man is responsible for his present state whether or not he is to blame for his present condition? I say no to that, even though I always try to defend my people at any given time I myself have done so without testing my conscience and breaking rules or with insult to anyone or tribe. Now as regards relationship between the two tribes in the real world? The Day I began to loose the respect I had for igbos was not when I read a comment on naira land. But it was in my own state, oyo state where an igbo man, mind you old man and not a kid was raining curses on the yorubas as the election results were read on the radio, in one department store. Right here in my own state,an old igbo man was raining curses on my own people, imagine the insensitivity, arrogance on Yoruba soil. so Mr op. Don't be deceived, it's the same people you meet in your day to day life that come to spread hatred here, the fact that some are ashamed enough to hide it, unlike that old man is the only difference . so even though the status quo does us no good, I can't imagine letting these lies and defamation against people stand, the Internet is very powerful . Should the igbos decide to be more courteous and not result to blaming the yorubas for every problem of theirs , then we too will back down afterall we are the omoluabis |
jpphilips:guy u no go kill peson . Lol I don't know if they've been somehow programmed to repeat their mistakes |
Odingo1:You should have thought of this before burning all bridges. So if Nigeria breaks with this level of enmity such as we have at present you expect your enemies to make it easy for you? Your precious ipob made sure that Nigeria would never break on a cordial manner .check all the people's of the world seeking independence, none has taken a similar path to ipob, except the Palestinians, look at where it got them. |
Odingo1:try to understand no one is asking for another person to be massacred. The northerners have told you in plain terms to go. You think if you decide to leave anyone will stop you? You will be allowed to leave you just might loose all you've worked for. That is why we've been telling you guys to think before acting. You all pined your hopes on one man to do all that for you. You should have asked kanu what plans he had to move your properties down to alaigbo since his methods and practices obviously didn't include such. Tell me are you willing to leave peacefully if you are evicted without your properties? |
pazienza:begging? Seriously are you for real? In what universe does a quit notice translate to begging. You seriously haven't thought of the possibility of programs against igbos? Look you may soon have to fight another civil war, and by the looks of it, you would even be more unprepared than you were in 1966. Now with an even less experienced leader in kanu. I seriously don't get you guys, what is the point of continuing with a failed tactic. You igbos need your elders now more than ever. |
DrGoodman:i actually hate the man, but can you please point out where exactly he made inciting comments against anyone? You people have to face the truth. You need your elders now more than ever that is if they actually exist |
On a serious note the Igbos really messed up. Now the north is using their tactic of blackmail against them and the tables have turned. When we were warning them to be careful and asking where their elders were and why they didn't say anything, this is exactly what we envisaged. They should have known that even if the igbos have been wronged in any way, there are ways to go about getting redress for such not the ipob tactic they employed which has now backfired. They went in having made enemies on every side and somehow hoped to come out victorious. If something isn't done igbos might become fair game to anyone with bad intentions. To the silent igbos who don't share the same thought process as ipob members you just must speak up and make a decision or others will decide your fate |
And The igbos had to wait till the north called their bluff. Now we are hearing all sorts of derogatory terms like IgboMustGo, QuitNoticeToIgbos. All because they allowed ipob to lead them astray... Shame. We all knew they didn't want biafra in the first place. Don't burn the bridge after crossing, you will need it on your way back |
humilitypays:lol keep your love to yourselves, it's clear you hate the yorubas and the feeling is mutual, no need to pretend. I grew up admiring the igbos and wanted to be friends with them cos my father told me about the civil war and how your father's rose above the pain and suffering to once again become Nigerians and how you were welcomed back to our lands and we in turn took care of you and helped you get back to your feet. Now for some reasons your son's and daughters who weren't born decided to open the old wounds and insult their way for selfish gains. Now you have lost the respect all Nigerians had for your people because of hate. The once great igbo tribe has now been reduced to unity begging |
My I swear if anyone steals this genius business idea, the thunder that will fire such person has already completed 44 trillion push ups ![]() |
hollowpot15684:read my post again, if you still don't understand read it again and again till you do |
juman:Fact,they hate Nigerians but want the opportunities, resources that Nigeria offers. |
EzeUche:peaceful referendum? Haven't you seen his Facebook page? And what's peaceful about soliciting funds for arms to kill the rest of us? |


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